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Title: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: morbidenigma on January 09, 2009, 08:27:17 AM
nah u fuckin cant ... bar a few exceptions

1. u meet when ur real young... so u became friends before sex ever came up on anyones minds

2. ur parents are real close, or ur bro is friends with there sis, or some bullshit like that.

3. one person is real ugly. im talking Jay-z ugly... so that thought aint even crossed ur mind

COS if u meet at say.. i dunno... 14-15 plus.. then u hit puberty.. so the theory is... why be friends in the first place?? CLEARLY cos there is some kind of mutual attraction??

Look at any of ur mates u made after 15 years old of the opposite sex.. .at anypoint did u become there friends to strike up interesting conversations and talk about the current state of the economy?
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 08:42:08 AM
Yes... they can.. there just cant be any sexual attraction thats all.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on January 09, 2009, 09:52:38 AM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 09:59:44 AM
 ::)
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: es-jay on January 09, 2009, 10:32:50 AM
i have plenty of female friends, met at college, work, pub etc.


i'd be lying if i said i wasn't sexually attracted to any of them.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: NotoriousTDA on January 09, 2009, 10:37:46 AM
i have tons of girlfriends.

 Its nice to have alot of girlfriends cuz that way they can hook you up their hot friends.

My best girlfriend Fiona is sexy, and she has a sexy girlfriends. Shes helped me hook up with a lot of them  ;D so its definately a positive to be friends with a girl.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Elano on January 09, 2009, 10:38:13 AM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

lol so true  ;D
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: S P I C E on January 09, 2009, 10:49:09 AM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

That is not true at all
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on January 09, 2009, 11:16:49 AM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

That is not true at all


how so? you can be close friends with a girl and have a lot of things in common with her if you're not girly or she's not manly?


just think about it...it's only common sense, son.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 11:20:39 AM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on January 09, 2009, 11:25:33 AM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...


friend connection=having things in common...girls and guys have to be similar in one way or another to have things in common to the point where they're close friends. a manly guy and a feminin girl generally aren't gunna have much in common aside from wanting to fuck. you think a straight guy can have a bitch friend that looks good and not get the urge to beat it up? LOL!...PeACe
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: you gon always be my latin queen bitch on January 09, 2009, 11:31:59 AM
yeah it almost impossible
I was workin then this new female came thru
she became a supervisor but all this time her man was locced up
but she started feelin me
I wasnt even seein that shit comin tho cuz shes that punk rock/tattooed n all that but fuck it she was portuguese so i went wit it, rich, job, ride everything
damn as time went on she was down- a ho, but fuck it its not like I was lookin to marry her
I ended up hittin that shit in the back of my work, while another supervisor was outside smokin 1time. he seen that shit and might have snitched on me, someone did and then the big bosses came and asked me was you hittin that shit in the back?
and i jus laughed......(but in mind Im like how the fuck did they find out so fast, damn let it marinate haha)
but I say all that to say this
I never would have thought Id be fuckin a female from my work, espeically this one
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: penenstamp on January 09, 2009, 11:42:58 AM
They can have a friendship, but not best friend like... unless he's gay.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: you gon always be my latin queen bitch on January 09, 2009, 11:45:09 AM
haha yeah
I was wit this other female (under age) but nothin happened
and then I met this other female much older (33)
she had a man but he wasnt about shit
so I had a girl but she wasnt about shit and i was feelin her mom more
we connected like its nuthin and she left her man and I left my girl and we got together
I ended up marryin her...
haha crazy shit





They can have a friendship, but not best friend like... unless he's gay.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Hey Ma on January 09, 2009, 12:20:56 PM
I suppose if you're a goon or socially inept then the concept of having an attractive friend of the opposite sex is foreign, but let's be real of course they can. This board is comprised of mostly adolescent males if you go out in to the real world you'll find it's not that hard.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 12:33:35 PM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...


friend connection=having things in common...girls and guys have to be similar in one way or another to have things in common to the point where they're close friends. a manly guy and a feminin girl generally aren't gunna have much in common aside from wanting to fuck. you think a straight guy can have a bitch friend that looks good and not get the urge to beat it up? LOL!...PeACe

