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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: T.J. on February 28, 2005, 07:16:55 PM
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how many of you have thoughts of suicide daily
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LMAO
i havent in a long ass time...
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i have thought about killing myself for the last 5 years but now the thoughts are more forceful
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Nope, can't say that I do. Kick back blaze a J and chill, forget all that nonsense T.J, I know you smoke homie 8)
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for 5 fuckin years?
i mean i thought about it in middle school and a lil in my freshman year but it was like an on off type thing
after i started smokeing when i get depressed or sad or lonely i feel WAY much better
but idk u need help or sumthing
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don't do it. It's not worth it. I mean there's such awesome alternatives to killing yourself, such as gettin away from everything, becoming a hermit, or joining a hippie commune (They're still around in certain areas). Then you'll smoke weed all day, listen to good music and just chill until you get shot by a cop, and you won't even know it
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suicide is crap...
mind u if u dont like urself then why even live???
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Its the most selfish thing anyone can do.
But everone has had suicidal thoughts at somepoint in their lives.
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I've never thought of it, I love life way too much. Don't be selfish.
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Nope, can't say that I do. Kick back blaze a J and chill, forget all that nonsense T.J, I know you smoke homie 8)
my bud is probly one of the problems since u can see the white grains of coke they laced it with
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oi im not saying im gonna do it theres no way i have the strength, but it is always on my mind...... yeah ag i think i do need help
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I know some people who have treid to kill themselves. Just go to a doctor. There's pills you can get.
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Life is too valuable, I've never thought about it and neither should you.
People are way worse off than you ever will be. It's pussy shit to kill yourself.
That may be harsh but it's real.
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i have "slit me" on one wrist and "slit him" on the other so iguess yeah i think about it but i couldn't
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i thought of it once, when i used 2 fuc with crystal meth.. man that shit is fuckin nasty, worst shit out there, now im off of it i havent thought it, but i realize it wasnt me thinking it, it was the drug
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^^ i had that stuff a couple times n i know what u mean...... im pretty sure weed is my problem...... all the dirty cunts around here lace it..... ive had speed, coke, heroin laced bud..... probly the after effects or sumin...... i dunno fuck
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you need some pussy an a fatty
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Last week a friend of mine commited suicide. I really don't understand people that even think about committing suicide :-\ It's selfish and it shows what kind of a pussy that person really is (was).
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he played soccer?
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Last week a friend of mine commited suicide. I really don't understand people that even think about committing suicide :-\ It's selfish and it shows what kind of a pussy that person really is (was).
did you just insult your dead friend? ???
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Last week a friend of mine commited suicide. I really don't understand people that even think about committing suicide :-\ It's selfish and it shows what kind of a pussy that person really is (was).
did you just insult your dead friend? ???
take it however you want it... he wrote a letter before his death in which he explained why he was gonna commit suicide and i think he was a coward for the reasons he gave up for why he was gonna kill himself
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oh yeah... fuck god, fuck religion
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i think about suicide from time to time, like i know i wont actually do it, but its deffinately a cowardly thing to do, it just shows u cant deal with life...
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i think about suicide from time to time, like i know i wont actually do it, but its deffinately a cowardly thing to do, it just shows u cant deal with life...
What's the point in dealing with life when you just don't want to? It's like dealing with gays although you don't like it. If you don't enjoy chocolate, don't eat it. If you don't enjoy your life, kill yourself. Noone has ever asked you if you want to live, so technically life definitely aint to gift, because gift is defined by getting something for free upon approval by you. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. They only reason I comdemn suicide for is if you have children that need you.
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i think about suicide from time to time, like i know i wont actually do it, but its deffinately a cowardly thing to do, it just shows u cant deal with life...
What's the point in dealing with life when you just don't want to? It's like dealing with gays although you don't like it. If you don't enjoy chocolate, don't eat it. If you don't enjoy your life, kill yourself. Noone has ever asked you if you want to live, so technically life definitely aint to gift, because gift is defined by getting something for free upon approval by you. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. They only reason I comdemn suicide for is if you have children that need you.
but its so selfish to kill yourself, i mean, u only have 1 life, and for the fact, im given everything, there are so many people who have shit compared to me...
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Weak bottlejob cunt.
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suicide is for cowards...sure, we all have low moments from time to time but thats called life, killing yourself is just a cop-out...
