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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on June 21, 2008, 07:51:16 PM
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Alright, here's the story...
So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.
What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
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fucked up situation...u think mayb she could just be playin u for $390???
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Alright, here's the story...
So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.
What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
i hate to sound cold
but you shouldn't have to pay for their mistake of not being a little more careful.
dude owes you 120 bones and his girl wants 390?? is she gonna fuck you for it? thats the only way Hack Wilson would say yes.
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Is she a Laker fan?
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fucked up situation...u think mayb she could just be playin u for $390???
I thought about that, but I highly doubt it...
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Alright, here's the story...
So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.
What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
i hate to sound cold
but you shouldn't have to pay for their mistake of not being a little more careful.
dude owes you 120 bones and his girl wants 390?? is she gonna fuck you for it? thats the only way Hack Wilson would say yes.
I probably coulda' fucked her by now if I really wanted to. but that's besides the point...I ain't even tryna get up in that. LOL. I just hate to turn down someone when they're in desperate need of my help. I'm the type of person you can depend on. Despite me being a Jew and all, I'd like to think of myself as a very generous and reliable guy. I dunno, it's just a fucked up situation overall...PeACe
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Is she a Laker fan?
Naah...As a matter of fact, she called me up and left an enthusiastic voicemail shouting her happy ass off when the Lakers were eliminated on Tuesday. LOL. Another reason to turn her down?
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Alright, here's the story...
So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.
What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
i hate to sound cold
but you shouldn't have to pay for their mistake of not being a little more careful.
dude owes you 120 bones and his girl wants 390?? is she gonna fuck you for it? thats the only way Hack Wilson would say yes.
I probably coulda' fucked her by now if I really want to. but that's besides the point...I ain't even tryna get up in that. LOL. I just hate to turn down someone when they're in desperate need of my help. I'm the type of person you can depend on. Despite me being a Jew and all, I'd like to think of myself as a very generous and reliable guy. I dunno, it's just a fucked up situation overall...PeACe
what your feeling is compassion
but don't let that overcome common sense. 390 bones is more than just a days work for most people, you got bills to pay son.
it's not your fault she doesn't have a job or backup plan.
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there's a few things to consider when making a decision about this.
first the question of ethics & values.
me personally, I'm against abortion. so I wouldn't lend anybody money for that regardless of who they are.
if you're also anti-abortion, then that's one reason not to lend her the money.
secondly, the question is regarding your view on money.
personally, I didn't value money about 9 years ago as much as I do now because of certain events. this has taught me to be very responsible and careful on where I spend my money and whether or not I should let someone borrow any money. with smaller amounts (like $5 to $10) I'd lend it to only close friends that I knew were dependable on paying me back or helped me out some other way.
judging by this person, it doesn't seem like they're quite dependable on paying you back regardless of their intention. if they have no job right now or anything, chances are they wouldn't be able to pay you back for a while, if at all.
if you can live without the #390 (plus the $120 that's still owing) then probably wouldn't worry you; but I'm quite sure that that amount is quite significant for you as it would be for most people.
finally, try imagining yourself in her position and putting her in your position.
what do you think she'd do?
if you think that she'd lend you money for something that's equivalent to her situation, then you might be more inclined to lend her the money.
but there's also the strong possibility that if you had no job and need $390 that she wouldn't lend it to you because there would also be a strong chance that you wouldn't be able to pay the amount back.
plus like you said, why would you take the bullet for someone else's mistakes; if she was asking u for some other type of help that was more reasonable, then it'd probably be easier to help; but a money loan of that much makes it difficult.
if you're leaning towards saying no to her and looking for a reason, just say your anti-abortion and how you think killing unborn babies is wrong.
it may be hard to say no if you feel you're a reliable person.
I'm like that as well; hell, I've even helped people out by tutoring them for free, writing essays for them, giving them advice, etc. only for them to stop talking to me for whatever reason.
the point though is that while it might be good to help, don't dig other people out of the holes they've made themselves. give a helping hand in some other way if possible but don't solve their whole mess; because then they'll constantly come to you and ask u for help.
