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Why are so many pedophiles homo?

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J @ M @ L:

--- Quote from: Mauzip on July 06, 2006, 02:42:00 AM ---This is a serious question. Does anyone know?

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You should see a shrink for your personal problems.

NiCc_FrUm_ThA_nO:

--- Quote from: Chief on July 06, 2006, 08:55:38 AM ---yeah that is pretty strange...

my theory is, they were probably abused by a man at a younger age, and they pass on the abuse to another child.

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Same thing I would say.

Trauma-san:
Yeah, they have psychological issues.  (duh)  They typically molest their own sex because it reminds them of themselves as a child.  Like if a guy tries to touch a little boy or see him naked, he's subconciously trying to gain control of a situation/relationship that he feels he didn't have control of when he was younger, i.e. when he was abused or whatever.  His mind's trying to right a wrong that was done to him... he can't get the guy back that molested him, so subconciously he becomes the dominant person in THAT relationship by making a new 'molestation' relationship, and being the dominant force in that.

It's like if a girl had a messed up father that she couldn't 'fix', she grows up and dates broken males trying to fix them, and lives a life with nothing but fucked up males in it. 

If the subconcious feels like it has 'lost' in a relationship, it forever tries to fix that broken relationship by forming new ones and fixing those. 

So if a guy was molested, he molests (sometimes!) someone else trying to get power from it over the person who molested him. 

The human mind is a very powerful thing.

With all that said, though, the human mind is also powerful enough to realize good from bad and make decisions even if it causes you pain.  So a strong individual who was even molested grows up and never molests themselves, because they're strong enough to realize what's past is past and they don't hurt anybody else and live their lives strong and protect others from being harmed like they were.

Weak people who were molested grow up, and make the CHOICE to molest someone else because they're not strong enough to handle it in a positive way.

I realize there are urges and issues these people have to overcome, but I'm huge on personal responsibility.  If you molested a kid, you ought to be dealt with whether or not something happened to you as a child or not. 

Trauma-san:
Oh, and on the flipside, if a guy molests a young girl, it's usually because he's been rejected by women in life and feels he has no power over them... so in order to gain power over a woman, he molests a very young one who can't fight back. He's not strong enough to handle a woman so he takes what he IS strong enough to have power over, a little girl. 

Molestation and rape is NEVER about sex.  it's always about power. 

Sikotic™:
Hey they already got a fetish for little kids.....why not go for the gusto?

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