West Coast Connection Forum
Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: hope glimmers on January 04, 2005, 09:28:51 AM
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does anyone else think that if girls are locked up for a long time.. that the are worse than their parents ever anticipated one theyre free? or do you think they listen and follow all their parents rules... like chastity.. i mean come on
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i think people are attracted to what they can't have
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exactly. if you had a teenage girl would you lock her up out of fear that shed do what you once did... its hypocricy
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*rafsta's final though*
its not really hipocracy, its more protectiveness, youre parents just worried about you and want the best for you...
i dont know what i'll do with my kids, but i think i'd generally give em freedom, b'coz i was given freedom, ran a muck for a lil while then ended up chillen.... but lockin ure kids up just makes em wanna rebel even more...
ure parents mite think of u as a young lil girl still, and they havent noticed ure turnin into a young lady...
My recommendation is to talk to your parents upfront, my sister had similar problems...
so what have we learned from today's episode ? we must learn to love one another, and just forget about the little problems holding our lives back.
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i better mention, i wasnt given total freedom, i still had boundaries, just goto find the equiliberium where u and ure folks are happy.. i do have firends that have total freedom and now i wont associate with them, fiends, crack ho's etc...
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i think people are attracted to what they can't have
maybe it's for the best if you don't think anymore
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i think people are attracted to what they can't have
maybe it's for the best if you don't think anymore
ive been getting that alot lately...
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i think people are attracted to what they can't have
maybe it's for the best if you don't think anymore
ive been getting that alot lately...
ok...
i'll give you the perfect example to prove your statement is bullshit: serena williams
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hmm je ne te comprends pas, connasse
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That's why parenting is suppose to be a fine line. If you be exreme about it, keep them away from the bad or allow them to do whatever the fuck they want, it turns into disaster.
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thanks rafsta.. your right.. but ive tried talkin and ive gotten no where... its not like ive given thema reason.. but i understand they want to protect.. but they didnt do that as much with my sister.. and its not fair theyre doing it to me... but ill try to talk to them.. ive got plans comin up..so they better listen to me this time.. and its not like i want to go out and be bad.. i just want to go out and have fun.. not necessarily bad stiff. i just want trust.. im going to do bad stuff. promise.. ;D
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thanks rafsta.. your right.. but ive tried talkin and ive gotten no where... its not like ive given thema reason.. but i understand they want to protect.. but they didnt do that as much with my sister.. and its not fair theyre doing it to me... but ill try to talk to them.. ive got plans comin up..so they better listen to me this time.. and its not like i want to go out and be bad.. i just want to go out and have fun.. not necessarily bad stiff. i just want trust.. im going to do bad stuff. promise.. ;D
more thzn likely you'll be cool in the end...
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thanks rafsta... but i already am cool.. haha :P
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im the coolest tho :nahnah:
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haha.. rafsta rafsta rafsta... haha that butt thing is funny... its really distracting .. but thanks for all the advice.... 8)