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What's the point in dealing with life when you just don't want to? It's like dealing with gays although you don't like it. If you don't enjoy chocolate, don't eat it. If you don't enjoy your life, kill yourself. Noone has ever asked you if you want to live, so technically life definitely aint to gift, because gift is defined by getting something for free upon approval by you. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. They only reason I comdemn suicide for is if you have children that need you.
basically, i donīt disagree completly, but itīs way more complicated than eating chocolate or not, and you raised the point yourself. If you donīt eat chocolate nobodyīs gonna give a fuck. If you kill yourself you can severly hurt people and they donīt have to be your children; close friends, parents and relatives, boy-/girlfriend, husband/wife.........most persons do matter and mean something to somebody else and thatīs why i agree with suicide being selfish. Of course itīs up to that person whether he/she wanna do it, but I donīt think itīs right. Theoretically, if you were 100% secluded from the rest of the world, i would agree you might as well slit your wrists. Iīm not a very religious person however, thereīs that aspect too....
Me, I never really contemplated it, but i went through certain bouts in my life when the hypothetical thought was on my mind pretty often, but I knew I wasnīt gonna do it and in a way I always loved life and had some kind of hope and perspective that kept me from really considering doing i
TJ, why canīt you get off the bud? Really, i know somebody who used to smoke like 5 joints a day and he got pretty fucked up from it mentally, he was in some kind of state of indifferent nihilism, he almost got kicked outta school (in his last year)...overall he was extremly apathetic, even though the weed wasnīt laced with anything hard (is it impossible to get bud with no heroin or coke around where you from??)...now he pretty much quit and heīs alot better. Iīm not trying to preach, but really budīs gonna exacerbate your problem. I smoke weed too, but only on weekends, during the week i restrict myself to cigarettes (almost at least, very sporadically i might touch spliffs) which are damaging too of course, but wonīt have that kind of effect
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"I ain't afraid to live...so u know i ain't afraid to die"M.O.P
and maybe i'll start a new topic about suicide...if i tell u that u should do it...would you do it?
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TJ, why canīt you get off the bud? Really, i know somebody who used to smoke like 5 joints a day and he got pretty fucked up from it mentally, he was in some kind of state of indifferent nihilism, he almost got kicked outta school (in his last year)...overall he was extremly apathetic, even though the weed wasnīt laced with anything hard (is it impossible to get bud with no heroin or coke around where you from??)...now he pretty much quit and heīs alot better. Iīm not trying to preach, but really budīs gonna exacerbate your problem. I smoke weed too, but only on weekends, during the week i restrict myself to cigarettes (almost at least, very sporadically i might touch spliffs) which are damaging too of course, but wonīt have that kind of effect
i havent had any for a week so far. the thing is my dealers lace it sometimes, and bug spray it sometimes. i may get clean bud off em once every couple weeks. man the last few days of havin a straight head makes me think wtf was i doin puttin up a topic like this..... nearly certain its the drugs i do
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im gonna do it ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh bye bye asiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllllaskgjaldsf'khdj :'(
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im gonna do it ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh bye bye asiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllllaskgjaldsf'khdj :'(
:)
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TJ, why canīt you get off the bud? Really, i know somebody who used to smoke like 5 joints a day and he got pretty fucked up from it mentally, he was in some kind of state of indifferent nihilism, he almost got kicked outta school (in his last year)...overall he was extremly apathetic, even though the weed wasnīt laced with anything hard (is it impossible to get bud with no heroin or coke around where you from??)...now he pretty much quit and heīs alot better. Iīm not trying to preach, but really budīs gonna exacerbate your problem. I smoke weed too, but only on weekends, during the week i restrict myself to cigarettes (almost at least, very sporadically i might touch spliffs) which are damaging too of course, but wonīt have that kind of effect
i havent had any for a week so far. the thing is my dealers lace it sometimes, and bug spray it sometimes. i may get clean bud off em once every couple weeks. man the last few days of havin a straight head makes me think wtf was i doin puttin up a topic like this..... nearly certain its the drugs i do
yeah man, stay off that shit then or smoke a joint maybe ONCE IN A WHILE....but try to stay clean the best you can
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kill ur dealer not urself
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my boy chris just killed himself last week... >:(
Ive thought about doing this shit out of spite but I got kids man....suicide is cowardice in its worst form
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when I quit smoking weed my emotional issues all fell into place I was a constant 247 smoker for 10 years...
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I've never thought of killin myself...becuase i know there are people out there who are WAY more fucked up and they still living and enjoying life. Just take shit day by day and know there is always tomorrow.
