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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Kool Beenz on March 09, 2009, 01:48:06 PM
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so saturday night i diss my girl to hang out with this bitch i met from out of town..
this bitch is fine and lives like 15 minuites away out of town
so she calls me out of no where telling me she wants to hang out and to go out to the club with her and what not...
so im thinking sure i can diss my bitch for this bitch...
so i make up some shit that the boys wanna play poker and tell my broad i cant go out with her tonight and she is cool about it because she is going out with her girls...
so i meet up with the other broad and we go out and i see some of my chicks friends there and im just like (you never saw me here dont say shit or ill kill yall) but they are cool ive done this before so i figure they wont say anything
well that night we make plans to go to the mall together on sunday...
so once again i lie to my girl to go with that other chick to the mall
well its my chicks younger cousins birthday so she is at the mall with her aunt and mom and they catch me red handed...
i get a bunch of missed calls and texts of her talking shit and her crying like blah blah blah
i felt so fuckin bad dude cus her family loved me and her brother was one of my good homies so i talk to her brother and he is like "i aint mad at you thats the way the game goes you just fucked up with my sister she never wants to talk to you again and she thinks your an asshole"
so i havent talked to her and then today i left to go get some whataburger and run some errands and when i get home i find a box full of all my shit i got her in my front door.. :(
i guess its over for good...
ill post some pics up later tonight of the 2 girls and tell me if that bitch i fucked around with was worth losing my chick over...
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^^Who cares which one is hotter dude?? If you really cared about your girl and everything was going good then you probably made a mistake man, but I do want to see the pics lol
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p.s. her friends snitched
and this is my first time ever getting caught cheating... (i think?)
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ill post them up after work cus i gotta get them from myspace
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Damn, that sucks! You will still be able to hit this other chick tho?
Get those pics up ;-)
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Hit broad 2 quick before she catches wind of the situation and gets pissed. Don't lose both.
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Hit broad 2 quick before she catches wind of the situation and gets pissed. Don't lose both.
word up.
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I was alternating 3 of them this past summer. Its cool if they know what your about but in this case they all thought they were the only one.. You don't know how challenging it was for me to not slip up. It eventually had to end though because its crazy trying to keep track and stay up on your game and have your friends and family be on the same page.
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There are two periods in a relationship where you can do something like this. First is the probation period (the first 3 months), and then there's the period where you know the relationship is not going good and you just want out.
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YOU SLIPPIN SON!!!!!!!111111
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I WANT PICS GOD DAMN IT
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pics or it didnt happen
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:stupid: :stupid: :stupid:
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haha that sucks for you
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im starting not to like the new bitch though
she is coming off as a blunt bitch who is sort of stuck up
my ex girl was the total opposite.. she was a sweet heart and kind as fuck
im gonna fuck the new girl as soon as possible and never talk to her again and show her what bitches and their pussys are made for
at the moment im working on getting my old bitch back she may stop by after she gets off work...
idk what to say im just gonna be a man about it and admit i was wrong and what not but how the fuck am i gonna explain this shit to her mom and aunt :stupid:
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You are a good man. Do it for your country son :firedevil:
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ok she is on her way imma log off...
ill holla at yall later and update yall on what happin
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if your trying to get back with your ex, the last thing you want to do is fuck the new bitch. what if after this "talk" she catches you again? GAME OVER.
the new bitch is cute, but i dont think i'd risk it.
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nah the first female is better
get back wit her IMO
theres way to get outta what you got yourself into, especially this situation
its possible
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AG,
what you did is straight fucked up, man. Although, it's not my business, shit...I wouldn't pull that shit on my girl...fuck nah.
Hope you serious about her....
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Your girl is cute and definetely doesn't look like a hoe therefore somebody you can build something with.. of course don't know her personality but it's really bad to cheat on ... dudes have to stop thinking it's cool to cheat , nothing cool about that
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The true story is that he went to the mall with his mom to get some more polo T's and he seen his girl mackin on this girl (http://img7.imageshack.us/img7/5082/s5000072111.jpg) then ended up runnin away cryin and sendin her all kinds of sad voicemails. He went to her house and gave her back the other half of the friendship bracelet, so that means hes serious, ITS OVA.
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talked to my x girl and made things right...
we gonna try to work things out...
