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Dear Willie D:

I loaned my cousin $500 more than six months ago. She promised to pay me back when she got paid, but to this day I have yet to see one red cent.

The puzzling thing is that we were so close until this incident happened. While growing up we did everything together: sleepovers, birthday parties, gymnastics, dance, you name it.

Once we became adults the pattern continued with girls night out, shopping trips and get-togethers. I am also the godmother to her daughter.

It makes me sick to my stomach that I am in this position fighting with someone who I considered to be a best friend and sister. My cousin knows that I'm merely getting by with living expenses and really didn't have the money to give in the first place.

I have asked her several times for my money back. At first she gave me excuses like, "Oh I'll pay you next week. I had to use the money for car repairs." Then she started being evasive by not returning my calls. The other day I went over to her house to confront her and we got into a big altercation.

I still love my cousin but I want my money back. Do you know of a way I can get her to repay me and salvage our friendship?

Sincerely,
Burned By a Relative


Dear Burned By a Relative,

You stand a better chance seeing the Pope at a Geto Boys concert doing the Dougie than you do getting your scratch back. There are three things in life you should never do: cheer for the visiting team, rat out a friend and loan money to relatives. Like you, I learned the latter the hard way. I don't care if it's your mama, make sure she signs a promissory note.

Since your cousin is dodging you, send her a certified letter in the mail with a date for her to start paying you installments on the loan. Let her know if she doesn't agree to the terms or miss a payment you will drag her butt into a small claims court. On the other hand, if your cousin is willing to jeopardize a lifelong friendship over a few hundred dollars, maybe the loan was a blessing in disguise and that's what it took to expose who she truly is: an ungrateful user. If that's the case, it only cost you $500 to get rid of her.

Dear Willie D:

I really need your help. Right after my future husband and I announced we were tying the knot, one of the first questions every female in my life wanted to know was, "Who will be the matron of honor?" I have a few close friends in my circle but none have been closer longer than my childhood friend. So when I told my newest close friend, she all of a sudden became aloof and short with me.

I don't know what to think of my friend's about-face. I mean dang, I value our friendship but I've had pimples last longer than she's been around. I'm starting to get anxiety over all of this mess. How can I further avoid hurting her feelings and damaging our friendship?

Sincerely,
Oblivious Bride


Dear Oblivious Bride,
Call her up and say, "Hey, I hope you're not upset about not being my matron of honor. It doesn't mean that I value your friendship any less. This is something that was in place before I ever met you. If you're up to it I would be honored if you were one of my bridesmaid or was involved in planning everything." If she can't respect that, flip out and tell her, "Look you self-absorbed, immature wench, my childhood friend will be the matron of honor at my wedding. If you don't like it, screw you!"

Dear Willie D:

I'm an average guy getting by with an average salary. I don't smoke or do drugs. I might sip on a little alcohol from time to time but other than that I don't have any vices except for the fact that I'm crazy in love with a stripper. Yes I met her at her place of work. She danced for me and I emptied my wallet like a sucker. I was so broke when I left the club that I couldn't pay my car note. After all of that I was right back at the strip club the following week on payday with her soft, tender, perfectly formed bottom on my lap.
I became a regular at the club to the point where we developed a friendship. She even started giving me free dances. We talked a lot about family and life. She told me about how she had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and her boyfriend had kicked her out. Since I lived alone and had a two-bedroom apartment I invited her to live with me -- no strings attached -- until she saved up some money for her own place.

Everything was great the first few weeks and then it happened. One night she came home about 3 o'clock in the morning and woke me up saying she was horny. I was more than eager to oblige her. We had intense sex for about 45-minutes and went straight to sleep. The next day I tried to have sex with her and she acted like nothing ever happened the night before. I'm telling you that girl has my head spinning to the point I don't know if I'm coming or going.

I have told her how I feel about her but she has indicated her feelings aren't mutual. Lately I've been getting extremely jealous of her being around other men and I've asked her to quit dancing. She is a very smart girl and could probably do anything she desired but she doesn't want to stop stripping. I feel that she's selling herself short both by stripping and not being with me. How do I get her to see things my way?

Sincerely,
Stripper Lover


Dear Stripper Lover,
You committed the cardinal sin of tricking: you fell in love. I shouldn't be giving up the game like this but what the hell; men need to start looking out for each other. You have an uphill battle to win your stripper friend over because of the conditions under which you met.

