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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: A on February 06, 2009, 09:18:38 AM
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i dont post much but man what would you all do if u was me.
alright ive been working with this female shes my manager. We were real close talk all the time, work together, she use to take me to eat after work shared food with me during lunch. She invited me to her house during the holidays i got know her family, she made me feel like i was family. She even put band aids on my finger when i got cut a couple of times real cool female. but she was older then me and was married and has kids 2. Well one thing thing lead to another and we kinda hooked up. Then she kinda regretted it and kinda started to ignore me and told me she made a mistake. I could understand that but damn that hurt me. So anyways we were still friends then we starting falling for one another again she said we were gonna hang out one day but it didnt end up happening i tried to call her she wouldnt call me back. So the next day at work i was pissed felt like she was playing with me i was like wtf. Then she got mad at me said i didnt know how to act and that she was with her husband cuz he toke tha day off and that she didnt want anything to do with me. That shit hurt again damn. well since then shes been a bitch to me wont talk to me wont even look at me giving me the toughest jobs it even fells like she turned the females against me. But when i tell her i wanna quit she tries to be all nice to me and she tells me noo dont quit. But lately she been worse shes hella nice to everyone else and she acts like im not even there. This pisses me off cuz i helped her so much I saved her job twice she doesnt even know how to speak english (we work the Graveyardshift) and i came in just when another boss came in and he tried to make her quit or move her to another store but i helped her i translated for her did papers she was supposed to do, read notes and all kind of shit she shoulda been doing. so keep in mind shes getting paid twice of what im getting but i didnt care cuz she was hella cool with me. One time someone toke her purse and i had to cancel her credit cards translate for her to the police and thats something i dont wanna do buts thats how much love i had 4 her. theres more but fuck i dont wanna keep going. anywayz lately shes been a bitch to me she dont even wanna be near me but she acts like everything is all good in front of the rest and im trying to be cool with her but today i was like fuck it I started doing the same to her... what would yall do? i wanna quit but then i dont its hard to find a job right now
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Todays lesson: Try not to shit in your own backyard...
Theres nothing much that u can do, at this point everything is on the table and shes ignoring u because she doesnt want her husband to find out about u and worry sets in about ruining her family (even though that idiot should have thought about that before the situation even happend) anyways, it seems that she still has some feelings for u which is the "reason" behind her wacky attitude. Dont take it to heart, I suggest u look for another job while ur still working at this one.. Dont call her anymore, treat her in a nice manner but just be a little on the cold side. If u dont find another job then u just have to bite the bullet and sleep in the bed u made for urself.
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bitches are fucked like that. I'd say fuck that bitch quit your job and never talk to that ho again. Ive had similar shit happen to me and evertime they blow you off they come back and say their sorry, but then they do it again and again. So fuck em. If you quit and she tries to get you back dont take her back shes just playing games.
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have her deported and take her job.
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the crazy thing is when i first started working i was not even on her like that cuz when i started working there her husband was working there 2 and i became cool with him, then he left.(damn this shits crazy) then she started flirting with me and wearing sexy shirts and following me around working with me and now im like wtf were u coming on to me then. its hard though cuz she looks good, everytime when i use to go to lunch with her every guy would look at her.
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^^^maybe she still cheats on her husband, she just found somebody she likes better then you now...
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YEAH I FEEL YOU CUZ I WENT THRU SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND ITS A BAD PLACE TO BE IN
AITE INFO BOUT THIS FEMALE:
-HER MAN WAS LOCKED UP
-SHE HAD SKRILLA
-SHE WAS SMART
-SHE WAS BOUT 25 AT THE TIME, SHE WAS MUCH OLDER THAN ME
(I WAS ONLY YOUNG 17/18)
I STARTED WORKIN AT THIS PLACE, AND THEN THIS FEMALE STARTS WORKIN AS A CASHIER WHICH I WAS DOIN UNTIL I MOVED UP BUT. I WAS NEVER INTERESTED IN MOVIN UP THO, TRYNA TO STAY LOW-KEY BUT SHE BECAME A SUPERVISOR QUIK. AITE THATS WAZ UP. GOOD SHIT. BUT THAT MEANS I WOULD HAVE MORE INTERACTION WIT HER CUZ SHE WOULD BECOME ONE OF MY MAIN SUPERVISORS. AITE LETS GET IT. SO YOU KNOW WE START CHOPPIN IT UP MORE THAN WHEN SHE STARTED AND WAS A NOBODY. SO SHE STARTS TRYNA TO GET AT ME. AND IM YOUNG SO I WENT WIT IT, CUZ THERES ALL THE OTHER GUYS SHE CAN GET AT AT THE JOB BUT SHE GETS AT ME. SO IM WIT IT, SHES AITE NOT BANGIN BUT ITS SOMETHING TO WORK WIT IT, AND IM NOT GON COMPLAIN ABOUT IT.