Ocho i dont blame you for hating on me i would hate too if i was you..
and no im not too serious with her as far as marriage and shit cus im only 19 and thats the last thing on my mind but she was a good girl
but we talked about shit she just cried and said "this isnt the adam i know how could you do this" blah fucking blah
i just told her i lied and met her at the mall that day and she came with that shit "why were yall holding hands n shit" and i told her "she grabbed mine" :D
then she said if she see's that girl again she will kick her ass (even though neither prolly have ever been in a fight in here life)
so she just told me i better not try to do this shit again and i have to prove im dedicated to her LMAO
so anyways she stayed till 2 am and im thinking everything is cool all i got to worry about is explaining it to her mom
the thing that hurt her the most is she saw me being with another girl holding her hand and smiling and laughing with her
which makes her more insecure knowing now that i can be with someone else... so i think this is gonna lead to something bad...
TO BE CONTINUED!!!
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so saturday night i diss my girl to hang out with this bitch i met from out of town..
so im thinking sure i can diss my bitch for this bitch...
so i make up some shit that the boys wanna play poker and tell my broad i cant go out with her tonight
so i meet up with the other broad and we go out
so once again i lie to my girl to go with that other chick to the mall
wow what a lucky girl she is to have you....
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yeah i know im an asshole but dude ive been cheatin on bitches since i was in 6th grade...
sorry none of yall have been playas except maybe 1 out of 1000 of yall
this is just a lesson learned... dont take things you have for granted
and to the people caught cheating im sure many girls have tooken yall back before... thats what females do.
i told her now that she is taking me back i know what i really have and i know that she reallys cares for me 8)
IMO you can be the ugliest fuck in the world but if you know how to treat a lady and talk to them you can pimp any girl out there 8)
look at Don Magic and Snoop :D
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i got an older friend who cheats on his wife with like 3 chicks
and he's got kids....
i'm not judging, it's fucked up but whatever gets you by.... not like it matters to me
personally I can't do shit like that to a girl, especially a sweet one like u say
if it was the other way around it sucks... so ya know
i'd just be paranoid that some kinda karma would come and fuck me
if she's a hoe then whatever but don't do it to a down bitch, the fucks wrong with u?
I also know one dude who girls fuckin love and have loved for years since high school
and he's had like 2 girlfriends in that span and had a million chances to fuck with fine broads behind his chicks back
but he never did that shit and was proud of it... to be honest I respect him a lot for that, takes a lot of guts
don't think I could even do that haha
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your exactly right... and this is the part of learning thats why i decided to share this with yall
cant take shit for granted especially in this life we live today
if we get back together i doubt iwe will cheat again im sure she just wants me to learn my lesson and shit
i told her if she fucks around its over for good but she says shes not like that and she believes in me
so i mean im not gonna go fuck her over again that would just be stupid as fuck and just be a bad reflection on my character
i mean we talked about so much shit i didnt even relize it was 2 until she looked at her phone...
she even talked about how her dad use to cheat on her mom and how bad she felt watching them almost go through a divorce when she was young that it made her never wanna go through that
i guess the reason why i did it was cus this bitch was hot and i was over confident about cheating because i done it before so i thought i wouldn't get caught
now i learned not to take that risk
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well at least you're admitting you were in the wrong...
seriously though, if she's really down with you, don't fuck with her... it's just mean :P
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yeah i learned my lesson
the old A.G. would of said "fuck it blaaaaaahhhhh im gonna keep cheating till i die"
ask any O.G. on this board they will tell you...
its just a part of growing up and maturing
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wait you didnt even fuck the new bitch though? you just got seen holding hands at the mall
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http://www.divshare.com/flash/playlist?myId=6768244-086
in the words of the great devin the dude
“fuckin’ over yo fo sho’ pussy tryin’ to get some mo’ pussy, you’ll end up with no pussy.”
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wait you didnt even fuck the new bitch though? you just got seen holding hands at the mall
NO thats the whole fucking point i was trying to make to my girl...
i mean i was making out with her and shit sat night in front of my crib
im sure shes not that hard to smash she is just one of those stuck up bitches you take out to eat and show them a good time and BAM you hit it and quit and brag to your friends about
if she was really actually worth being with and starting a relationship i wouldnt even trip about losing my girl over her... but she aint she would just be a bitch to brag about to your friends
especially the way the bitch acts "ummm so yeah i was like so like OMG my hair is gonna mess up umm roll the windows up like seriously OMG" :grumpy:
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dude no offense, usually you sound like a cool dude, but what you said just then is a bit of a bitch move
if she was really actually worth being with and starting a relationship i wouldnt even trip about losing my girl over her
you're basically hanging onto your girl until something better comes along, its called the monkey bar effect, you wont let go of one bar until you got a hold of another. not really being a playa.
just dump your girl and live the single life, you'll cheat again and hurt the girl, like you said you're only 19!
