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What if you marry somebody with a different religion?
QuietTruth:
I've been wondering..... :-\. But say you do, do both of ya'll go to separate churches on Sunday or some shit? Or can ya'll go to each others churches?
:eh:
es-jay:
dont marry a muslim if you arent one yourself, you may find your wife brutally murdered and stuffed into a suitcase...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/6906594.stm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killing
sick bastards.
TraceOneInfinite:
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on August 13, 2007, 04:55:04 PM ---I've been wondering..... :-\. But say you do, do both of ya'll go to separate churches on Sunday or some shit? Or can ya'll go to each others churches?
:eh:
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As with all things including marriage, you shouldn't expect someone else to like something just because you do. That would be falling into the identity trap. Where you assume others will react to things in the way you would; or you put pressure on yourself to live up to what others want out of you (which is really just to make you more valuable to them). When really, there is nobody better at determining and understanding what is going to make you happy then yourself.
So in an issue such as this I would advice that if the man likes going to the masjid, then he should go, but not expect his wife to enjoy going just because he does. And likewise, if she goes to church, she can go on her own damn time, and not expect him to go.
QuietTruth:
^ Ahh, so just go your separate ways?
--- Quote from: eS-Jay on August 14, 2007, 05:49:42 AM ---dont marry a muslim if you arent one yourself, you may find your wife brutally murdered and stuffed into a suitcase...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/6906594.stm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killing
sick bastards.
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No, I don't plan on marrying a Muslim, becuz like what you posted up, I didn't think they were 'allowed'. Damn. That shit is terrible!
But say the wife's a Catholic. And you are whatever you are, and you have kids, what will the kids be?
Jag86:
I think you both just continue to follow what you believe in and agree that there may be some things you don't agree on.
--- Quote from: QuietTruth on August 14, 2007, 07:14:06 AM ---But say the wife's a Catholic. And you are whatever you are, and you have kids, what will the kids be?
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why could they not learn about both religions and make their own choice when they are old enough to do so?
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