SO WE START DOIN WHATS GOOD. SHED PICK ME UP
TAKE ME TO THE MOVIES, BUY ME SHIT, ETC....
SHIT WAS COOL.
THEN AT WORK SHES TRYNA TO GET MORE SERIOUS IN FRONT OF EVERYONE AND IM NOT TRYNA TO HAVE THAT CUZ THERES HATERS AND THAT AINT GO TURN OUT RIGHT. SO IM TRYNA TO KEEP IT ON THE DL BUT IM JUS GOIN WIT WIT. I MEAN EVERYTIME I WAS BY MYSELF ON THE AISLE OR DOIN SOME SHIT SHE WOULD TRY AND DO SOME SHIT.
I ENDED UP HITTIN THAT SHIT IN THE BACK OF THE JOB. BUT CRAZY PART WAS A SUPERVISOR WAS OUTSIDE SMOKIN AND SEEN IT HAHA.
SO IT BECOMES BREAKIN NEWS, THIS CAT WAS HITTIN IN THE BACK WHOOP WHOOP. IM LIKE FUCK, I GOT CAUGHT BUT I HOPE THIS JUS GOES AWAY. IT WENT AWAY FOR THE MOST PART/
MEMBER DURIN ALL THESE TIMES SHE WAS COOL AND SHIT PRETTY MUCH MY GIRL.
SHE DOES SOME SHIT AND GETS SNITCHED ON BY ANOTHER SUPERVISOR. SO THEY GO AT IT AND SHIT HAPPENS. THEN SHE BECOMES HOMIES WIT HER (WHO SHE WENT TO WAR WIT AT FIRST) THEN THEY TURN AGAINST ME AND START HATIN.
AITE THATS WAZ UP, LETS GET IT!
SO BASICALLY IN THE END SHE WAS FEELIN ME BUT AS TIME WENT ON, SHE WENT THE OTHER WAY KINDA LIKE YOUR SITUATION AND ACTIN ON SOME SHADY SHIT. SIDES SHE WAS A HO, BUT I DIDNT GIVE A FUCK WHY, CUZ SHE WOULD HOOK ME UP WIT EVERYTHIN AND ID BE FUCKIN HER LIKE ITS NUTHIN
BUT THATS THE WAY FEMALES ARE. SO IF I WERE YOU JUS IGNORE HER AND MOVE ON. FEMALES ARE THAT WAY REGARDLESS. IN THIS CASE ITS ON YOU, CUZ SOUNDS LIKE SHES GON USE YOU TIL YOU MOVE ON
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bitches are fucked like that. I'd say fuck that bitch quit your job and never talk to that ho again. Ive had similar shit happen to me and evertime they blow you off they come back and say their sorry, but then they do it again and again. So fuck em. If you quit and she tries to get you back dont take her back shes just playing games.
