West Coast Connection Forum
Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: Birdie on December 08, 2008, 10:40:00 AM
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When do you want to be a parent? Or do you have a child already?
It's kinda personal question, but I think a lot of people share different opinions. I gotta go with the age 25 or so.
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If I had to give a number it would be 32.
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
That's some good words penenstamp... I thought somebody will say that. I agree 100% with you, don't understand making children when you're unemployed, etc.
But it's their own thing.
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
If you get a girl pregnant, give her the diet coke abortion. 4 L of Coke, or diet Coke a day for 3-4 weeks. Right their, dead baby. Or push her down 4 steps of cement stairs. OH SORRY HONEY, it was an ACCIDENT!
Their should be mandatory abortions for women under 21. Mandatory abortions for women without a high school education. Too many babies, too many uneducated, broke, or too young parents. If you can't raise a baby properly, feed it, cloth it, then abort it. It's not a human life until it comes out. Remember that. Don't let any brain washed nut ball, creationist tell you anything else. It's not alive. It's not alive. It's not alive.
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I'm not getting a kid before I'm 30.
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whatever age you have a kid at is the best time to be a parent
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whatever age you have a kid at is the best time to be a parent
^has like 10 kids
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
If you get a girl pregnant, give her the diet coke abortion. 4 L of Coke, or diet Coke a day for 3-4 weeks. Right their, dead baby. Or push her down 4 steps of cement stairs. OH SORRY HONEY, it was an ACCIDENT!
Their should be mandatory abortions for women under 21. Mandatory abortions for women without a high school education. Too many babies, too many uneducated, broke, or too young parents. If you can't raise a baby properly, feed it, cloth it, then abort it. It's not a human life until it comes out. Remember that. Don't let any brain washed nut ball, creationist tell you anything else. It's not alive. It's not alive. It's not alive.
Why does someone have to be a religious nut to stand against abortion?
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
If you get a girl pregnant, give her the diet coke abortion. 4 L of Coke, or diet Coke a day for 3-4 weeks. Right their, dead baby. Or push her down 4 steps of cement stairs. OH SORRY HONEY, it was an ACCIDENT!
Their should be mandatory abortions for women under 21. Mandatory abortions for women without a high school education. Too many babies, too many uneducated, broke, or too young parents. If you can't raise a baby properly, feed it, cloth it, then abort it. It's not a human life until it comes out. Remember that. Don't let any brain washed nut ball, creationist tell you anything else. It's not alive. It's not alive. It's not alive.
Why does someone have to be a religious nut to stand against abortion?
I don't see non religious nuts bombing clinics.
The best age to have a kid, there is none, it's level of maturity. I know some people in there 30's that would make horrible parents, I know people in the early 20's that are great parents, I know people in their 20's who are parents and suck, I know people in the 30's that are parents and are doing everything right.
As for me, I'm 28, married but no kids. when they'll come, when I'm good and ready... sucka
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whatever age you have a kid at is the best time to be a parent
^has like 10 kids
nah i got way more than that. shawn kemp aint got shit on me.
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You can't give it a number. I think that if you want to get a child the right (not best) time is after you've done everything people do when people are young and you know yourself well. Also, if you want to get your girl pregnant, make sure you have a monthly income and good housing where the kid can play inside and outside of the house.
If you get a girl pregnant, give her the diet coke abortion. 4 L of Coke, or diet Coke a day for 3-4 weeks. Right their, dead baby. Or push her down 4 steps of cement stairs. OH SORRY HONEY, it was an ACCIDENT!
Their should be mandatory abortions for women under 21. Mandatory abortions for women without a high school education. Too many babies, too many uneducated, broke, or too young parents. If you can't raise a baby properly, feed it, cloth it, then abort it. It's not a human life until it comes out. Remember that. Don't let any brain washed nut ball, creationist tell you anything else. It's not alive. It's not alive. It's not alive.
Why does someone have to be a religious nut to stand against abortion?
What's wrong with abortion? The only two answers are, nothing or it's taking a life. The insane think that life begins at conception. But really, most of the worlds problems are because of one thing, too many people. Theirs too many babies, not enough abortions. Sure, late term abortions are wrong, once the fetus looks like a baby, it should probably be born. But theirs nothing wrong with vacuuming out a few cells. These same religious nuts think stem cell research is wrong.
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when your financially stable and have a good environment for the kid and everything
i see myself around age 26-30
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To me you shouldn't even consider until you're in your mid-late twenties. we're all still growing as people and in my opinion if you don't spend enough time living for yourself and figuring out who you are and how you're going to make it, there will be a level of arrested development and you risk being one of those young parents still trying to chase "the life" with a kid at home. I despise those people. Tank top clad sluts you meet at the bar like "oh i got a baby, i left him with his grandparents this weekend....again"..bitch go be a mother. vice versa for you black guys. lol.
