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Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: pavan8491 on July 27, 2009, 01:02:06 AM
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How do you deal with anger in relationships? Obviously, you don’t need to consider it at the beginning of a relationship. Then, there is a warm glow as everything goes smoothly and good feelings flow back and forth.
But that can’t last forever. There will be rocky times for every couple. Not to think so is naïve. There will be times when you feel more like a fighter in a ring than a person in love. Perhaps there will be times when you are not fighting, but instead, the two of you are ignoring each other. Either way, it’s not a healthy situation.
What’s a couple to do? Well, you could do what Confucious said so long ago. He said, "Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses". For some, that might be all that is necessary. But in many cases there is much more to consider.
For instance, if the bad feelings and rage were to happen only once, that would be one thing. But for many people, it happens over and over again. This situation can wear a couple out. Something different has to be tried. As one person once said, “Doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results, is insanity."
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Beat some hippy up
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Beat some hippy up
interesting idea
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Beat some hippy up
interesting idea
I've seen that. Seems to work wonders on aggression. The hippie does care, because he/she is fucked up on shrooms anyways. They can't feel shit.
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stop,listen,obey,and watch what happens(slow)
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sex is a pretty good way...
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sex is a pretty good way...
Yes it is.
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Easy way to beat anger, beat out the prick making you angry. 2 birds 1 stone.
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smoke a joint and just relax 8)
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Easy way to beat anger, beat out the prick making you angry. 2 birds 1 stone.
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
hmm really
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
hmm really
I heard this works. Usually smoking a blunt puts my ass to sleep, the when I wake up, I'm still mad. Sucks!
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
hmm really
I heard this works. Usually smoking a blunt puts my ass to sleep, the when I wake up, I'm still mad. Sucks!
yeah... hey hommie btw where you from and what strain do you smoke???
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
hmm really
I heard this works. Usually smoking a blunt puts my ass to sleep, the when I wake up, I'm still mad. Sucks!
yeah... hey hommie btw where you from and what strain do you smoke???
Southern VA. Don't really know the type weed I used to smoke (been 6 years). Used to just smoke the shit my boys would bring over.
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like reese said but instead of a joint smoke a blunt ;)
hmm really
I heard this works. Usually smoking a blunt puts my ass to sleep, the when I wake up, I'm still mad. Sucks!
yeah... hey hommie btw where you from and what strain do you smoke???
Southern VA. Don't really know the type weed I used to smoke (been 6 years). Used to just smoke the shit my boys would bring over.
GOOD STUFF...
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smoke a joint and just relax 8)
I concur! Then try to figure out the problem so you can get a solution. The solution maybe to go your seperate ways....every relationship isn't meant to last.
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smoke a joint and just relax 8)
I concur! Then try to figure out the problem so you can get a solution. The solution maybe to go your seperate ways....every relationship isn't meant to last.
So true.
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If not, perhaps by walking away later, and bellowing your rage and/or frustration. In some situations, such as work, or school, it might be better to cover your mouth with a cupped hand, bandanna/handkerchief, or use the crook of your elbow, to muffle the sound. Some people find that it helps to journal those thoughts, and emotions soon afterwards.
Anger, which is repressed, rather than healthily expressed, tends to fester, and later may cause explosive fits of rage, or depression. Let yourself feel the burning energy of that anger, and visualise it, as vividly as possible, as a hot flame cleansing you. It can help to have someone you can talk to. For more physically inclined people, a punching bag, or hitting your pillow, can be an effective release mechanism: visualise, as vividly as you can, that you are striking back at the cause of that anger. "But next time, when you get mad, just remember this quote: 'Those who anger you, conquer you.
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exercise.
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rape.
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in Bradley County we take our anger out on racoons
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in Bradley County we take our anger out on racoons
fixed
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True, just know who you are and don`t let you body rule over your mind
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in Bradley County we take our anger out on racoons
fixed
lol
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the main thing to do in any relationship is just stick to your interests. If you are mostly together because of sex, then don't be stupid and try to fake some intellectual purpose for your relationship. Or if you are mostly together because you share the same intellectual interests then don't suddenly demand that she watches football with you on Sundays, or that she goes to visit your crazy cousin that lives on the other side of town with you.
Also keep money out of it. Most arguing that goes on between adult couples is over money. Everything should be separate, cars, bank accounts, etc. If living together then one person should be the owner and the other should be paying rent as if you were roomates, this main sound strange but it can save you from dozens of arguments.
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the main thing to do in any relationship is just stick to your interests. If you are mostly together because of sex, then don't be stupid and try to fake some intellectual purpose for your relationship. Or if you are mostly together because you share the same intellectual interests then don't suddenly demand that she watches football with you on Sundays, or that she goes to visit your crazy cousin that lives on the other side of town with you.
Also keep money out of it. Most arguing that goes on between adult couples is over money. Everything should be separate, cars, bank accounts, etc. If living together then one person should be the owner and the other should be paying rent as if you were roomates, this main sound strange but it can save you from dozens of arguments.
I think you need to stop trying to fake some intellect in general.
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I think you need to stop trying to fake some intellect in general.
I think it would be nice if you'd try to fake a shred of intellect so that I could fake caring about anything you say
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Youll never get a serious answer for this one lol.
Honestly though.. I mean yelling and bitching and some woman shit IMO.
But you know what if you too nice and dont yell a little... the bitch probably wont appreciate shit.
Fuck a bitch