Deadbeat dad has 22 kids with 14 women

[M Dogg™]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

Mdogg - this is reality, and you know it.  If it hurts, i understand.  But dont act like it aint true.  Read that article linked above my post, youre educated right?  This should be easy to understand.

Brian - You dont even know your own religion.  “May Allah’s mercy be upon that person who offers a gift to me by pointing out my own mistakes and shortcomings.” - Jafar al Sadiq.  You should grow some humbleness, my son.

Right, because this is how everyone I know is. If you think this is true, you ain't never knew Mexicans or blacks. For real, only people who only see minorities on Maury think this is how everyone is.

look at the article posted above.  they fabricated that info mdogg or what?

One person. LOL

All studies show that the trend of black dead beat dads is HIGHLY overrated. We are in the middle of generational change. So well there was some truth to Maury and that talk show 20-30 years ago, things are changing in the community.

Despite 56% of African-American households being headed by single mothers, the Philadelphia Inquirer recently reported on research that found that "African American fathers, more than any other group, are more likely to maintain lasting relationships with their children when they don't live with them."

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/study-there-are-fewer-deadbeat-dads-2073459.html

62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support. However, of that number, three-fourths of them simply do not want child support, have not asked for it, have accepted other financial arrangements instead of child support, or the father does not have the money. Only 11% of those custodial mothers who do not receive child support, is because of "deadbeat dads".

http://deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.282

http://www.hoopsvibe.com/nba-news-and-rumors/articles/170423-scott-skiles-done-in-milwaukee
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/bristol-palin-levi-johnston-owes-thousands-child-support-article-1.1057899
http://www.tmz.com/2011/08/04/val-kilmer-ex-wife-joanne-whalley-divorced-lien-child-support-deadbeat-dad-payments-new-mexico/
http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-07/francois-henri-pinault-the-richest-douchiest-deadbeat-dad-ever/
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/08/jon-gosselin-broke-rock-bottom-rent/
http://www.tmz.com/2012/12/15/edward-furlong-custody-cocaine/
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/britney-spears-joins-ex-husband-kevin-federline-and-his-girlfriend-victoria-prince-at-sons-soccer-game-pictures-201353

dead beat dads know no race.

[Russell Bell]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

Mdogg - this is reality, and you know it.  If it hurts, i understand.  But dont act like it aint true.  Read that article linked above my post, youre educated right?  This should be easy to understand.

Brian - You dont even know your own religion.  “May Allah’s mercy be upon that person who offers a gift to me by pointing out my own mistakes and shortcomings.” - Jafar al Sadiq.  You should grow some humbleness, my son.

Right, because this is how everyone I know is. If you think this is true, you ain't never knew Mexicans or blacks. For real, only people who only see minorities on Maury think this is how everyone is.

look at the article posted above.  they fabricated that info mdogg or what?

One person. LOL

All studies show that the trend of black dead beat dads is HIGHLY overrated. We are in the middle of generational change. So well there was some truth to Maury and that talk show 20-30 years ago, things are changing in the community.

Despite 56% of African-American households being headed by single mothers, the Philadelphia Inquirer recently reported on research that found that "African American fathers, more than any other group, are more likely to maintain lasting relationships with their children when they don't live with them."

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/study-there-are-fewer-deadbeat-dads-2073459.html

62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support. However, of that number, three-fourths of them simply do not want child support, have not asked for it, have accepted other financial arrangements instead of child support, or the father does not have the money. Only 11% of those custodial mothers who do not receive child support, is because of "deadbeat dads".

http://deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.282

http://www.hoopsvibe.com/nba-news-and-rumors/articles/170423-scott-skiles-done-in-milwaukee
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/bristol-palin-levi-johnston-owes-thousands-child-support-article-1.1057899
http://www.tmz.com/2011/08/04/val-kilmer-ex-wife-joanne-whalley-divorced-lien-child-support-deadbeat-dad-payments-new-mexico/
http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-07/francois-henri-pinault-the-richest-douchiest-deadbeat-dad-ever/
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/08/jon-gosselin-broke-rock-bottom-rent/
http://www.tmz.com/2012/12/15/edward-furlong-custody-cocaine/
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/britney-spears-joins-ex-husband-kevin-federline-and-his-girlfriend-victoria-prince-at-sons-soccer-game-pictures-201353

dead beat dads know no race.