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she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing
first of all, this chick is a dumbass
if you have no money, no job and you're 18... it's probably not the greatest idea to be having unprotected sex
but ya know, she's broke and can't afford condoms right?
anyway, I say you lend her the money for the abortion
she's obviously young and irresponsible, on top of that she doesn't seem to want the baby
people like this are a drain on society... she has this baby and it's just another statistic to add to the pile
it's not fair to the kid to put it in the fucked up situation
if anything, this is where abortions come in handy the most
having the baby as a "responsible" wakeup is not a smart idea
add to that a bad economy, welfare ain't gonna be enough for the girl
another thing to take into consideration is the relationship between the couple
it's a man's business to know if the girl is pregnant
however, what she decides to do with the baby is her choice
men don't know what it's like to have a baby so they can't tell a girl to get one or not get one
you said she's coming to you in confidence
so I take it you won't say anything ever to the boyfriend if she gets it?
if he's your homie, you might have a tough time keeping such an important fact from him
but like I said, it's her choice
I think she needs to get the abortion because she's too young
have the baby and you might as well press the STOP button on the remote as far as life is concerned
you should lend her the money because it may well end up being the right thing to do
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this is totally from a personal standpoint. I've seen a lotta people have kids, and it totally fucked up any aspirations they might have had in life. if i were you, i'd give her the money and chalk it up as a good deed. if your worried about what God might think, as long as you have a good reason for doing what you think is right, i dont think God will have a problem with you. other then that, she's only 18, she's got her whole life in front of her, and i dont think she want to fuck everything up cuz she can't get ahold of $390. If you got the paper NIK, i say just give it to her for the abortion, if you don't have it, it's not gonna be hard for her to find someone to let her borrow $390. i know if i was 18 and i needed money, i'd just call up my drug dealing homies and they'd hook it up fosho.
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How is she not physically ready? I believe if she can actually have it, she should give it up for adoption. Hopefully within the time of the pregnancy, she could get a job to help pay for the medical and hopefully have the baby in some sort of secrecy. I am personally anti-abortion in most cases, but this case it might be best for her and your friend. If she is a generally honest person and you support her decision, give her the money. So, my final decision is give her the money, but it's all your choice main man. Question is, will this $390 effect your financial stability? If you don't got the full $390 I would suggest giving her what you could, because it would show at least you care and hopefully earn you some points in the big picture. I'm just babbling :-X , but whatever your choice is I hope it works out for you.
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If you feel very uncomfortable in lending out money for an abortion, then you should tell her that. The fucked up part is that as more time passes, the procedure will just become much more expensive. Personally, I would lend the money but also be on her ass to get a job asap. Even to go as far as helping her get a job.
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well, its not your place to pay for someone elses mistakes..BUT, there are enough ppl on welfare, and since she has no job, thats probably what she will turn to if she has it.
id lend her the money, but get that loan on paper. i know it might be a shifty thing to ask for, but if she has no job, how the fuck she gonna pay you back? lol at least this way, you have SOMETHING to make sure she pays you back.
if your not gonna lend her the money, convince her to talk to a family member that WILL lend her the money..cause if she KNOWS she doesnt wanna have this baby, how is she gonna handle it if she cant get anyone to help her? she will either A) have it, and live a fucked up life for the rest of her life, B) try a home abortion, and she might kill herself or damage her goods that prevent her from having a child when she is ready.
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Is she a Laker fan?
Naah...As a matter of fact, she called me up and left an enthusiastic voicemail shouting her happy ass off when the Lakers were eliminated on Tuesday. LOL. Another reason to turn her down?
IM suprised yuor even asking me lol
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IF YOU GOT AN EXTRA 390 AND IT WONT DRAIN YOU THEN I THINK IT WOULD BE A VERY GOOD DEED OF YOURS TO HELP ANOTHER HUMAN BEING OUT. ITS NOT YOUR CHOICE TO HAVE THE ABORTION AND YOUR INTENTION HERE IS GOOD LIKE SOMEONE ELSE SAID ABOVE. IF NOT GETTING THE ABORTION WILL RUIN A YOUNG GIRLS FUTURE AND YOURE ABLE TO HELP PREVENT THAT THEN THAT WILL BE A VERY NOBLE THING TO DO.
