It's May 14, 2024, 07:43:09 PM
its all confidence and not over-thinking. if you just relax and be yourself it flows naturally. when people sit somewhere, say talkin to a girl, and theyre all uptight and tryna think of what to say, thats when it gets awkward, so i guess the most important thing is just being relaxed, not tryin to overextend yourself, and just be who you are with confidence. haha thats mad corny, but maybe its helpful...
The worst thing you can do is keep quiet because you think you're talking bullshit (general shit like the weather, or the obvious stuff) or that what you've got to say isn't 'interesting' enough. Stop looking for the magic lines and they'll come to you naturally with practice.
How the fuck do you improve that?When I ask, I don't mean just goin' up and talkin' to people but I say it in a way like, how? How to talk to a person the right way.Does it gotta do with intelligence?Ya know, it's like to some people it comes natural as hell, but like when somebody asks ya something and its like you don't know what to say, or you do, but have no fuckin' clue how to word something right..........Is that ignorance or intelligence?I don't know, maybe this will grow out of you??
^bringing up allah in every conversation is not social skill. it's insanity, and fucking annoying.
like me, i was born in the middle east, grew up hardcore afghan muslim. so i can communicate with my people, fellow immigrants etc. I also grew up in the PJs, so I got some ghetto ness in me, some street smarts if u will, I can fuck wit ma niggaz. growing up, I kicked it with a wide range of people, white boys, rich kids, 4-5 different ethnic groups etc. I go to university, so now Im interacting with the professional crowd.