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Title: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: bez on February 04, 2008, 07:57:33 AM
Before Christmas I split up with my girl. We were only going out for a month properly but we was like dating for like 4 months. Anyway I have kinda tried to stay in touch with her but lately Ive been thinking fuck it, you like her still, try to get back with her. We kinda split up because she thought I wa sa bit too clingy but I think she just became a bit scared that things were getting a bit to serious too soon and as shes like two years younger than me it worried her. I dont know how to go about trying to get her back. I kinda feel helpless though because I dont think she will give it another go but I cant help thinking about her daily and stuff, its mad.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Jip on February 04, 2008, 09:08:45 AM
so she thinks you were too clingy, so you split up

but you cant stop thinking about her

maybe she was right?

.....stalker






























joke :{
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: NotoriousTDA on February 04, 2008, 10:43:44 AM
try talking to her man and see where that gets you.

if she still seems uninterested, then you gutta move on dude, just give it time.

Keep ya head up  8)

"Hold on, be strong, when its on its on."
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Nat Turner-reincarnated on February 04, 2008, 12:31:02 PM
u fucked to begin with because you tryin to get advice from a bunch of people u dont even know. loser
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: KAIN WITH THAT JFK SWAG |CLC| on February 04, 2008, 01:03:50 PM
WHO BROKE UP WITH WHO ? REALLY.
IF I HAD TO GUESS, I WOULD SAY SHE WASN'T FEELING YOU THAT WAY.

SEE IF YOU CAN BECOME FRIENDS FIRST.
MAYBE SHE'S BOOTY CALL MATERIAL :D
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Soulful on February 04, 2008, 01:33:00 PM
sounds like ure in love with this girl..nothing wrong with that homie

but if she doesnt have the same feelings for u..whatever the reason is, you should really try to move on, although its hard in the beginning..

good luck
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Don Jacob on February 04, 2008, 01:54:17 PM
let me tell you something man, and this has worked 100% of the time


women want something they can't have. they're the best attention whores you can imagine. so i say give her all sorts of attention ....maybe like a day or two then jsut completely ignore her. straight up. i'm not saying she'll fuck you on the spot right after that, but she'll respect you more (sound weird i know) and it opens up a better scenerio for another chance at a relationship. it's worked for me everytime. be patient and your time will come.

 if anything you got to reverse the role of clingy and shit though man. girls , and i know this sounds sexist,belong in that role not MEN. and i stress the word MEN/MAN. don't be a little boy about things, be a man. you got to think to yourself what would a MAN do.....not what would a "playa" do, or what would that emo fag that sang hey there delilah do, but what would would a MAN do. my point of reference is Dean Martin. he was just always so cool about shit, even when he showed emotion it was classy and respectible.

you'll do fine man, if you want her, you got to make her respect you. this will help you i promise.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Tanjential on February 04, 2008, 03:07:25 PM
Jake, it comforts me to no end that you're still around these boards.

-T
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: AlerG on February 04, 2008, 06:35:30 PM
let me tell you something man, and this has worked 100% of the time


women want something they can't have. they're the best attention whores you can imagine. so i say give her all sorts of attention ....maybe like a day or two then jsut completely ignore her. straight up. i'm not saying she'll fuck you on the spot right after that, but she'll respect you more (sound weird i know) and it opens up a better scenerio for another chance at a relationship. it's worked for me everytime. be patient and your time will come.

 if anything you got to reverse the role of clingy and shit though man. girls , and i know this sounds sexist,belong in that role not MEN. and i stress the word MEN/MAN. don't be a little boy about things, be a man. you got to think to yourself what would a MAN do.....not what would a "playa" do, or what would that emo fag that sang hey there delilah do, but what would would a MAN do. my point of reference is Dean Martin. he was just always so cool about shit, even when he showed emotion it was classy and respectible.

you'll do fine man, if you want her, you got to make her respect you. this will help you i promise.

