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Do You Want To Get Married?
Trauma-san:
--- Quote from: rafsta on March 10, 2005, 10:04:48 AM ---getting married just because you have a child isn't very smart... kids aren't stupid, better off being raised by one parent rather then a disfunctional married couple... you shouldn't get married until you're with someone for a minimum of 5 years...
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That's really intelligent, but it's equally un-intelligent to have a child, if you're not married. That didn't stop them, so they need to be trying to clean up the mess they've made of the child's life.
BigBDrugStores:
you guys are talking like i cant hear you
'EclipZe:
about when im 25 or somethin
OpTiCaL:
--- Quote from: Trauma on March 11, 2005, 03:26:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: rafsta on March 10, 2005, 10:04:48 AM ---getting married just because you have a child isn't very smart... kids aren't stupid, better off being raised by one parent rather then a disfunctional married couple... you shouldn't get married until you're with someone for a minimum of 5 years...
--- End quote ---
That's really intelligent, but it's equally un-intelligent to have a child, if you're not married. That didn't stop them, so they need to be trying to clean up the mess they've made of the child's life.
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Thats stupid who says his life or the childs is for that matter...they can have a child be together not be married and still be as happy as can be...its what they make of it and how they live their life... i personally see a child as being just as big if not bigger committment than marriage...
marriage in a perfect world should be for life but a child most definatly is...
id love to do it all "the right way" around but if u find love and live with that person...and however it happens you end up having a child/children it doesnt make u bad people or fuckups...its how they are together and to each other and importantly how they are as parents
they can get married when they can afford it / are ready its all good
Sikotic™:
Parents living together is good for the child psychologically. That's only if the parents get along.
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