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I try'd it...
naw fucking around...that shit for the weak homie...cant deal with shit, people that do that dont realize if there is a god they just fucked them selves even more...that shit is a sin that you can go to hell for.
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^^ i had that stuff a couple times n i know what u mean...... im pretty sure weed is my problem...... all the dirty cunts around here lace it..... ive had speed, coke, heroin laced bud..... probly the after effects or sumin...... i dunno fuck
Hey, here's a thought. Maybe you should get all the mind-altering substances out of your body, dont' inject/inhale/ingest any more, and then see where your mind is, when it can think half-ass after you get all the SHIT you've been filling yourself up with out.
Come on man. Be a man. That's like me saying "Urrrrrghhhh, I'm so fatttt.... I can't hardly even run....." and then stuff another cheeseburger in.
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Man now see I got that suicide addiction but shit I could never do it(although I have tried)but my reason was to shut the voices up in my head...........
Man I get high everyweeked with codene,you feel allright with that shit,its not like getting high with weed
man it's like getting closer to God and shit,you feel like you are on top of the world............
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^LMFAO.. i knew u was on something, lol... but on the real, u dumb bitch, get off that...
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yeah codien aint coo man
i smoke blunts with lean n shit all the time its a bad high i dont like it i get real fuckin paranoid and i just wanna be left alone n i get mean n a whole bunch of dumb shit...
i just like weed fuck that other shit
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MAN SHIT i GET PAINS FROM MYBACK GUYS PLUS IT MAKES THE VOICES SHUT UP......... 8)
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MAN SHIT i GET PAINS FROM MYBACK GUYS PLUS IT MAKES THE VOICES SHUT UP......... 8)
i think i love you...
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yea man only trees for me aswell.
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lol, uselessouljahīs finally had the
balls guts to admit it...i took codeine too though, in january, cause i coughed like 24/7...iīdidnīt feel i was getting closer to god though :'(
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^^ i had that stuff a couple times n i know what u mean...... im pretty sure weed is my problem...... all the dirty cunts around here lace it..... ive had speed, coke, heroin laced bud..... probly the after effects or sumin...... i dunno fuck
Hey, here's a thought. Maybe you should get all the mind-altering substances out of your body, dont' inject/inhale/ingest any more, and then see where your mind is, when it can think half-ass after you get all the SHIT you've been filling yourself up with out.
Come on man. Be a man. That's like me saying "Urrrrrghhhh, I'm so fatttt.... I can't hardly even run....." and then stuff another cheeseburger in.
smartass ive been drug free ever since this post
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I know it seem hard sometimes but uhh
Remember one thing
Through every dark night, there's a bright day after that
So no matter how hard it get, stick your chest out
Keep your head up, and handle it
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everytime i look out of a window, i feel like jumping out....not that i hate my life or anything, i just imagine how it would feel when ur in mid air knowing ur about to die
peace
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how many of you have thoughts of suicide daily
I commit Suicide 5 times a day and get buried 3 times a week............ :)
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Last Active: May 24, 2005, 07:43:27 PM
Did he do it?
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Last Active: May 24, 2005, 07:43:27 PM
Did he do it?
lets hope not...
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fuck...if u still alive man hold you head. keep it simple, stop thinking about whats wrong and stay goal oriented.
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Its the most selfish thing anyone can do.
But everyone has had suicidal thoughts at somepoint in their lives.
^^^ not even, I've never thought of killing myself ever :loco:
what the hell's the point.... if you wanna do some fucked up shit, go nuts with drugs or something
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Fuck suicide, I lost hella people to that shit man..nobody even put it into consideration, you will cause pain.. think about it.. you have so much to be fuckin' thankful for don't put it all to waste man..live life day by day, and like bannanas said dont stay stuck on whats wrong and be goal orientated
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^^^same here. I never thought of suicide...EVER. The fact that people actually commit suicides literally scares the shiet out of me.
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i never would but i understand how it seems easier. life is hard sometimes and things may seem overwhelming, especially for kids in their late teens early twenties, worrying about their future and wether or not they are going to be able to make it in life having to work raise kids own homes get married, that shit can be intimidating, and since everyone is going to die why not do it? however once you do it thats it, if you live and make wrong choices you can correct them, if you kill yourself, afterwards you cant be like ahh shit i wish i didnt do that. peoples families friends are the ones that suffer. just hold ya head up everyone will be ok, just believe you can make it and you can, i used to get scared that my workload was gonna be huge, and i mean the idea pops up but i would reject that shit because i love my family and friends too much, and i dont know how but one day im going to make a difference in this world, i still have goals that i would like to achieve, people that i would like to influence for the better, and i feel that there is something great that i can do before i leave.
i hope that this kid didnt do it...