When she first laid eyes on you she didn't say to herself, "Oh my, he looks like a nice God-fearing, dignified gentlemen I could settle down with." Her thoughts were more likely along the lines of, "Let me go over here and see what this trick working with. I got bills to pay."

You said that you invited your friend to stay with you "no strings attached." I beg to differ. A G-string was attached, and your invitation was under the pretense that her moving into your home would afford you a better opportunity to hook up with her. Don't get thrown off by the fact she gave you some one time. She was in heat, you were there, and the two of you had sex. It was a matter of convenience. She would have given it to a department store mannequin that night.

I hate to break it to you, buddy, but even if you were to hit the jackpot and enter into a monogamous relationship with her, she will always think of you as a trick. If you had met her at the grocery store she would think of you as a shopper. But you were her customer at a strip club. Women don't respect tricks; they'll kick it with them and spend their money, but they don't respect them. You're driving on a two-way street; players are going one way and tricks are going the other. You're a trick; stay in your lane.

Dear Willie D:

My daughter had a crush on a young man I work with and I kept it to myself. Later he asked her out and it was awkward, but again I kept my thoughts to myself. He then transferred away and just cut off all contact with her.

It hurt her but she got over it and went away to college, etc. I'm still friends with this person via social media so I can tell when he's dating someone or not. When he's not he often contacts my daughter and they appear to rekindle things, then poof he's gone again.

If this bothers her she doesn't show it, but it bugs the crap out of me. She is far and above the better person. And what makes him think he can treat anyone like this, much less my child? I am stuck on a tightrope not wanting to invade my daughter's privacy by bringing this mess to work but I also want to kick this jerk's ass. What is your advice?

Sincerely,
Tightrope


Dear Tightrope,
I know you think your friend isn't good enough for your daughter. But the truth is he's perfectly up to standards; her standards, not yours. One of my good friends used to date the most trifling women he could dig up. I used to tell him all the time, you can do much better. You're smart, charismatic, articulate and a hard worker. For years my words fell on deaf ears, then bam!
Out of nowhere, when I least expected it, he woke up a new man. He called me to say he was writing a book and had started dating a classy woman. I asked him what happened and he said, he just got tired of living the way he was living.

I like your passion, but unless your daughter's life is in danger I suggest you stay out of her relationship. Confronting her part-time lover will only exacerbate the situation and both she and the police will see you as the villain, not him. It sucks to see your loved one involved with someone you think isn't worthy of her, but there's nothing you can do but wait it out.

To paraphrase Henry Cloud, people will change when the pain of the same becomes greater than the pain of the change. Apparently your daughter hasn't experienced enough pain.

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the perez hilton of dubcc :D

american salon hoodrat gossip on lock. 


Sounded like some avant garde ghetto haiku.
I tip my hat to you Mr.Poet.
 

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 Did D officially retire from rap? didn't he try a boxing career?

 Anyways, i couldn't be bothered reading it all but i read that first one and Willie-D is spot on! I made the mistake of doing someone a massive favor and i got burnt and it makes me feel like the biggest IDIOT ever.
 One of my very best friends whom i had know for a rather long time, like at least 10 years, since early teens so more like 15, good mates, got along really well, hung out a fair bit, i knew his girlfriend, his mother, met his grand mother,  etc.
 Anyway he was the sort of dude that didn't have many ppl that he would consider one of his best friends, or would let around his grandmas place, etc. He always showed alot of gratitude for any favor i ever did him, appreciation and gratitude and it was favor for favor, took turns shouting each other, whatever. Really thought that he'd have my back and help me out if needed.
 Well one day i get a call from his girlfriend. shes all doom and gloom giving a major sob story and asks me for an extremely big favor. I'll get to the point. Apparently she handled the money and fucked up and they was in all this debt and i got the whole story about my mates car that he loved could get repossessed, they'd have to sell the house, etc.
 Now apparently my mate never even knew and this favor was directly from my mates girlfriend and his mum , i spoke with them, not my mate.
 I was worried because of their employment status and they had moved pretty far and at times wouldn't have the internet or phone so i was wary.
 Well i was promised this and that and assured and basically my kindness and trust was my weakness.
 I transferred a fair amount of money to pay off a big debt for them and i was shown so much fucking gratitude.
 Well it didn't take long for the weekly payments to become fortnightly, or part payments, or monthly, periods of no contact, etc.
 It got to a point where i couldn't even contact them and was using my mates mum as the messenger....
 I got about two thirds of my money back and then that was that. The contact stopped. So i lost one of my best mates(even though he apparently never even knew...) and over $1500.