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only beautiful people should be able to have children
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when your financially stable and have a good environment for the kid and everything
i see myself around age 26-30
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I would say probablly in your 20's... but one of my friends is already a mother, and her daughter just turned 1 about a week and a half ago actually... she was only 16 when she had the baby too, shit really took over her life but that's expected
and no, I ain't the father ;D
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Take it from me, I thought that having kids at a young age was okay, I thought that it could make a person more focused, and so on. But I don't see it that way anymore. I think the best age to have kids now is when you are financially stable. But if I had to put a number on it I would say..................................... 50 years old.
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14
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only beautiful people should be able to have children
people with beautiful souls and minds.
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26, 27
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It depends on your maturity level, what environment you're in, responsibility, when you're sure you have the time to raise a child properly.
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i got two bitches pregnant by my 18th birthday-----thank god for abortions
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only beautiful people should be able to have children
people with beautiful souls and minds.
Exactly brotha... Chuch 8)
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I just wanted to stop by to say vagina.
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The fact is a lot of women get pregnant because they hate themselves.their lives are so miserable that they have a kid to give their life a purpose.but all they do is fuck up another life
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The fact is a lot of women get pregnant because they hate themselves.their lives are so miserable that they have a kid to give their life a purpose.but all they do is fuck up another life
Everybody's parents fucked them up, either they weren't around enough and the child felt neglected; or they hung around too much and taught them all the wrong things... lol.
Sometimes when you get older and have your own kids you realize your parents weren't as bad as you thought they were.
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Somehow I doubt that.my father is in and out of jail and been a drunk and a drug addict my whole life and one of the times went to jail for manslaughter.I remember being 10 watching him doing coke and fighting.
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Somehow I doubt that.my father is in and out of jail and been a drunk and a drug addict my whole life and one of the times went to jail for manslaughter.I remember being 10 watching him doing coke and fighting.
I'm not saying that you will think he was father of the year... but I am saying that after you have your own kids you might be willing to forgive some of what he did.
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Honestly, I think most parents are idiots. I mean look at all this shit. All those idiots getting children just for the fuck of it, not even really caring about them. It's a disgrace. Children out of wedlock and all this bullshit. Just a disgrace.
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Honestly, I think most parents are idiots. I mean look at all this shit. All those idiots getting children just for the fuck of it, not even really caring about them. It's a disgrace. Children out of wedlock and all this bullshit. Just a disgrace.
There's not much difference between you and someone who had children out of wedlock. I'm assuming you are sexually active, and if so all it would take is some bad luck and for a girl to get pregnant, and you would be just the same as the people you call "idiots". .
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Honestly, I think most parents are idiots. I mean look at all this shit. All those idiots getting children just for the fuck of it, not even really caring about them. It's a disgrace. Children out of wedlock and all this bullshit. Just a disgrace.
There's not much difference between you and someone who had children out of wedlock. I'm assuming you are sexually active, and if so all it would take is some bad luck and for a girl to get pregnant, and you would be just the same as the people you call "idiots". .
Nah nigga, the problem with those people is that they make children, never get an abortion and show no responsibility whatsoever. If I, God forbid, ever get someone pregnant without getting an abortion, which is retarded in itself already, I would certainly put my stuff together and care about the kid. Kid first, fun last. I would certainly not tell all my homies how my "baby's moma" (horrible term) ain't shit and how I'm not down with all that daddy shit.
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Nah nigga, the problem with those people is that they make children, never get an abortion and show no responsibility whatsoever. If I, God forbid, ever get someone pregnant without getting an abortion, which is retarded in itself already, I would certainly put my stuff together and care about the kid. Kid first, fun last. I would certainly not tell all my homies how my "baby's moma" (horrible term) ain't shit and how I'm not down with all that daddy shit.
Fair enough... but remember it isn't your choice about the abortion, the "baby mama" may have tricked you into having the kid because she wanted to get pregnant and have a baby by you, and no she could spend the next 20 years of your life making your life miserable.
This type of shit happens alot. Sure, there are alot of "bad" fathers out there, but sometimes we are quick to blame the fathers when we don't realize how hard the woman is making it on the father.
Also... you promise that it would be kid first, fun last. But that's easier said than done homie. Because remember that's not just a few months of "fun" your gonna be sacrificing, your talking about 20 whole years of your life. You'll be an old man by that time, and if the baby mama gives you a really hard time that could be like a 25-life prison sentence.
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I absolutely agree. Women can be horrible people too, just like men.
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around 35 when u have your own house and a steady job (something impossible in our days)
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25+
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ideally i'd say prolly 26, but i wouldnt want to have kids until 33-35, kids would slow me down, i'm havin too much fun for that kinda responsibility
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25
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What's the best age for being a parent in your opinion?
For most people on this forum, NEVER.
The last thing we need are more lazy negroes in the world.
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And roleplaying a racist white guy named Jared on internet forums is SUCH valuable way to spend your time ::)