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Title: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 02:26:23 AM
So I went with this chick to a Buffalo Wild Wings that opened up around here recently to watch the Laker game. So me and the girl are seated and they waiter comes over and takes our drink order. She orders some fruity ass drink and I told the waiter "I'll have a Becks".

He said, "We don't have it on tap, only in the bottle."

I reply with "That's fine by me", and he goes about his way.

Now this dude took forever. We only ordered two drinks and even though it was crowded due to the game, it wasn't to the point where it would take a guy 15 minutes to get our drinks. Plus, my drink is in a bottle that you just get from a fridge.

For 15 minutes we see other people who got seated after us getting their drinks, when FINALLY, we get our drinks. Now, I look at my beer, and its a Becks Light. I say to the waiter, "Hey man, I ordered a Becks" and he's like "Yeah, that's a Becks". I'm like, "No man, this is a Becks Light. If I wanted a Becks Light, I would of specifically told you I wanted a Light beer".

He stares at me and says, "Oh....well, sorry about that. I heard Becks makes a good light beer," and walks away. So now I'm heated. Homegirl told me to chill out, but I'm like hell no I'm not calming down because all homie had to do was say "My bad" and fix my order.

Now.......I'm not the type to give the guy a whole bunch of attitude and beg him to make the order right. He should of known he made a mistake and corrected it. It's happened a million times before and the server corrects it. This douchebag tries to convince me that his mistake was a blessing in disguise, therefore, I take offense.

So we're done and I get the bill. I paid the bill in full, but did not leave a tip. And we ordered lots of shit after the Light beer incident and he got everything right. I was just still pissed about his smartass comment he made to me earlier, and that's why I didn't leave the tip. Plus, he gave me a beer I didn't drink.

Homegirl is calling me cheap, saying I know damn well I should give him a tip, basically running her big fuckin mouth. Bitch even tried to give the guy a tip behind my back which had me gettin pissed at her too.

Now am I being an asshole like the girl I was with was saying I was or did the motherfuckin waiter deserve no tip for being a smartass? I even risked the potential of getting pussy tonight or int he near future by getting in a heated argument with the girl over this.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sparegeez on November 09, 2009, 02:31:52 AM
I think you were lol. You got mad to fast over circumstances that really got you mad, which was probably the wait. I think you got a bit butthurt there, at least the dude said sorry
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: LAX CITY LIGHTS on November 09, 2009, 02:37:08 AM
ITS A PUSSYCUNT THING TO DO. HE PROBABLY JERKED IT IN THE SAUCE
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 02:39:13 AM
I think you were lol. You got mad to fast over circumstances that really got you mad, which was probably the wait. I think you got a bit butthurt there, at least the dude said sorry
Yeah, but that beer wasn't cheap and I didn't drink it. So I used his tip to pay for it  ;D


ITS A PUSSYCUNT THING TO DO. HE PROBABLY JERKED IT IN THE SAUCE
Not possible, because he had no idea I was pissed. One thing I know is to not piss off someone who's serving you food and drinks. You keep them hopeful throughout the night.

I know you would find jizz in your sauce that tip-worthy though.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: JAZ on November 09, 2009, 02:52:37 AM
no it wasnt. why tip him if hes fucking up.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Leggy Hendrix on November 09, 2009, 03:09:04 AM
no it wasnt. why tip him if hes fucking up.

yeah imo he sacrificed his tip the minute he acted like a smartass...or maybe im just an asshole too lol  :D
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 03:24:02 AM
I dunno because at the end of the night I was a little buzzed and not thinking clearly. Usually, I would of gone ahead and gave the guy a tip, but something about this guy just wouldn't allow me to do it lol.

For real though, If I really was an asshole about it. I would throw a couple bones his direction the next time I go there, no homo.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: maximus on November 09, 2009, 03:52:12 AM
lol nah i probably would have got angry too but im a drunk and when i have to wait to get drinks i will usually flip about anything but some of them fkn waiters gets defensive when they fuck up and wont admitt it
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: The Watcher on November 09, 2009, 03:52:45 AM
nope

