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Title: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: morbidenigma on July 10, 2009, 03:37:54 PM
I prefer my own company, people just let you down. I prefer my own company more than any 1 else(no ego) and if it wasnt for society and thier bullshit of lableing you things like billy no mates a saddo or a loner i would do more things on my own.

Sometimes, well alot of the time i like having my own space, to read something, play a game, listen to music etc but theres so much stigma attached to people doing things alone, having a meal being a massive example.

There are so many thing that doing on your own that beats doing with others, eg shopping on your own saves so much time.

Does anyone else like to do stuff lke that on their own or am i the only one that's mental?
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 10, 2009, 05:02:22 PM
Doing stuff on your own is way better, makes you feel you've accomplished something.
Everytime I get a group assignment at school I somehow manipulate the group to do everything, I really can't help it.

Somehow I always feel more comfortable when I'm on my own.
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on July 12, 2009, 07:53:35 AM
yeah i feel that ..

like going to the movies on yuor own is a big no no
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 12, 2009, 07:59:16 AM
People just care too much what other people think
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 12, 2009, 03:59:15 PM
People just care too much what other people think

SOMETIMES TRUE..
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: QuietTruth on July 12, 2009, 05:21:23 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 12, 2009, 05:25:13 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
Same here.

You lost alot of family when you were young?
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: QuietTruth on July 12, 2009, 05:27:49 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
Same here.

You lost alot of family when you were young?
You mean by like death? Nahh.

That's what happened wit chu?
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 12, 2009, 05:33:25 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
Same here.

You lost alot of family when you were young?
You mean by like death? Nahh.

That's what happened wit chu?
Sadly yes.

In the last 5 years I've lost in order: a grandfather, my mother, an uncle, an uncle, a grandmother.
and that's just direct family.
My dad and I actually celebrated in may because there hadn't died somebody in the direct family for a year =/

And I'm only 16 =/
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: QuietTruth on July 12, 2009, 05:39:29 PM
Damnnnnnnnn, that's some crazy shit son. :-\
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 12, 2009, 05:47:54 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
so much shit changes as you get older...
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 12, 2009, 05:52:18 PM
Damnnnnnnnn, that's some crazy shit son. :-\
who says live in the sub-urbs is always easy
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 12, 2009, 05:53:42 PM
That's my life.

I have trust issues anyways though so. Like, I can chill wit people, they could talk wit me, but anythang other than that, any step further, is nahhh.

I mean I can chill wit chu out on the corner, and have the utmost respect for you, but I'm not tryin' to be friends. That's how it was when I started to develop around 13, so now it just stuck wit me. :D Used to it. It's now my personality trait. :laugh:
Same here.

You lost alot of family when you were young?
You mean by like death? Nahh.

That's what happened wit chu?
Sadly yes.

In the last 5 years I've lost in order: a grandfather, my mother, an uncle, an uncle, a grandmother.
and that's just direct family.
My dad and I actually celebrated in may because there hadn't died somebody in the direct family for a year =/

And I'm only 16 =/
my regards... RESPECT
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on July 13, 2009, 03:36:45 AM
I prefer my own company, people just let you down. I prefer my own company more than any 1 else(no ego) and if it wasnt for society and thier bullshit of lableing you things like billy no mates a saddo or a loner i would do more things on my own.

Sometimes, well alot of the time i like having my own space, to read something, play a game, listen to music etc but theres so much stigma attached to people doing things alone, having a meal being a massive example.

There are so many thing that doing on your own that beats doing with others, eg shopping on your own saves so much time.

Does anyone else like to do stuff lke that on their own or am i the only one that's mental?

Yo man. You should look at it as a positive thing.  Because we are always with ourselves one way or another, so if you are happy with yourself, then I think you have an advantage over most people. 

Basically, I look at it like this.  Sometimes a person may hang with a lot of people that actually make their life worse.  So it's necassary at some point in your life to completely start over at square one and just be by yourself.  Then, after you are comfortable by yourself only, then you can only add those people into your life who will benefit you.  So that every choice you make is a positive choice, rather than putting effort an energy towards maintaining a bad relationship/friendship.

That goes for anything in life.  You should start with yourself, and then only bring things into your life that increase your quality of life.  However, too often, by the time we come of age we have already inherited so many people and activities in our lives that we really didn't choose to begin with, or that we wouldn't have if we had to do it over.  Num sayin?
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on July 14, 2009, 09:15:16 AM
okay guys sometimes it is easier to be alone at least you don't have to worry about someone cheating on you or backstabbing,I like to do things alone except going to the movies alone.I often have conversations with God when I am alone and it is easier to have them........no interruptions.......
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 14, 2009, 10:41:30 AM
okay guys sometimes it is easier to be alone at least you don't have to worry about someone cheating on you or backstabbing,I like to do things alone except going to the movies alone.I often have conversations with God when I am alone and it is easier to have them........no interruptions.......
its good to have conversations with God...
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on July 14, 2009, 12:49:03 PM
you got good sense lights ,yeah it si good to have alone conversations with Gidhe being the head homie and all,......
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 14, 2009, 02:53:32 PM
I TRY TO DO MY OWN THING...
 8)
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on July 16, 2009, 09:43:03 AM
I went to the movies on  my own yesterday,went to see obcessions and it was good.............
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 16, 2009, 12:14:23 PM
GOOD MOVIE HA... 8)
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on July 16, 2009, 12:32:41 PM
yeah lights what movie do you like the most?
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 16, 2009, 12:33:48 PM
ONe thing I don't do by myself is swimming, that's about it.
eventhough I really like it
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on July 16, 2009, 04:16:14 PM
ONe thing I don't do by myself is swimming, that's about it.
eventhough I really like it

LOL... good point.  For some reason, swimming is one thing we all like to do but it's very depressing by yourself.

Top 2 activities to do alone (that are often done in groups)

1.  Going to bookstore
2.  Watching a movie at home

Worst 3 activities to do alone (that are often done in groups)

1.  Swimming
2.  Going to an amusement park
3.  Going to the movies
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: ikke on July 16, 2009, 04:21:21 PM
ONe thing I don't do by myself is swimming, that's about it.
eventhough I really like it

LOL... good point.  For some reason, swimming is one thing we all like to do but it's very depressing by yourself.

Top 2 activities to do alone (that are often done in groups)

1.  Going to bookstore
2.  Watching a movie at home

Worst 3 activities to do alone (that are often done in groups)

1.  Swimming
2.  Going to an amusement park
3.  Going to the movies
Drinking alone is nice to 8)

Going to concerts I do alone to, mostly done in groups but it's still fun.

The downside to doing most activities done mostly in groups by yourself is the nagging people do when you're talking to them about it
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: LAXCENTRAL on July 17, 2009, 07:44:33 AM
yeah lights what movie do you like the most?
MY FAV MOVIE OF ALL TIME...
IS
A MURDER OF CROWS... WITH CUBA GOODING JR...
Title: Re: Doin stuff on your own
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on July 17, 2009, 11:54:34 AM
mine is jason lyric's

hey go to back.to/nwa

they got a song in the audio section called our house by eminem

listen to it tell me what you think.........