real talk, i had the same fucking experience
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YEAH I FEEL YOU CUZ I WENT THRU SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND ITS A BAD PLACE TO BE IN
AITE INFO BOUT THIS FEMALE:
-HER MAN WAS LOCKED UP
-SHE HAD SKRILLA
-SHE WAS SMART
-SHE WAS BOUT 25 AT THE TIME, SHE WAS MUCH OLDER THAN ME
(I WAS ONLY YOUNG 17/18)
I STARTED WORKIN AT THIS PLACE, AND THEN THIS FEMALE STARTS WORKIN AS A CASHIER WHICH I WAS DOIN UNTIL I MOVED UP BUT. I WAS NEVER INTERESTED IN MOVIN UP THO, TRYNA TO STAY LOW-KEY BUT SHE BECAME A SUPERVISOR QUIK. AITE THATS WAZ UP. GOOD SHIT. BUT THAT MEANS I WOULD HAVE MORE INTERACTION WIT HER CUZ SHE WOULD BECOME ONE OF MY MAIN SUPERVISORS. AITE LETS GET IT. SO YOU KNOW WE START CHOPPIN IT UP MORE THAN WHEN SHE STARTED AND WAS A NOBODY. SO SHE STARTS TRYNA TO GET AT ME. AND IM YOUNG SO I WENT WIT IT, CUZ THERES ALL THE OTHER GUYS SHE CAN GET AT AT THE JOB BUT SHE GETS AT ME. SO IM WIT IT, SHES AITE NOT BANGIN BUT ITS SOMETHING TO WORK WIT IT, AND IM NOT GON COMPLAIN ABOUT IT.
SO WE START DOIN WHATS GOOD. SHED PICK ME UP
TAKE ME TO THE MOVIES, BUY ME SHIT, ETC....
SHIT WAS COOL.
THEN AT WORK SHES TRYNA TO GET MORE SERIOUS IN FRONT OF EVERYONE AND IM NOT TRYNA TO HAVE THAT CUZ THERES HATERS AND THAT AINT GO TURN OUT RIGHT. SO IM TRYNA TO KEEP IT ON THE DL BUT IM JUS GOIN WIT WIT. I MEAN EVERYTIME I WAS BY MYSELF ON THE AISLE OR DOIN SOME SHIT SHE WOULD TRY AND DO SOME SHIT.
I ENDED UP HITTIN THAT SHIT IN THE BACK OF THE JOB. BUT CRAZY PART WAS A SUPERVISOR WAS OUTSIDE SMOKIN AND SEEN IT HAHA.
SO IT BECOMES BREAKIN NEWS, THIS CAT WAS HITTIN IN THE BACK WHOOP WHOOP. IM LIKE FUCK, I GOT CAUGHT BUT I HOPE THIS JUS GOES AWAY. IT WENT AWAY FOR THE MOST PART/
MEMBER DURIN ALL THESE TIMES SHE WAS COOL AND SHIT PRETTY MUCH MY GIRL.
SHE DOES SOME SHIT AND GETS SNITCHED ON BY ANOTHER SUPERVISOR. SO THEY GO AT IT AND SHIT HAPPENS. THEN SHE BECOMES HOMIES WIT HER (WHO SHE WENT TO WAR WIT AT FIRST) THEN THEY TURN AGAINST ME AND START HATIN.
AITE THATS WAZ UP, LETS GET IT!
SO BASICALLY IN THE END SHE WAS FEELIN ME BUT AS TIME WENT ON, SHE WENT THE OTHER WAY KINDA LIKE YOUR SITUATION AND ACTIN ON SOME SHADY SHIT. SIDES SHE WAS A HO, BUT I DIDNT GIVE A FUCK WHY, CUZ SHE WOULD HOOK ME UP WIT EVERYTHIN AND ID BE FUCKIN HER LIKE ITS NUTHIN
BUT THATS THE WAY FEMALES ARE. SO IF I WERE YOU JUS IGNORE HER AND MOVE ON. FEMALES ARE THAT WAY REGARDLESS. IN THIS CASE ITS ON YOU, CUZ SOUNDS LIKE SHES GON USE YOU TIL YOU MOVE ON
damn thats crazy. but damn id didnt think shell do that to me though you feel me i mean how you gonna introduce me to your family and be shady to me after i saved ur job and help her ass out a lot. but i wasnt thinking right i was young 2 still am that shit was new to me. Damn but i learned a lot from this job and females period. the crazy thing i almost hooked up with a cashier cuz she liked me. She came there in the morning to open and then the next day my manager found out and she was like behind my back you trying to hook up with other females. And im like wtf u told you didnt want anything to do with me and now u bring this bs. that bitch is confusing damn never gonna hook with another female at work.
