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Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: Doggystylin on December 12, 2002, 11:34:34 PM
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physically id say....well, hits to the face and to the nuts, and your FINGERS and FOOT, lol....but besides physical lets get to the real topic
id say they both deal with love, the best feeling has to do with love, wether its sex, or just bein in love and bein with a chick u love. or your family, its all love, the feeling of love is a great thing
and the worst does too beacause when the one you loved leaves you heartbroken, damn....or when you love someone and they dont love you back, love can cause depression, lack of it bassically, is what causes many sucides.
:)Oh yea, another happy thread by me! Siavash :)
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The BEST, BEST feeling, is of course being in love, total love with somebody; but it's not like the everday "I'm in love" feeling, it's that moment, when you're in love with someone, and they're in love with you, and whereever you are, whatever you're doing, for that moment, that's the coolest thing in the world. There was a time, when I was at the beach with a girl, we were down at the pier, playing pool; and at THAT MOMENT, not when we pulled in the parking lot, not when we left, at that exact moment, was the best feeling, THE best feeling. Nothing will ever be better than that moment, but hopefully many will be the same. It's a plateau, not a peak, I think.
The worst, WORST feeling, even worse than death! Worst than death, is when someone you love, can't be with you, for whatever reason... the reason it's so horrible, is because it's not fair. It's not fair at all; it shoudln't go down like that. Death, on the other hand, isn't as bad, because It's fair... it has to happen, and death is always fair. The existance of life makes death fair, so I think there are definately worse things than death.
Brilliant Topic.
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the best feeling i ever had was when i hit m dogg in the nuts with the basketball on accident. ........
nah i am playing.. the best feeling i ever incountered... was when m dogg feel down the stairs..i never laughed so hard in my life....
nah... that wasnt it...
nah.. the best feeling i ever truely had was last night.. i finally went to confession...... and i never in my whole life cried like i did last night.... the priest told me that i was now ready to teach the word of god though my own experences........... and not to fall back into temptation...
they worst feeling in my life was before last night.. the feeling of being empty inside and confussied about what i was doing to my life.... i was not thinking for the lord and living life the way i wanted to.. did what i wanted and said what i wanted... God willing i can continue the life i lived before i stoped going to church...
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brilliant posts.Thanx for tha post trauma, always enjoy readin your posts on topics like these, i learn a lot from little things. your a intelligent man.RESPECT, and good shit pink.
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That's cool; I know confession can be a powerful thing, it's like talking about your most personal things to someone.
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That's cool; I know confession can be a powerful thing, it's like talking about your most personal things to someone.
well not just to anyone.. it is taught to us catholics in that moment in confession given by a catholic priest.. jesus himself touches out lives through the priest... he gives the priest the words to say... it was wierd too because the priest already knew that i had confessed before about the same sin.. but this time around i was truely sorry... i was torn by what i was doing to myself... so when we confess.. it is not to the priest.. it is to God.. and it is also taught.. that if you confess to Man of faith priest or no priest... god can also touch you through him as well..
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Yeah, I believe that too. Peace~
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The greatest feeling for me is the love i feel for certain people and the love they feel for me. The worst feeling was either when my best friends entire family died (except for him). His mum was getting married the next day to a really nice guy who would've been a great role model/dad to my friend as he had never had a decent father figure. His real dad was one of the biggest shits on the planet and they moved from one end of the country to the other to get away from him and the bad life they were being forced to live, and just as his family were about to start a fresh, good, new life, it was robbed from all of them. The other worst feeling was when me and this girl were both madly in love with each other (i've never felt the same about anyone before and since) and she told me she couldn't go out with me due to her strict religious beliefs and me not being a Muslim. That really hurt me, that her beliefs prevented us from being a couple even though her heart was saying to go with me.
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Doggy, yur a fag lol ;D
but yah, i guess tha love shit would be both...best AND worse feelingz. Hard to say tho, ive been hurt by a female befo...n yah tha shit hurt. But i doubt it will be ANYTHING compared to tha pain if feel, if i ever have to see momz go. Wont know till it happenz i guezz..