I KNOW YOU WOULDNT WANNA GET UP IN THAT BUT YOU SHOULD ASK HER TO GIVE YOU SOME HEAD ;D
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PAY THE DOCTOR WITH AN OFFICIAL BANK CHECK AND HAVE HER SIGN A LOAN AGREEMENT IF YOU FEEL INCLINED TO DO SO.
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I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
don't help her. abortion=killing
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i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money..
they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..
what does your own girl think NIK?
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she'll be back slutting it up in no time
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I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
don't help her. abortion=killing
the world is full of enough loveless "families" and unwanted children.
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I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
don't help her. abortion=killing
you hicks
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fucked up situation...u think mayb she could just be playin u for $390???
thats what iwud think
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i probably wouldn't do it. I would recommend you wouldn't do it either. Not because of my values , but from what it sounds like.....YOUR values. straight up man. All that really needs to be said is this..."look i'm not comfortable with lending money for an act that i don't agree with". no matter what they have to respect that opinion and if they wanna put a strain on your friendship because of that....they never were a good friend to begin with. Sounds tough and all but you got to look after your foundation, without that you're doing nobody a service.
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i dont think i could lend someone money to have an abortion.
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On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
That's the right hand. Son.
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FUCK YOU NIK I'M TRYING TO EAT BREAKFAST.
MAKE THE DECISION ON YOUR OWN, YOU WHORE.
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i dont think i could lend someone money to have an abortion.
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NIK i would do it man. Give her the money to get an abortion. What if they have the kid and then their lives turn all fucked up afterwards? I think it would be nice of you to save them in this situation.
Abortions arent wrong. Think of how many kids are without parents because their parents didnt want them and ran off.
On a side note, I'm pretty sure its free the first time to have an abortion, but it could be just a Canadian thing. Thank jesus!
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I told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.
i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money..
they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..
what does your own girl think NIK?
Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though.
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NIK what are u her pimp? why she come to u? put that bitch on the trck then she'll have the money in no time and teach that ho how to use protection
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oh well NIK, don't lose sleep over this cum dumpster
I mean this is a dumb bitch we're talkin here
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I told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.
i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money..
they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..
what does your own girl think NIK?
Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though.
how good of friends you are all of you?
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^weve known eachother for a while...dude's been the homie for almost 4 years now, and he's been with her for 2.
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I don't think I could do that.
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tell her to go to one of her close girlfriends not her boyfriends homie....
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hack wilson will do the abortion
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I told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.
i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money..
they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..
what does your own girl think NIK?
Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though.
nigga never feel bad.
thats more money to spend on the "Boston Celtics 2007-08 Champions" DVD and some Cali chron chron
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a woman's body is her own business, if she wants an abortion then its not my position to say yes/no. i'm not for/against abortion, i really don't care. however if she is really broke, doesn't have a dollar to her name, then sure its good to teach her a lesson and to value money, but what about when she has that baby? if she has no money, how is she gonna support it? in my mind, if she's pregnant and recognises she's in no way ready for a baby, then i would give her that money (even if im not getting it back) so then another life doesn't have to come into this world when its parents aren't gonna be able to support it
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Alright, here's the story...
So a few days ago, my homies girlfriend (18 years old) told me she had an important question for me, which was gunna be very difficult for her to ask... She called me up yesterday and found the courage to tell me that she was pregnant and that she wasn't physically, mentally, or financially ready to have a baby. She wants absolutely no one to find out about this. Now, the girl is broke as fuck, no job, no income...nothing, so she asked if I could lend her $390 for an abortion. I asked her when she'd be able to pay me back, and she said it'd be a few months (keep in mind, she still needs to get a job and what not). Anyways, I told her I'd get back to her and now I'm pretty stuck on what to say/do. On one hand, I think it would be nice to lend a helping hand, sort of a good deed, if you may. On the other hand, I think she fucked up and should learn how to take responsibility in life...also, I dunno how I feel about my money going towards killing a baby.
