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bouli77:
--- Quote from: 7even on September 06, 2014, 06:21:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Lord Hienz on September 06, 2014, 05:21:31 PM ---Big and interesting topic.
I agree that alot of problems in the world stem from internal sexual tension and that a healthy release would be beneficial.
A potentially destructive element when it comes sex is when it becomes a self-centered quest for pleasure.
Personally I agree with the "primitive statement" that masturbation is a sin.
Someone wiser than me (not hard to find) once said that masturbation is a homosexual act.
Many people probably masturbate to release internal tension, often ignorant of the detrimental effects it can have by wasting ones storage of sacred life force.
Almost 50% of the energy needed daily is wasted when you ejaculate your semen and it takes more than a month to re-fill your spirit body.
There are way more effective methods of achieving relaxation that does not have a negative effect on your spiritual well being.
Will write some more later.
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In some cases, masturbation can be better than sex. Sex can be awkward in many ways, whereas masturbation is always a sure thing. I believe the main reason people put sex so far ahead of masturbation is that sex implies external validation, whereas any loser can masturbate, which can be considered unearned pleasure.
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that's what I tend to think as well. sex is usually used for validation and acceptance, to reach a status in society. or to mimic social norms.
however Heinz made some interesting points but I don't agree fully. even though I do believe that masturbating too much can be detrimental to one's mental well-being (by altering your sense of desire) and can hinder motivation and the "positive" stress which is necessary for productivity, in some instances it's a simple yet effective way to release stress and blow off some steam. some doctors even advocate masturbation twice a week in order to prevent prostate cancer.
daytondanger:
--- Quote from: 7even on September 07, 2014, 07:34:13 AM ---I don't know about you, but if I don't ejaculate on a regular basis, I am developing the desire to fuck or even marry any decent looking female stranger in sight. That is not a state to live in. I can't concentrate on shit. I am focused on women 24/7. No mental energy reserved for anything else. Not to mention what would happen if I simply got kids any time I have sex. I'd have countless neglected children I couldn't provide for. Way to go.
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If you simply supress your sexual energy it most often becomes negative and even dangerous. It is important to learn how to cultivate it and not spill it through ejaculation.
To me that would be proper sexual education.
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Monsieur Bouli Roquefort:
Your last sentence is quite interesting. I know that some psychosomatic doctors in the 30-40's spoke of supressed/distorted sexual energy being the cause of prostate cancer in men and breast cancer in women. They might be right in that theory. Another interesting observation they made was that homosexual males had a much higher rate of diabetes.
Tension is easier and much healthier resolved through relaxation techniques than masturbating and ejaculating ones precious bodily fluids.
A doctor often ignores the spiritual aspect of the functioning of our human body.
7even:
--- Quote from: Lord Hienz on September 07, 2014, 09:55:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: 7even on September 07, 2014, 07:34:13 AM ---I don't know about you, but if I don't ejaculate on a regular basis, I am developing the desire to fuck or even marry any decent looking female stranger in sight. That is not a state to live in. I can't concentrate on shit. I am focused on women 24/7. No mental energy reserved for anything else. Not to mention what would happen if I simply got kids any time I have sex. I'd have countless neglected children I couldn't provide for. Way to go.
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If you simply supress your sexual energy it most often becomes negative and even dangerous. It is important to learn how to cultivate it and not spill it through ejaculation.
To me that would be proper sexual education.
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Ejaculating is mandatory if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a woman. For a vast majority of women, few things are worse than a man who never ejaculates. I know from first hand experience. You can fuck their brains out and give them countless orgasms, if you don't spill cum out of your dick, they will be irritated at best.
daytondanger:
--- Quote from: 7even on September 07, 2014, 07:47:08 PM ---
Ejaculating is mandatory if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a woman.
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Not true and an ignorant statement.
7even:
--- Quote from: Lord Hienz on September 08, 2014, 01:12:12 AM ---
--- Quote from: 7even on September 07, 2014, 07:47:08 PM ---
Ejaculating is mandatory if you want a healthy sexual relationship with a woman.
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Not true and an ignorant statement.
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Well unless she is a spiritual freak like you, she won't be pleased at all. Try fucking a normal random girl without ejaculating and see what happens.
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