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Man, when your mom DOES die, you'll feel stuff you won't even understand. You'll literally, in every sense of the word, go crazy, and you'll realize you're out of your mind. For instance, when my dad died, I kept thinking he was gonna show up alive the first few nights, even after I had seen his dead body. Well; I knew, the whole time, that that was impossible; he was dead, he couldn't show back up... but to me, it was impossible for him to be dead, too. So I was torn between it. It's wild, I can't explain it, you just have to have been through it... but all in all... I can tell you... It's not as bad as you think it'll be. It's like getting hit in the face with a snowball. Hurts really, UNBELIEVABLY bad for a second, but then your world changes and your whole life is differerent. It's like a pain that you grow to know and not give a sh*t about. I still feel the same loss almost 2 years later as I did the first day he was gone... but I don't mind it now. It's strange, I can't explain it, you'll see... but it won't be as bad as you'd imagined. I used to tell my friends (2 years ago) that I would die if my dad did. Wasn't that bad...
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Man, when your mom DOES die, you'll feel stuff you won't even understand. You'll literally, in every sense of the word, go crazy, and you'll realize you're out of your mind. For instance, when my dad died, I kept thinking he was gonna show up alive the first few nights, even after I had seen his dead body. Well; I knew, the whole time, that that was impossible; he was dead, he couldn't show back up... but to me, it was impossible for him to be dead, too. So I was torn between it. It's wild, I can't explain it, you just have to have been through it... but all in all... I can tell you... It's not as bad as you think it'll be. It's like getting hit in the face with a snowball. Hurts really, UNBELIEVABLY bad for a second, but then your world changes and your whole life is differerent. It's like a pain that you grow to know and not give a sh*t about. I still feel the same loss almost 2 years later as I did the first day he was gone... but I don't mind it now. It's strange, I can't explain it, you'll see... but it won't be as bad as you'd imagined. I used to tell my friends (2 years ago) that I would die if my dad did. Wasn't that bad...
^^true. I think itll depend on how tha shit happenz too i guess. I mean, if its something that u see coming...it might not be so traumatic as if it were jus completely unexpected.
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Well, mine was pretty bad, he had a massive heart attack while on vacation, dead in minutes. No goodbyes, no last visit, no slow slip away, no nothing. Just BAMN. I think it was probably about as traumatic as possible, but everybody handles things differently... it might have been relatively 'easy' (definately the wrong word, though) for me, while the same situation would have flipped somebody else. I dunno, I'm handling it pretty well, I think, but everybody reacts differently. Peace~
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best feelings are being in love and just being with this person that you love, even if u dont talk and just sit, it still feels great. best feeling is also finding something your very passionaite about - i found mine in movies and now im pursuing a career in film - it's important to find someone you love and something you love doing.
worst feeling is regret, thinking how you could of done something differently and your whole world could be better. the other worst feeling is knowing something bad has or is happening to loved one, the last girl i was with had something awful happen to her as a child and the man still walks free cause im the only one that knows and she wont go to the police or her parents or anything, she wont even give me a name. nothing has ever made me more angry and i feel so bad for her cause she is such a good person.
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Yeah, been in a similar situation with a girl, it really makes you feel like giving it up and serving time for killing the slimeball, lol.
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speaking from experience, tha best would have to be makin people laugh. ive never been truly in love so i cant speak on that. but from my own experience there is nothing better than makin people laugh. dunno why it jus makes me feel good cuz its like, hey im makin these people laugh. i thought it up myself an im gettin a good reaction from it.
worst would have to be lonliness. its tha worst feeling. it makes me feel completly empty on tha inside. its all also very dangerous b/c it plays around with your mind set. you start thinkin no1 likes me now so why r things goin change. loniliness definitly has to be tha worst
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The BEST, BEST feeling, is of course being in love, total love with somebody; but it's not like the everday "I'm in love" feeling, it's that moment, when you're in love with someone, and they're in love with you, and whereever you are, whatever you're doing, for that moment, that's the coolest thing in the world. There was a time, when I was at the beach with a girl, we were down at the pier, playing pool; and at THAT MOMENT, not when we pulled in the parking lot, not when we left, at that exact moment, was the best feeling, THE best feeling. Nothing will ever be better than that moment, but hopefully many will be the same. It's a plateau, not a peak, I think.
