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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Don Rizzle on April 19, 2006, 07:22:35 PM
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I often write poems and letters to the women i love but i don't think its appropriate to send, i dunno why i'm posting but i've wanted to let my girl how i feal but its not healthy for her even tho she has told me many times she loves me, i know can't be fucking with her situation, but i'm drunk and when i can't sleep i write my feelings down so fuck you if you turn on me, i just wanna know if u guys think tell her my fealings n views on her circumstances we are forbidden lovers she got married cos she needed a visa but her man don't treat her like i would and she knows it n regrets it (n i'm not in some fantiscy world she tells me this all the time) i dunno whether to cut it off or not, she is the most amazing women but for now we can't be together, she keeps telling me me how she longs for the day and i will be forever her 'what if' and that her marriage ain't gonna last but i just seem to be stuck in a rut, my love can't commit to me but i am leaving for NZ so i guess a clean break will be good for me for me to move on but she still dominates my thoughts, what should i do?
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snatch the whore and get outta dodge
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read Romeo & Juliet thats a good story of forbidden lover. You might get some ideas from there.
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i would do what feels right at the time.
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read Romeo & Juliet thats a good story of forbidden lover. You might get some ideas from there.
dont they end up dead?
as for your situation.. i dunno.. at least you know its fucked up..
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i would do what feels right at the time.
agreed, why she with the guy anyways if he threads her like garbage?
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She doesn't love you, or she'd leave the guy and be with you right now. Sorry.
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I often write poems and letters to the women i love but i don't think its appropriate to send, i dunno why i'm posting but i've wanted to let my girl how i feal but its not healthy for her even tho she has told me many times she loves me, i know can't be fucking with her situation, but i'm drunk and when i can't sleep i write my feelings down so fuck you if you turn on me, i just wanna know if u guys think tell her my fealings n views on her circumstances we are forbidden lovers she got married cos she needed a visa but her man don't treat her like i would and she knows it n regrets it (n i'm not in some fantiscy world she tells me this all the time) i dunno whether to cut it off or not, she is the most amazing women but for now we can't be together, she keeps telling me me how she longs for the day and i will be forever her 'what if' and that her marriage ain't gonna last but i just seem to be stuck in a rut, my love can't commit to me but i am leaving for NZ so i guess a clean break will be good for me for me to move on but she still dominates my thoughts, what should i do?
i would say move on... but i know that way easier said than done... just spare your heart in this situation and lil by lil start going away from her.....
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She doesn't love you, or she'd leave the guy and be with you right now. Sorry.
yup
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mostly true..
but one girl i know is currently 'sticking with' her current boyf till something better comes along.. to help pay the rent.. so they can be cold and shady too!
and if ya'll look rizzle said something about only being with him due to a Visa.. may depend what the facts there are..
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She doesn't love you, or she'd leave the guy and be with you right now. Sorry.
Not everything is simple as that, she does love this guy its not just for a visa but thats why they got married, we have our history, but since things got serious we have just been friends well best friends pretty much because thats all we can be.
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we were talking today she said she had no doubt we would be a very happy couple, but we agreed its probably a good thing i'm not gonna be around cos it causes problems for the both of us, its hard to move on for me and its a strain on her marriage, I have not been trying to pry her away at all i support her give her advice, I would never try to come between their marriage, if it fell apart then that would be a different matter, n that is not particularly unlikely the guy cheated on her 2 weeks into the marriage and has been letting her down alot since they got married, i could try and exploit that, but then what kind of a friend would i be? So all i offer is my support. Plus at the end of the day if they get a divorce she loses her citizenship because they have only been married a month and i think its gotta be 2 years before you can stay so they ship her back off to zimbabwe. I can't understand why all white rhodesians don't get citizenship anyway her whole family can get it except her how fucked up is that
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i dont know man... something smells fishy... cant judge shit though, from the info we got, i say it's shady..
good thing you goin away..
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how old is she again. and how old are you.