Like I said.. a friendship is possible when you are NOT sexually attracted to each other.. case close.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: you gon always be my latin queen bitch on January 09, 2009, 12:36:15 PM
of course its possible
but when you seein a gang of females day 2 day and they fine or even average, its not hey waz up?
its where you at right now?
at the crib, waitin for you
aite ima slide thru

and this aint even ya girl
haha
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on January 09, 2009, 01:06:46 PM
I suppose if you're a goon or socially inept then the concept of having an attractive friend of the opposite sex is foreign, but let's be real of course they can. This board is comprised of mostly adolescent males if you go out in to the real world you'll find it's not that hard.


homegirls, yes... of course you can have homegirls who you socialize with...but we're talkin about close friends here. someone you call up when you need some advice and what not. this is not common amongst heterosexuals.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Roccy on January 09, 2009, 01:18:50 PM
I agree with NIK on this one. I have plenty of girls who are friends, but we don't actually HANG out, we may talk, they make invite me to parties, we may even blaze at times, but I never really 'hang' out with girls, its not something I can do.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 01:21:10 PM
wtf? u of all people should talk james lmaooo 8)
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Muhfukka on January 09, 2009, 02:58:51 PM
this is like that shitty when harry met sally movie
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Hey Ma on January 09, 2009, 04:38:10 PM
I suppose if you're a goon or socially inept then the concept of having an attractive friend of the opposite sex is foreign, but let's be real of course they can. This board is comprised of mostly adolescent males if you go out in to the real world you'll find it's not that hard.


homegirls, yes... of course you can have homegirls who you socialize with...but we're talkin about close friends here. someone you call up when you need some advice and what not. this is not common amongst heterosexuals.

oh, yeah. i hate that shit, dudes shopping and gossiping with girls, late night girl talk and pillow fights, strawberry soda and diaries and shit. i've seen that before and it disgusts me.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 09, 2009, 04:43:25 PM
^^ LMAO
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Muhfukka on January 09, 2009, 04:46:09 PM
ive got a close friend whose a girl but shes like 7 years older than me and she has a kid
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Chief on January 09, 2009, 06:17:30 PM
yes, sexual tension dies down after a while of knowing eachother

but if one remains attracted sexually to another, then no

Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Blood$ on January 09, 2009, 06:55:52 PM
I got mad friends who are chicks and most of them are sexy as hell haha... but I see both sides of the argument cuz we don't really "hang out", we just mainly party or when like everybody gets together we will all go out and do something, but that's basically where it ends with most of them
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: AlerG on January 09, 2009, 10:36:10 PM
as long as there's no alcohol involved, they can possibly just be friends,

AlerG
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Sikotic™ on January 09, 2009, 11:20:50 PM
Of course you can.........if one of you is gay.

Even my homies that pretend to have "female friends" (I don't have any because I don't believe in lying to myself) are always talking about how they wanna fuck her or they "let her spend the night" and try to lead you to believe they're watching The Notebook or playing Monopoly. Foolish house niggas.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Sikotic™ on January 09, 2009, 11:23:34 PM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...
LMFAO!......that "friend connection" is when the guy sticks his penis into the girl's vagina.........and if not, one (or both) of them is hoping for it to go down.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: jeromechickenbone on January 10, 2009, 08:40:02 AM
Chris Rock said it best (paraphrasing) - I only hang out with 2 types of broads: broads I'm fuckin, or broads I haven't fucked yet.


Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 10, 2009, 10:27:05 AM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...
LMFAO!......that "friend connection" is when the guy sticks his penis into the girl's vagina.........and if not, one (or both) of them is hoping for it to go down.

Ive have and had guy friends.. I assure you it never went any further.. we just have some things in common and like to hang out.. also, I get along well with guys (girls too, but sometimes I dont like how dramatic and backstabbing chicks can be) so whats wrong with having a cool guy friend that I hit up a blunt with once in a while, talk, listen to music, chill.. with no sexual attraction I think both genders can be friends.. I duno, its just my opinion though.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Floydness on January 10, 2009, 10:27:55 AM
Oh yeah and I see what you guys mean from your side as well.. Ive had very FEW (1 or 2) guy friends that I actually liked more than friends and it didnt work out lol..
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: you gon always be my latin queen bitch on January 10, 2009, 04:51:31 PM
haha good shit



Chris Rock said it best (paraphrasing) - I only hang out with 2 types of broads: broads I'm fuckin, or broads I haven't fucked yet.



Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Sikotic™ on January 10, 2009, 06:20:14 PM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...
LMFAO!......that "friend connection" is when the guy sticks his penis into the girl's vagina.........and if not, one (or both) of them is hoping for it to go down.

Ive have and had guy friends.. I assure you it never went any further.. we just have some things in common and like to hang out.. also, I get along well with guys (girls too, but sometimes I dont like how dramatic and backstabbing chicks can be) so whats wrong with having a cool guy friend that I hit up a blunt with once in a while, talk, listen to music, chill.. with no sexual attraction I think both genders can be friends.. I duno, its just my opinion though.
The guys always remained hopeful though. They always do......unless they're into the cock.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Matty on January 10, 2009, 07:44:04 PM
y'all missing out on the friends partners angle. if your close friends with someone in a relationship you often become friends with their partner if you and the person still stay tight. not usually close close friends though no. this is mostly guys fault.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: you gon always be my latin queen bitch on January 10, 2009, 08:32:54 PM
y'all missing out on the friends partners angle. if your close friends with someone in a relationship you often become friends with their partner if you and the person still stay tight. not usually close close friends though no. this is mostly guys fault.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: MediumL on January 11, 2009, 10:43:25 AM
yes. especially if their ur mates gf.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: 2euce 7even on January 11, 2009, 12:03:05 PM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

That is not true at all

my answer (would be) is between these two
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: morbidenigma on April 18, 2009, 11:17:36 AM

Ive have and had guy friends.. I assure you it never went any further.. we just have some things in common and like to hang out.. also, I get along well with guys (girls too, but sometimes I dont like how dramatic and backstabbing chicks can be) so whats wrong with having a cool guy friend that I hit up a blunt with once in a while, talk, listen to music, chill.. with no sexual attraction I think both genders can be friends.. I duno, its just my opinion though.
The guys always remained hopeful though. They always do......unless they're into the cock.



real talk
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: stillinrehab on April 18, 2009, 08:36:32 PM
Yes... men dont want to fuck ugly bitches so those become their friends!  8)
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Cali Climate on April 18, 2009, 08:38:43 PM
Of course they can.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Jaydc555 on April 18, 2009, 08:39:32 PM
I've got more female friends then male friends.I am a bit shallow in that I can't be friends with a girl if I'm at least attracted to her.Its good for the hooking up for friends benefit.That being said they have to be intelligent as well because I can't stand stupidity.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: K.Dub on April 19, 2009, 02:34:33 AM
sometimes people just have a general friend connection^^ it doesnt mean the guy has to be girly or the girl has to be manly.. sometimes people just have a friend connection...
LMFAO!......that "friend connection" is when the guy sticks his penis into the girl's vagina.........and if not, one (or both) of them is hoping for it to go down.

Ive have and had guy friends.. I assure you it never went any further.. we just have some things in common and like to hang out.. also, I get along well with guys (girls too, but sometimes I dont like how dramatic and backstabbing chicks can be) so whats wrong with having a cool guy friend that I hit up a blunt with once in a while, talk, listen to music, chill.. with no sexual attraction I think both genders can be friends.. I duno, its just my opinion though.
The guys always remained hopeful though. They always do......unless they're into the cock.
Haha
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: DPG4EVA on April 19, 2009, 07:47:02 AM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

NIK knowledge... you gotta love it.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: JAZ on April 20, 2009, 09:18:10 AM
who fucking cares.

let me explain this to you. men = friends. women = fucking. THE END.
Title: Re: the universal question - can men and women be friends ?
Post by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on April 21, 2009, 03:50:55 PM
usually, the girl has to be a little dykey and/or the guy has to be a little faggy in order to be friends...otherwise, the answer is no.

NIK knowledge... you gotta love it.


you're gay... gotta hate it.