Author Topic: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend? (Read 290 times)

ecrazy · « **on:** December 11, 2006, 10:41:08 PM »

like seriously.....I swear the internet pisses her off more than real life.....whats wrong with it? its not like im going out with them or talking to them like that....anyway, put your 2 Cents in....

Just Another Sunny day in California · « **Reply #1 on:** December 11, 2006, 11:33:45 PM »

haha...would you let her talk to guys online?

if so, then i don't think it's wrong but if you would get upset with her over that, then i think you should chill with chatting with girls online.

trust me i've had these battles in the beginning of my 1 1/2 year relationship with my girl, eventually you mature and forget about all that bullshit.

ecrazy · « **Reply #2 on:** December 11, 2006, 11:48:14 PM »

We've been going out for 3 years....i dont get mad at all, i trust her.....i dont know, with the people i hang out with she does not get upset at all, i can go out with girls all the time but when it comes to writing girls on myspace then she gets crazy....lol..i dont know, maybe its the myspace that brings evilness or something

swangin and bangin · « **Reply #3 on:** December 11, 2006, 11:53:15 PM »

what can happen.
Cybersex?
ahahahha
cybersex

Chief · « **Reply #4 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:47:13 AM »

maybe it's because of the stupid shit you type in myspace?

eg: asking the girls if theyre of legal age?

Don Jacob · « **Reply #5 on:** December 12, 2006, 03:30:39 AM »

it depends....is your girl not giving it up because of pillowpants?

Primo · « **Reply #6 on:** December 12, 2006, 06:03:48 AM »

One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.

No Compute · « **Reply #7 on:** December 12, 2006, 07:31:49 AM »

Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

nibs · « **Reply #8 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:10:21 PM »

(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...

7even · « **Reply #9 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:19:48 PM »

Quote from: nibs on December 12, 2006, 01:10:21 PM

(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...

the heart to act? I'd rather say lack of heart... I think it's fucked up that people, regardless of gender, think it's "cool" to cheat on their partner...
I'd be happy if I was in love with someone, I really don't need any "options"..

Knuckles · « **Reply #10 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:52:31 PM »

There is no point in talking girls unless you're trying to have sex with them. Why are you wasting you time with this?

Samoan Enforcer · « **Reply #11 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:54:14 PM »

its only ok if you guys have a healthy relationship. chances are since youre young and stupid its gonna lead to jealousy on her part and you cant explain it well enough to calm her down so it probably isnt a good idea. but if you two communicate very well and you really are just chattin it up, then it shouldnt be a problem

Mr. O · « **Reply #12 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:55:36 PM »

Quote from: The Great Communicator on December 12, 2006, 06:03:48 AM

One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.

shit..i know what ya mean..word up.

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #13 on:** December 12, 2006, 01:58:01 PM »

fuck ive stuggled with this with the now ex gf. She dint like it at all, even now were not going out some girl left a hockey related comment on my myspace and she freaked called it flirting...

My gf used to say emotional cheating is the same or as bad. She used to all say flirting is cheating but hey what can i do i have personality and charm.

She used to say that if a wack off thiking of a girl its cheating...

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #14 on:** December 12, 2006, 02:00:59 PM »

Quote from: pc8381 on December 12, 2006, 01:55:36 PM

Quote from: The Great Communicator on December 12, 2006, 06:03:48 AM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
shit..i know what ya mean..word up.

yep me and my gf finaly broke up beacse of this.
I would go out with a girl-friend like i swear ince in like 4 months if ever lol and she would gte pissed , start smoking or something cry ...I saw a fuckig hot girl i know , old freind who has kidney disease ...2 days later she says well why dont you go out with her maybe youd love if i had a disease...

Mr. O · « **Reply #15 on:** December 12, 2006, 02:07:48 PM »

Quote from: MTL's Most on December 12, 2006, 02:00:59 PM

Quote from: pc8381 on December 12, 2006, 01:55:36 PM
Quote from: The Great Communicator on December 12, 2006, 06:03:48 AM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
shit..i know what ya mean..word up.

yep me and my gf finaly broke up beacse of this.
I would go out with a girl-friend like i swear ince in like 4 months if ever lol and she would gte pissed , start smoking or something cry ...I saw a fuckig hot girl i know , old freind who has kidney disease ...2 days later she says well why dont you go out with her maybe youd love if i had a disease...

Dang...she's cold man.

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #16 on:** December 12, 2006, 02:14:04 PM »

and m girl was a realy sweet girl trust me, very caring the best girl in the world but her jealousy and insecurities realy pushed me away. Its very sad. I tell her and everyone this only if she owuld believe me. I relay did love her and respected her.

Mr. O · « **Reply #17 on:** December 12, 2006, 03:15:21 PM »

Quote from: MTL's Most on December 12, 2006, 02:14:04 PM

and m girl was a realy sweet girl trust me, very caring the best girl in the world but her jealousy and insecurities realy pushed me away. Its very sad. I tell her and everyone this only if she owuld believe me. I relay did love her and respected her.

she used to be, eh? U still talk to her?

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #18 on:** December 12, 2006, 03:29:12 PM »

well i try but its been hard, she fits on me every other day...

Primo · « **Reply #19 on:** December 12, 2006, 03:48:53 PM »

A relationship when you fight alot is the worst man. My boy is in one that they bicker and fight almost everyday.. I don't know how he can deal with it at all but he stills does for the oddest reason. I would rather not deal with that. I can deal with hooking up with random girls until I find a girl that wont be a dumb jealous hoe that bitches all the time.

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #20 on:** December 12, 2006, 04:14:13 PM »

my girl was great...everymans dream but her insecurities were realy hard on us.

Mr. O · « **Reply #21 on:** December 12, 2006, 04:28:34 PM »

Quote from: MTL's Most on December 12, 2006, 04:14:13 PM

my girl was great...everymans dream but her insecurities were realy hard on us.

take her to hypnotist...it works.

QuietTruth · « **Reply #22 on:** December 12, 2006, 05:32:08 PM »

I thinks it's just one word: Jealously.

MontrealCity's Most · « **Reply #23 on:** December 12, 2006, 05:43:41 PM »

Quote from: QuietTruth on December 12, 2006, 05:32:08 PM

I thinks it's just one word: Jealously.

jealousy is a motherfucka. Altho it depends on how you handle it. I prefer talking about it and not for hours and hours like my ex....5 minutes if fine

ecrazy · « **Reply #24 on:** December 12, 2006, 06:35:29 PM »

Quote from: 7even on December 12, 2006, 01:19:48 PM

Quote from: nibs on December 12, 2006, 01:10:21 PM
(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...

the heart to act? I'd rather say lack of heart... I think it's fucked up that people, regardless of gender, think it's "cool" to cheat on their partner...
I'd be happy if I was in love with someone, I really don't need any "options"..

I agree with u....Im just a friendly person, and most of the girls i talk to we run into from time to time, they are either old acquaintances or people im trying to network with and just chill with, either they like the same music or same style, you know?
She gets mad that i run into them at parties or at friends houses, and i tell her what goes on....I dont know, and with people i dont talk to online, she's all cool with, all the girls at school and work, she's cool with me talking to most of the time...I dont know, it seems that now i cant have any other girl friends other than her....

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Author Topic: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend? (Read 290 times)

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