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Title: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: ecrazy on December 11, 2006, 09:41:08 PM
like seriously.....I swear the internet pisses her off more than real life.....whats wrong with it? its not like im going out with them or talking to them like that....anyway, put your 2 Cents in....
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Just Another Sunny day in California on December 11, 2006, 10:33:45 PM
haha...would you let her talk to guys online?

if so, then i don't think it's wrong but if you would get upset with her over that, then i think you should chill with chatting with girls online.

trust me i've had these battles in the beginning of my 1 1/2 year relationship with my girl, eventually you mature and forget about all that bullshit.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: ecrazy on December 11, 2006, 10:48:14 PM
We've been going out for 3 years....i dont get mad at all, i trust her.....i dont know, with the people i hang out with she does not get upset at all, i can go out with girls all the time but when it comes to writing girls on myspace then she gets crazy....lol..i dont know, maybe its the myspace that brings evilness or something
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: swangin and bangin on December 11, 2006, 10:53:15 PM
what can happen.
Cybersex?
ahahahha
cybersex
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Chief on December 12, 2006, 12:47:13 AM
maybe it's because of the stupid shit you type in myspace?  :stupid:

eg: asking the girls if theyre of legal age?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Don Jacob on December 12, 2006, 02:30:39 AM
it depends....is your girl not giving it up because of pillowpants?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Primo on December 12, 2006, 05:03:48 AM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: No Compute on December 12, 2006, 06:31:49 AM
Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: nibs on December 12, 2006, 12:10:21 PM
(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...

Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: 7even on December 12, 2006, 12:19:48 PM
(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...



the heart to act? I'd rather say lack of heart... I think it's fucked up that people, regardless of gender, think it's "cool" to cheat on their partner...
I'd be happy if I was in love with someone, I really don't need any "options"..
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Twentytwofifty on December 12, 2006, 12:52:31 PM
There is no point in talking girls unless you're trying to have sex with them.  Why are you wasting you time with this?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Samoan Enforcer on December 12, 2006, 12:54:14 PM
its only ok if you guys have a healthy relationship. chances are since youre young and stupid its gonna lead to jealousy on her part and you cant explain it well enough to calm her down so it probably isnt a good idea. but if you two communicate very well and you really are just chattin it up, then it shouldnt be a problem
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Mr. O on December 12, 2006, 12:55:36 PM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
shit..i know what ya mean..word up.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 12:58:01 PM
fuck ive stuggled with this with the now ex gf. She dint like it at all, even now were not going out some girl left a hockey related comment on my myspace and she freaked called it flirting...

My gf used to say emotional cheating is the same or as bad. She used to all say flirting is cheating but hey what can i do i have personality and charm.

She used to say that if a wack off thiking of a girl its cheating...
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 01:00:59 PM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
shit..i know what ya mean..word up.

yep me and my gf finaly broke up beacse of this.
I would go out with a girl-friend like i swear ince in like 4 months if ever lol and she would gte pissed , start smoking or something cry ...I saw a fuckig  hot girl i know , old freind who has kidney disease ...2 days later she says well why dont you go out with her maybe youd love if i had a disease...
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Mr. O on December 12, 2006, 01:07:48 PM
One of the main things in a relationship is trust. No man or women wants a person who is clingy and follows your every step and calls to check on you every minutes. Trust is what eventually makes it work. If you can allow your girl to go out with her friends with no guilt and jealousy involved she is less likely to cheat. If she has a clingy boyfriend that wants to know her every step then she will stray because of the pressure. Believe me I have made this mistake in the past. But we learn from our mistakes. I know this sounds weird but the less you are around your partner the better it is when you see them. I am not talking about a week at a time. But you should at least have time to do things you enjoy and things she enjoys. This is why it is not a good idea for young couples to live together because they see each other all day everyday until eventually get sick of each other and start bickering and fighting all the time.
shit..i know what ya mean..word up.

yep me and my gf finaly broke up beacse of this.
I would go out with a girl-friend like i swear ince in like 4 months if ever lol and she would gte pissed , start smoking or something cry ...I saw a fuckig  hot girl i know , old freind who has kidney disease ...2 days later she says well why dont you go out with her maybe youd love if i had a disease...
Dang...she's cold man.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 01:14:04 PM
and m girl was a realy sweet girl trust me, very caring the best girl in the world but her jealousy and insecurities realy pushed me away. Its very sad. I tell her and everyone this only if she owuld believe me. I relay did love her and respected her.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Mr. O on December 12, 2006, 02:15:21 PM
and m girl was a realy sweet girl trust me, very caring the best girl in the world but her jealousy and insecurities realy pushed me away. Its very sad. I tell her and everyone this only if she owuld believe me. I relay did love her and respected her.
she used to be, eh? U still talk to her?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 02:29:12 PM
well i try but its been hard, she fits on me every other day...
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Primo on December 12, 2006, 02:48:53 PM
A relationship when you fight alot is the worst man. My boy is in one that they bicker and fight almost everyday.. I don't know how he can deal with it at all but he stills does for the oddest reason. I would rather not deal with that. I can deal with hooking up with random girls until I find a girl that wont be a dumb jealous hoe that bitches all the time.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 03:14:13 PM
my girl was great...everymans dream but her insecurities were realy hard on us.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Mr. O on December 12, 2006, 03:28:34 PM
my girl was great...everymans dream but her insecurities were realy hard on us.
take her to hypnotist...it works. 
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: QuietTruth on December 12, 2006, 04:32:08 PM
I thinks it's just one word: Jealously.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on December 12, 2006, 04:43:41 PM
I thinks it's just one word: Jealously.

jealousy is a motherfucka. Altho it depends on how you handle it. I prefer talking about it and not for hours and hours like my ex....5 minutes if fine
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: ecrazy on December 12, 2006, 05:35:29 PM
(prominent) - Why would you want to talk to girls online if you can go and fuck your girl instead?

cats always want to feel that multiple women want them, cats want to feel like they have options; half these cats want to act on those feelings; another quarter wish they had the heart to act...



the heart to act? I'd rather say lack of heart... I think it's fucked up that people, regardless of gender, think it's "cool" to cheat on their partner...
I'd be happy if I was in love with someone, I really don't need any "options"..