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dude no offense, usually you sound like a cool dude, but what you said just then is a bit of a bitch move
if she was really actually worth being with and starting a relationship i wouldnt even trip about losing my girl over her
you're basically hanging onto your girl until something better comes along, its called the monkey bar effect, you wont let go of one bar until you got a hold of another. not really being a playa.
just dump your girl and live the single life, you'll cheat again and hurt the girl, like you said you're only 19!
well i didnt mean it like that... it would still bother me but i wouldnt be as upset about it as i was...
what i mean is like i wouldnt have regret cheating on her as bad as i did now...
ya feel what im saying?
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maybe like i would of felt the girl was WORTH going through this and maybe i would of liked her more then i ever did my chick... and it happened for a reason...
ya get what im saying?
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just live the single life 8) if she's willing to take you back after cheating, she must think SERIOUSLY about your ass, when in a situation like this, think if you can offer her what she wants. if you dont think seriously about her, let her go find someone that will, thats probably what shes lookin for. there are two types of chick, you got a good girl so if youre lookin for something else let her go. you cant have both man!
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well ill see what happins...
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talked to my x girl and made things right...
we gonna try to work things out...
Ocho i dont blame you for hating on me i would hate too if i was you..
and no im not too serious with her as far as marriage and shit cus im only 19 and thats the last thing on my mind but she was a good girl
but we talked about shit she just cried and said "this isnt the adam i know how could you do this" blah fucking blah
i just told her i lied and met her at the mall that day and she came with that shit "why were yall holding hands n shit" and i told her "she grabbed mine" :D
then she said if she see's that girl again she will kick her ass (even though neither prolly have ever been in a fight in here life)
so she just told me i better not try to do this shit again and i have to prove im dedicated to her LMAO
so anyways she stayed till 2 am and im thinking everything is cool all i got to worry about is explaining it to her mom
the thing that hurt her the most is she saw me being with another girl holding her hand and smiling and laughing with her
which makes her more insecure knowing now that i can be with someone else... so i think this is gonna lead to something bad...
TO BE CONTINUED!!!
Hmm...maybe she is having a hard time trusting you.
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lol @ all the gay ass comments judging AG for sheating. I mean, yeah he a goofy lookin muthafucka and all, and his main was way better than the strange, but a man need variety. AG didnt do nothin you sensitive ass niggas wouldnt do if you had the chance. Men who can cheat will cheat. AG obviously got a little mouthpiece if he can do it. All you squares that cant is trippin and lyin to yourselves if you think you wouldnt cheat given a broad you wanna cheat with and an opportunity.
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^nah i disagree, when i'm ready to be with one girl i wouldnt cheat. i've only ever cheated once and i wouldnt do it again, thats why i'm stayin single for now.
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^^^^^well its great that you have yourself convinced! it kinda fucks up your case when you admit to having cheated before, and doesnt do much for your credibility, but its whatever...im loaded////why the fuck am i still drunk fuck this shit...never mix liquor with energy drinks
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yeah but at the end of the day you dont know why i cheated, and i cant be assed getting into that.
i had plenty of opportunities to fuck around and i didnt take them.
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cheetarah cheated on Tigra with Panthro
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LOL...going to a public spot, ESPECIALLY the mall with a random fee = :nawty:
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^^ yeah especially in Texas lmao.. I assume that u live in a town with one major mall that everyone goes to ::) ur girl shouldnt even take u back ur pretty lucky..
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Here's the wild card though AG. A lot of chicks find it worse for you to be doing some handholding type stuff than smashing a girl one time. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. They equate hand holding and doing thing like going places as showing you care about the other girl. They know that if you smash for one night you may not care about the girl at all. Make sure you point out to girl 1 that this was the first time you kicked it with girl 2 and that you haven't been talking to her outside of the mall thing. Good luck bro. I think I said in a past post that Girl 1 looks solid and like someone you should hang on to for a bit.
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What you gotta wonder is, what made her take you back so easily? Best bet is, she either already got her revenge or is planning on getting it later. She very well might have called up some of her exes the minute she found out, and got tag-teamed for the last couple days...or she's holdin onto that card and gonna use it when you least expect it. :-X
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awwwwww a.g. you got sum esplaining too doo
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What you gotta wonder is, what made her take you back so easily? Best bet is, she either already got her revenge or is planning on getting it later. She very well might have called up some of her exes the minute she found out, and got tag-teamed for the last couple days...or she's holdin onto that card and gonna use it when you least expect it. :-X
ROFL... three years later they are watching tv and she goes.....by the way, remember when you were at the mall with that tramp? Well, I ............