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yeah hookin up wit a female at work is "DANGEROUS" and shit is bound to go the wrong way and it very well could go against you especially if your a homie. homies are more in the spotlight than females and therefore the female employee will always try and turn against:
-she might find another cat to fuck wit it
-she could have had someone all along, jus might have been takin a break and doin other shit but playin it off like ahh nah im single right now.
but yeah sounds like she was usin you. and if i were you I'd use the fuck outta here or jus cut it off. cuz one things for sure (in my experience and wit females in general) they will find a way to go against you. crazy but they will. and thats gon create some hardships at your JOB.
but yeah I didnt take shit too serious wit her all along but I used the fuck outta her cuz she came at me wit that attitude ya feel me? I mean its all good a ho is a ho whether they want to believe it or not. and she didnt care that I used her until she went on wit whatever she did. I actually got fired first from the job cuz of a dyke bitch supervisor.
years later, I was walkin thru the mall and what you know?
i see the same bitch i used to fuck wit. she didnt recognize me but she looks the same and im like damn shes still her same ol thang.
but yeah a major lesson in this life at a young age:
a ho is a ho (nothin wrong wit kickin it wit a ho)
a real female is a real female (these do exist, but damn there hard to find especially at the job but its possible)
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It's way easier for the girl to start hatin on you than her own self after she starts to feel guilty about what she did. They never want to look at themselves and say damn I messed up...It's much easier for them to try and say to themselves it was the dudes fault. So throw up a peace sign and try not to get involved with breezies that are already in a relationship . Stay up.
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LOL tell a higher authority and get her fired
dont quit your job though
every bitch has a bitch side to them and you have just witnessed your lovers bitch side
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yeah thats pretty much what im sayin
a bitch will always be a bitch
a ho will always be a ho
a real muthafuckin female will always be a real muthafuckin female
all 3 types are out to get real muthafuckin homies str8 up!!!!
It's way easier for the girl to start hatin on you than her own self after she starts to feel guilty about what she did. They never want to look at themselves and say damn I messed up...It's much easier for them to try and say to themselves it was the dudes fault. So throw up a peace sign and try not to get involved with breezies that are already in a relationship . Stay up.
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File sexual harassment charges. Flip the script....Fuck that bitch.
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yeah thats pretty much what im sayin
a bitch will always be a bitch
a ho will always be a ho
a real muthafuckin female will always be a real muthafuckin female
all 3 types are out to get real muthafuckin homies str8 up!!!!
It's way easier for the girl to start hatin on you than her own self after she starts to feel guilty about what she did. They never want to look at themselves and say damn I messed up...It's much easier for them to try and say to themselves it was the dudes fault. So throw up a peace sign and try not to get involved with breezies that are already in a relationship . Stay up.
yea man i see but i thought she was a real female who ended up being a bitch and a undercover hoe. lol a but thanks for yall post and not fucking around with the kid.
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yeah nah i feel what you sayin
sometimes mistakes help you in the long run
so altho you might have been hurt in some way from this, you will learn from your mistakes
or at least the mistakes you made might help you in the future when your in a similiar situation.
thats like their job, but we gotta be smarter and hit em upside the azz wit some hardcore shit like you didnt see this comin.
yeah thats pretty much what im sayin
a bitch will always be a bitch
a ho will always be a ho
a real muthafuckin female will always be a real muthafuckin female
all 3 types are out to get real muthafuckin homies str8 up!!!!
yea man i see but i thought she was a real female who ended up being a bitch and a undercover hoe. lol a but thanks for yall post and not fucking around with the kid.