Well put,

chill
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Machiavelli on February 04, 2008, 07:14:49 PM
what u do if u like a girl, but she has a boyfriend that shes been dating for a while but she likes you as well. She just doesnt want to "cheat" cuz shes confrotable with her boyfriend....thats my current problem. Keep trying or just forget about the bitch?
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Doggystylin on February 05, 2008, 12:51:47 AM
Jake pretty much said it best, so if you ask me, I'd say leave her alone for a while and for a while doesn't mean a few hours or a few days, a while means a fucking while.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: reguLAtor on February 05, 2008, 01:27:57 AM
It might not even be that you're in love or anything like that.  Maybe it's just that you guys broke up before you got a chance to smash.  That's called "the road not taken" and that shit haunts you for awhile...so u have to try and capitalize when u can.  Be persistent.   8)
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: bez on February 05, 2008, 07:27:48 AM
Yeah we didnt do a thing. Basically we was dating for a few months then with each other for a month and it that month I saw her like twice because she had uni work and dancing to finish before Christmas. I pretty much left her to it, not bugging aboit seeing her or nothing. Then the week she finished all her shit she came around on the Monday and said you're too clingy blah blah blah.

Anyway guys I got in touch with her and told her everything but no we have ended up arguing so at least Ive got some closeure. I dont want to even be friends with her now so Im jsut guna delete her out of my life and shit. I dont need people like her in my life, they just make it difficult. Ive tried being a mad but my feelings always seem to get ahold of me. I need to actually try moving on now, people break up, shit happens, it not always what you want but I suppose thats life hey.

Im jsut guna get rid of her totally cos after all this shit we have said to each other in the last day its obvious that maybe I was a bit clingy but its obvious to me that she thinks she was perfect in the relationship. Shes a bit of a dickhead to be honest.

Thanks for the advice guys. You each get a prop.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Tay on February 05, 2008, 05:43:39 PM
Pretty much exactly what Jacob said, you are going to have to move on eventually, and maybe she will want you back, maybe she won't. You can't force someone to be with you, you can try and charm them all you want, but it's their will.

what u do if u like a girl, but she has a boyfriend that shes been dating for a while but she likes you as well. She just doesnt want to "cheat" cuz shes confrotable with her boyfriend....thats my current problem. Keep trying or just forget about the bitch?

I definitely can relate to that situation. It kind of depends on their relationship, and how strong it is. You should probably try to talk to other girls so that way you aren't putting all your energy into one girl who you might not ever be with, but definitely can remain in that role as a friend with her. You could end up with just a really cool friend, or maybe things will change if she breaks up with her boyfriend.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: jeromechickenbone on February 05, 2008, 06:49:01 PM
Fuck this broad and move on.  Seriously.  I don't mean to be a dick, but she doesn't want you.  Chasing after her and calling her and shit isn't going to change that, it's actually going to make her respect you less.  There's billions of other women in this world, I promise you'll find another one.  Peace.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Tanjential on February 06, 2008, 12:35:42 AM
It might not even be that you're in love or anything like that.  Maybe it's just that you guys broke up before you got a chance to smash.  That's called "the road not taken" and that shit haunts you for awhile...so u have to try and capitalize when u can.  Be persistent.   8)

+1

QFT

-T
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Don Jacob on February 06, 2008, 12:54:58 AM
Jake, it comforts me to no end that you're still around these boards.

-T
u too man.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Don Jacob on February 06, 2008, 01:00:00 AM
what u do if u like a girl, but she has a boyfriend that shes been dating for a while but she likes you as well. She just doesnt want to "cheat" cuz shes confrotable with her boyfriend....thats my current problem. Keep trying or just forget about the bitch?


dude, straight up stay away from girls like that.

1. it shows that she has a selfish side that will be unleashed if the situation was right
2. she doesn't respect her man.

so what makes you think that she'll respect you. stay away from hoes like that, they have no class, you can't have a significant other but like someone else if you think that relationship is worth holding on to. straight up man. i've been down that road before too many times when i was younger, and it always lead to the same place eventually. the fact that she has a man AND she's letting you know she likes you is fuckin' bitch made. even if she never does anything with while she's with this dude, she has no class.

get yourself  a STRONG girl with class. they're not hard to find if you're strong and classy your self.


to all the BOYS on this board....get your Grown Man on...quit messin with lil' girls and find your self a woman.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Don Jacob on February 06, 2008, 01:03:06 AM
Yeah we didnt do a thing. Basically we was dating for a few months then with each other for a month and it that month I saw her like twice because she had uni work and dancing to finish before Christmas. I pretty much left her to it, not bugging aboit seeing her or nothing. Then the week she finished all her shit she came around on the Monday and said you're too clingy blah blah blah.