I agree with u....Im just a friendly person, and most of the girls i talk to we run into from time to time, they are either old acquaintances or people im trying to network with and just chill with, either they like the same music or same style, you know? 
She gets mad that i run into them at parties or at friends houses, and i tell her what goes on....I dont know, and with people i dont talk to online, she's all cool with, all the girls at school and work, she's cool with me talking to most of the time...I dont know, it seems that now i cant have any other girl friends other than her....
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: jeromechickenbone on December 12, 2006, 06:22:08 PM
Is your girl into music and shit like you are?  If she's sees you talking to other chicks about something that's a passion of yours and sees that another girl shares that same passion (and your girl doesn't) she's def gonna get jealous.

The older I get the less I believe in monogamy.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Chief on December 12, 2006, 10:05:40 PM
A relationship when you fight alot is the worst man. My boy is in one that they bicker and fight almost everyday.. I don't know how he can deal with it at all but he stills does for the oddest reason. I would rather not deal with that. I can deal with hooking up with random girls until I find a girl that wont be a dumb jealous hoe that bitches all the time.

yep, a friend of mine used to literally fight, physically with his girl everyday... he didnt beat her, she just scratched him, hit, kick, bite and he just blocked and shit... never fought back... but anyway, i didnt get why the fuck they were together, i used to go to his house and smoke up with his bro, then just sit in the lounge and eat some pop corn watching home brew WCW wrestling LOL... shit was dumb... they were also the kind of couple that had an anniversary every month... like "whoa! we made it another month  :D" ... dumbasses.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: jeromechickenbone on December 13, 2006, 07:23:44 PM
A relationship when you fight alot is the worst man. My boy is in one that they bicker and fight almost everyday.. I don't know how he can deal with it at all but he stills does for the oddest reason. I would rather not deal with that. I can deal with hooking up with random girls until I find a girl that wont be a dumb jealous hoe that bitches all the time.

yep, a friend of mine used to literally fight, physically with his girl everyday... he didnt beat her, she just scratched him, hit, kick, bite and he just blocked and shit... never fought back... but anyway, i didnt get why the fuck they were together, i used to go to his house and smoke up with his bro, then just sit in the lounge and eat some pop corn watching home brew WCW wrestling LOL... shit was dumb... they were also the kind of couple that had an anniversary every month... like "whoa! we made it another month  :D" ... dumbasses.

haha I got a friend like that as far as the monthly anniversaries.  I'll be like "whats up for friday" he'll be like "me and old girl are going out, it's our 11 month anniversary".  What the fuck is up with that?  You gotta celebrate the shit every month?  Then they broke up for like a month, and sure as shit the next month they were celebrating a year together.  Doesnt' taking a month off stop the streak?  Shit's fuckin retarded.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Chief on December 13, 2006, 07:57:11 PM
^for real i hate that shit... me and my girl are mad for eachother, and i still forget our anniversary (annual ofcourse)..  ;D
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: ecrazy on December 13, 2006, 10:34:16 PM
LMAO @ monthly anniverserys, me and my girl never even celebrated or knew when we got together, we know its around 3 years and around the summer when i graduated, so we just made up a day, August 10th, and even then it aint a big deal, we just get to eat at a restaurant (we do this a lot anyway, im a sucker for fine dining) and have sex, its like a normal Saturday.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: geeo on December 19, 2006, 08:41:48 PM
A relationship when you fight alot is the worst man. My boy is in one that they bicker and fight almost everyday.. I don't know how he can deal with it at all but he stills does for the oddest reason. I would rather not deal with that. I can deal with hooking up with random girls until I find a girl that wont be a dumb jealous hoe that bitches all the time.

yep, a friend of mine used to literally fight, physically with his girl everyday... he didnt beat her, she just scratched him, hit, kick, bite and he just blocked and shit... never fought back... but anyway, i didnt get why the fuck they were together, i used to go to his house and smoke up with his bro, then just sit in the lounge and eat some pop corn watching home brew WCW wrestling LOL... shit was dumb... they were also the kind of couple that had an anniversary every month... like "whoa! we made it another month  :D" ... dumbasses.

haha I got a friend like that as far as the monthly anniversaries.  I'll be like "whats up for friday" he'll be like "me and old girl are going out, it's our 11 month anniversary".  What the fuck is up with that?  You gotta celebrate the shit every month?  Then they broke up for like a month, and sure as shit the next month they were celebrating a year together.  Doesnt' taking a month off stop the streak?  Shit's fuckin retarded.
yea yea i remember back in 9th grade my girl use to say that she drove me nuts until one time i said celebrate all you cant cuz there wont be another
 
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Bedford Iz Active on December 20, 2006, 12:12:45 PM
When i have a girlfriend, the only thing that changes about me is the flirting part, but 6 times out of 10 like my other topic some next girl takes interest and it makes things complicated. I don't think it's wrong to stop talking to girls online when you're on lockdown, you wouldn't stop talking to girls in person and stuff would you lol.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to talk to girls online when you have a girlfriend?
Post by: Digital Pimpin' on December 21, 2006, 11:02:14 AM
It's only wrong when/if your girlfriend finds out
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Post by: REGIME MOB 510 on December 21, 2006, 11:12:41 AM
i dont believe e crazy, i think he's making these threads to get rid of his homo clout.