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TraceOneInfinite:
--- Quote from: Don Rizzle on October 04, 2005, 02:03:52 PM ---I'm uninspired by all the topics around at the moment so i thought I'd start a new one.
I'm interested to see how you guys view your relationships. Personally i feel like i'm the last of a dying breed most blokes i know are only after getting laid....i am very respectful of women, I rarely make any first moves, i've never cheated on anyone or tried it on with anyone i knew was attached, i never lie to people i care about and personally i'd rather make a friend than have a one night stand with someone.
Please discuss how you view your relationships in particular with women
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From a Muslim perspective being shy (especially around the opposite sex) is actually a great virtue and one of the characteristics of the Prophet Muhammad. This "shyness" one feels is a blessing from Allah and it protects society from the spread of adultry, mistrust and lewd behaivor. In the Islamic tradition you don't get a woman by "spitting game" and acting out, but rather you meet potential mates in the company of family or elders to discuss the possibility of marriage and the responsibilities required. Then as time goes by you develop a closeness with your wife and refrain from developing friendships with any women outside your own family. Trust and love develops between you and your wife and as Allah says you become "garments of eachother".
ecrazy:
--- Quote from: Allah's Slave: Abdul-Infinite on October 04, 2005, 11:44:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Don Rizzle on October 04, 2005, 02:03:52 PM ---I'm uninspired by all the topics around at the moment so i thought I'd start a new one.
I'm interested to see how you guys view your relationships. Personally i feel like i'm the last of a dying breed most blokes i know are only after getting laid....i am very respectful of women, I rarely make any first moves, i've never cheated on anyone or tried it on with anyone i knew was attached, i never lie to people i care about and personally i'd rather make a friend than have a one night stand with someone.
Please discuss how you view your relationships in particular with women
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From a Muslim perspective being shy (especially around the opposite sex) is actually a great virtue and one of the characteristics of the Prophet Muhammad. This "shyness" one feels is a blessing from Allah and it protects society from the spread of adultry, mistrust and lewd behaivor. In the Islamic tradition you don't get a woman by "spitting game" and acting out, but rather you meet potential mates in the company of family or elders to discuss the possibility of marriage and the responsibilities required. Then as time goes by you develop a closeness with your wife and refrain from developing friendships with any women outside your own family. Trust and love develops between you and your wife and as Allah says you become "garments of eachother".
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well of course your going to learn to trust each other if your "REFRAINING" from developing friendships with other women outside your family and if your family gots you on lock like that. who else are you going to talk to? lol
Me, im in a relationship. it started off kinda like we were friends and we could do what we wanted, we were not "Official" but we hung around each other and we talked for a year and messed around, i told here the 2nd month, (she told me she loved me) that i would tell her i loved her and she would tell me she really loved me when we both knew it was time, and i wasnt ready at that time to be totally committed. I never once did cheat on her, she told me she never cheated on me, and i believed her, it took that whole year for us to get to know each other and gain all that trust then we made it official and we have been together for 2 years already, no real problems at all. I kinda looked at it like this, during high school i always had like hook ups and one night stands, and i really wanted someone to be my number 1, MY girl, and i didnt want her to be like all the sluts i hooked up with. so i really didnt want to be tyed down to start with and then get my heart broke in the end like almost all my friends have had their hearts broken by evil bitches after a couple of months. thats why i waited a year to get to know her.
I say get to know the girl for a while before you make it official, when you know both of you are ready. during that time if you find out that she wasnt ment for you or she doesnt like you you guys can stop it and you will not be as hurt as if you lost your true love
TraceOneInfinite:
--- Quote from: E-Crazy on October 05, 2005, 12:09:03 AM ---
--- Quote from: Allah's Slave: Abdul-Infinite on October 04, 2005, 11:44:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Don Rizzle on October 04, 2005, 02:03:52 PM ---I'm uninspired by all the topics around at the moment so i thought I'd start a new one.
I'm interested to see how you guys view your relationships. Personally i feel like i'm the last of a dying breed most blokes i know are only after getting laid....i am very respectful of women, I rarely make any first moves, i've never cheated on anyone or tried it on with anyone i knew was attached, i never lie to people i care about and personally i'd rather make a friend than have a one night stand with someone.
Please discuss how you view your relationships in particular with women
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From a Muslim perspective being shy (especially around the opposite sex) is actually a great virtue and one of the characteristics of the Prophet Muhammad. This "shyness" one feels is a blessing from Allah and it protects society from the spread of adultry, mistrust and lewd behaivor. In the Islamic tradition you don't get a woman by "spitting game" and acting out, but rather you meet potential mates in the company of family or elders to discuss the possibility of marriage and the responsibilities required. Then as time goes by you develop a closeness with your wife and refrain from developing friendships with any women outside your own family. Trust and love develops between you and your wife and as Allah says you become "garments of eachother".
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well of course your going to learn to trust each other if your "REFRAINING" from developing friendships with other women outside your family and if your family gots you on lock like that. who else are you going to talk to? lol
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What I said doesn't have anything to do with family, I have nobody else in my my own family who is Muslim, I was raised the same way you were, I used to date women the same way you do, but since becoming a Muslim I've taken on a different lifestyle and it has nothing to do with "being on lock-down" from my family. My parents would rather me not be a Muslim and not be religious.
ecrazy:
--- Quote from: Allah's Slave: Abdul-Infinite on October 05, 2005, 12:15:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: E-Crazy on October 05, 2005, 12:09:03 AM ---
--- Quote from: Allah's Slave: Abdul-Infinite on October 04, 2005, 11:44:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Don Rizzle on October 04, 2005, 02:03:52 PM ---I'm uninspired by all the topics around at the moment so i thought I'd start a new one.
I'm interested to see how you guys view your relationships. Personally i feel like i'm the last of a dying breed most blokes i know are only after getting laid....i am very respectful of women, I rarely make any first moves, i've never cheated on anyone or tried it on with anyone i knew was attached, i never lie to people i care about and personally i'd rather make a friend than have a one night stand with someone.
Please discuss how you view your relationships in particular with women
--- End quote ---
From a Muslim perspective being shy (especially around the opposite sex) is actually a great virtue and one of the characteristics of the Prophet Muhammad. This "shyness" one feels is a blessing from Allah and it protects society from the spread of adultry, mistrust and lewd behaivor. In the Islamic tradition you don't get a woman by "spitting game" and acting out, but rather you meet potential mates in the company of family or elders to discuss the possibility of marriage and the responsibilities required. Then as time goes by you develop a closeness with your wife and refrain from developing friendships with any women outside your own family. Trust and love develops between you and your wife and as Allah says you become "garments of eachother".
--- End quote ---
well of course your going to learn to trust each other if your "REFRAINING" from developing friendships with other women outside your family and if your family gots you on lock like that. who else are you going to talk to? lol
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What I said doesn't have anything to do with family, I have nobody else in my my own family who is Muslim, I was raised the same way you were, I used to date women the same way you do, but since becoming a Muslim I've taken on a different lifestyle and it has nothing to do with "being on lock-down" from my family. My parents would rather me not be a Muslim and not be religious.
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ok, but you are still isolating yourself from other girls. how else are you supposed to know if this girl is the right one for you if you dont know what else is out there?? of course she's going to develop trust for you if she knows that your that sprung.
J Bananas:
u guys know andre nickatina the rapper? well i just saw this hsit on hbo about cannibalism and there was guy named Andre Chicotino or somethin like that from russia who was a cannibal during the early nineties and murdered over 300 people and ate their genitals. Isnt that fucking disgusting? and dude had the nerve to name himself after him. Thats fuckin cool.
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