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J Bananas:
lets break it down to simple terms. theres a male, and a female. the female seeks a male identity to compliment her and further the natural process of life. If a male is ashamed or not used to his manhood yet he may mask feelings and in turn act more like a female. The female will notice this, and lose interest. So be a strong male identity for her. This doesn't mean act rude, it just means don't cover up your natural tendencies out of fear of rejection. This is the most honest, and they will recognize that. I've never been whipped in a relationship, but I've never covered up any soft feelings either, and in turn I've never been depressed or confused after a breakup. its up to the female to determine how much respect I should show her.

Lincoln:
I don't really know about the whole relationship thing. I have massive fears of rejection, and I think that I might have a fear of intimacy and monogamy too. I'm the kind of person who resists change at all costs, and this likely is the drive of my fears. I met this girl, most of you likely read my post. And then I saw her again yesterday, and it was cool but I couldn't bring myself to ask her out. I kept thinking to myself "You don't want a relationship, they're just bad." I know that seems bad, but I don't know...I do hate being alone but at the same time I don't really want to take the risk.

coola:
i love women... everything about em... im a sensitive dude and all, but damn i like sex too, i think if you fuck a chick and everything is in the open its cool... you dont have to be all up tight and shit... i have mad respect for women, but im still firm with em, you cant let women walk all over you, just like i cant treat a lady like shit..

plus i think a healthy relationship you should be having heaps and heaps of sex... thats how you show you care and love a lady, by fucking her brains out !  :D

Woodrow:
Treat em like dirt, they stick like mud.

Well, something like that.

coola:

--- Quote from: I Want My Donation Back on October 04, 2005, 03:18:41 PM ---There's a fine line between being nice to someone, and being a pussy.  

You have to be a man in the relationship.  Most of the time, many guys take that overboard and think that means you have to be a jerk, treat them like shit, think you're more important, etc.

Women want a guy who's nice and sweet and all that shit, but they also want someone who's strong, decisive, and in charge.  That doesn't mean you make her do shit she doesn't want to do, and be a dick about everything, that just means you're a leader.  

It's hard to do, man.  I feel ya.  I'm no expert myself or I'd have someone right now.  

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thats real talk.

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