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i never would but i understand how it seems easier. life is hard sometimes and things may seem overwhelming, especially for kids in their late teens early twenties, worrying about their future and wether or not they are going to be able to make it in life having to work raise kids own homes get married, that shit can be intimidating, and since everyone is going to die why not do it? however once you do it thats it, if you live and make wrong choices you can correct them, if you kill yourself, afterwards you cant be like ahh shit i wish i didnt do that. peoples families friends are the ones that suffer. just hold ya head up everyone will be ok, just believe you can make it and you can, i used to get scared that my workload was gonna be huge, and i mean the idea pops up but i would reject that shit because i love my family and friends too much, and i dont know how but one day im going to make a difference in this world, i still have goals that i would like to achieve, people that i would like to influence for the better, and i feel that there is something great that i can do before i leave.
i hope that this kid didnt do it...
those are some wise word buddy
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Its the most selfish thing anyone can do.
But everyone has had suicidal thoughts at somepoint in their lives.
^^^ not even, I've never thought of killing myself ever :loco:
what the hell's the point.... if you wanna do some fucked up shit, go nuts with drugs or something
Fuck yeah man. If you wanna kill yourself, have a good time doin' it. OD on heroine while fuckin' a chick with HIV.
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been a long time for me.... years..i found out that all i really wanted waz attention.... if ur feeling depressed start going out...fucking exersize go 2 the park do something... when ur doing something u dont have time to b thinking damn whats the point of living and all that stupid shit...
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The only time I really thought about it was if I was trying to think of a bad ass way to go out when I got blazed. Like robbing a bank or some shit like that. Suicide was never an option for me. My mom is in a wheelchair. She needs me. I can't do something like that to her.
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Yeah..i used to think that way. You know what though? I realised something here. Even though life is hard, you don't need to worry about it. I just have faith and let things go by. Life problem tends to piss me off as if it was my nagging wife. I would slap that Bitch! lol. But anyhow...I found faith..and that's all I need. Please keep ya head guys. ;)
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this suicide shit gives me the creeps....muthafuckaz just need to live their life and always try and be happy cuz we never know if it might be our last day or hour.....there's always gonna be ups and downs in life....like if some shit happens to u thats fucked up (family member dies,g/f dumps u)...but man it aint nuthin compared to ending ur life over shit like that....man if i ever felt like doing suicide...i'd get help and get closer to god or sumthin to get that off the mind....
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Life is so valuable. Tell an elderly person or a person with a terminal illness that you wanna kill yourself and watch them try to slap you if they still have the strength left in them. Those people are on borrowed time and would give anything to have more time.
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The only time I really thought about it was if I was trying to think of a bad ass way to go out when I got blazed. Like robbing a bank or some shit like that. Suicide was never an option for me. My mom is in a wheelchair. She needs me. I can't do something like that to her.
^^ for real man, you'd be a bitch if you did that shit
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RIP TJ
1988-2005
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I don't want to say RIP because I really dont want to think hes dead...even though I dont know the guy, I wouldn't want someone to go out like that..
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i've thought about jumping off a balcony before... i wasnt in the best state of mind though..
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i never would but i understand how it seems easier. life is hard sometimes and things may seem overwhelming, especially for kids in their late teens early twenties, worrying about their future and wether or not they are going to be able to make it in life having to work raise kids own homes get married, that shit can be intimidating, and since everyone is going to die why not do it? however once you do it thats it, if you live and make wrong choices you can correct them, if you kill yourself, afterwards you cant be like ahh shit i wish i didnt do that. peoples families friends are the ones that suffer. just hold ya head up everyone will be ok, just believe you can make it and you can, i used to get scared that my workload was gonna be huge, and i mean the idea pops up but i would reject that shit because i love my family and friends too much, and i dont know how but one day im going to make a difference in this world, i still have goals that i would like to achieve, people that i would like to influence for the better, and i feel that there is something great that i can do before i leave.
i hope that this kid didnt do it...
bitch say what you got to say!!,and get off the fucking phone!!...............(.trick gave a 5hour speech about shit.thats to much info hoe.but i see what ya trying to say.)
