West Coast Connection Forum
Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: s_dadry on August 25, 2006, 05:03:51 PM
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Wat y'all think bout arranged and forced marriages? Jus thort i'd be a interesting topi, as i kno sum1 goin through tha shit!!
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i feel sorry for the newer generations who get caught up in them even though they know there are alternatives. i guess in shithole parts of the world you dont really need to be in love, its more about passing the name on and surviving :-\
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they have a WAY lower divorce rate than regular marriage. Why, becaus they are forced, and there is no way out. Still, way lower divorce rate, should make CWalker happy.
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Only people from backwards cultures like the Middle East and India would do something like that.
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Yeah, for real! Sum people/parent's are messed up @ times!!!
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Funny, just recently I saw a very young couple that was on there way to their arranged marriage, those unhappy faces made my eyes blurry... just playing my eyes weren't blurry but you know what I mean huh?
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Yeah, i've know of ppl who have given in2 it, jus for the sakes of there parents' respect?? I mean W.T.F!! Shit's messed up man! For Real!!!
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marriage...is business..nothing more .
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Wat d'ya mean by Business?
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Whatever works. I'm not down w/forced marriages.
CWalker look up the definition of culture.
I've gotten a lot of offers from fathers/mothers that want to hook me up with their daughters but it's a mutual arrangement.
And I would have to (in a perfect world) get approval from all my relatives back home :laugh:
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All depends on if u get a hot bitch or not!
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http://www.youtube.com/v/R55xDxaXw5E
True stories...
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I've gotten a lot of offers from fathers/mothers that want to hook me up with their daughters but it's a mutual arrangement.
What country are you from?
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I've gotten a lot of offers from fathers/mothers that want to hook me up with their daughters but it's a mutual arrangement.
What country are you from?
I live in San Diego but I'm from Eritrea http://stevesgallery.com/files/Middle-East-map.gif and my parents are Christian ;D and don't get it twisted in our culture the girl can have her mother/relatives ask around for certain individuals and then have permission to date :) morning after the date they ask if you're getting married ;D
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And it's harder here because we're so spread out and every1 in your city is like a relative :laugh:
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I gotta m8 at work who's marriage was arranged, his wifey is younger than me and he's in his early 30s, lol, she's like 24.......I can't complain about that! lol. They're happily married.
I wouldn't mind the offers, but nah, f*ck off, I wouldn't do it, I'll take off to another country.
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theres these 2 guys at work, one is 26 one is 33, both of pakistan descent
the one who is 26 is married and has 2/3 kids
33 is married and has 3 kids
both nice guys, but i know people who are the white equivilant of these guys and arent married or anything
when i got speaking to them about their wives etc they both gave the same response about how they met
"we met at college, it wasnt arranged"
i could tell they were lying like they were ashamed of that stuff, kinda sad really
the one whos 26 isnt ready for kids and he has 2, he was telling me how hes going on holiday with his 3 cousins and leaving his family at home
the other one is good and ready for kids, hes a really down to earth guy, and u can tell he looks after his family
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Wat d'ya mean by Business?
why do people get divorce? why is marriage divorce all time high?
when they leave the guy, she gets half of what he makes. Especially when they have kids.
couples tend to cheat too. THe longer the marriage...the longer they gotta give money to these bitches. ya know what i mean?
i forget what it's called,...but people have to do that when they in marriage.