 

I was talking about HAVING A SHIT TON OF KIDS ESPECIALLY ONES U CANT PAY FOR, not necessarily without a dad.   

[M Dogg™]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

Mdogg - this is reality, and you know it.  If it hurts, i understand.  But dont act like it aint true.  Read that article linked above my post, youre educated right?  This should be easy to understand.

Brian - You dont even know your own religion.  “May Allah’s mercy be upon that person who offers a gift to me by pointing out my own mistakes and shortcomings.” - Jafar al Sadiq.  You should grow some humbleness, my son.

Right, because this is how everyone I know is. If you think this is true, you ain't never knew Mexicans or blacks. For real, only people who only see minorities on Maury think this is how everyone is.

look at the article posted above.  they fabricated that info mdogg or what?

One person. LOL

All studies show that the trend of black dead beat dads is HIGHLY overrated. We are in the middle of generational change. So well there was some truth to Maury and that talk show 20-30 years ago, things are changing in the community.

Despite 56% of African-American households being headed by single mothers, the Philadelphia Inquirer recently reported on research that found that "African American fathers, more than any other group, are more likely to maintain lasting relationships with their children when they don't live with them."

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/study-there-are-fewer-deadbeat-dads-2073459.html

62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support. However, of that number, three-fourths of them simply do not want child support, have not asked for it, have accepted other financial arrangements instead of child support, or the father does not have the money. Only 11% of those custodial mothers who do not receive child support, is because of "deadbeat dads".

http://deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.282

http://www.hoopsvibe.com/nba-news-and-rumors/articles/170423-scott-skiles-done-in-milwaukee
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/gossip/bristol-palin-levi-johnston-owes-thousands-child-support-article-1.1057899
http://www.tmz.com/2011/08/04/val-kilmer-ex-wife-joanne-whalley-divorced-lien-child-support-deadbeat-dad-payments-new-mexico/
http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-07/francois-henri-pinault-the-richest-douchiest-deadbeat-dad-ever/
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/08/jon-gosselin-broke-rock-bottom-rent/
http://www.tmz.com/2012/12/15/edward-furlong-custody-cocaine/
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/britney-spears-joins-ex-husband-kevin-federline-and-his-girlfriend-victoria-prince-at-sons-soccer-game-pictures-201353

dead beat dads know no race.

 

I was talking about HAVING A SHIT TON OF KIDS ESPECIALLY ONES U CANT PAY FOR, not necessarily without a dad.   

And as everything points to, that's decreasing. You are talking about a rarity now. With that said, it is how men were programmed, so it sill happens. My grandfather had 9 kids from 3 women, and that was normal then. It's how men were programmed, and it's still pretty much the way it is in the majority of the world, no matter the color of skin. Do you fantasize about more than one woman, that's how you were programmed. With that said, these treads are going down, even in the African American community. Dead beat dad numbers are declining fast and it looks like only a very few men still do that kind of stuff.

[Spoonie Luv]

Fantasizing about being with more than one women is one thing. Having a shit ton of babies and not being there for them is another.
What's the point of having babies if you can't raise them right. Being there for your family, being a positive male figure in your house and setting standards. But naw male minorities think its cool to get some pussy get the bitch pregnant and not be there for the innocent child that caught in the middle of two horny addolesance who don't know any better.

 I blame the parents who don't teach these kids but its more than just educating yourself. I know minorities have it harder as it is to make in society but it is possible for some to make out and that's through higher education. Only the strong make it out. As for the rest that don't, that's part of the balance of life. Somebody has to clean your local McDonald's and keep my lawn immaculate clean. And I'm Mexican by the way. Born and East L.A and raised in west side of Whittier  so I know what I'm talking about, and i have family that's stereo typical to what Latinos are but it is what it is. I'm not a statistic because that was my choice and I knew better thanks to my cuzzins fucking up and learning from them. Life goes on.