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everytime i am waiting for the train. and when it reaches the station. i wonder how its like if i'd jump. so i take 2 steps back.
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What is/was his real name?
everytime i am waiting for the train. and when it reaches the station. i wonder how its like if i'd jump. so i take 2 steps back.
Haha, I know the feeling.
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everytime i am waiting for the train. and when it reaches the station. i wonder how its like if i'd jump. so i take 2 steps back.
lmfao me too!
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lol i remember when i was high as hell and my friend is drivin and the windo is open and im like i wonder if it would hurt if i put my hand out the window and smacked a parked car as we drove by, and hes like bro your hand will break into a million pieces and im like lol nah i wont do it, but im like put my window up and lock it just in case lol.
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lol i remember when i was high as hell and my friend is drivin and the windo is open and im like i wonder if it would hurt if i put my hand out the window and smacked a parked car as we drove by, and hes like bro your hand will break into a million pieces and im like lol nah i wont do it, but im like put my window up and lock it just in case lol.
This bitch I knew was so drunk, she tried to grab a parking cone hanging out of a moving car. To conclude...it's a good thing you didn't do that.
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^^ can you give us some more detail?
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I wasn't there to see it, but when the girl came into work the next day, her arm was in a cast. She was a waitress so when I saw her, she was giving the manager a leave of absence form because she was unable to work. I was laughing my ass off.
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lol i remember when i was high as hell and my friend is drivin and the windo is open and im like i wonder if it would hurt if i put my hand out the window and smacked a parked car as we drove by, and hes like bro your hand will break into a million pieces and im like lol nah i wont do it, but im like put my window up and lock it just in case lol.
RETARDZ dont have control of his self.how sad.
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lol i remember when i was high as hell and my friend is drivin and the windo is open and im like i wonder if it would hurt if i put my hand out the window and smacked a parked car as we drove by, and hes like bro your hand will break into a million pieces and im like lol nah i wont do it, but im like put my window up and lock it just in case lol.
RETARDZ dont have control of his self.how sad.
LOL
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Does anyone think this guy killed himself? :-\
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That's really really terrible if he did, after I read thru it all. That's a real shame.
But this is the internet and he could of been just doin' this as a joke, ya never know, dudes is sick, but I wasn't around here when nigga was postin' so I don't know a thang bout the dude.
Anyways, I hope this person ain't went out and really did this to himself. Too sad. :-\
I can't even think of slicing my wrist, God, that shit makes you cringe. I've thought like this shit before and still do but it's not actual suicide, instead I just think of goin' out there and throwin' out my life by becomin' what everybody around me became. I think maybe I SHOULD go out there and do drugs, or maybe I SHOULD go out there and slang, or maybe I SHOULD go out there and rob for what I don't got, since nobody appreciates that I'm not like that, maybe I should really ruin my life.
BUT like I said once before, almost everybody on here is at that age, teens and growing adults, and that's the hardest age to be at, and we all go thru them points where shit ain't fair and ain't right but ya'll just gotta be like 'I'ma get outta this age and done with this phase and shit is gonna get better.' You gotta support yourself when nobody's there and even though that's hard, try and be strong and be your OWN support system. Thangs happen for a reason, so take what's bein' handed to you, it'll only prove it to you in the end....that it may have been worth it.
And truthfully though, ain't nuthin' feels better when you are able to look back on it and be like yeah that was a really hard time but look nigga, look at the boy now. :pimp:
OH AND, huh, the drugs ha? Hmmmm.
And there's goes my preach.
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My CSI investigation concludes that he did not kill himself.
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lol i remember when i was high as hell and my friend is drivin and the windo is open and im like i wonder if it would hurt if i put my hand out the window and smacked a parked car as we drove by, and hes like bro your hand will break into a million pieces and im like lol nah i wont do it, but im like put my window up and lock it just in case lol.
RETARDZ dont have control of his self.how sad.
oh shit i forgot about hempside.
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RIP
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Perhaps he got some help and is doing better now..
it'll be bad to thing that dude went trough with killing himself..
That's rough if he did though... :-\ :-\
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love life.
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Its the most selfish thing anyone can do.
But everone has had suicidal thoughts at somepoint in their lives.
LMAO... no they dont!
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Its the most selfish thing anyone can do.
But everone has had suicidal thoughts at somepoint in their lives.
LMAO... no they dont!
some people should though.
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RIP
WTF?? How do u know dude killed himself?
