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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #25 on: February 28, 2007, 05:55:26 PM »
Girl with kids = they FUCK  8) 8) 8)
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #26 on: February 28, 2007, 06:34:11 PM »
Wow, I haven't posted here in what seems to be years but sometimes I browse and see whats up. I am so busy in my life now but this post just grabbed my attention, why??????

Because I was in your situation and went for it. I speak to you from experience.

I met my girl almost 3 years ago. I met her at school. I found out she had a little daughter 3yrs. old at the time. Of course we started out as friends and I never saw anything serious with her but then things changed drastically. I mean I had always avoided girls with kids and everyone had always told me to do the same but it was so different with her. We clicked on another level immediately and of course we became so close and the "L" word quickly followed.

My girl is no hoodrat or hoochie, she is a wonderful girl, wifey material. She just met the wrong guy first before me ;D ;D ;D. Here are a couple things you have to consider or look forward too if you choose to pursue anything serious with her..

You have to be really mature about the situation since it involves a child(you are because you already are thinking about not hurting her or the child, I give you major props for that). I was 25 when I met my girl and she was 23.

 Its great that shes not a hoodrat and has respect for herself. As you can see from some of the immature comments on this thread
Girl with kids = they FUCK  8) 8) 8)
the stereotype about girls with kids is that they are easy and hoes.In fact most guys I know just pursue them for that reason. I mean some can be but they are others like my girl who ended up with the wrong person. You really have to get to know her before making any type of move.

Is she a good mother??? If she is then her child will always come first no matter what. Are you prepared to understand and accept that. Never try to come in between them especially if she loves her son. You will find yourself alone no doubt. No good mother will ever choose a man over her own child believe me. My girl is a wonderful mother and I have never ever tried to come in between her and her daughter. If I did I would be single right now. From what I read she is a good mother since she doesnt want you to be involved with her son right now. I didnt meet my girls daughter until 1 year into our relationship can you believe that??? Well its because she has to be real careful about who she brings around her child. If the day comes that she wants you to have something to do with the child then that definitely means she thinks seriously of you.

Depending on her past experience with men be ready for some trials and tribulations. My girl had a terrible first relationship and lost trust and hope in guys but then she met me. I have now changed her mind but at first it was so so so hard. Move slowly its the best way.

Do you like children??? Well you better since you might be a stepdad in the future. Ever since I met my girl I always went out of my way to buy her little daughter birthday and Christmas gifts. Believe me it shows alot to her.

Honestly there is so much more but I guess you have to experience it yourself. I hope I havent pushed you away from anything serious with this girl but you know she could be the one. I just bought an engagement ring for my girl so that tells you how serious Iam in my relationship. Think about it seriously before you go ahead with any decision just know that it aint easy and it takes so much patience and maturity. One advantage you do have is you get to see how good of a mother she is. That gives you so much incentive to see if one day you marry her how she will treat your child.

Good Luck



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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #27 on: February 28, 2007, 06:45:04 PM »
Just don't blame the kid for a reason to not get wit a girl? Ya feel me? It ain't their fault. I can't image the decision ya'll have to go thru when deciding whether this is a good idea or not, but I wish ya'll luck man.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #28 on: February 28, 2007, 07:47:24 PM »
Wow, I haven't posted here in what seems to be years but sometimes I browse and see whats up. I am so busy in my life now but this post just grabbed my attention, why??????

Because I was in your situation and went for it. I speak to you from experience.

I met my girl almost 3 years ago. I met her at school. I found out she had a little daughter 3yrs. old at the time. Of course we started out as friends and I never saw anything serious with her but then things changed drastically. I mean I had always avoided girls with kids and everyone had always told me to do the same but it was so different with her. We clicked on another level immediately and of course we became so close and the "L" word quickly followed.

My girl is no hoodrat or hoochie, she is a wonderful girl, wifey material. She just met the wrong guy first before me ;D ;D ;D. Here are a couple things you have to consider or look forward too if you choose to pursue anything serious with her..

You have to be really mature about the situation since it involves a child(you are because you already are thinking about not hurting her or the child, I give you major props for that). I was 25 when I met my girl and she was 23.

 Its great that shes not a hoodrat and has respect for herself. As you can see from some of the immature comments on this thread
Girl with kids = they FUCK  8) 8) 8)
the stereotype about girls with kids is that they are easy and hoes.In fact most guys I know just pursue them for that reason. I mean some can be but they are others like my girl who ended up with the wrong person. You really have to get to know her before making any type of move.

Is she a good mother??? If she is then her child will always come first no matter what. Are you prepared to understand and accept that. Never try to come in between them especially if she loves her son. You will find yourself alone no doubt. No good mother will ever choose a man over her own child believe me. My girl is a wonderful mother and I have never ever tried to come in between her and her daughter. If I did I would be single right now. From what I read she is a good mother since she doesnt want you to be involved with her son right now. I didnt meet my girls daughter until 1 year into our relationship can you believe that??? Well its because she has to be real careful about who she brings around her child. If the day comes that she wants you to have something to do with the child then that definitely means she thinks seriously of you.

Depending on her past experience with men be ready for some trials and tribulations. My girl had a terrible first relationship and lost trust and hope in guys but then she met me. I have now changed her mind but at first it was so so so hard. Move slowly its the best way.

Do you like children??? Well you better since you might be a stepdad in the future. Ever since I met my girl I always went out of my way to buy her little daughter birthday and Christmas gifts. Believe me it shows alot to her.