Another thing...Her man owes me 120 bux. I lent it to him a couple month ago, and he was gunna pay me back in a timely manner, like he usually does, but he ended up getting fired from his job...so now he's been stuck financially and I'm still waiting on my payback from his ass.
What would you do in this situation? I don't wanna be fucked up, but I also don't wanna take the bullet for someone elses mistakes. Any opinions on this matter are appreciated...PeACe
go grab a coat hanger
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I told her I couldn't do it... She understood. I still kinda feel bad, though.
i wouldnt help her if her man already owes money..
they still together? does he know...? ... maybe it was his idea to tap you up for cash..
what does your own girl think NIK?
Her man knows, and yes, they're still together...they're always havin fights and shit. My girl has mixed feelings about the whole situation...she definitely thinks the girl needs to ge an abortion, though.
nigga never feel bad.
thats more money to spend on the "Boston Celtics 2007-08 Champions" DVD and some Cali chron chron
I don't fuck with chrons, and the only reason I'd buy that DVD would be to light it on fire and put the flames out with my piss...
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Dude I think it can be free with her situation. Tell her to call up planned parenthood. I had a friend's girl get an abortion for free. And she was 18.
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Dude I think it can be free with her situation. Tell her to call up planned parenthood. I had a friend's girl get an abortion for free. And she was 18.
Planned Parenthood does free abortions? are you sure about this?
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Medi-cal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I would have a hard time with something like that too because i'm also a very generous person like that but before you consider lending her that money tell her to go to the city hall or town office of wherever she lives and explain to them her situation and they might be able to help her out themselves or refer her to a program that will make her financially stable through her whole pregnancy so she wouldn't even have to get an abortion and help her mentally through the situation too. But if worse really does come to worst and theres no other choice but to get the abortion and theres absolutely no other way she can come up with the money to do it, go for it.
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Fuck a fetus. I'll kill that parasite for one of them Loaded Steakhouse Burgers at BK. I'll be like the Orkin man on that uterus.
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Did she get give you any news on planned parenthood yet?
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For real, fuck that shit. Let the bitch have the baby and then put it up for adoption. It's not your place to fix this bitch's problems. Her man needs to man up, and she needs to take responsibility for her fuck up.
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They have free abortions...everyone is entitled to free medical care somehow or another, you just have to be worthless enough. Just like a hospital aint gonna kick out someone who been shot in the chest and has no insurance, there is abortion clinics around that will do that shit for free. Thats the really shitty thing about this country...we take too good of care of worthless fucking people that contribute nothing, and only take. Last thing we need in this country is another child w/ a whore mother and a deadbeat dad. The dad can't come up w/ $400? What a fucking loser. If neither one of these deadbeats can come up with that little bit of money, how the fuck can they raise a child? I say do society a favor and give her the money, at least you can say you did some positive contribution to this society.
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They have free abortions...everyone is entitled to free medical care somehow or another, you just have to be worthless enough. Just like a hospital aint gonna kick out someone who been shot in the chest and has no insurance, there is abortion clinics around that will do that shit for free. Thats the really shitty thing about this country...we take too good of care of worthless fucking people that contribute nothing, and only take. Last thing we need in this country is another child w/ a whore mother and a deadbeat dad. The dad can't come up w/ $400? What a fucking loser. If neither one of these deadbeats can come up with that little bit of money, how the fuck can they raise a child? I say do society a favor and give her the money, at least you can say you did some positive contribution to this society.
Couldn't have been put better.
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
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From The Topic-Title I Thought SHE WANTS YOU TO DO THE ABORTION and i was like WTF!