 So, i doubt many could be fucked reading all of that but the morale of the story is, do not lend money to friends, by that i mean any sort of real money UNLESS you hang out very regularly, u know where they live and they live close by AND very importantly that they have a steady fucking job! oh how obvious that all is to me now.
 And as bad as it may sound, yep, indeed, get papers written up by a lawyer and make them and witnesses sigh the shit.

 I lost a friend, and my trust is permanently damaged. I really don't like people now and i don't trust ANYONE.

 
 
 
 
 

 
 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though
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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though
 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though

no he's not he jus left germany n azerbaijan for his daughters graduation and gb is on tour all next month start in h-town on the 1st ends in new york on the 30th...did that time quick

 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though

no he's not he jus left germany n azerbaijan for his daughters graduation and gb is on tour all next month start in h-town on the 1st ends in new york on the 30th...did that time quick



yeah he been out for a long time I think... if u been following D on twitter he's been active, and if you followed the Trayvon Martin story last year he shot a video with Scarface I think and organized gatherings etc.
 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though

no he's not he jus left germany n azerbaijan for his daughters graduation and gb is on tour all next month start in h-town on the 1st ends in new york on the 30th...did that time quick





yeah he been out for a long time I think... if u been following D on twitter he's been active, and if you followed the Trayvon Martin story last year he shot a video with Scarface I think and organized gatherings etc.

2yrs to be exact

yeah he did a yr and a day n had to pay the $194k he made to the victims.;..he was facin 20yrs ...n got lucky ..got his passport back and everything...



 

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Keep schooling the little gossip girls.

cant blame em..lol alot of em are stuck in a time warp...

somethin bad happen to some cats...they hold on to it..
 

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as for willie d, never trust a thief

yeah, even though I've always liked Willie D., my first thought upon seing this was that he was not the fittest person to give ppl advice and moral lessons.
 

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Last time I heard Willie D on wax was UGK's double album and he killed it. Hope he drops more rhymes he's tighter than a bowl of grits.
 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though

no he's not he jus left germany n azerbaijan for his daughters graduation and gb is on tour all next month start in h-town on the 1st ends in new york on the 30th...did that time quick





yeah he been out for a long time I think... if u been following D on twitter he's been active, and if you followed the Trayvon Martin story last year he shot a video with Scarface I think and organized gatherings etc.

2yrs to be exact

yeah he did a yr and a day n had to pay the $194k he made to the victims.;..he was facin 20yrs ...n got lucky ..got his passport back and everything...





yeah last i heard he was doing 20 years or something, glad to know he's out and back on tour with the Geto Boys
The West is Back

 

bouli77

Last time I heard Willie D on wax was UGK's double album and he killed it. Hope he drops more rhymes he's tighter than a bowl of grits.

yeah he killed that verse, that whole album is one of my favorite recent albums, "anybody typing that much can't be a danger, catch you in person, bitch i'll break yo fingers" ;D he dropped a song last year though "with my hood on" i think, about the trayvon martin controversy. wasn't released on wax though (i think)
 

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Willie D is in prison for fraud... good read though

no he's not he jus left germany n azerbaijan for his daughters graduation and gb is on tour all next month start in h-town on the 1st ends in new york on the 30th...did that time quick





yeah he been out for a long time I think... if u been following D on twitter he's been active, and if you followed the Trayvon Martin story last year he shot a video with Scarface I think and organized gatherings etc.

2yrs to be exact

yeah he did a yr and a day n had to pay the $194k he made to the victims.;..he was facin 20yrs ...n got lucky ..got his passport back and everything...





yeah last i heard he was doing 20 years or something, glad to know he's out and back on tour with the Geto Boys

that was the maximum...he couldve done....but he got a deal..to pay it all back...n got supervision for 3yrs...january  of this yr..he retained all passports n freedom n to come n go as he pleases...