The worst, WORST feeling, even worse than death! Worst than death, is when someone you love, can't be with you, for whatever reason... the reason it's so horrible, is because it's not fair. It's not fair at all; it shoudln't go down like that. Death, on the other hand, isn't as bad, because It's fair... it has to happen, and death is always fair. The existance of life makes death fair, so I think there are definately worse things than death.
Brilliant Topic.
OMG...I agree 3000000%. Jeez, this line especially..."when someone you love, can't be with you"
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Well i cant really speak bout love like traum and all did, cuz I aint ever been in love. But I guess the best feeling is when you know how much your parents really love you, and sacrifise for you. My mom is really emotional and spiritual so I can realize her deep love.
And like tom said, making people laugh, laughin with friends, just having a great time, sumtimes it hits you within, and you realize how its really great, the feeling of bliss and happiness ya know.
Worst, i dunno, I guess when your most loved ones go away, seem like they dont care, and the feeling of loniness, the emptyness, its really painful..peace
-{bLaDe}
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The worst feeling...January 22, 1997. I come home from work and my dad says "Andy, I have cancer, it's not operable, it's not curable, I have months to live." And then over the next nine months watching someone who was the chair of his department at a university become someone who didn't recognize who I was. Watching him become a stick, stuffed with drugs so he wouldn't feel the pain of the cancer engulfing his body. Seeing the hurt in my grandparents seeing their only son die. Coming home from work and school every day wondering if he's gone, being fucking paralyzed in the front yard not wanting to open the door to see if he died. Knowing there was NOTHING I could do. All of that. I can't ever imagine feeling worse than those nine months in 1997.
Best feeling...dunno. Helping others for the sake of helping them.
peace,
tnp
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Time to get deep..
The best feeling is definatly love..Its mad Tragic in my experience..I have been strugglin' because Me and this Girl love each other very much and the simple fact that we can't be together just kills me..I am still livin' even though the deep ass pain still hits me every second..This isn't in my past,This is happenin as we speak. I have learned to tolerate this kind of pain, therefore I am strong hearted.When we are together nothing can get in between us.But I can't let her go.There is no reason too..We are still in love and hopefully there is hope for the future..Yo its all u can have...
The best physical feelins to me are definalty Sex, gettin blasted with homeboys,rockin a stage and everyones feelin it well i gues thats mental too...Peace
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The worst, WORST feeling, even worse than death! Worst than death, is when someone you love, can't be with you, for whatever reason... the reason it's so horrible, is because it's not fair. It's not fair at all; it shoudln't go down like that. Death, on the other hand, isn't as bad, because It's fair... it has to happen, and death is always fair. The existance of life makes death fair, so I think there are definately worse things than death.
Brilliant Topic.
You nailed it^^^
Beutifull post Doggy...I've really been experiencing some difficult times these last few months...You're a great poster...Keep posting shit like this homie...PeAcE
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The worst, WORST feeling, even worse than death! Worst than death, is when someone you love, can't be with you, for whatever reason... the reason it's so horrible, is because it's not fair. It's not fair at all; it shoudln't go down like that. Death, on the other hand, isn't as bad, because It's fair... it has to happen, and death is always fair. The existance of life makes death fair, so I think there are definately worse things than death.
