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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: sexysunee on April 25, 2006, 12:10:30 AM
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so i've been goin out with this guy for some months now and its been good but I hate the fact how a girl walks by in some skimpy slutty clothes and all of a sudden he starts drooling. so when I try to impress him by wearing stuff like that he gets upset. I dont get it. :( also the fact that he is always talking about other girls and how pretty they are then he turns around and starts telling me my defaults. will it always be like this. men are so vain!!!! >:(
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sunee? is that ur name or are u islamic?
and btw, it's easy to tell that you like the fact that ur boyfriends an asshole
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as some model once said:
a way to a mans heart isnt through his stomache, its by swallowing his jizz
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All Guys Are Jerks, Live with it....you know you love it.....quit bitchin about it, your not going to be with some sissy ass nice guy, face facts already...jeez, i could swear i had this argument 3 times last week with 3 of my lady friends
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so i've been goin out with this guy for some months now and its been good but I hate the fact how a girl walks by in some skimpy slutty clothes and all of a sudden he starts drooling. so when I try to impress him by wearing stuff like that he gets upset. I dont get it. :( also the fact that he is always talking about other girls and how pretty they are then he turns around and starts telling me my defaults. will it always be like this. men are so vain!!!! >:(
ok, so the part about why he looks at girls that wear skimpy outfits and doesn't like u werin them is because men are territorial, they dont want their girl lookin all cute for some other guy to stare, cuz ya man already knows how beautiful you are and doesn't want anyone else to know, its kinda like an insecurity, but not really..you know what i mean? and the fact that hes talkin about other girls and pointing out your defaults, doesn't sound like he wants anything serious, hes prolly doin things behind your back, so my advice would be follow him.....catch him.....dump him.....
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what i hate is girls calling men perves because women wear skinpy outfits, itf they chose to wear those clothes they are inviting people to look we are not the ones in the wrong!
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Yup, exactly. Here's the problem with girls like the one in this thread.
Every since they're like 2, guys have been saying "Oh, she's so cute! Isn't she just adorable" then when she gets 12, guys say "She's going to be so pretty! Look how beautiful she's going to be" Then when they get to be 16 or so, guys say "She's turned into such a pretty woman, look at my daugter" blah blah blah, and they get that from every guy they ever meet in their entire life.
So when a girl gets old enough to date and things, she already thinks she's a piece of meat. You truly believe this inside of you, because it's what you've been told since you were a BABY. So Women's whole self esteem is based on their looks, it isn't the iimmediate guys around them that reinforce this, it's the men (and even women) in their life as their children who push them down this path, because everybody adores them when they're a child. So it's really easy for a woman to think she has to wear short skirts and show everything off, because that's how she's been raised, thinking that her attraction is in her body and her physical appearance.
If the girl happens to grow up overweight or whatever, then she's REALLY fucked up.
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
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http://www.DrPhil.com
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
my girlfriend is more than happy with me. when you find a girl who has a head on her shoulders they learn to appreciate the respect you give them. id rather be a nice guy than an asshole.
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
my girlfriend is more than happy with me. when you find a girl who has a head on her shoulders they learn to appreciate the respect you give them. id rather be a nice guy than an asshole.
of course there are lots of different kind of humans and women, but in general those girls who date jerks for months simply like to date those kind of men and simply like to get treated the way they get treated by them. it kinda pisses me off when ppl are like "damn, all men are such assholes, I can never find a nice guy, blaaa" - that is just BS, nah mean.. they just want a jerk, they get a jerk, they are happy with the jerk, so why in gods name do they complain? for attention, sympathy and also to make them look unslutty and shit. I aint havin that shit.
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
my girlfriend is more than happy with me. when you find a girl who has a head on her shoulders they learn to appreciate the respect you give them. id rather be a nice guy than an asshole.
of course there are lots of different kind of humans and women, but in general those girls who date jerks for months simply like to date those kind of men and simply like to get treated the way they get treated by them. it kinda pisses me off when ppl are like "damn, all men are such assholes, I can never find a nice guy, blaaa" - that is just BS, nah mean.. they just want a jerk, they get a jerk, they are happy with the jerk, so why in gods name do they complain? for attention, sympathy and also to make them look unslutty and shit. I aint havin that shit.
oh i hear ya.
