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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Noname on November 04, 2006, 02:33:35 AM

Title: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Noname on November 04, 2006, 02:33:35 AM
Im curious how many family members you already lost. Cuz im 20 now and i already lost my grandparents from my mom's side and my grandfather from my fathers side. And about 3 years ago i lost my father. To me that seems a bit much, cuz especially where i live my friends havent lost that many people yet by such an early age. So i wanna know if im one of the few or more people have lost so many family members or maybe even more. And im talking about close family members not family that you see once in a year or something.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: .SNEEKlocsta:. on November 04, 2006, 02:50:30 AM
Im curious how many family members you already lost. Cuz im 20 now and i already lost my grandparents from my mom's side and my grandfather from my fathers side. And about 3 years ago i lost my father. To me that seems a bit much, cuz especially where i live my friends havent lost that many people yet by such an early age. So i wanna know if im one of the few or more people have lost so many family members or maybe even more. And im talking about close family members not family that you see once in a year or something.
damn homie you serious?that sucks.ive lost 2cousins but not too close to them,sobsides a few homies that died,no close family have past.keep yo head up homie.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: JMan on November 04, 2006, 02:56:52 AM
damn homie, thats terrible to hear..

ive unfortunately lost both grandads, one of my aunts at the moment is in a real bad way and looks doubtful she'll pull through, and ive lost a friend who died in a car crash two years ago now..
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Noname on November 04, 2006, 04:22:19 AM
Im curious how many family members you already lost. Cuz im 20 now and i already lost my grandparents from my mom's side and my grandfather from my fathers side. And about 3 years ago i lost my father. To me that seems a bit much, cuz especially where i live my friends havent lost that many people yet by such an early age. So i wanna know if im one of the few or more people have lost so many family members or maybe even more. And im talking about close family members not family that you see once in a year or something.
damn homie you serious?that sucks.ive lost 2cousins but not too close to them,sobsides a few homies that died,no close family have past.keep yo head up homie.
damn homie, thats terrible to hear..

ive unfortunately lost both grandads, one of my aunts at the moment is in a real bad way and looks doubtful she'll pull through, and ive lost a friend who died in a car crash two years ago now..

Thx man. But you know i see it like this. Off course its fucked up when those things happen, but you cant controll that, it just happens. You dont help yourself with being depressed about it. But hey man i been depressed, but it only fucks you up. And causes you to do bad things. I did a lot of drugs and bad things but that dont help. It only makes things worse. But life is hard sometimes, but you just gotta keep your head up and try to be happy.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Mac 10 † on November 04, 2006, 04:39:20 AM
I've lost all 4 grandparents, one of my uncles and my mum's godfather.

I've been to plenty of funerals tho these are the ppl who I considered close to me.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Bramsterdam (see ya) on November 04, 2006, 07:12:06 AM
my grandparents from my fathers side died before I was born, still have my grandparents from my mothers side. Last year I lost one or two of my cousins.. other than that thats pretty much it
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: MontrealCity's Most on November 04, 2006, 07:27:47 AM
lost my grandmother. yo wat did youre dad die from youre pretty young.
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Post by: Boo-Yaa † on November 04, 2006, 07:55:40 AM
I still have both sets of grandparents still living, no one in my close family has died and i have never been to a funeral!

And i am 21, i guess im just lucky!

Condolences to every1 who has lost some1!

Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Sanford - V. President of the Dangerous Crew Movement on November 04, 2006, 09:22:50 AM
all of my grandparents are gone(RIP).  my mom(RIP) died when i was 2, and my dad was workin, and is still working 6-7 days a week.

no wonder we was so bad.   :(
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Noname on November 04, 2006, 11:02:17 AM
lost my grandmother. yo wat did youre dad die from youre pretty young.

My dad died from cancer. Its a fucked up disease, its taking a lot of people these days.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Mo Z. Dizzle on November 04, 2006, 11:23:54 AM
Lost both sets of grandparents
Lost my uncle and his daughter from my dad's side
Also lost an aunt from my dad's side a few years back; and her daughter (i.e. my cousin) passed away last year

Lost what would've been an older brother (would've been my rents first child)

Lost a nephew/neice (sister was pregnant for about a month, it was some wierd situation)

Also lost my father but not to death...too much shit to get into w/ that

edit: i also lost an uncle in the summer
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Mac 10 † on November 04, 2006, 01:53:31 PM
^^^ I think you win/lose so far, whatever you want to call it.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: WestCoasta on November 04, 2006, 03:35:05 PM
only one of my grandma's has died that's it....