Anyway guys I got in touch with her and told her everything but no we have ended up arguing so at least Ive got some closeure. I dont want to even be friends with her now so Im jsut guna delete her out of my life and shit. I dont need people like her in my life, they just make it difficult. Ive tried being a mad but my feelings always seem to get ahold of me. I need to actually try moving on now, people break up, shit happens, it not always what you want but I suppose thats life hey.

Im jsut guna get rid of her totally cos after all this shit we have said to each other in the last day its obvious that maybe I was a bit clingy but its obvious to me that she thinks she was perfect in the relationship. Shes a bit of a dickhead to be honest.

Thanks for the advice guys. You each get a prop.

yo man, in a way that was bad how you ended it with her but GOOD that you're trying to let go. trust me.
i'm not going to diss her at all because it's unfair to comment with only one perspective. but let this be a learning experience for you in the future, correct the mistakes you made with her and you'll nab someone who will love YOU so much that you'll catch yourself probably doing what this chick did to you,lol. be nice and be easy man. your day will come. just build build build.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on February 06, 2008, 01:07:42 PM
gentlemen,

women are crazy............we don't even know what we want so be like us don't give it up on the first date and neither of you will have this problem

thats why God says to not sleep around unless your married...........

sorry the chaplin inside me came out11523
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Nigga_With_An_Additude on February 06, 2008, 01:20:15 PM
the whoorider came out to play..........

http://youtube.com/watch?v=fv9Q5ZieF5A

thats the best comment U can do man...............
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: bez on February 07, 2008, 03:58:34 PM
Well ive dleted everythin guys. I gave it one last shot but it wasnt guna work so I have deleted everything. If I see her when Im out Im literally guna ave to decide there adn then whether to say hello or not, Ill just do what I feel. I really cant be bothered with her now. I think the way she treated me was bullshit really. But thats girls hey.
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: LyRiCaL_G on February 07, 2008, 05:27:03 PM
yo jake props on that shit you said, on point, if you lookin for a relationship, be a man and look for a woman, not a girl....and that is not age verified, thats personality...and looks obviously but its gotta be some sort of balance....

yo i got so much shit i could type out to help muthafuckers with gettin ladies and whats to do and also what you gotta do yourself but dang, who would wanna read shit like that on a hiphop forum...still, i may make a post and all the ballers, and shit can post up advice for the cats in here on how to get a woman and how to keep one...dang, we all might learn something new aswell...haha.....

infact i think i will start a topic on this....yo jake and sikotic and whoever else knows how to get ladies, come holla in that

pz
 
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on February 13, 2008, 03:02:18 PM
Seems to me like you get a bit too emotional. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being emotional if that's you, but I just don't think flaunting your emotions to a girl is gunna get you much (in most cases). Also, it seems like you should be a little more assertive. You said you were seeing her for 4 months and didn't do anything with her? I mean, shit, that's probably a good part of the reason she wasn't feeling you... You can't expect shit to happen, you gotta make it happen. That's a mans job...PeACe
Title: Re: What advice would you give me ...
Post by: WestCoasta on February 13, 2008, 03:24:08 PM
Seems to me like you get a bit too emotional. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being emotional if that's you, but I just don't think flaunting your emotions to a girl is gunna get you much (in most cases). Also, it seems like you should be a little more assertive. You said you were seeing her for 4 months and didn't do anything with her? I mean, shit, that's probably a good part of the reason she wasn't feeling you... You can't expect shit to happen, you gotta make it happen. That's a mans job...PeACe

I agree...

plus the fact she said he was too clingy, that's not a good thing to her obviously and must have been a turnoff