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Is "get over it" really any kind of advice to give a person?
Don Seer:
yeah.. its how you take it..
not 'get over it you muppet'.. its 'accept how things are, and do what you need to put it out of your mind, move on'
infinite is one of these weird characters who feels the need to live his live through the forum and the internet and is so insecure he comes here for self justification and acceptance.
I had a shitty day friday.. my folks were away.. and i had to go get our dog from the people looking after her as she was ill and take her to the vets.. and then I had to make the decision to put down the dog we've had 15 years.. since she was a pup.. all while my younger sister was in tears, all while calling my distraught parents who were 100s of miles away to let them know at what was going on.. and after all that watch as they put her to sleep.
Am i whining like some kind of attention seeking bitch over the internet about it? am i blaming myself, god, or my fellow white folks? no. i accept she was old, and ill, i know she knows i loved her and my concience is clean. in fact i feel relieved because i know she wont be suffering anymore.
i felt pretty shitty saturday and realised i was mopping around.. so i got my shit together and went and did something that cheered me up.
_thats what getting over it is_ its NOT sitting around being a loser moaning about it.. its about accepting and being at peace within yourself and accepting things as they are.. about not letting things hold you back.
not being like brian and finding fault in everything, and everyone else in a crass attempt to make yourself look and feel better. You'll notice in life that the people who constantly bitch about their lives are infact breeding their own misery by wallowing in it.
p.s. RIP Tess.. :-*
coola:
^ same thing happen with my dog :(
Sikotic™:
--- Quote from: Overseer on May 22, 2006, 02:19:50 AM ---yeah.. its how you take it..
not 'get over it you muppet'.. its 'accept how things are, and do what you need to put it out of your mind, move on'
infinite is one of these weird characters who feels the need to live his live through the forum and the internet and is so insecure he comes here for self justification and acceptance.
I had a shitty day friday.. my folks were away.. and i had to go get our dog from the people looking after her as she was ill and take her to the vets.. and then I had to make the decision to put down the dog we've had 15 years.. since she was a pup.. all while my younger sister was in tears, and then watch them put her to sleep.
Am i whining like some kind of attention seeking bitch over the internet about it? am i blaming myself, god, or my fellow white folks? no. i accept she was old, i know she knows i loved her and my concience is clean. in fact i feel relieved because i know she wont be suffering anymore.
i felt pretty shitty saturday and realised i was mopping around.. so i got my shit together and went and did something that cheered me up.
_thats what getting over it is_ its NOT sitting around being a loser moaning about it.. its about accepting and being at peace within yourself and accepting things as they are.. about not letting things hold you back.
not being like brian and finding fault in everything, and everyone else in a crass attempt to make yourself look and feel better. You'll notice in life that the people who constantly bitch about their lives are infact breeding their own misery by wallowing in it.
p.s. RIP Tess.. :-*
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That really blows man. Dogs become like fam after awhile. I've spent over 3 grand keeping my dog alive. I would be realy sad if when he finally goes. But hey, I'll "get over it" because that's life.
If you let some tragedy in life get you down forever, you'll end up bitter and go out like a punk. So anybody that wallows in self pity needs to stop bitching and simply move on. We all have our struggles. I'm going through some of the hardest shit I've ever been through in my life. It'll eventually come to an end, I see the silver lining. When it's all said and done, I'll keep on doin what I gotta do. It's either get over it and leave it in the past or living in the past and getting left in the dust.
Lincoln:
Seer, sorry to hear about your dog. We have a cat that's acting all weird, so I understand how it can be hard to decide to put a pet down because they are like family.
I think Chief nailed it in his first response.
Teddy Roosevelt:
Infinite is just trying to find new ways to bash America, American culture, American lifestyle, etc. Your shit is, and has long been, old. Get a life Brian.
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