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You nailed it^^^
Beutifull post Doggy...I've really been experiencing some difficult times these last few months...You're a great poster...Keep posting shit like this homie...PeAcE
thanx man i appreciate that
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This is the first time ive looked at this part of the forum and its real deep. The worst feeling ive had has been recently when i split up with the girl i love after 2 years. i no she still loves me but because of certain things in her life r relationship wont work. I really want 2 b with her but cant b. We r doing the friends thing at the mo and its killing me.
The best feeling is when u r sitting with the woman u love just in silence and she says out of the blue i love u. I cant explain that feeling.
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Being in love with someone with every fiber of your being - mind, body and spirit - is definitely the best feeling you can have.
The worst is knowing no one loves you or when someone you love dearly leaves you. Its the worst because it's something that never leaves you, you always can look back on that situation and feel the pain all over again.
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I think the worst feeling... or my deepest fear... would be suddenly realizing that all my happiness was the result of my own ignorance and having to completely let go of the past. I've seen this in a lot of people. Like people that parade around helping others obsessively never realizing they are doing more harm than good. They are so happy but only becuz they are ignorant of the true reality of their actions. To be 50 years old and have such a realization would be horrible. I dread becoming one of those people that have to rationalize the world into something it isn't to make themselves happy. You see it in extreme cases with people that are outright labeled "insane", but this problem exists in so many people. The ghetto thug that rationlizes himself to be a great man in his own mind. The humanitarian that strives on a daily basis to "fix" the world without any knowledge and understanding of how the world works. I see that problem as a glaring contradiction of religious faith. Faith tells you to serve man kind, but in serving mankind through your "faith" can you actually serve mankind? If your actions are based on "faith" that what you are doing is correct, and not certainty that it is well hmm are you actually achieving anything or are you just believing your achieving something. For instance, a "faithful" person shelters his friend from personal pain instead of allowing his friend the opportunity to better themself by working through the pain. A "faithful" person gives his friend $100 dollars temporarily helping another individual. A "faithful" person steers their friend away from philosophical beliefs that challenge religion and in doing so create happiness for their friend out of ignorance, but steal the possibility of a truely rational happiness.
Most people never feel this sort of pain because at the moment they should feel it they can't bare it. They ignore it and rely on their own ignorance to save them. To actually be able to accept this, and to also have little time left to fix things I believe is the worst pain imaginable.
The best feeling from my knowledge thus far is probably love. But its also quite dangerous. I don't like to pursue ideals that cannot remain constant, it sets you up for failure. However, I have been in love once and it was amazing. But it was amazing for two reasons. One, it feels great to have someone that you love. Two, it was self assuring. It made me more ignorant. It made me so content and sure of myself that I never sought any form of self reflection. I never sought to criticize my beliefs, or to learn anything new about life. I already new it all. I was at the peak of my happiness and what more was their I needed. Provided the situation never changed life would be grand. But life changes.
Love is great. But as a warning. Make sure you are content with yourself first before you fall in love. And while self reflection is important, I do not believe it is enough. Anyone can eventually rationalize in their own mind that they are content and happy given enough time. To get a more objective view of yourself you must test yourself. That's how I think thus far, and all I can figure.
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Its the worst because it's something that never leaves you, you always can look back on that situation and feel the pain all over again.
it's actually very true if u think about it, heck, Im 18 now and Im still feeling real shity when I think about this girl it din't work out with when I was like 13, It was my first real luv yo.
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The BEST, BEST feeling, is of course being in love, total love with somebody; but it's not like the everday "I'm in love" feeling, it's that moment, when you're in love with someone, and they're in love with you, and whereever you are, whatever you're doing, for that moment, that's the coolest thing in the world. There was a time, when I was at the beach with a girl, we were down at the pier, playing pool; and at THAT MOMENT, not when we pulled in the parking lot, not when we left, at that exact moment, was the best feeling, THE best feeling. Nothing will ever be better than that moment, but hopefully many will be the same. It's a plateau, not a peak, I think.