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I really don't understand some people's way of thinking. Of course she's a moron for having unprotected sex (and so is her boyfriend), and I can understand that you (NIK) are not comfortable with the situation and feel you can't give her the money. But the reason that this "teaches her a lesson" is pure cynicism. So she'll be taught a lesson by a poor kid who's been put into life accidentally and will have a shit time growing up in what is likely to be a single-parent household (dad might just decide to move on under those circumstances...) and with the "guidance" of a too-young mother working crap jobs, unable to get decent education and depending on welfare checks. A mother who's very likely to spend her life regretting she had you and knowing you're what fucked up her future is one hell of a great thing for a kid. It takes some nerve (or a relatively fundamentalist "pro-life" (I hate that term) point of view) to come up with this.
I just can't see how people consider putting an end to the development of a would-be child that is far from having real consciousness yet "murder", yet thinking it's absolutely ok to make the life of both that child and his/her mother a misery.
It might be different if it's only the boyfriend who wants the abortion. If she wants the kid, then she'll probably do her best, give all her love to the child, dedicate herself to him/her, try to be a good mother and hopefully she'll be proud of her decision and somehow manage to get by. If she only has the child cause she's broke, then I think my above scenario is much more likely.
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
yishay, you'd never say that shit to my face...man up, bitch boy.
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lol
but yeah, you don't teach a ho responsibility by letting her have a baby..that's not fair to the kid
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
yishay, you'd never say that shit to my face...man up, bitch boy.
WOW WHAT A FUCKING E-THUG!!! LMAO
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
She's lucky you got a homie from the Bay that knows wasup 8)
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
you know what maybe it's my conscience or something but i wouldn't call NIK necessarily cheap. dude went out on a limb for me to get some good Laker tickets, and i had to go to the hospital for a kidney infection/stone and kinda fucked him over. i mean we havn't exactly saw eye to eye all the time, but that wasn't something a stereotypical jew would do for a dude on a message board. i calls it how i sees it and i think you should kill that noise.
and on that note i plan on hooking NIK up with a ticket as soon as the season starts again. much respect man.
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
you know what maybe it's my conscience or something but i wouldn't call NIK necessarily cheap. dude went out on a limb for me to get some good Laker tickets, and i had to go to the hospital for a kidney infection/stone and kinda fucked him over. i mean we havn't exactly saw eye to eye all the time, but that wasn't something a stereotypical jew would do for a dude on a message board. i calls it how i sees it and i think you should kill that noise.
and on that note i plan on hooking NIK up with a ticket as soon as the season starts again. much respect man.
^It's all good, homie. I don't expect shit... I almost got stuck with those tickets, though. LOL. Luckily, some dudes bought them off me 10 minutes before tip-off, so it was all good.
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
you're not killing a kid. that is the same load of shit neocons push. it's a fetus, there is no cognitive development, no thoughts, it isn't a person. you might as well never jack off because there's thousands of kids dying on a tissue. i feel you on the first two points but to me, abortion would be the only sane solution.
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lmao @ the jew being to cheap to lend a "friend" some cash.
you know what maybe it's my conscience or something but i wouldn't call NIK necessarily cheap. dude went out on a limb for me to get some good Laker tickets, and i had to go to the hospital for a kidney infection/stone and kinda fucked him over. i mean we havn't exactly saw eye to eye all the time, but that wasn't something a stereotypical jew would do for a dude on a message board. i calls it how i sees it and i think you should kill that noise.
and on that note i plan on hooking NIK up with a ticket as soon as the season starts again. much respect man.
^It's all good, homie. I don't expect shit... I almost got stuck with those tickets, though. LOL. Luckily, some dudes bought them off me 10 minutes before tip-off, so it was all good.
i still feel bad though man. i don't know exactly when, but i got you
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
you're not killing a kid. that is the same load of shit neocons push. it's a fetus, there is no cognitive development, no thoughts, it isn't a person. you might as well never jack off because there's thousands of kids dying on a tissue. i feel you on the first two points but to me, abortion would be the only sane solution.
It's a soul, dude... Sperm isn't a soul.