my dad had cancer but he beat it
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: J Bananas on November 04, 2006, 03:54:14 PM
both my grandmas died but they were pretty old. i never knew one of my grandpas and i had an aunt that died at like 40 years old (heroin) :(, my grandpa though is 92 and still open minded to a bunch of stuff and pretty cool. he makes me bloody mary's if i come over in the afternoon
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: BG Dresta on November 04, 2006, 07:35:20 PM
I lost both my grandparents from my dads side, my grandma on my moms side. One of my uncles, died in 94 car crash. And my aunt and her husband at the same time in a car crash, happend mar. 05.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: westkoastanostra on November 04, 2006, 08:08:00 PM
damn sorry to hear that bro....it must be the worst thing in life losing ur moms, pops or even ur bro or sis...i've only lost gmy great grandparents and an uncle...
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: SoCal Iz Active on November 05, 2006, 02:23:45 AM
my dad died when i was 10
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Noname on November 05, 2006, 05:08:34 AM
Lost both sets of grandparents
Lost my uncle and his daughter from my dad's side
Also lost an aunt from my dad's side a few years back; and her daughter (i.e. my cousin) passed away last year

Lost what would've been an older brother (would've been my rents first child)

Lost a nephew/neice (sister was pregnant for about a month, it was some wierd situation)

Also lost my father but not to death...too much shit to get into w/ that

edit: i also lost an uncle in the summer

Damn thats fucked up homie. Al i can say is keep ya head up.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Mo Z. Dizzle on November 05, 2006, 09:04:14 AM
Lost both sets of grandparents
Lost my uncle and his daughter from my dad's side
Also lost an aunt from my dad's side a few years back; and her daughter (i.e. my cousin) passed away last year

Lost what would've been an older brother (would've been my rents first child)

Lost a nephew/neice (sister was pregnant for about a month, it was some wierd situation)

Also lost my father but not to death...too much shit to get into w/ that

edit: i also lost an uncle in the summer

Damn thats fucked up homie. Al i can say is keep ya head up.

thanks dude

biggest ones to probably take affect on me were my mom's father, what would've been the older brother and my nephew/neice

w/ my mom's dad and an older brother, my pops prolly wouldnt have done what he did do
as for the nephew/neice.....im sure anybody who has neices and nephews can understand how that'd make u feel


btw, i also remember that another uncle died a few years back as well from my mom's side (mom's sister's husband).....he drowned in an ocean and stuff
my aunt used to take care of me back home and stuff.....we talked to her last night, that's where i remembered

i got too many relatives to remember anymore now lol
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: QuietTruth on November 05, 2006, 10:07:42 AM
damn homie, thats terrible to hear..

The only person that I was close to that I lost was my granfather. The 19th will make it 4 years. Some other family members of mine passed but I wasn't tight to em that much, ya know.

My family is pretty much dead anyways, they all fucked.

I'm sorry for the rest of ya'll. My condolences!
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: 'DsR' on November 05, 2006, 11:49:48 AM
my dad died, and i have two uncles who are basically "lost", 1 on crack 1 on ice
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Gangstauu on November 05, 2006, 12:36:58 PM
im 17, and lost 2 so far
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Noname on November 05, 2006, 12:37:51 PM
im 17, and lost 2 so far

what, parents?
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: eazye on November 05, 2006, 02:04:04 PM
That is so fucked up homie, but like you said, stuff like that can't be controlled.My condolences to you and everyone in this thread

I've lost my grandmother from my mother's side when I was only 1 year old, too bad I never really had thechance to know her cause my sister says she was an amazing woman.And I lost an uncle that I was very close to 7 months ago on this date
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Sikotic™ on November 05, 2006, 02:08:56 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss man.

I've been blessed. I'm 21 and I've only lost two people. My grandmother died from brain and lung cancer when I was 11. My great grandmother died almost a year ago at 95. All of my other grandparents passed away before I was born.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: wcsoldier on November 05, 2006, 02:19:57 PM
Lost 2 uncles ( one died from a cancer, another by heart stop), never knew my grandfathers... lost a very good friend, she commit suicide after being raped , this was the hardest time in my life
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Mac 10 † on November 05, 2006, 03:57:57 PM
That's one thing ppl never think about after someone being raped.

The aftermath, constant fear n shit.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: Sparegeez on November 05, 2006, 04:32:27 PM
I had my grandpa die 3 years ago and my uncle died from Leukemia when I was 5 years old.
Title: Re: A serious question in a serious thread.
Post by: big mat on November 05, 2006, 05:30:15 PM
i lost my grandfather this summer, he was 75.