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Females rarely know exactly what they want when it comes to the opposite sex. I know many girls that have complained about guys being jerks and assholes, yet those are the guys they are interested in. You try to hook them up with a decent guy, and they get bored. A lot of women dig guys who they love to hate. Sadly, when it comes to relationships and all that meaningful shit, nice guys do finish last. At least that's how it seems sometimes.
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there are a lot of love expert in here as i can see, but i second the dude who said your bf is an asshole
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can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
my girlfriend is more than happy with me. when you find a girl who has a head on her shoulders they learn to appreciate the respect you give them. id rather be a nice guy than an asshole.
hate to tell u homie, but she's cheatin on you with some lowlife right now...lol
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sexysunee are you bi?
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LMAO @ getting mad that he looks at other girls
Don't complain. That means he's not a faggot and he's not blind.
And why would he want you to dress like a ho? So his friends and every other guy can stare at your ass?
Oh man, women make me LOL for real.
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yeah, lookin at girls isnt a big deal. If he accidentally bumps into you, knockin you down to the pavement in front of your parents, cus he's checkin out some hooker walkin by....then be upset.
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Cali Iz Active
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^ You can't change a man. When will women learn this?
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Looking at other girls doesn't mean that he doesn't like you enough, it's just in our nature...you do the same, but don't dare to turn around that's all.
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so i've been goin out with this guy for some months now and its been good but I hate the fact how a girl walks by in some skimpy slutty clothes and all of a sudden he starts drooling. so when I try to impress him by wearing stuff like that he gets upset. I dont get it. :( also the fact that he is always talking about other girls and how pretty they are then he turns around and starts telling me my defaults. will it always be like this. men are so vain!!!! >:(
if you let me rat shit you, and ill knock out your cheese dick boyfriend, deal?
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plain and simple, girls love assholes.
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
my girlfriend is more than happy with me. when you find a girl who has a head on her shoulders they learn to appreciate the respect you give them. id rather be a nice guy than an asshole.
Yup, spoken like a true man, keep your head up.
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yeah, lookin at girls isnt a big deal. If he accidentally bumps into you, knockin you down to the pavement in front of your parents, cus he's checkin out some hooker walkin by....then be upset.
i dont care what a man does on his own time
but when he is dating someone and playin the game with other girls while we are right in front, thats just rude and disrespectful. I stayed with him cause at times it was REALLY good and thats not just talking about the sex, I thought he would change eventually ya know. grow up a little or somethin. but I see he wont change. its true cant live with em cant live without em but I know I deserve better ;)
and no im not islamic or bi! lol.
LOL @ you talking about a man being respectful to a woman. You sleep with him. Why does he have to respect you? He has no committment to you at all and can fuck you anytime he wants. See, to you things other than the sex were good... to him, only the sex was good. Men who are in love with women don't fuck with no obligations, if you're fucking a girl you're not married to you don't love her.
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plain and simple, girls love assholes.
pretty much
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men are impossbile?!?!
women are confused like FUCK:
they want some guy who is sweet, caring, and there for them, respects them, all that shit
then when a man actualy DOES that, they only take the guy as a close friend
and then they tell them :we arent looking for a relationship right now" or some BS excuse and the next week, they are with some next muthafucka who treats them like shit and they seem to enjoy that cause they think they'll be able to change him
like h cottie says, girls love assholes.
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I think Chris Rock said it best "i don't agree with what O.J., but i understand" :D
Sorry girl but you clearly fall under that category with just about every other living, breathing women
Believe it or not but i'm one of the nice guys too, just being real
chill
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^ You can't change a man. When will women learn this?
yeah you can
but dont worry....Cali Iz Still Active
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^ You can't change a man. When will women learn this?
but dont worry....Cali Iz Still Active
You're damn skippy.
