West Coast Connection Forum
Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Elano on March 26, 2008, 05:01:39 AM
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To our neighbors, my wife, Nancy, and I don’t appear in the least unusual. To those in the quiet Oregon community where we live, we are viewed just as we are -- a happy couple deeply in love. Our desire to work hard, buy our first home, and start a family was nothing out of the ordinary. That is, until we decided that I would carry our child.
I am transgender, legally male, and legally married to Nancy. Unlike those in same-sex marriages, domestic partnerships, or civil unions, Nancy and I are afforded the more than 1,100 federal rights of marriage. Sterilization is not a requirement for sex reassignment, so I decided to have chest reconstruction and testosterone therapy but kept my reproductive rights. Wanting to have a biological child is neither a male nor female desire, but a human desire.
Ten years ago, when Nancy and I became a couple, the idea of us having a child was more dream than plan. I always wanted to have children. However, due to severe endometriosis 20 years ago, Nancy had to undergo a hysterectomy and is unable to carry a child. But after the success of our custom screen-printing business and a move from Hawaii to the Pacific Northwest two years ago, the timing finally seemed right. I stopped taking my bimonthly testosterone injections. It had been roughly eight years since I had my last menstrual cycle, so this wasn’t a decision that I took lightly. My body regulated itself after about four months, and I didn’t have to take any exogenous estrogen, progesterone, or fertility drugs to aid my pregnancy.
Our situation sparks legal, political, and social unknowns. We have only begun experiencing opposition from people who are upset by our situation. Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious beliefs. Health care professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun or recognize Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender.
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What The Fuck!
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most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender.
LMAO...they do now.
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most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender.
LMAO...they do now.
:D
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Ok, men don't have child's thru birth, WOMEN DO. I don't care how bad you want a kid.
I'm wit Es-jay. :D
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this thread is disturbing
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i'm leaving.
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^ LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!! (Pic and statements)
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That man...is an abomination of God!!
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...actually he was born a woman, had a sex change (surgically grafted penis and balls), but kept his (???) female reproductive capacities (womb, egg, etc) and was legally declared a man, so word, he is legally a man, but is giving birth because he is actually originally a woman...
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That kid is going to be fucked up for real
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i wanna see the doctor face at the hospital :D
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from a scientific perspective... thats actually kinda cool
but any other way you look at it :puke:
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...actually he was born a woman, had a sex change (surgically grafted penis and balls), but kept his (???) female reproductive capacities (womb, egg, etc) and was legally declared a man, so word, he is legally a man, but is giving birth because he is actually originally a woman...
ok, so if he/she/it has all his/her/its man parts , where is the kid squeezing out of ?
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...actually he was born a woman, had a sex change (surgically grafted penis and balls), but kept his (???) female reproductive capacities (womb, egg, etc) and was legally declared a man, so word, he is legally a man, but is giving birth because he is actually originally a woman...
ok, so if he/she/it has all his/her/its man parts , where is the kid squeezing out of ?
The guy still has a pussy.
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whoa...i can understand that they want a child, but have they ever thought about what the child is going to go through growing up?? is it worth it?? just because THEY want a child? that child is gonna be FUCKED UP for real..theyre gonna have to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on therapy and homeschooling.
this just shouldnt be.