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In the context of human sexual behavior, especially anal sex among gay men, a top is an insertive partner, or a person who prefers the insertive role. The counterpart is a bottom. These terms are also used frequently in some lesbian circles, and are gaining use among some opposite-sex couples too. For example, the act of pegging involves a female top and a male bottom."Top" can also be used as a transitive or intransitive verb meaning to sexually penetrate (someone).It is very commonplace for partners to change roles from one encounter to the next or to have both insertive and receptive sex, although many people have a preference between roles. A person who enjoys both topping and bottoming is called a switch or versatile. In Singapore, the term is flexible.The terms "dominant" or "active" have been used for "top," though these may be confusing as the sex in question needn't be part of a dominance relationship, nor is the bottom necessarily "inactive."By extension, the term "top" is also used in BDSM to mean a partner who applies stimulation to another, and who may or may not be dominant. See top (BDSM).In some American contexts, "tops" sometimes identified themselves by wearing a set of keys on the left side of the belt or a color-coded handkerchief in their left rear pockets. This practice, called flagging, began in the gay male subculture but has almost completely disappeared.Common slang terms in some gay communities include: pitcher (top), catcher (bottom) and switch hitter (versatile).
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Even so its not as gay as wearing pink t shirts.
Quote from: Cøp Killlå Iz Temporarily Offline on April 28, 2006, 04:55:07 PMEven so its not as gay as wearing pink t shirts.
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