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Wanna Hear Something Hilariously Ironic?
Suga Foot:
I've been in similar situations (not to the degree of your predicament), and as bad as it may sound, I think you may have scared her off by telling her how you feel. I know I've had to break up with girls because they were talking about spending their life with me, it scared me. My advice to you is to just keep her in your life. Keep in contact with her (but not too much). Make her want you back.
And her having to take care of you while you were drunk cost you a hell of a lot of points. If she hasn't seen you in so long, and this is how you act when you do finally see her, she probably thinks this is the new you. The man in any relationship should be the one to take care of the girl. No matter what, you have to be her rock.
ZILLA THA GOODFELLA:
--- Quote from: SMiLE on July 13, 2004, 08:47:59 PM ---I'm sick of being hateful and talking shit to everybody.
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I knew U needed 2 get some pussy cuzzin.....
lol naw, mann, dats a straight fairytale story rite there, it was nice.....I've been in the same situation, but not in a shorter length of time. I don't even wanna get into it.....let's just say I tasted love for a minute but it was taken away so fast from me that I got an ugly attitude about relationships now.....dats why all I do now is chase pussy and push em away quick when I get it, even though sometimes I want it to get deeper, but I just can't let it happen.....it's a bitch.....shit fucks wit U and makes U go krayzie sometimes, it's like you've been abused.
but in all honesty mane, the girl seems to be scared the same way you were back in the days, and I'm sure she's struggling to take everything in right now.....U done everything U can, U just gotta put it in god's hands now.....
Don Seer:
^ yeah i have a friend who got burned like that.. he's the one night stand master.. promises girls the world and means it.. then ignores em after coz he realises then he's gotta build something... so he runs.. i have to say i'm a pretty amazing agony uncle / 1 man support group to his ex's.. lol..
(so good in fact his last ex tried it on with me last weekend.. lol.. my minds elsewhere.. ;) )
i know some chicks'll try and rush you.. and that'll freak you.. i know as men we suck at this stuff.. but just tell em without it sounding like a brush off.
damn this shits crazy.. i dunno what to say.. seems like its changed you. i'm 100% sure it has me.
me.. i know i'm scared.. but i dont give a fuck.. if you're serious you'll be willing to put yourself on the line each and every time. just dont rush :)
the last bit of what rod said above is so true... i'll add that i wouldnt leave it as it is now.. don't avoid her now before she goes... even if its just something light if you can hook up do so..
good luck
(gives trauma a prop)
Trauma-san:
Well, she's 4 hours away so there's no way I can see her again before she leaves. That's one of the problems we've always had... everytime I'm around her, I know she won't be there in 24 hours. ... And man, I COULDN'T move before now, I have too many responsibilities. She can say she doesn't want a man, and she wants to work on herself, she's got a different life now, blah blah blah, but when we're drunk and I brush up against her chest, and she takes my hand and puts it on it, or she's fondling me in the car, or she's blabbing to me that I broke her heart, or whatever, I don't see how she can deny it.
Trauma-san:
--- Quote from: RODZILLA is BAY AREA Hip Hop on July 13, 2004, 11:19:06 PM ---
lol naw, mann, dats a straight fairytale story rite there, it was nice.....
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I know, right? That's why it breaks my heart, shit like this does not happen to everybody. And if it does, it happens one fucking time. I've tried to find other girls I loved since then, nobody's even close... but then I look @ her and get all giddy and happy when she smiles, it's sickening. So what am I going to do? Find some other girl to marry and fall in love with, all the while still loving her in Africa somewhere or something? Who the hell wants a relationship like that. I don't want to live the rest of my life telling people big fish stories, I want to do whatever it takes to get it right how it should be. I haven't even ate since I got back from the beach, I've lost nearly 10 pounds since saturday.
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