Honestly there is so much more but I guess you have to experience it yourself. I hope I havent pushed you away from anything serious with this girl but you know she could be the one. I just bought an engagement ring for my girl so that tells you how serious Iam in my relationship. Think about it seriously before you go ahead with any decision just know that it aint easy and it takes so much patience and maturity. One advantage you do have is you get to see how good of a mother she is. That gives you so much incentive to see if one day you marry her how she will treat your child.

Good Luck




Thanks for the insight man. That helped me put a lot fo things into perspective. I believe she's a good mother, but of course I gotta see how she interacts with her son more. I know that today she had to take work off because he had a fever and couldn't go to school. I know that's gotta be rough for her since missing work = not getting paid for the day.

I like kids. I basically grew up raisig my brother and sister while my parents were working so I'm used to them. I understand that she's gonna put the kid first. I wouldn't respect a woman that didn't do that. In a way that sucks, but I understand completely.

I'm happy for you and your situation, man. Good luck with your girl. I hope everything works out for the best.

 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #29 on: February 28, 2007, 08:16:24 PM »
as long as the kid doesn't ask if your his dad its all good
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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #30 on: February 28, 2007, 09:10:49 PM »
depending on circumstance...yes

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #31 on: March 01, 2007, 02:08:32 AM »
plain and simple... no. I've done it and would not recommend it. too much drama. you probably don't need that in your life, I didn't.
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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #32 on: March 01, 2007, 05:18:22 AM »
Wow, I haven't posted here in what seems to be years but sometimes I browse and see whats up. I am so busy in my life now but this post just grabbed my attention, why??????


her.

Honestly there is so much more but I guess you have to experience it yourself. I hope I havent pushed you away from anything serious with this girl but you know she could be the one. I just bought an engagement ring for my girl
Good Luck








congrats on the engagement must be cool having someone you wanna spend your life with

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #33 on: March 01, 2007, 05:30:31 AM »
fuck what everyone else says


stick your dick in your eardrum and fuck what ya heard, to quote ras kass

for real tho, i wouldnt know what i do in that situation, i mean i never been in that before, but if you really care for her you should take her how she is, i think you should just continue it and see what happens
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #34 on: March 01, 2007, 05:33:36 AM »
fuck what everyone else says


stick your dick in your eardrum and fuck what ya heard, to quote ras kass


also big syke kind of copied that line with stick a dick in you ear nigga and fuck what you heard

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #35 on: March 01, 2007, 06:57:31 AM »
xzibit twisted it the best..

"with a dick in your ear, you still couldnt fuck with my sound"

 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #36 on: March 02, 2007, 01:52:20 AM »
I just can't stay away from her even if I wanted to. Plus, I'm looking at the positives of this whole situation. I'm about to become a very busy man in the future since I'm preparing for my mCAT, taking classes, and beginning an internship (which may cut into my dubcc time  :'( ) so it's good to have a girl that's busy. Other girls I've been with are too clingy and think you're some kinda pet and I can't have that shit.

The situation might work out for the best.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #37 on: March 02, 2007, 02:38:51 AM »
well good luck with that in that case  8)
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #38 on: March 02, 2007, 02:56:04 PM »
I just can't stay away from her even if I wanted to. Plus, I'm looking at the positives of this whole situation. I'm about to become a very busy man in the future since I'm preparing for my mCAT, taking classes, and beginning an internship (which may cut into my dubcc time  :'( ) so it's good to have a girl that's busy. Other girls I've been with are too clingy and think you're some kinda pet and I can't have that shit.

The situation might work out for the best.


Watch "The Secret"...You most likely wont be making threads like these.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #39 on: March 02, 2007, 03:30:57 PM »
remember elior, youre supposed to think positively, not about not making threads like this, smarten up
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #40 on: March 02, 2007, 04:18:44 PM »
I just can't stay away from her even if I wanted to. Plus, I'm looking at the positives of this whole situation. I'm about to become a very busy man in the future since I'm preparing for my mCAT, taking classes, and beginning an internship (which may cut into my dubcc time  :'( ) so it's good to have a girl that's busy. Other girls I've been with are too clingy and think you're some kinda pet and I can't have that shit.

The situation might work out for the best.


Watch "The Secret"...You most likely wont be making threads like these.
Never heard of it.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #41 on: March 02, 2007, 04:21:06 PM »
remember elior, youre supposed to think positively, not about not making threads like this, smarten up


What the hell are you talking about? Does coming off as a jealous hater appeal to you, or is that part of being a hick? "The Secret" is not about thinking positively, it's about understanding the mind and being able to master it...If you weren't busy riding nuts, you'd probably know this.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #42 on: March 02, 2007, 04:21:26 PM »
I just can't stay away from her even if I wanted to. Plus, I'm looking at the positives of this whole situation. I'm about to become a very busy man in the future since I'm preparing for my mCAT, taking classes, and beginning an internship (which may cut into my dubcc time  :'( ) so it's good to have a girl that's busy. Other girls I've been with are too clingy and think you're some kinda pet and I can't have that shit.

The situation might work out for the best.


Watch "The Secret"...You most likely wont be making threads like these.
Never heard of it.


Check it out, homie...It can really help.

http://www.dubcnn.com/connect/index.php?topic=137003.0
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #43 on: March 02, 2007, 04:28:08 PM »
Looks interesting. I'll check it out.
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #44 on: March 02, 2007, 04:38:44 PM »
^it's really a great book, too bad it's being plugged on dubcc by the angriest self hating prick in here
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #45 on: March 02, 2007, 06:02:10 PM »
^^If you watched the movie or read the book then you clearly failed. Stop ruining threads with your nutriding. Think positive. :D
 

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Re: Would you date a girl with a kid?
« Reply #46 on: March 02, 2007, 07:33:03 PM »
^ Well I got it nigga ;) and I can't figure out how to play it on my computer. What do I need?