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Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« on: January 22, 2007, 05:56:34 PM »
Im 21, I dont want to be really old and have a kid, yet i dont want to have a kid right now neither, somewhere late 20's early 30's
Marriage, i dont know about that one neither, right now ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost 4 years, we've known each other since we were in kindergarden, and we've lived across the street from each other that entire time too. I know i want to marry her, i dont know when to pop the question, set the date, etc. i want to do it as soon as im out of school and working (im working already, but established..get me?)

Anyway, things are flying at me at a million miles an hour, what are your thoughts
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2007, 06:03:31 PM »
^ Good shit.

I got a long way to go but I definitely definitely want a family and I can't wait to get one.

I have plans to have kids and I have plans to have a wife. Every MAN should want that. But what time? Prolly like mid late 20's.

Nice topic nigga. 8)
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2007, 06:04:54 PM »
I wouldn't even consider either until I got my career going and a stable income.

As far as marraige goes, I won't even consider it unless it's with a woman I can't live without. I honestly haven't met one like that at this point. I definitely don't wanna be one of those guys who rush into a marraige with some woman and then 5 years later they're miserable.

I really wanna have kids one day too, but I'm not gonna consider it unless I find the right woman. Only because I believe children need a stable household with both the mother and the father in the house.

So yeah, I gotta put some work in. I'm in no rush though. I'm gonna enjoy my 20's. I gotta get being a crazy young muthafucka out of my system first.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2007, 06:14:23 PM »
^ I feel that.
children need a stable household with both the mother and the father in the house.
Definitely.

The most impotant thang to a man should be a wife, a kid and a career.

I gots a while though before any of that happens. 8)

I wanna see some MEN coming up out the hood now. Let's start some examples ya'll. Ya feel me? 8)
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2007, 06:33:25 PM »
yeah thats cool, it should be done

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #5 on: January 22, 2007, 06:35:37 PM »
No kids, marriage is a maybe but not something that is absolutely essential for me.

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #6 on: January 22, 2007, 06:40:31 PM »
i got married when I was 23 (im 26 now), and kids will probably come along in the next 3-4 years. i have a good job & a great stable income, but want to save a bit of $ before having kids, since they are expensive
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #7 on: January 22, 2007, 06:43:23 PM »
yeah they are bout 500 dollars each, 300 on sale

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #8 on: January 22, 2007, 08:49:07 PM »
yeah they are bout 500 dollars each, 300 on sale

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #9 on: January 23, 2007, 02:29:35 AM »
if i ever get married/have kids i want it to happen before i turn 30.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #10 on: January 23, 2007, 03:22:22 AM »
^^dont you think that a little too old to be having kids though as well? u dont want to be in your late 40's/50's when your kid is a teenager, at least i dont.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #11 on: January 23, 2007, 07:07:17 AM »
Too old? Hell no. I'm 20 now and it'll take me years before I've graduated and found me a steady job. My lady is in one of those periods right now where she's absolutely fiending for a baby, but she too knows the timing isn't right. I just gotta make sure she takes her pill daily...
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #12 on: January 23, 2007, 09:44:21 AM »
^^dont you think that a little too old to be having kids though as well? u dont want to be in your late 40's/50's when your kid is a teenager, at least i dont.

i dont have much choice, i wont graduate until i'm 27/28.

somewhere late 20's early 30's

and anyway, times are changing, i believe i will have a diferent mind frame to my parents when i am 40/50. back in the day a 20 year old was the equivelant of a 28 year old this day in age. they grew up alot quicker, they had no choice.

and i rather have my kids later rather than be grounded by kids in my youth.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #13 on: January 23, 2007, 01:29:03 PM »
and anyway, times are changing, i believe i will have a diferent mind frame to my parents when i am 40/50. back in the day a 20 year old was the equivelant of a 28 year old this day in age. they grew up alot quicker, they had no choice.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #14 on: January 23, 2007, 01:39:35 PM »
There's no rush for me to get married and have kids before I hit 30. We're living longer than ever now.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #15 on: January 23, 2007, 02:27:39 PM »
^exactly, unless it's a life long dream, whats the point in doing it so early?
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2007, 02:56:26 PM »
^^ If it ain't a life long dream, why bother with it at all?
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #17 on: January 23, 2007, 05:24:34 PM »
e-crazy, mexicans dont get married, and mexicans have kids when they're 14, so you better hurry up before you lose your wetback window.   8)
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #18 on: January 24, 2007, 03:07:37 AM »
I'll get married when I know I've met the right girl, no quick decisions

as for kids, if I had a wife that I wanted raising kids, I'd have at most 2

but if no kids I wouldnt care all that much, since the world is pretty fucked up and keeping 2 less people off earth is a good idea
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #19 on: January 24, 2007, 03:26:46 AM »
only reason i brought this up is because i was thinking about a friend of mine who's dad was in his 50's and his mom was 42 when they had him. now he's 20 and they are all old and that doesnt look like a fun environment to be raising a kid around too, they are basically senior citizens when he was a teen.
I always wanted to adopt kids, so this aint all about getting my girl knocked up right now, she wants to adopt as well, but when we are ready.
All in due time though, but damn, time is flying faster than ever and soon enough ill be at that time to evaluate this more seriously.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #20 on: January 24, 2007, 04:04:12 AM »
^^ If it ain't a life long dream, why bother with it at all?

what i mean is a family isn't my goal right now, my goal is to establish myself.

so unless you're 18 and want to do nothing but raise a fam, i dont see the point doing it so young.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #21 on: January 24, 2007, 06:52:20 AM »
I dont want to have kids, they can be such a pain in the ass. Most young people who adore kids only know their good sides.. like when they play with them and the kids are so cute and stuff. I'm a six-time uncle and trust I do fucking know kids. And I don't want kids.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #22 on: January 24, 2007, 06:59:39 AM »
I want 3 kids. And I wanna be a teacher. (That ain't gonna happen though).



And if I have a lil girl, I pray she's a tomboy. Who's got a sport talent.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #23 on: January 24, 2007, 02:46:22 PM »
i say when i'm 25 i believe i should be able to provide for a wife and a family.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #24 on: January 24, 2007, 04:43:36 PM »
i wanna get married around 25
by then i should have a good job, be independet/more responsible and somewhat financially stable

i'd want my first kid around 29; second kid around 34 or 35
hopefully a boy first, then a girl
      
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