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RIP
WTF?? How do u know dude killed himself?
Think about it. I don't know 100%, but chances are...........
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my brother committed suicide on December 3rd, 2003...10 days before my b-day.
what a great fucking present, right?
i still cry when i think about him...its been over four years and i dont know if ill ever get over it. the way my mom was crying will stick with me forever. no mother should ever cry like that. :( :(
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I've thought about suicide many times, mostly when I was super depressed. But then I'd assume everyone else does the same thing. At the end of the day, I'd never kill myself. I love life way too much, whether I'm getting laid or not getting laid!
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my brother committed suicide on December 3rd, 2003...10 days before my b-day.
what a great fucking present, right?
i still cry when i think about him...its been over four years and i dont know if ill ever get over it. the way my mom was crying will stick with me forever. no mother should ever cry like that. :( :(
Damn, man, that's terrible.. if you don't mind me asking, how old was he and what kinda struggles was he facing?
One of my homegirl's mom used to claim to her daughter that she was gunna kill herself all the time, only to be brushed off...one morning, the homegirl walked into her moms room to find her dead, right after a night of her mom complaining to her and telling her that she was about to kill herself. A few years later, her younger brother (16 years old) killed himself... this was only a few months back... suicide is a very sad and cowardly thing to do IMO.
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remember suicide is the biggest sin.
love life and never give up the hope.
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my brother committed suicide on December 3rd, 2003...10 days before my b-day.
what a great fucking present, right?
i still cry when i think about him...its been over four years and i dont know if ill ever get over it. the way my mom was crying will stick with me forever. no mother should ever cry like that. :( :(
Damn, man, that's terrible.. if you don't mind me asking, how old was he and what kinda struggles was he facing?
One of my homegirl's mom used to claim to her daughter that she was gunna kill herself all the time, only to be brushed off...one morning, the homegirl walked into her moms room to find her dead, right after a night of her mom complaining to her and telling her that she was about to kill herself. A few years later, her younger brother (16 years old) killed himself... this was only a few months back... suicide is a very sad and cowardly thing to do IMO.
he was 30..he didnt have any huge problems, as far as i knew...he had a good job, nice wife..i honestly dont know what drove him to that. he didnt leave a note, nothing. he lived in nebraska due to his job, and we touched base at least once a week, but before this happened we didnt talk for about two weeks, everytime i called i got the answering machine. i just wish i knew what drove him to do it.
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my brother committed suicide on December 3rd, 2003...10 days before my b-day.
what a great fucking present, right?
i still cry when i think about him...its been over four years and i dont know if ill ever get over it. the way my mom was crying will stick with me forever. no mother should ever cry like that. :( :(
Damn, man, that's terrible.. if you don't mind me asking, how old was he and what kinda struggles was he facing?
One of my homegirl's mom used to claim to her daughter that she was gunna kill herself all the time, only to be brushed off...one morning, the homegirl walked into her moms room to find her dead, right after a night of her mom complaining to her and telling her that she was about to kill herself. A few years later, her younger brother (16 years old) killed himself... this was only a few months back... suicide is a very sad and cowardly thing to do IMO.
he was 30..he didnt have any huge problems, as far as i knew...he had a good job, nice wife..i honestly dont know what drove him to that. he didnt leave a note, nothing. he lived in nebraska due to his job, and we touched base at least once a week, but before this happened we didnt talk for about two weeks, everytime i called i got the answering machine. i just wish i knew what drove him to do it.
If there were no signs of him being that type of guy, do you ever wonder if it wasn't suicide? Because people have been framed with shit like that in the past...not giving a reason or showing signs of depression before killing yourself seems a bit strange.
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my brother committed suicide on December 3rd, 2003...10 days before my b-day.
what a great fucking present, right?
i still cry when i think about him...its been over four years and i dont know if ill ever get over it. the way my mom was crying will stick with me forever. no mother should ever cry like that. :( :(
Damn, man, that's terrible.. if you don't mind me asking, how old was he and what kinda struggles was he facing?
One of my homegirl's mom used to claim to her daughter that she was gunna kill herself all the time, only to be brushed off...one morning, the homegirl walked into her moms room to find her dead, right after a night of her mom complaining to her and telling her that she was about to kill herself. A few years later, her younger brother (16 years old) killed himself... this was only a few months back... suicide is a very sad and cowardly thing to do IMO.
he was 30..he didnt have any huge problems, as far as i knew...he had a good job, nice wife..i honestly dont know what drove him to that. he didnt leave a note, nothing. he lived in nebraska due to his job, and we touched base at least once a week, but before this happened we didnt talk for about two weeks, everytime i called i got the answering machine. i just wish i knew what drove him to do it.
