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pavan8491:
How do you deal with anger in relationships? Obviously, you don't need to consider it at the beginning of a relationship. Then, there is a warm glow as everything goes smoothly and good feelings flow back and forth.

But that can't last forever. There will be rocky times for every couple. Not to think so is naïve. There will be times when you feel more like a fighter in a ring than a person in love. Perhaps there will be times when you are not fighting, but instead, the two of you are ignoring each other. Either way, it's not a healthy situation.

What's a couple to do? Well, you could do what Confucious said so long ago. He said, "Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses". For some, that might be all that is necessary. But in many cases there is much more to consider.



 

For instance, if the bad feelings and rage were to happen only once, that would be one thing. But for many people, it happens over and over again. This situation can wear a couple out. Something different has to be tried. As one person once said, "Doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results, is insanity."

ikke:
Beat some hippy up

LAXCENTRAL:

--- Quote from: ikke on July 27, 2009, 05:28:51 AM ---Beat some hippy up

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interesting idea

The Phoenix:

--- Quote from: LIGHTS on July 27, 2009, 08:44:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: ikke on July 27, 2009, 05:28:51 AM ---Beat some hippy up

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interesting idea

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I've seen that.  Seems to work wonders on aggression.  The hippie does care, because he/she is fucked up on shrooms anyways.  They can't feel shit.

Nigga_With_An_Additude:
stop,listen,obey,and watch what happens(slow)

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