[M Dogg™]

Fantasizing about being with more than one women is one thing. Having a shit ton of babies and not being there for them is another.
What's the point of having babies if you can't raise them right. Being there for your family, being a positive male figure in your house and setting standards. But naw male minorities think its cool to get some pussy get the bitch pregnant and not be there for the innocent child that caught in the middle of two horny addolesance who don't know any better.

 I blame the parents who don't teach these kids but its more than just educating yourself. I know minorities have it harder as it is to make in society but it is possible for some to make out and that's through higher education. Only the strong make it out. As for the rest that don't, that's part of the balance of life. Somebody has to clean your local McDonald's and keep my lawn immaculate clean. And I'm Mexican by the way. Born and East L.A and raised in west side of Whittier  so I know what I'm talking about, and i have family that's stereo typical to what Latinos are but it is what it is. I'm not a statistic because that was my choice and I knew better thanks to my cuzzins fucking up and learning from them. Life goes on.

See, but what's funny is that it may be the mentality, and we may think that's how it just is, but in reality dudes are really only having kids with one or two girls. I have lots of old friends who aren't married to their baby mama's, but they only have 2-3 kids with 2 women. yeah they were on that, let's get pussy shit, but it wasn't as extreme as people want to make it out to be.

And being a statistic, statistics are now showing minority dads are there for their kids. There are still some knuckle heads, I know a few and I'm sure everyone else does, but they are not the rule. And these knuckle heads exist in the white world too.

And this is how racism is born. Racism makes people feel superior over others because they say stupid shit like minorities having babies they can't support, like one make having 22 kids means all black men are having 22 kids. Nah man, that's one person, but the reality is that those stereotypes aren't happening as much as they use to, and when they do it happens in all communities and races, not just minorities.

And fantasizing is one thing, but let me tell you something, I'm a married man with one kid and another on the way. I have a masters and I have job at a college. But that don't mean that I ain't tempted. Trust me, my wife ain't lost the weight from the first pregnancy, since then I have been tempted like crazy. But it takes a lot of will power to stay faithful in a marriage. Not everyone is that good. Neither of my grandfathers were. In the old days, songs were dedicated to killing off wives. Modern men have seen marriage as a ball and chain, and that's common white people language.

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity/stats-about-infidelity.html

Consider that these stats are only about marriage, and that minorities are less likely to get married as blacks have the lowest marriage rates and they are also only a small percentage of the population.

http://www.statisticbrain.com/marriage-statistics/

Meaning the 2-3% of kids born of cheating marriages are more than likely white. So cheating is cheating, getting pussy is getting pussy, and biology sees no race, income levels, neighborhood or anything else. We only look at the black community because we can "other" them, point to them and say... "look at those ignorant negros, they only want to get pussy and not take care of the babies." Well isn't that nice, because that's how men around the world are programmed and that's how it's going to be. When I worked with a scientist and his old ass was talking about how fine Christina looked on The Voice, I called him out and he simply said, "Hey, it's all biology my friend, it's all biology."

[Spoonie Luv]

^^ respect M dogg. I may have singled out the minorities on this one but it goes for all races too and lol Maury and Jerry springer exploites white trash like a muthafucka and they are not exempt. But I just look at my community and the stores around here and I see my people in this shit so I'm  going based on what I see with my own eyes. Respect for getting your masters. I just got my AA in business management  and going for my bachelors in the winter. I'm also married with no kids. After I'm done with my education then ill see about kids but for now I'm cool. I'm doing this shit right.

[Russell Bell]

Look mdogg, latino population is exploding (citation - the yahoo article posted above by 187) and so is latino poverty (citation - the article above by 187).  Why not just say "alotta folks in my race have a problem with having too many kids, and while theres lots of shining examples that contradict this and certainly this goes on in other races not only latinos, this is a major problem for us?" instead of crying racism and getting all aggy about it?

...Cause you really cant argue this with a straight face my friend.

[O.G A.Geesta'z]

What's your problem dude?  Why you always want to post the negative?   I mean, sure we know the world is fucked up.. is it just that you want to point the finger at someone who is even more fucked up than you are?