If there were no signs of him being that type of guy, do you ever wonder if it wasn't suicide? Because people have been framed with shit like that in the past...not giving a reason or showing signs of depression before killing yourself seems a bit strange.
sometimes, but the fact is he is gone...and nothing will ever change that. if there was foul play those motherfuckers will pay, sooner or later.
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when I quit smoking weed my emotional issues all fell into place I was a constant 247 smoker for 10 years...
that lasted about a year and a half...Im sparkin as we speak.
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don't do it. It's not worth it. I mean there's such awesome alternatives to killing yourself, such as gettin away from everything, becoming a hermit, or joining a hippie commune (They're still around in certain areas). Then you'll smoke weed all day, listen to good music and just chill until you get shot by a cop, and you won't even know it
LMFAO :D
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
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when I quit smoking weed my emotional issues all fell into place I was a constant 247 smoker for 10 years...
that lasted about a year and a half...Im sparkin as we speak.
are you emotional again?
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
Sorry, but suicide is selfish, no matter what way you chop it up...It may be selfish to not want someone to commit suicide for your own sake, but that doesn't take away from how selfish commiting suicide actually is.
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
Sorry, but suicide is selfish, no matter what way you chop it up...It may be selfish to not want someone to commit suicide for your own sake, but that doesn't take away from how selfish commiting suicide actually is.
I didn't say it wasn't selfish; I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be. I'd rather be dead and considered a coward, than alive and in pain. Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
Sorry, but suicide is selfish, no matter what way you chop it up...It may be selfish to not want someone to commit suicide for your own sake, but that doesn't take away from how selfish commiting suicide actually is.
I didn't say it wasn't selfish; I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be. I'd rather be dead and considered a coward, than alive and in pain. Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
You have a terrible mindset...if everyone lived soley for themselves, this world would be worse than it is. Step it up. Self reliance is important, but that doesn't mean you have to live as a selfish asshole.
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
Sorry, but suicide is selfish, no matter what way you chop it up...It may be selfish to not want someone to commit suicide for your own sake, but that doesn't take away from how selfish commiting suicide actually is.
I didn't say it wasn't selfish; I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be. I'd rather be dead and considered a coward, than alive and in pain. Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
You have a terrible mindset...if everyone lived soley for themselves, this world would be worse than it is. Step it up. Self reliance is important, but that doesn't mean you have to live as a selfish asshole.
The idea behind it is really simple. I undertake actions only with myself as the primary concern, whether it be aiming for joy or development. Other people are a secondary concern. Let me make this real practical by giving you some examples.
I went out last night with a long time female friend of mine. Why? Because I like hanging out with her. I wouldn't be hanging out with her if I didn't get something positive out of it; something that outweighs the negative aspects (such as having to travel 60 miles by train to spend a weekend in the dullness of my parents' area, spending money on drinks in a bar, spending my time). The positive aspects outweigh the negative, thus I did go for a drink with her. We had a good time, because we selfishly appreciate each other's company.
She asked me for some personal advice. Why did she do that? Because my opinion is valuable to her. Why did I give her the advice? Because I enjoy being of value to her. I enjoy giving advice when she needs it.
Later on, some other friends dropped by in the bar. One of them had been sick all week and was getting to feel somewhat better now, but he told me humbly that he had felt like shit, but he already felt better at the prospect of the amount of positive energy I bring about. I like being of such influence to them, because I value them highly and they are important to me. Had I not valued them highly, then should I have bothered spending my time with them? Of course not. But I felt good for making him feel better. Why? Because I value him highly. That's a pat on the shoulders for my own judgement. So much for being a selfish asshole, huh?
I don't give dimes to bums who demand the unearned. I don't give money to charity organizations to buy off the guilt they purposely try to feed me. They live by a moral code I don't approve of. I try to be as good as I can: always through investments; never through sacrifices.
Now what if life has become unbearable... That's a very selfish conclusion. If the people around you don't have the value to make your life more worth living, why should you sacrifice your pain for them? Suicide can be perfectly reasonable.
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I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be.
Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
Those posts you made are so true. Even a mother that dies for her kids is selfish. She sacrifices herself because she wants her kids to live.