The worst, WORST feeling, even worse than death! Worst than death, is when someone you love, can't be with you, for whatever reason... the reason it's so horrible, is because it's not fair. It's not fair at all; it shoudln't go down like that. Death, on the other hand, isn't as bad, because It's fair... it has to happen, and death is always fair. The existance of life makes death fair, so I think there are definately worse things than death.
Brilliant Topic.
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actually i would also like to add that REGRET is one of the worst things it makes u think that your life has no meaning, u made a wrong decision, its useless now etc
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^^^ I purposefully dont regret, because its impossible to fix the past, so I just move on quickly.
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its hard obviously but sometimes the regret just knaws at your insides....
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Yeah, it's tough, you just gotta take a hardline and realize you can't dwell on it. Most people forget all but the worst things you do anyways. A lot of things people regret really aren't even an issue to anyone but them. I don't think I've ever done anything to anyone that they are seriously hung up on, I've done some things that weren't right to people, but they were gracious enough to forgive me. The only other things worth worrying about are things I did to myself, and I forgive myself, LOL.
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the best feeling is when u have a long lost loved one found, thats when he comes back to u and reunites...the best feeling also is when u achieve the greatest seccess in ur life when u worked so hard for it, that also makes u cry at times...
the worst feeling is when u lose a loved one and know that u can't get him/her/it back...the worst feeling is also when u try so hard at something and u fail at it and get embarrassed for it infront of ur friends, the worst feeling is also when u commit a deadly sin and afterwards repent it...example killing ur best friend for some stupid reason n then later own thinkin about what the fuck u did
etc
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the best feeling is when u finally release that long shit from ur ass when uve for some reason or the other, been stopping that shit for hours when it wanted to come out so badly
lol
the worst feeling is when uhave constipation and u wanna really badly shit that nugget down the drain but can;t get it out and then ur stomach hurts so badly that u cant do shit about it
joking yaar
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the best feeling is when u finally release that long shit from ur ass when uve for some reason or the other, been stopping that shit for hours when it wanted to come out so badly
lol
the worst feeling is when uhave constipation and u wanna really badly shit that nugget down the drain but can;t get it out and then ur stomach hurts so badly that u cant do shit about it
joking yaar
lmao
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Freud said that the body gets pleasure out of excretement, so I'll bet some people think takin' a dump is the best feeling.
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Freud also said that every boy wants to fuck his mother and kill his father. And every girl is upset she doesn't have a penis.
Although I agree with him about shitting. That is a damn good feeling.
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LOL What was the purpose of that? I didn't say it was true, just stated what he said. Please tell me you don't just excuse Freud's work.
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Nah i just thought it was funny, since u mentioned freud it made me think of that.
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Yeah, he was a coke head too. I think almost everything he said had some merit, even the Oedipian stuff.
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i dunno....ive read a bit about Freud, and the Epedus complex or whatever is called is kinda sick, first time i heard that i was like Robert Deniro is Analyze This...
"I havent even spoke to my mom since u told me that!"
LOL
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i dunno....ive read a bit about Freud, and the Epedus complex or whatever is called is kinda sick, first time i heard that i was like Robert Deniro is Analyze This...
"I havent even spoke to my mom since u told me that!"
LOL
its called Oedipus B complex,i remember it from an oxford dictionary i picked it once, the american name is just oedipus complex...yes its a weird diesease
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^^ But supposing to him, affects everyone, so it's not really a disease. I guess it would be a disease if the person got hung up on it, and didn't resolve the conflict. I think it's partially true, Freud had a way of over generalizing everybody and everything though.
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Wow, I just read over this topic and it is amazing. I forgot there were actually threads like this on here. Now I realize why I spent as much time as I did before. Quality posts and discussions.
I just read through every single post and there is so much that I can relate to. Years have passed and life has only given me more proof to what was being said in this thread. I still agree with what I said six years ago. It seemed as if most people agreed. Yes, if only I would have known the shit I would go through the next six years. Mostly pain which only confirms the posts of people in this thread.