I heard enough bad shit today.  I mean, I don't want you to be fake and act like everything is perfect in the world.  But don't use other people, you should use yourself.  Why don't you tell us how fucked up you are instead of pointing the finger?

you're just jealous someone else is more of a deadbeat dad than you are

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[DJ SUGAFREE QUIK]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

4 what, speaking the truth!  I'm black myself.  Hell, there are hispanics who even say that hispanics be having too many kids.  Charles Barkley even says that's 1 of the country's problems-people having kids they can't afford.

[un0mic]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

4 what, speaking the truth!  I'm black myself.  Hell, there are hispanics who even say that hispanics be having too many kids.  Charles Barkley even says that's 1 of the country's problems-people having kids they can't afford.

Y'all are not seeing the BIG picture. No mater if you can "afford" it or not... You are alive to continue life... That is it...

[Remedy360]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

4 what, speaking the truth!  I'm black myself.  Hell, there are hispanics who even say that hispanics be having too many kids.  Charles Barkley even says that's 1 of the country's problems-people having kids they can't afford.

Y'all are not seeing the BIG picture. No mater if you can "afford" it or not... You are alive to continue life... That is it...

So if you have a bunch of kids and just abandon them in the streets from the time their infants you're all good because you're continuing life. Got it.

[Russell Bell]

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

4 what, speaking the truth!  I'm black myself.  Hell, there are hispanics who even say that hispanics be having too many kids.  Charles Barkley even says that's 1 of the country's problems-people having kids they can't afford.

Y'all are not seeing the BIG picture. No mater if you can "afford" it or not... You are alive to continue life... That is it...

Lemme drop some real "big picture" knowledge on you.

Throughout our history as humans, and especially in the beginning, we HAD to reproduce to survive as a species.  I get that.  Or else myself and you and everybody else wouldnt be here.  But, as weve evolved, and fought off starvation, disease, predators, and evolved into the master species on the planet that aint going anywhere anytime soon, that thinking is exactly this - archaic.  Which is why in third world countries, like Mexico, you have people carrying on this tradition of having a large family - survival and tradition.  In the US, you dont need 7 kids to tend the farm out front and feed the family.  2, 3, or 4 people can do this because we have a higher standard of living - and before you even say anything MDogg, yes, even the poor as fuck Mexicans in Barrioville, Whereverthefuck, USA have a good stardard of living relative to the rest of the world.  So that whole "ah its just nature" argument is straight garbage and is getting the US and especially California in the clusterfuck that its in today.

Do us taxpayers a favor and learn the above paragraph and teach it to whoever you know, respectfully I ask of course. 

[M Dogg™]

Look mdogg, latino population is exploding (citation - the yahoo article posted above by 187) and so is latino poverty (citation - the article above by 187).  Why not just say "alotta folks in my race have a problem with having too many kids, and while theres lots of shining examples that contradict this and certainly this goes on in other races not only latinos, this is a major problem for us?" instead of crying racism and getting all aggy about it?

...Cause you really cant argue this with a straight face my friend.

As I have stated, it's been a problem but its a problem that is going away. On top of that, whites still lead the nation in overall poverty, but in the United States the culture is shifting. That's not to say in Eastern European cultures this is not a problem. As I've said, you can look at everything out there it all it shows is that humans are not fully adjusted to the modern world after 2, now 3 generations. Now in our 3rd generation in, whites in America have adjusted to these new modern expectations, and so have Blacks.

http://www.epi.org/blog/black-birth-rate-converges-white-rate/

As this article shows, Blacks had a higher birthrate in 1990 than Latinos, which was alarming because most Latinos are recent immigrants with old country birthrate mentality, well as Blacks were in their "second generation of modernization." Now in 2010, Blacks birth rates are quickly declining and blacks are having children closer to rates as whites as black birthrates droped 21%. Latino birthrates dropped 17%.

What's not natural or not smart is having kids YOU CAN'T AFFORD!  Natural for mexicans & ghetto blacks. 

WTF. I should smack the shit out your mouth for that.