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
you're not killing a kid. that is the same load of shit neocons push. it's a fetus, there is no cognitive development, no thoughts, it isn't a person. you might as well never jack off because there's thousands of kids dying on a tissue. i feel you on the first two points but to me, abortion would be the only sane solution.
it's a fertilized "thing" with a heart beat....no matter how you twist it you're killing it. i'm not some pro-life idiot....but i'm not some pro-choice idiot either....every situation deserves a different perspective that's how i feel.....nothing in this world is a black or white decision, too many shades of gray.
also when you ejaculate you're just disbursing cells, you do the same thing when you bleed or sneeze. however when one cell conjoins with another cell it's a life. 1 second, 1 hour,1 day, 1 month, 1 year... a life is a life.
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
you're not killing a kid. that is the same load of shit neocons push. it's a fetus, there is no cognitive development, no thoughts, it isn't a person. you might as well never jack off because there's thousands of kids dying on a tissue. i feel you on the first two points but to me, abortion would be the only sane solution.
It's a soul, dude... Sperm isn't a soul.
soul is a man made concept. i believe in one sort of but i believe it comes from the culmination of your thoughts and experiences. an embryo to me isn't a soul, it's not like a little crying baby they're rippin out, partial birth abortion isn't legal in America.
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^I disagree...There is much more to a soul than "thoughts and experiences".
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I hooked her up with a place that would do it for free with medi-care... My idea was for her to have the baby and put it up for adoption, but she wasn't havin it.
me and my girl were actually talking about this situation the other day. our situation was different we were already together and living together for a while and stable enough and strong enough to handle a kid.
but for other people it's like a lose lose situation
1. if you have the kid you kinda put your life hold. college degree is harder to achieve, you got to find a job that's flexible enough to work around your school and kids' schedule....and unless you're incredibly lucky like me, most people can't do it and have to take less. the kid grows up in a bad home, in a bad neighborhood, with bad influences, no guarantee of a stable home life with mom and dad. so the kid grows up fucked up
2. you give the kid up for adoption.....shit ain't always a golden ticket. most times kids get lost in the system and end up just as fucked up as the kid above scenerio. also they grow up feeling abandonment and usually have a grip of issues and join the armed forces and die for an unjust cause.
3. they get the abortion and they end a potentially bad future situation, but live with the regret of killing an innocent life or possibility that perhaps things wouldn't have been bad.
it's one of the hardest things to forecast. either kill the kid to save it from corruption or corrupt it and have someone else kill it.
on the real y'all if you're going to go bareback, make sure it's with someone you love, and that you'll be ready to handle the consequences.
you're not killing a kid. that is the same load of shit neocons push. it's a fetus, there is no cognitive development, no thoughts, it isn't a person. you might as well never jack off because there's thousands of kids dying on a tissue. i feel you on the first two points but to me, abortion would be the only sane solution.
it's a fertilized "thing" with a heart beat....no matter how you twist it you're killing it. i'm not some pro-life idiot....but i'm not some pro-choice idiot either....every situation deserves a different perspective that's how i feel.....nothing in this world is a black or white decision, too many shades of gray.
also when you ejaculate you're just disbursing cells, you do the same thing when you bleed or sneeze. however when one cell conjoins with another cell it's a life. 1 second, 1 hour,1 day, 1 month, 1 year... a life is a life.
fair enough, you think in this situation ol' girl shouldve had the kid and face the perils that scenario 1 you listed?
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It's a soul, dude...
Prove it.
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i honestly don't know. i don't know the girl.
if she came from a rich family.......fuck yeah have the kid. bare the burden of embarrassing your family.
but there's so much more you got to look at, and a lot more information you got to know before you can say an abortion is okay or not.
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It's a soul, dude...
Prove it.
Are you an athiest?
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nah, more like agnostic nowadays.
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You guys, this debate has not winners and losers. It's all opinion, so why argue?