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i dont know man... something smells fishy... cant judge shit though, from the info we got, i say it's shady..
good thing you goin away..
whats fishy? i know its a fucked up situation, one of the hardest moments of my life was being at the reception i really didn't want to go but she begged me because she needed my support she didn't want to be married but it was her only option, so i turned up late after all the speaches n everything, when i was leaving I said good bye her husband and told him to take care of her, he said he knows she loves (not in a nasty way) i just really didn't know how to react to that it was just so awkward and then when i said good bye to her she thanks me for coming, gave me a hug then a kiss on the lips, again i wasn't particularly comfortable with that with both families and everyone around and husbands sister tryna pull her away. n before and after she kept telling me how much she loved me i didn't really say much back cos its not right u know
i'm 22 and so is she
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how long have u known her for
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about a year
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i dont know, im not one to judge.. but i think you should wait it out a little longer before you guys start doing anything crazy. if youre only 22, and only known her for about a year...i think maybe you should just move on, and find someone else.. one year aint too long, and both you guys are still young as hell.
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i ain't even trying to get with her while she is married but i can't help thinking the world of her like, but i have never been closer to anyone I have told her things i have never told anyone before if there is such a thing as soul mates then i think thats what we are, we have never had one arguement and have endless respect for each other, i guess just one of those tests of life. going to new zealand should help me let go i hope.
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i ain't even trying to get with her while she is married but i can't help thinking the world of her like, but i have never been closer to anyone I have told her things i have never told anyone before if there is such a thing as soul mates then i think thats what we are, we have never had one arguement and have endless respect for each other, i guess just one of those tests of life. going to new zealand should help me let go i hope.
man, i feel u. I'm having that forbidden bullshit problem too.
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i ain't even trying to get with her while she is married but i can't help thinking the world of her like, but i have never been closer to anyone I have told her things i have never told anyone before if there is such a thing as soul mates then i think thats what we are, we have never had one arguement and have endless respect for each other, i guess just one of those tests of life. going to new zealand should help me let go i hope.
man, i feel u. I'm having that forbidden bullshit problem too.
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damn man that really sucks, so if she divorces she has to go back to zimbabwe ? :-X wow doesn't look like you guys got any chance being together anytime soon, that really sucks man, good luck with it.
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i ain't even trying to get with her while she is married but i can't help thinking the world of her like, but i have never been closer to anyone I have told her things i have never told anyone before if there is such a thing as soul mates then i think thats what we are, we have never had one arguement and have endless respect for each other, i guess just one of those tests of life. going to new zealand should help me let go i hope.
man, i feel u. I'm having that forbidden bullshit problem too.
and i'm havin de ja vu..
did you know her before she got married ? why didnt you marry her ?
look, i realise that zimbabwe mat be fucked up, but marrying just to stay in a country, well i'm not too keen on that... i dont want to be rude or anything, but look at it this way, she says she loves you, but she goes to bed and fucks another dude every night. that is as blunt as i can be. sorry.
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i ain't even trying to get with her while she is married but i can't help thinking the world of her like, but i have never been closer to anyone I have told her things i have never told anyone before if there is such a thing as soul mates then i think thats what we are, we have never had one arguement and have endless respect for each other, i guess just one of those tests of life. going to new zealand should help me let go i hope.
man, i feel u. I'm having that forbidden bullshit problem too.
and i'm havin de ja vu..
did you know her before she got married ? why didnt you marry her ?
look, i realise that zimbabwe mat be fucked up, but marrying just to stay in a country, well i'm not too keen on that... i dont want to be rude or anything, but look at it this way, she says she loves you, but she goes to bed and fucks another dude every night. that is as blunt as i can be. sorry.
good point.
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Exactly. Man, I've had similar troubles, you can ask O about it. There are good women, and then there are some that haven't grown up yet. The truth is, many 22 year old girls have no idea what the hell they're doing. I'm not trying to dog her, every girl when she's 16 or whatever is immature, and then sometime over the next 15 years they mature and get their life together. This girl you're talking to does not have her life together yet. She's basically cheating on her husband with you, even if it's only IM messages, if she's having that bad of a marriage, a mature woman would spend that time she's talking to you talking to HIM and trying to sort things out.