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I think Chris Rock said it best "i don't agree with what O.J., but i understand" :D
LOL!!!!!!!!
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wait theres a new woman here and no one told me? whatsup baby i'm the most caring/charming/best looking guy here... im a taurus-gemini and i wanna know where you're living at, maybe we can meet up and chat, forget these squares.
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wait theres a new woman here and no one told me? whatsup baby i'm the most caring/charming/best looking guy here... im a taurus-gemini and i wanna know where you're living at, maybe we can meet up and chat, forget these squares.
NAh, you lyin ass mothafucka, i'm rick james bitch THe baddest , most good lookin mothafucka u ever seen, hold my drink
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^ no they dont.. ;)
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;)
I see Robbie is in the flirting mood :love:
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
Tax allowances
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
Tax allowances
you can also get that without marriage
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how long would you date someone till you get married. i've seen couples get married after two weeks of dating and i've seen couples date for years and end up splitting ways. i NEVER want to get married that shit has disaster written ALLllllll over it
I couldn't agree more.
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
Tax allowances
you can also get that without marriage
Yup you can here too..
Personally.. I have much less respect for a girl I can jump into bed with. Way I see it.. If its meant to be 'forever ever'.. whats the problem with waiting a bit?
on the marrigae subject.. i've known people who've been couples for 10 years+.. living together for large parts of that too.. then they get married.. and are split within a year.. whats that all about?!
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
Tax allowances
you can also get that without marriage
Yup you can here too..
Personally.. I have much less respect for a girl I can jump into bed with. Way I see it.. If its meant to be 'forever ever'.. whats the problem with waiting a bit?
on the marrigae subject.. i've known people who've been couples for 10 years+.. living together for large parts of that too.. then they get married.. and are split within a year.. whats that all about?!
Marriage is a gift you share with your partner when you've ran out of ideas (there's only so much flowers, perfumes etc you can buy).
Once you get married, there's no next level to go to; it's downhill unless you want kids together and planned that as part of the marriage.
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nope, marriage is just letting the whole world know youre in love, and putting it on paper... kind of the finalising moment...
so what's the use of marriage?
it's a ritual, tradition... also makes your love for eachother official.
what tax benefits do people get for marriage ? as far as i know you get screwed over ?
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Marriage is about starting a family and committing yourself to the person you're married to. In your situation, that will never happen because your boyfriend has no respect for you since you give him head whenever he wants it. Why would he marry you, there's nothing in it for him.
I'm not saying everybody has to wait until they get married to have sex, but I am saying when you're fucking a guy you've only known 2 or 3 weeks, he's not going to marry you. You don't fall in love with somebody in 3 weeks and you don't fall in love with somebody after you've fucked them, in my opinion.
Best scenario is when people meet, date, get to know each other, and fall in love. Then you've got a guy who cares about you and your life without your body being part of the equation. When you do get intimate it takes it to the next level and draws you even closer together and eventually you can talk about having a family since the guy's invested a considerable amount of time into getting to know you and already knows what you're all about.
If you just fuck a guy after meeting him a couple weeks later or that night or whatever, what does he think of you? You're not anybody he'd want to have around the rest of his life, because you're so loose you'd probably fuck the pool boy if he went away for the weekend.
People act like Sex isn't a big deal, if you're planning on getting married it's a VERY big deal.
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^^
Well said.
When you put it like it that, marriage sounds like a good idea!
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It is a good idea, if you do it right. You can't just marry whoever you're fucking at the time, it doesn't work like that. Guys are fucking some girl, they're thinking "Damn, this is just like a hooker except I don't have to pay her" so they put up with some of her bullshit just to get some every few days. The girl on the other hand is saying "Well, I'm sleeping with him so that'll keep him around" and they're thinking about whether they should marry the guy, even though he doesn't give a shit about her and what he's been presented with is her vagina instead of her family, her goals, her compassion, etc.
