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Religious Brainwashing
Trauma-san:
Well, I"ll put it like this, you draw your own conclusions. I'm white, I like white women. I don't want to marry a black woman. I'm a latter day saint, I don't want to marry a jewish woman, or an islamic woman, because we have totally different life styles, and it wouldn't work. I want to marry an lds woman. If that makes me racist, or whatever then I'm guilty of all charges. Everybody does that! Would you marry a woman who was really religious, and goes to church every sunday, and won't drink, won't smoke, won't have premarital sex? Probably not. But that doesn't mean you're prejudiced against them.
And like I said, should I NOT let my children go to church with me, until they're old enough? That's rediculous, when your 3 year old daughter wants to know where you're going every sunday, and wants to be with her daddy, then you take her to church. It would be akward and even detrimental to not let your children have anything to do with your personal religion, dogg, I don't know where your'e comin' from on this one.
4 KiN L:
--- Quote ---Well, I"ll put it like this, you draw your own conclusions. I'm white, I like white women. I don't want to marry a black woman. I'm a latter day saint, I don't want to marry a jewish woman, or an islamic woman, because we have totally different life styles, and it wouldn't work. I want to marry an lds woman. If that makes me racist, or whatever then I'm guilty of all charges. Everybody does that! Would you marry a woman who was really religious, and goes to church every sunday, and won't drink, won't smoke, won't have premarital sex? Probably not. But that doesn't mean you're prejudiced against them.
And like I said, should I NOT let my children go to church with me, until they're old enough? That's rediculous, when your 3 year old daughter wants to know where you're going every sunday, and wants to be with her daddy, then you take her to church. It would be akward and even detrimental to not let your children have anything to do with your personal religion, dogg, I don't know where your'e comin' from on this one.
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oh yeah man i suppose u have proved your point about marryin a woman of the same religion...
and your puttin fuckin words in my mouth, i sed 'by all right teach your children your religion.' i didn't say don't take them to your church, i didn't mean that at all. i'm just saying it like this: teach them about your religion, take them to church, DON'T BAPTISE THEM INTO THAT RELIGION UNTIL THEY CAN DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES.
take them to church and shit, just don't get them accepted into that religion until they are 12/13 at least when they have the maturity to decide for themselves whether they want to be a 'latter saint' or not.
Trauma-san:
So your whole argument has been reduced down to what age they get baptised at? LOL Oh, I gotcha. Sounds like you're clingin' onto a thread, homie. If they don't want to be part of my religion they can leave after they get baptised, LOL. Hey, while we're at it...
What age do I let my kids decide what clothes they want to wear? What age do I let my kids decide what's for dinner? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they go on vacation with me? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they go to school? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they can drink? You seem to know all the answers about my kids (who aren't even born yet, lol), so I'm just lookin for pointers.
4 KiN L:
--- Quote ---So your whole argument has been reduced down to what age they get baptised at? LOL Oh, I gotcha. Sounds like you're clingin' onto a thread, homie. If they don't want to be part of my religion they can leave after they get baptised, LOL. Hey, while we're at it...
What age do I let my kids decide what clothes they want to wear? What age do I let my kids decide what's for dinner? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they go on vacation with me? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they go to school? What age do I let my kids decide whether or not they can drink? You seem to know all the answers about my kids (who aren't even born yet, lol), so I'm just lookin for pointers.
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theres no need to be like that cos u know that they are totally different matters...and i didn't in fact know that u can leave a religion like that...u learn sumthing every day.
and theres no point really arguin about it, cos its sumthin that is never going to be stopped, and obviously u r gonna do it.
and in fact, since u mentioned it:
kids know the best clothes to wear because of fashion, so u let them wear what clothes they want, cos it aint no kind of commitment like religion anyways.
if ur kids don't like whats bein made for dinner they make thir own, just like if they don't like ur religion they can go and find sumthing else to believe.
as soon as your kids are old enough to take care of themselves and u can trust them enough, then u let them decide whether or not they come on holiday with u, cos it will save u money anyways, just like u shud wait until they are old enough to know if they can take care of themselves without being part of a religion, then they can decide not to come to church with u, and makes it less hassle for u having to wait for them.
it is against the law for kids not to atend school until they reach a certain age, so u can let them decide but u will get the fine, and maybe go to jail. but with religion, u shud let them decide if they don't want to go to church, because it isn't against the law. same as u can make them go to school until they reach a certain age, u can make them go to church until they readh an age were u know they don't wanna go to church for reasons other than going out with their friends, which would be the reasons if they were younger.
and like it or not, in your childrens' lifetimes they are gonna start drinkin with their friends, so it doesn't matter if u say they can't, cos they r gonna make that choice anyway, especially when they sleep at a friends house. just like in religion, when they are gonna commit what u would class as a sin at one time or another in their lives despite what u have taught them.
and i can tell u were tryin to take the piss outta me and wasn't expecting an answer like that...
HGHDSGJKDSV:
How can you say you will only marry some one of the same religion as you, Do you only sleep with people of the same religion as yourself, I know it's your choice to marry who you want but don't you marry bassed on your wife being the one you love above all other women, What would you do if you met the perfect girl nothing could be wrong with the relationship you love her as much as she loves you and your both completely honest and open with each other but she is of another faith, Would that be it, Would the relationship be over.
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