Author Topic: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?  (Read 549 times)

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #15 on: January 23, 2007, 01:27:39 PM »
^exactly, unless it's a life long dream, whats the point in doing it so early?
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2007, 01:56:26 PM »
^^ If it ain't a life long dream, why bother with it at all?
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #17 on: January 23, 2007, 04:24:34 PM »
e-crazy, mexicans dont get married, and mexicans have kids when they're 14, so you better hurry up before you lose your wetback window.   8)
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #18 on: January 24, 2007, 02:07:37 AM »
I'll get married when I know I've met the right girl, no quick decisions

as for kids, if I had a wife that I wanted raising kids, I'd have at most 2

but if no kids I wouldnt care all that much, since the world is pretty fucked up and keeping 2 less people off earth is a good idea
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #19 on: January 24, 2007, 02:26:46 AM »
only reason i brought this up is because i was thinking about a friend of mine who's dad was in his 50's and his mom was 42 when they had him. now he's 20 and they are all old and that doesnt look like a fun environment to be raising a kid around too, they are basically senior citizens when he was a teen.
I always wanted to adopt kids, so this aint all about getting my girl knocked up right now, she wants to adopt as well, but when we are ready.
All in due time though, but damn, time is flying faster than ever and soon enough ill be at that time to evaluate this more seriously.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #20 on: January 24, 2007, 03:04:12 AM »
^^ If it ain't a life long dream, why bother with it at all?

what i mean is a family isn't my goal right now, my goal is to establish myself.

so unless you're 18 and want to do nothing but raise a fam, i dont see the point doing it so young.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #21 on: January 24, 2007, 05:52:20 AM »
I dont want to have kids, they can be such a pain in the ass. Most young people who adore kids only know their good sides.. like when they play with them and the kids are so cute and stuff. I'm a six-time uncle and trust I do fucking know kids. And I don't want kids.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #22 on: January 24, 2007, 05:59:39 AM »
I want 3 kids. And I wanna be a teacher. (That ain't gonna happen though).



And if I have a lil girl, I pray she's a tomboy. Who's got a sport talent.
 

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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #23 on: January 24, 2007, 01:46:22 PM »
i say when i'm 25 i believe i should be able to provide for a wife and a family.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #24 on: January 24, 2007, 03:43:36 PM »
i wanna get married around 25
by then i should have a good job, be independet/more responsible and somewhat financially stable

i'd want my first kid around 29; second kid around 34 or 35
hopefully a boy first, then a girl
      
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #25 on: January 24, 2007, 03:58:36 PM »
probably 30 year old.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #26 on: January 24, 2007, 06:43:46 PM »
hopefully a boy first, then a girl
That's what I'm hoping for too. If I have a girl first, I'm hiring her a bodyguard.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #27 on: January 24, 2007, 07:08:13 PM »
I'm not sure that I'll have kids.  If I do, I don't see it happening for another 10 years.  Luckily, I know that I'm pretty selfish right now.  I have zero interest in being a father figure at this stage in my life.  I'm 26, but I'm coming up in my career and I'm gonna play my ass off.  Making $80k w/o kids is like making $200k w/ kids.  I like the freedom of being able to do what I want when I want, without asking permission or clearing it with anybody else. 

And they say that 30 is the new 20 and I think there's some real validity to that.  My parents popped out kids in their early 20's, but thats what was expected in their day.  I don't think you should get married and have kids just because it's what everybody else does.  I know some people that do that because they thought it was the thing to do, and are miserable now.
 

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« Reply #28 on: January 24, 2007, 11:36:19 PM »
I know some people that do that because they thought it was the thing to do, and are miserable now.
That's why so many people grew up all fucked up.
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Re: Parenting - When do you want to have kids, get married?
« Reply #29 on: January 25, 2007, 05:34:29 AM »
And they say that 30 is the new 20

i'd say we were all born in the best generation of recent history, and we got alot more time and freedom on our hands, so i goto agree 30 is the new 20 and i'm lovin it!  8)