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trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
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thats it thats the key right here
do this and youll be good str8 up
watch that bitch will come back faster than a declined check!!!!
trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
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trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
im gonna do that shit now, i dont give a shit no more i dont even got any feelings 4 her no more im just gonna have fun with this. what ever happens happens this job aint nothing anywayz. i just like looking at that booty though. lol
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yeah jus do that
trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
im gonna do that shit now, i dont give a shit no more i dont even got any feelings 4 her no more im just gonna have fun with this. what ever happens happens this job aint nothing anywayz. i just like looking at that booty though. lol
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my friend just went thru this shit.. hes crazy he works at pizza hut and his coworker some fat bitch was feelin him so he took her back to the pad turned on the xbox live camera hopped on UNO and sent me and a couple of ppl an invite, and got sucked off right on camera he was throwin up the DUBB no lie lol.. well a month later she claims at her work that she got pregnant by him starting rumours typical fat bitch female.. and my homie heared she was telling everybody and in front of everyone he goes bitch u cant get pregnant from sucking dick and she QUIT! lol
moral of the story, do not fuck bitches at your work. females love gossip and one minute they feelin u, next minute they madd at the world. especially married bitches dont fuck them... shit will catch up quik and your gonna have to embarrass that bitch and get ghetto at your work. :)
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M.O.B. Money Over Bitches, Cash Over Ass. Make sure yo money right and get as far away from her as possible
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haha move to another state
M.O.B. Money Over Bitches, Cash Over Ass. Make sure yo money right and get as far away from her as possible
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thats it thats the key right here
do this and youll be good str8 up
watch that bitch will come back faster than a declined check!!!!
trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
YUP. realest shit said on this board in a while.
just focus on work and ignore the girl, as hard as that sounds. girls have this tendency to blame the guy when they mess up cause they aren't good at admitting they did ANYTHING wrong. we're always the bad guy no matter how wrong they are.
who knows if she'll go to you if you start ignoring her though. she seems like she doesn't want AT LEAST a friendship either. you're better off ignoring her for the rest of your life, but it's hard getting over someone if you see them everyday at work. idk man...
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^^^^^^ I did that shit today( Ive been ignoring her since yesterday) and that worked lol. she gave me hella easy work today that was like one of my easiest days. She even gave me some food to eat for lunch i didnt bring shit. I talked to her for like a min at the end cuz she went to work right next to me. damn this posting shit is like therapy. i use to trip when i got off of work, now i hust laugh this shit off.
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thats it thats the key right here
do this and youll be good str8 up
watch that bitch will come back faster than a declined check!!!!
trick is to ignore her and act like u done wiht her and dont care. if u always tryin to get at her and shes just blowin u off just quit for a while. dont talk to her,dont look her way, act like she aint there. ill bet in no time shes back tryin to talk to u. gotta play hard to get man, dont act like a bitch, girls hate when u act hurting to them.
YUP. realest shit said on this board in a while.
just focus on work and ignore the girl, as hard as that sounds. girls have this tendency to blame the guy when they mess up cause they aren't good at admitting they did ANYTHING wrong. we're always the bad guy no matter how wrong they are.
who knows if she'll go to you if you start ignoring her though. she seems like she doesn't want AT LEAST a friendship either. you're better off ignoring her for the rest of your life, but it's hard getting over someone if you see them everyday at work. idk man...
Real talk fellas. Good to hear A, that she is backing off of you. Just get that paper and ignore her. Sometimes more can be said by saying nothing at all, real talk Ocho.
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glad that shit worked man. 8)
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Lotta dudes making nice points on here, I respect that
- the dude that made the comment about using you, that's true bitches have a knack for doing that shit.
- and the other comment about playing hard to get it props on that one too, it took me a while but I learned the hard way. When i was in highschool i was a fucking loser with girls, i would chase them but never get any of me even though im a pretty handsome and talented guy. Then as soon as i went to University i changed my style up, EVery time i go to clubs/frat parties, i act like im the prize and jus ignore bitches in general and they come try to get my attention like crazy.
Now it helps that iam majoring in Behavioural Economics so i learn a lot about how people behave in different situation. And girls, they are like cats. Have you ever notice that in a room, the cat always goes after the person who is the least interested in it? Well, girls from my experience are the same way.
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u gotta go up to girls and smash... come correct with your game.. and later on your lies.. women like men with swagger and confidence. in the club go up to all these bitches and be like hey, u look nice 2night whats your name?
u gotta realize there are girls for everybody .. some chics like skaters/punks and some chics like gangsters, or the same chic could be feelin different that day and just fuck both of them the same day, in the morning and at night.