Women can tell you they love you all they want, actions speak louder than words... and like dude above said, she's sleeping with someone else. She's married to someone else. It makes her feel good that you've got it bad for her, it makes her feel attractive and important. She doesn't realize what she's doing to your heart by telling you she loves you, and maybe she thinks she does. If you truly loved someone, though, you wouldn't be fucking someone else.
I know that's not what you want to hear, and I wish the fairytale could come true for you, I have my own fairytale I've been chasing for 10 or 11 years now and I'm slowly (as I MYSELF mature) coming to realize that when you're inside the situation, things lose their clarity... whereas someone outside the situation can say "She's sleeping with somebody else, she must not want you"... and they're right! It really is as simple as that, man. I hate it for you, and I hope to hell I'm wrong. I WANT TO BE WRONG... sadly, I don't think I am, though.
Good luck with it, though.
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I have no doubt in my mind its love, everytime we go out together people mistake us for a couple not because we're all over each other but they can see the connection, but whatever i got nothing to prove. and i been trying to forget about my feelings and downplay them to her for a while, check that msn convo i posted i didn't even reply after what she said.
ANYWAY gotta move onto new things so I asked this hot chineese girl out last night see what happens with that
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just move on and forget about this girl.If she comes back to you then it was meant to be but for the mean just go and have some fucking fun homie.
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Thats fukced man...
just leave that f*cken woman and move on bro..nothing is worth holding on if it costing u such fucked feeling.
I really hate female that miss u the kindness of man,but just one a guys does that it's wrong
I would personaly say if you didn't get laid from her already that u a Loozer,but if you did homes is all good u will get some nuke some where else
B*atch
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^^^Yea i had b4.
Anyways i got a new misses now been going out with this korean girl for a month. funnily enough as soon as i told that other girl she stopped talking to me, she was upset i'd moved on cos she hasn't, I told her since i can't be with her what the fuck else am i supposed to do, become a loner my whole life? but we sorted it out the other day and are friends again i think.
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^ fuck being friends with someone you are inlove with, thats somethin that aint possible.
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yup... ditch that bitch.. dont let her gettin the way of you moving on. doesnt mean you cant be civil.. but dont go out of your way to do shit for her.
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keep a distance in the friendship id say...otherwise those same feelings might come back up
then again, im having a very similar problem, so i dunno :-\
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Send her this and say goodbye ! (don't worry you can say you wrote it, as long you don't publish it under your name :D)
Somewhere above Heaven
I imagine how I hold you in my arms
In front of thousands of waves,
I make thousands of hopes, I drown in plans and hopes
And all I want is to hold you close,
I want you to look at me and make me fly.
The road is so long to you
The distance is so big
So I let my soul to trust my wing, when I fell asleep.
I'm running to Heaven...
Through dark forests with leaves of clouds
I'm searchin the exit to you, to flowers.
I fly through time, through cold, thinking at us.
Got the Sun in my heart, want to forget about rains and pours.
But...among mouldy souls
I keep your image,
I see the break-up paint
When after two thousands lives of a butterfly
The demons were crying, angels started singin:
Everytime you say NO,
In two thousands pieces you break my soul
Still I'm on my path crawling,
I must see you falling.
In barbed wires of time I muddle
Now I wish I'd cry for you
It's not manly...
But you deserve it, I know I love you.
Now I'm high enough in my path...
The Sky teared off, but a bit later.
I'm watching you fallin, I can't write this letter...........
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Have you flown to NZ yet? lol, welcome neighbour! Yer new GF coming over too?
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NZ is the end of the year now. I dunno i hadn't really planned on going with her but she been saying she wants to go so i guess we'll see. the test will be in a couple of weeks when i go round europe for a month on my own lol
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man what a strait up jelous bitch... i wouldnt even want to be friends with her if she was like that.