4 what, speaking the truth!  I'm black myself.  Hell, there are hispanics who even say that hispanics be having too many kids.  Charles Barkley even says that's 1 of the country's problems-people having kids they can't afford.

For speaking out your ass with assumptions that might have been true 20 years ago but has been trending the right way. And Barkley, Cosby, Obama and all them are still talking about issues from 20 years ago. On top of that, you made it more of a racial issue when everything says it's not a racial issue, as Latinos who have lots of kids are recent immigrants, and blacks are having kids at almost the same rates as whites. So your ass was making assumptions to make minorities look bad while listening to "leaders," and I use that quote loosely, for talking points when they are still stuck in 1990. Then again, this whole board is dedicated to being stuck in 1990 so I shouldn't be surprise.

[Russell Bell]

Look mdogg, latino population is exploding (citation - the yahoo article posted above by 187) and so is latino poverty (citation - the article above by 187).  Why not just say "alotta folks in my race have a problem with having too many kids, and while theres lots of shining examples that contradict this and certainly this goes on in other races not only latinos, this is a major problem for us?" instead of crying racism and getting all aggy about it?

...Cause you really cant argue this with a straight face my friend.

As I have stated, it's been a problem but its a problem that is going away. On top of that, whites still lead the nation in overall poverty, but in the United States the culture is shifting. That's not to say in Eastern European cultures this is not a problem. As I've said, you can look at everything out there it all it shows is that humans are not fully adjusted to the modern world after 2, now 3 generations. Now in our 3rd generation in, whites in America have adjusted to these new modern expectations, and so have Blacks.

http://www.epi.org/blog/black-birth-rate-converges-white-rate/

As this article shows, Blacks had a higher birthrate in 1990 than Latinos, which was alarming because most Latinos are recent immigrants with old country birthrate mentality, well as Blacks were in their "second generation of modernization." Now in 2010, Blacks birth rates are quickly declining and blacks are having children closer to rates as whites as black birthrates droped 21%. Latino birthrates dropped 17%.

so you agree with me but contend that the problem isnt as bad as its been?  at least you didnt call me a racist.  we must be making racial progress in this country.

[M Dogg™]

Look mdogg, latino population is exploding (citation - the yahoo article posted above by 187) and so is latino poverty (citation - the article above by 187).  Why not just say "alotta folks in my race have a problem with having too many kids, and while theres lots of shining examples that contradict this and certainly this goes on in other races not only latinos, this is a major problem for us?" instead of crying racism and getting all aggy about it?

...Cause you really cant argue this with a straight face my friend.

As I have stated, it's been a problem but its a problem that is going away. On top of that, whites still lead the nation in overall poverty, but in the United States the culture is shifting. That's not to say in Eastern European cultures this is not a problem. As I've said, you can look at everything out there it all it shows is that humans are not fully adjusted to the modern world after 2, now 3 generations. Now in our 3rd generation in, whites in America have adjusted to these new modern expectations, and so have Blacks.

http://www.epi.org/blog/black-birth-rate-converges-white-rate/

As this article shows, Blacks had a higher birthrate in 1990 than Latinos, which was alarming because most Latinos are recent immigrants with old country birthrate mentality, well as Blacks were in their "second generation of modernization." Now in 2010, Blacks birth rates are quickly declining and blacks are having children closer to rates as whites as black birthrates droped 21%. Latino birthrates dropped 17%.

so you agree with me but contend that the problem isnt as bad as its been?  at least you didnt call me a racist.  we must be making racial progress in this country.

The problem is recent immigration in the Latino community. But in reality, up until 3-4 generations ago (pre-birth control pill) this was NOT a problem. But people adjust. And yes, the problem is NOT as bad, still a problem, but it's really a racial problem and more of a human biology adjusting to modern world problem.

And why call you a racist, I use that term very sparely, and earlier I said that saying certain things can LEAD to racism, but I'd say no one here is a racist. Being a real racist is actually very hard to achieve, as most people are either prejudice or a bigot, but not racist. Hard to explain, but I wouldn't say anyone here is even those things, just internet trolls.