if he wants a tip, he should be doing his fuckin job right

also, fuck light beer
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: The Overfiend on November 09, 2009, 04:56:16 AM
 I reackon you handled that rather calmly not flipping out and shit, for chrissake man why pay for a drink u didnt order and since when is light beer the default option? You shouldve got him to take it back and bring you a normal beer then if he wouldve done that then you should tip him, otherwise youre getting screwed by an incompetant waiter. And I'm not just saying this because im some asshole who screams 'Service!' and beckons with my finger in restaurants its because I used to be a waiter and people used to expect certain standard from me so I expect the same from waiters because I used to be one.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: K.Dub on November 09, 2009, 05:30:40 AM
no it wasnt. why tip him if hes fucking up.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: JMan on November 09, 2009, 06:08:18 AM
nah fuck that shit, you did the right thing.. remember the customer is always right!!
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Big B on November 09, 2009, 06:40:08 AM
nah fuck that shit, you did the right thing.. remember the customer is always right!! no honey, no money {no homo}
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Big B on November 09, 2009, 06:41:40 AM
just ask yourself, 'what would rob van dam do?'
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: JMan on November 09, 2009, 07:01:30 AM
nah fuck that shit, you did the right thing.. remember the customer is always right!! no honey, no money {no homo}

lol, them some wise words!
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Jome on November 09, 2009, 07:42:22 AM
If you told the story right, it wasn't asshole status.. nobody wants a Light beer if they're not asking specifically for it, a waiter of all people should know that.

But if the real story went something like: "Mothanigga! Who the fuck ordered piss-water? Do you know who the fuck I am?", and you decided to fix the story for Dubcc, then it would be Kanye status.

Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Portugoal on November 09, 2009, 08:08:42 AM
nope

if he wants a tip, he should be doing his fuckin job right

also, fuck light beer
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Ţŕiņçë on November 09, 2009, 08:13:30 AM
He was the asshole for trying to play off a mistake. Bitch, you do what you are told and you dont make suggestions. I probably would have tipped, but it would have been an insulting tip none the less. Like..STAY OUT OF DARK ALLEYS OR I WILL FIND YOU AND KILL YOU WITH A BROKEN LIGHT BEER BOTTLE
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Blood$ on November 09, 2009, 09:21:02 AM
I wouldn't say it was an asshole thing to do, but I just probably would have left him at least a small bullshit tip instead of nothing at all lol
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:TimeLock:. on November 09, 2009, 09:50:04 AM
he's a fag who is assuming u're a fag like him, that drinks light beer.

u got mad for that reason so don't feel bad

u had ever right
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: ikke on November 09, 2009, 10:04:50 AM
He was the asshole, why would you be one?

It would be the same thing if he gave you bottled water instead of the beer.
Just because it's only a light version of it doesn't mean it's not different.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: west koasting on November 09, 2009, 11:05:56 AM
fuk that if i order a corona and get a corona light i aint drinking that shit
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Teddy Roosevelt on November 09, 2009, 11:09:00 AM
Homegirl is calling me cheap, saying I know damn well I should give him a tip, basically running her big fuckin mouth. Bitch even tried to give the guy a tip behind my back which had me gettin pissed at her too.
If she thinks you're cheap, then maybe she should pay the fuckin' bill and tip whatever she thought suitable.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Nutty on November 09, 2009, 11:37:00 AM
Do they serve full strength beer at games?
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: C-BLUE on November 09, 2009, 01:24:30 PM
just go there tonight and shoot the muthafucca. case closed. justice served
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 02:33:12 PM
If you told the story right, it wasn't asshole status.. nobody wants a Light beer if they're not asking specifically for it, a waiter of all people should know that.

But if the real story went something like: "Mothanigga! Who the fuck ordered piss-water? Do you know who the fuck I am?", and you decided to fix the story for Dubcc, then it would be Kanye status.


LOL

I wish I was a big enough asshole to pull off a Kanye West meltdown. If I was Kanye, I would of just carried a bottle of Hennessy with me anyways and drank for free  ;D
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Muhfukka on November 09, 2009, 02:36:39 PM
hell no thats not an asshole thing to do the little punk should be glad you didnt start a scene and start flipping tables and shit hahaha. i mean allright its one thing if its real busy with a game going and everything to be slow and fuck up an order, but to say some little smartass punk shit and not fix it that righht there just shows he doesnt deserve a tip. people nowadays always think their entitled to shit, if you didnt do your job right you might not get paid and thats the way it is
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: LooN3y on November 09, 2009, 03:00:54 PM
hell nah, id be bitching for a free pitcher and wings after that shit. hell nah no tip, shit if the pitchers were glass id just make a mess, break everything make it seem like it was accident n iw as too drunk and say "o yea im sorry too.

seriously if your hoe was bitching so much about the tip, the whore should of tipped the punk herself.

thats some bad service, he says sorry and he doesnt fix your order? from what people told me when they were waiters they get bitched at for alot less than that, they get bitched for just being slow, or since they were slow they dont want the other stuff they orderd and demand a refund.


Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 03:17:04 PM

seriously if your hoe was bitching so much about the tip, the whore should of tipped the punk herself.


She tried to, but I took the cash off the table lol. Fuck her for trying to pull that shit when I wasn't looking. She ain't shit anyways like the server.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: LooN3y on November 09, 2009, 03:23:48 PM

seriously if your hoe was bitching so much about the tip, the whore should of tipped the punk herself.


She tried to, but I took the cash off the table lol. Fuck her for trying to pull that shit when I wasn't looking. She ain't shit anyways like the server.


kinda weird she'd pick the waiters side over yours, even after that waiter was showin disrespect
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Muhfukka on November 09, 2009, 03:25:26 PM

seriously if your hoe was bitching so much about the tip, the whore should of tipped the punk herself.


She tried to, but I took the cash off the table lol. Fuck her for trying to pull that shit when I wasn't looking. She ain't shit anyways like the server.


kinda weird she'd pick the waiters side over yours, even after that waiter was showin disrespect
the dumb bitch has the same sense of entitlement as the waiter
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:DaYg0sTyLz:. on November 09, 2009, 03:30:04 PM
why didnt u have him fix your order? Also, after u got smart with him....did u order food that he might have come in contact with?! lol
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 03:37:22 PM
I didn't really get smart with him because we planned on ordering food and other drinks n shit like that. I brought it up by telling him I didn't order a light beer, and he pretty much acknowledged it and walked away lol. I dunno if he thought Becks only makes Light beer or somethin', but he should of made sure he had the order right before he cracked the bottle open.

If all I was gonna do was have that drink only, then I would of demanded he fix the order. I'll take a light beer over jizz in my buffalo wings lol
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: LooN3y on November 09, 2009, 03:48:23 PM
i remember sosa being black as fuck
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:DaYg0sTyLz:. on November 09, 2009, 03:50:48 PM
I didn't really get smart with him because we planned on ordering food and other drinks n shit like that. I brought it up by telling him I didn't order a light beer, and he pretty much acknowledged it and walked away lol. I dunno if he thought Becks only makes Light beer or somethin', but he should of made sure he had the order right before he cracked the bottle open.

If all I was gonna do was have that drink only, then I would of demanded he fix the order. I'll take a light beer over jizz in my buffalo wings lol

Oh aiight. Hard to tell through text.  When u said "If I wanted a light beer I would have specifically ordered one", sounds kind of smartass yah know. lol.  But maybe in person u didnt sound that way.  You should have left him a dollar as a tip and wrote "I love the dick" in big letters on both sides.  At least he'd have to feel like a fag when he goes to spend it.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: JAZ on November 09, 2009, 03:51:31 PM
i remember nothing.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:DaYg0sTyLz:. on November 09, 2009, 03:52:00 PM
i remember sosa being black as fuck

yeah, he look scary as hell now lol
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: BG Rapsodie on November 09, 2009, 04:03:19 PM
Asshole or not, if you are trying to get laid with this girl this is not the right thing to do, unless she's already your girl.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:DaYg0sTyLz:. on November 09, 2009, 04:05:51 PM
Asshole or not, if you are trying to get laid with this girl this is not the right thing to do, unless she's already your girl.

fortunately, girls are fuckin stupid and like assholes.  If you try too hard to impress a girl...they arent attracted to u. If you have the attitude that your night will be just fine with or without her..she'll probably fuck
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: C-BLUE on November 09, 2009, 04:10:33 PM
that bitch you came wit sik..she's rape material. dont be afraid of raping her man. just make her swallow the evidence.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: BG Rapsodie on November 09, 2009, 04:14:20 PM
Asshole or not, if you are trying to get laid with this girl this is not the right thing to do, unless she's already your girl.

fortunately, girls are fuckin stupid and like assholes.  If you try too hard to impress a girl...they arent attracted to u. If you have the attitude that your night will be just fine with or without her..she'll probably fuck

Nah, it doesn't work like that. Acting like an asshole only works in certain situations. You being stingy over money, whatever the circumstance, is never a good look.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 04:16:40 PM
Asshole or not, if you are trying to get laid with this girl this is not the right thing to do, unless she's already your girl.

Yeah, I may have blown my chances.......come to think of it, I may have lost more by not tipping the waiter.