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You guys, this debate has not winners and losers. It's all opinion, so why argue?
i dont think theres any arguing just debates
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You guys, this debate has not winners and losers. It's all opinion, so why argue?
i dont think theres any arguing just debates
Argue/debate. You know what I meant
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You do the action, you pay the consequence. It's as simple as that. Of course it's a women's choice. Though, it says alot about the women who get's an abortion. When you're pregnant , you're pregnant, no matter what the hell it's called, it's GONNA be a child, the result is GONNA be a child. A life. Ya know what, it's called responsibility.
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You do the action, you pay the consequence. It's as simple as that. Of course it's a women's choice. Though, it says alot about the women who get's an abortion. When you're pregnant , you're pregnant, no matter what the hell it's called, it's GONNA be a child, the result is GONNA be a child. A life. Ya know what, it's called responsibility.
so no matter what teaching yourself a lesson is worth bringing an unwanted child into the world and not being able to provide well for it? kinda unfair to that child
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You do the action, you pay the consequence. It's as simple as that. Of course it's a women's choice. Though, it says alot about the women who get's an abortion. When you're pregnant , you're pregnant, no matter what the hell it's called, it's GONNA be a child, the result is GONNA be a child. A life. Ya know what, it's called responsibility.
so no matter what teaching yourself a lesson is worth bringing an unwanted child into the world and not being able to provide well for it? kinda unfair to that child
But killing it is too. I mean, I know the kid is prolly gon go thru alot, but we all do...Man I don't know, shit's a bitch but that's life man, do the action, you pay the consequence.
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Fact of the matter is, if she did end up having the kid, no matter how bad his life is, I guarantee he wouldn't say "yes" if you gave him the option to die 15 years from now... A life is a life.
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You do the action, you pay the consequence. It's as simple as that. Of course it's a women's choice. Though, it says alot about the women who get's an abortion. When you're pregnant , you're pregnant, no matter what the hell it's called, it's GONNA be a child, the result is GONNA be a child. A life. Ya know what, it's called responsibility.
so no matter what teaching yourself a lesson is worth bringing an unwanted child into the world and not being able to provide well for it? kinda unfair to that child
But killing it is too. I mean, I know the kid is prolly gon go thru alot, but we all do...Man I don't know, shit's a bitch but that's life man, do the action, you pay the consequence.
Wrong. Most people in this situation don't pay the consequences...working, tax paying society pays the consequences. You know how many mutha fuckers are on welfare w/ kids? You know how many fuckin people have kids just to stay on welfare so they don't have to get a job? And then cause the parents are such worthless fucking deadbeat idiots, the kids got no role models, so its just a vicious space wasting cycle. Check some fucking statistics of people locked up, and how many were unwanted pregnancies...I bet its a majority. If you even consider an abortion, there should not even be a debate...you are not ready to raise a child. The world is overpopulated as it is, we don't need more accidental people in this world. So don't say the mother and the father need to suffer the consequences, because they don't nearly feel the half of it a majority of the time. Think about it...if neither one of these fucking deadbeats can afford to scrounge together a measily $400, then how the fuck are they going to afford to raise this kid? They fucking aren't. My tax dollars will go to help these worthless fucks with their mistake.
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Look, I don't want that little bastard breaking into my car and stealing my stereo in 15 years.
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NIK what are u her pimp? why she come to u? put that bitch on the trck then she'll have the money in no time and teach that ho how to use protection
LOL!!!! That shit had me rolling ;D
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i shake babies whenever they cry if they die no worries, overpopulation is a bitch.
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i shake babies whenever they cry if they die no worries, overpopulation is a bitch.
i like your style
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The world is overpopulated as it is, we don't need more accidental people in this world.
Than don't have unprotected sex!
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I'm all for spaying and neutering people with low IQs. Who is with me? We can start a movement.
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I'm all for spaying and neutering people with low IQs. Who is with me? We can start a movement.
ahhahaha run that by Obama
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I'm all for spaying and neutering people with low IQs. Who is with me? We can start a movement.
ahhahaha run that by Obama
I tried to run it by McCain but he needs more stupid people to vote for him so he rejected my idea.