It's a statistical fact that most marriages end in divorce. It's also a statistical fact that the reason they end in divorce is because of differences in a few key areas, that could have been forseen before marriage or kids entered the picture.
1. Money. The most common reason for marriages failing is because money becomes a problem. Both people need to (in premarriage counseling) talk about their opinions on money, does one want to save the other wants to spend? Does one abhor debt and the other wants 3 car payments? Is she happy with her husband making 40 thousand a year or will that be a problem? etc.
2. Children. Second biggest problem is attitudes on raising children. Do both parents agree about abortion? Do both people want a similar number of kids? Do both people agree about punishing their kids? do both people agree that the mom should stay home, or the mom should work? Another thing that you can talk about BEFORE you get married.
3. Religion. Are both people the same religion? If a baptist and a muslim get married, ITS JUST NOT GOING TO WORK. Why even try? If you've got two people though who generally aren't religious, that's fine, or two people who only go on holidays, or one person who's looking to go to church more and 1 person who goes every week... whatever your situation is, if it's compatible, it's compatible. If it's not, it's going to eventually cause HUGE problems. Also you have to think about how you're going to raise your children, what religion (or lack of religion, which is sad).
4. Family. As in, do you get along with her family, does she get along with yours? It isn't neccesarry for everyone to get along, but if your mom doens't like your fiancee, you need to be willing to tell your mom "this is who Im' marrying, I won't let you disrespect her". If you're willing to sacrifice even your family if need be to protect your woman or man, then you're ready to be married. If you get married and let your mom talk shit about your husband or whatever, eventually that's going to tear the marriage apart.
That's about it. It's really as simple as that. If you agree about these 4 topics, you will not get divorced save for some freak accident where somebody's abusive or whatever. Look around at people you know that got divorced and I'd almost bet money their problem falls in one of these 4 categories, it's uncanny.
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
I would have to disagree with you on that one.
1. Some girls really are attracted to assholes (I dont know why, but they just are)
2. I REALLY like nice, sensitive, caring, gentlemen no matter what you say or think thats the way I am.
3. STOP speaking for all women, you can not generalize everybody like that, you might as well say "all black people are ghetto and loud" "all asains are good at math" "all jews are greedy" "all white people are crackheads and crazy killers" "ALL women love assholes" "all men love bitches" etc.
SPEAK FOR YOUR OWN FUCKEN SELF!!!! THERES NOTHING WORSE THAN A MAN OR A WOMEN THAT THINKS THEY HAVE THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD FIGURED OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:( >:(
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yeah, lookin at girls isnt a big deal. If he accidentally bumps into you, knockin you down to the pavement in front of your parents, cus he's checkin out some hooker walkin by....then be upset.
i dont care what a man does on his own time
but when he is dating someone and playin the game with other girls while we are right in front, thats just rude and disrespectful. I stayed with him cause at times it was REALLY good and thats not just talking about the sex, I thought he would change eventually ya know. grow up a little or somethin. but I see he wont change. its true cant live with em cant live without em but I know I deserve better ;)
and no im not islamic or bi! lol.
yeah u do deserve better girl...
what u doin this weekend? lol
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women dont want nice, sensitive guys. they like to claim they do, some might even think they do, but they dont. stop being a hypocritical girl and keep having a good time with your jerk boyfriend, you know you love him.
I would have to disagree with you on that one.
1. Some girls really are attracted to assholes (I dont know why, but they just are)
2. I REALLY like nice, sensitive, caring, gentlemen no matter what you say or think thats the way I am.
3. STOP speaking for all women, you can not generalize everybody like that, you might as well say "all black people are ghetto and loud" "all asains are good at math" "all jews are greedy" "all white people are crackheads and crazy killers" "ALL women love assholes" "all men love bitches" etc.
SPEAK FOR YOUR OWN FUCKEN SELF!!!! THERES NOTHING WORSE THAN A MAN OR A WOMEN THAT THINKS THEY HAVE THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD FIGURED OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:( >:(
There are always exceptions, but to say something about a wider range of people you always have to generalize, that's just the way it is.