One thing is for sure though, I will never take that bitch anywhere ever again on my damn tab. She's got the nerve to call me cheap when she just got free food and drinks on me LOL. That, and it was like I was talking to a slab of drywall the entire time.

Anyways, I'll see what I can do about salvaging the possibility of collecting on my investment.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 09, 2009, 04:20:53 PM
that bitch you came wit sik..she's rape material. dont be afraid of raping her man. just make her swallow the evidence.
That's why the ski mask and chloroform are always stuffed in my glove compartment cuzz.


Nah, it doesn't work like that. Acting like an asshole only works in certain situations. You being stingy over money, whatever the circumstance, is never a good look.
Yeah. I forgot to mention she either currently or used to wait tables at some Lebanese restaurant too. So she sympathized with the waiter regardless of what I said.

Oh well.........at least the wings were good lol
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: elmizzy on November 09, 2009, 04:32:29 PM
I doubt it'll ruin your chances if you got a good handle on her. Shit what you did wasn't all that bad. If he said that to me I wouldn't have caused a scene but I would have made damn sure I would have received the beer I ordered and not charged for some crappy ass light beer. People are so damn afraid of conflict it's ridiculous. My first question to that little shit would have been "Why are you being an asshole?"
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: LooN3y on November 09, 2009, 04:37:11 PM
that bitch you came wit sik..she's rape material. dont be afraid of raping her man. just make her swallow the evidence.
That's why the ski mask and chloroform are always stuffed in my glove compartment cuzz.


Nah, it doesn't work like that. Acting like an asshole only works in certain situations. You being stingy over money, whatever the circumstance, is never a good look.
Yeah. I forgot to mention she either currently or used to wait tables at some Lebanese restaurant too. So she sympathized with the waiter regardless of what I said.

Oh well.........at least the wings were good lol


unless its a bar i regularly go to , or they give really good service. i could care less about tip if that happened to me, but yea lol i had couple homies that used to be watiers and insisted that we leave them very good tip.

really man when former waiters insist on giving good tip i just tell them put down the extra cash, since they wanna tip them so badly
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: E. J. Rizo on November 09, 2009, 05:24:39 PM
Im a big Service guy... if i dont get what i want when im spending my earned money then dont expect a tip or anything... i would have told him to fix that shit, talked to a manager and probrably walked out and went some place else that wanted my money. fuck em!
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: AGeesta on November 09, 2009, 06:47:17 PM
you did nothing wrong
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Crockett on November 09, 2009, 07:32:57 PM
sounds like a lot of work stress and bullshit for a girl...
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: .:TimeLock:. on November 09, 2009, 08:45:55 PM
lol@sammy sosa
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: Carson the Sticky Bandit on November 09, 2009, 08:59:35 PM
You shoulda have punched him in the front of the head for being a smartass. Light beer....who the hell does he think he is
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: acgrundy on November 10, 2009, 12:12:41 AM
First let me say that I have worked in the restaurant industry, and tips were a big part of that job.

People that are in any kind of profession that the income is mostly derived from tips, have a sense of entitlement that no matter what, they deserve a tip.  Tipping is optional.  If it were required than it would be in the price of whatever you are ordering.

There are some people who are exceptional at their job.  They give you top notch service and make your experience a good one.  These people are working for their tips.  So if you have these people, bending over backwards for you, and then someone half assing their job, and they both get a tip, then eventually the one who works good is going to figure there is not point in working their ass off, when they can slack off and still get a tip.  In time, the overall service is downgraded for everybody.

Every profession has crappy, average, and exceptional employee's.  An exceptional waiter would know what he is dealing with.  He would know what beers they have.  He would know the menu inside and out.  He would have known right away that they only have Beck's Light and he would have informed you about that before wasting his time bringing it to you.  Also, no matter how busy it gets, an exceptional waiter knows time management.

So were you an asshole?  Was it your mistake?  Did you accidentally tell the waiter you wanted a Beck's Light when you really didn't?  No.  It was 100% his mistake.  No big deal, everyone makes mistakes.  For most customers that mistake alone won't ruin a chance on a tip, but the way he handled it definitely should.  Maybe he will learn from this experience and handle it differently in the future.
Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: ikke on November 10, 2009, 06:55:43 AM
Wasn't the tip invented to reward waiters for job well done?
he didn't do his job well enough, why deserve one?

Title: Re: Is this an asshole thing to do?
Post by: missnwawhoorider on November 11, 2009, 02:02:31 PM
well if I was the female I would have supposrted you and not the waiter.................

and as for being rude,he was one for being an ass..........