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eye have no respect for niggas who think or talk about killing themselves especially if they dont live in no fuckin third world country..... like on the real how bad can ya situation be...... just because ya mommys and daddys dont get you that brand new beamer or benz shouldnt be no reason....... niggas talkin that suicide shit go and kill ya selves because majority of the time it be the types who want attention and eye be damn if eye am giving that attention
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eye have no respect for niggas who think or talk about killing themselves especially if they dont live in no fuckin third world country..... like on the real how bad can ya situation be...... just because ya mommys and daddys dont get you that brand new beamer or benz shouldnt be no reason....... niggas talkin that suicide shit go and kill ya selves because majority of the time it be the types who want attention and eye be damn if eye am giving that attention
oh no, he's back!!
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If selfishness is a virtue, does that make suicide virtuous?
Really. Isn't it a great sin to have others suffer for you? Aren't you being irrationally selfish when you demand someone to stay alive, just for the sake of your not having to miss them, despite of the pain they might be enduring?
You can't live for the sake of someone else. That's not life. If someone feels like they want to put an end to it... Accept it, instead of trying to control their will to life. Quit assuming their guilt and blaming them for their suicide, when it was a rationally selfish decision. Go ahead and denounce rationality if you will.
P.S.: it sucks to hear about your brother's death, Wykid... There's something highly suspicious about that situation though, but I guess you'll never get to know the truth. Just stay strong about your own life, that's all you can do (and I assume you are doing ;)).
Sorry, but suicide is selfish, no matter what way you chop it up...It may be selfish to not want someone to commit suicide for your own sake, but that doesn't take away from how selfish commiting suicide actually is.
I didn't say it wasn't selfish; I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be. I'd rather be dead and considered a coward, than alive and in pain. Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
You have a terrible mindset...if everyone lived soley for themselves, this world would be worse than it is. Step it up. Self reliance is important, but that doesn't mean you have to live as a selfish asshole.
The idea behind it is really simple. I undertake actions only with myself as the primary concern, whether it be aiming for joy or development. Other people are a secondary concern. Let me make this real practical by giving you some examples.
I went out last night with a long time female friend of mine. Why? Because I like hanging out with her. I wouldn't be hanging out with her if I didn't get something positive out of it; something that outweighs the negative aspects (such as having to travel 60 miles by train to spend a weekend in the dullness of my parents' area, spending money on drinks in a bar, spending my time). The positive aspects outweigh the negative, thus I did go for a drink with her. We had a good time, because we selfishly appreciate each other's company.
She asked me for some personal advice. Why did she do that? Because my opinion is valuable to her. Why did I give her the advice? Because I enjoy being of value to her. I enjoy giving advice when she needs it.
Later on, some other friends dropped by in the bar. One of them had been sick all week and was getting to feel somewhat better now, but he told me humbly that he had felt like shit, but he already felt better at the prospect of the amount of positive energy I bring about. I like being of such influence to them, because I value them highly and they are important to me. Had I not valued them highly, then should I have bothered spending my time with them? Of course not. But I felt good for making him feel better. Why? Because I value him highly. That's a pat on the shoulders for my own judgement. So much for being a selfish asshole, huh?
I don't give dimes to bums who demand the unearned. I don't give money to charity organizations to buy off the guilt they purposely try to feed me. They live by a moral code I don't approve of. I try to be as good as I can: always through investments; never through sacrifices.
Now what if life has become unbearable... That's a very selfish conclusion. If the people around you don't have the value to make your life more worth living, why should you sacrifice your pain for them? Suicide can be perfectly reasonable.
I get your mindset, but I don't fully agree...you don't have to benefit out of everything you do. I do lots of shit from the goodness of my heart that doesn't benefit me at all...In fact, I can suffer to make someone feel good. Like, for instance, missing a basketball game to go to my sisters musical performance. That's just the way I am though...I have self reliance, but I'm not a me-me-me type of person...not by a long shot. I value my people just as much as I value myself.
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I'm saying that being selfish is the way to be.
Thank God I'm a hero. I'm that selfish.
Those posts you made are so true. Even a mother that dies for her kids is selfish. She sacrifices herself because she wants her kids to live.
LOL...that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That's the opposite of selfish, because she cares more for her kids than she does for herself...to the point where she's willing to end she all together for her children's existence. Think about it.
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y'all seem to use a different definition of 'selfish'.
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y'all seem to use a different definition of 'selfish'.
yes