Next, I think a lot of people in here think your boyfriend is an asshole ;D ... jp.
I do think I got it all figured out, that's just me, I can't help it. If you don't like that trait, we don't have to be friends.
And on a side note, since when is it a white stereotype to smoke crack?
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lol ;D
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In your situation, that will never happen because your boyfriend has no respect for you since you give him head whenever he wants it. Why would he marry you, there's nothing in it for him.
+1 for makin me laugh my ass off. :D
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Marriage is about starting a family and committing yourself to the person you're married to. In your situation, that will never happen because your boyfriend has no respect for you since you give him head whenever he wants it. Why would he marry you, there's nothing in it for him.
I'm not saying everybody has to wait until they get married to have sex, but I am saying when you're fucking a guy you've only known 2 or 3 weeks, he's not going to marry you. You don't fall in love with somebody in 3 weeks and you don't fall in love with somebody after you've fucked them, in my opinion.
Best scenario is when people meet, date, get to know each other, and fall in love. Then you've got a guy who cares about you and your life without your body being part of the equation. When you do get intimate it takes it to the next level and draws you even closer together and eventually you can talk about having a family since the guy's invested a considerable amount of time into getting to know you and already knows what you're all about.
If you just fuck a guy after meeting him a couple weeks later or that night or whatever, what does he think of you? You're not anybody he'd want to have around the rest of his life, because you're so loose you'd probably fuck the pool boy if he went away for the weekend.
People act like Sex isn't a big deal, if you're planning on getting married it's a VERY big deal.
i think sex should be explored way before marriage... dont want to be stuck with some star fish that does nothing.
also, i think its very possible to fall in love with someone even if you fuck them before falling in love..
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i think sex should be explored way before marriage... dont want to be stuck with some star fish that does nothing.
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i think sex should be explored way before marriage... dont want to be stuck with some star fish that does nothing.
now thats a quote!
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so i've been goin out with this guy for some months now and its been good but I hate the fact how a girl walks by in some skimpy slutty clothes and all of a sudden he starts drooling. so when I try to impress him by wearing stuff like that he gets upset. I dont get it. :( also the fact that he is always talking about other girls and how pretty they are then he turns around and starts telling me my defaults. will it always be like this. men are so vain!!!! >:(
ok, so the part about why he looks at girls that wear skimpy outfits and doesn't like u werin them is because men are territorial, they dont want their girl lookin all cute for some other guy to stare, cuz ya man already knows how beautiful you are and doesn't want anyone else to know, its kinda like an insecurity, but not really..you know what i mean? and the fact that hes talkin about other girls and pointing out your defaults, doesn't sound like he wants anything serious, hes prolly doin things behind your back, so my advice would be follow him.....catch him.....dump him.....
Are you a fuckin' girl?
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if you're fucking a girl you're not married to you don't love her.
Dumbest shit I've ever heard...
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And on a side note, since when is it a white stereotype to smoke crack?
Trailer-trash crackheads from Alabama...
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My opinion:
A lot of girls are confused and have no idea what they're doing in this life. There are the few smart ones who actually have a head on their shoulders, but most of them are morons who let their dumbness ruin everything, just like this girl probably did with her boyfriend...This opinion comes purely from what I've seen and observed. Just go to myspace and click a random girls profile. I bet you anything that you'll think she's stupid, unless you find one of the rare ones...
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Just go to myspace and click a random girls profile. I bet you anything that you'll think she's stupid, unless you find one of the rare ones...
LOL. that reminds me of the shirt my boy was wearing today. it was supposed to say U LOOK BETTER ON MYSPACE, but the guy who made the shirt fucked it up and it said U LOOK BETTER ON MY FACE....shit was nick cannon.
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3 WORDZ FOR THA PERSON WHO STARTED THIS THREAD GIRLS-LOVES-ASSHOLE AND THATS THA BOTTOM LINE
NICK CANNON CRACKS ME UP..........