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What you gotta wonder is, what made her take you back so easily? Best bet is, she either already got her revenge or is planning on getting it later. She very well might have called up some of her exes the minute she found out, and got tag-teamed for the last couple days...or she's holdin onto that card and gonna use it when you least expect it. :-X
ROFL... three years later they are watching tv and she goes.....by the way, remember when you were at the mall with that tramp? Well, I ............
lol on Maury..."I have to tell you somethin....little Billy might not be yours"
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we spending the day together im not trippin
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I think i've cheated in every serious relationship I've been in. I never thought it was wrong up until the last year or so. I've changed my perspective on that though and realized that I can't operate that way anymore. So I've been single for over a year now and it's great not having to lie and shit.
I was dating a little hottie for a while, fully disclosing to her that I was still out smashin other broads. She SAID she was cool with it, she'd always ask me if I was wearing condems (which I always do) but not too much else. Kind've an interesting relationship actually...Well around the holidays this last year her and I started seeing each other a lot more, I was with her and her family on Thanksgiving and Christmas, shit like that. I thought I had the perfect situation - hot ass chick, biggest freak I've ever been with, cool, doesn't blow me up all the time, etc. Then in January her and I were chillin and she asked me if I had smashed another broad since I had last seen her (which had been about a week's time) and I admitted that I had, keepin it 100 the whole way.
Then she starts telling me that it bothers her that I do that, she wonders if I'm the same in bed with them as I am with her, blah blah blah. This chick has a lot going for her, but bottom line she isn't wifey material, and I wasn't going to stop what I was doing for her. So we pretty much just stopped kickin it.
Obviously I could have lied to her and said I wasn't smashin other broads, and I'd still be bangin her today. But I don't want to propagate lies and shit anymore, so I didn't want to go that route. Negativity breeds negativity.
But word, you're right it's a learning experience.
Peace
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LOL...going to a public spot, ESPECIALLY the mall with a random fee = :nawty:
word but i done it before so i thought nothin of it
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^^ yeah especially in Texas lmao.. I assume that u live in a town with one major mall that everyone goes to ::) ur girl shouldnt even take u back ur pretty lucky..
well dont assume because obviously you not good at it ::)
we have 2 malls and a trade center (swap meet) :D
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lol @ all the gay ass comments judging AG for sheating. I mean, yeah he a goofy lookin muthafucka and all, and his main was way better than the strange, but a man need variety. AG didnt do nothin you sensitive ass niggas wouldnt do if you had the chance. Men who can cheat will cheat. AG obviously got a little mouthpiece if he can do it. All you squares that cant is trippin and lyin to yourselves if you think you wouldnt cheat given a broad you wanna cheat with and an opportunity.
props
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wait you didnt even fuck the new bitch though? you just got seen holding hands at the mall
NO thats the whole fucking point i was trying to make to my girl...
i mean i was making out with her and shit sat night in front of my crib
im sure shes not that hard to smash she is just one of those stuck up bitches you take out to eat and show them a good time and BAM you hit it and quit and brag to your friends about
if she was really actually worth being with and starting a relationship i wouldnt even trip about losing my girl over her... but she aint she would just be a bitch to brag about to your friends
especially the way the bitch acts "ummm so yeah i was like so like OMG my hair is gonna mess up umm roll the windows up like seriously OMG" :grumpy:
then that aint shit, if your girlfriend isnt going to forgive you for fucking holding another bitches hand then fuck her
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haha im laughing at these replies, he didnt even fucking cheat on his girlfriend, he fucking HELD HER HAND. some of you are some real pussyholes
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^^^HAHAHAHA dammit I didn't even notice that!
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good shit a.g.
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I think i've cheated in every serious relationship I've been in. I never thought it was wrong up until the last year or so. I've changed my perspective on that though and realized that I can't operate that way anymore. So I've been single for over a year now and it's great not having to lie and shit.
I was dating a little hottie for a while, fully disclosing to her that I was still out smashin other broads. She SAID she was cool with it, she'd always ask me if I was wearing condems (which I always do) but not too much else. Kind've an interesting relationship actually...Well around the holidays this last year her and I started seeing each other a lot more, I was with her and her family on Thanksgiving and Christmas, shit like that. I thought I had the perfect situation - hot ass chick, biggest freak I've ever been with, cool, doesn't blow me up all the time, etc. Then in January her and I were chillin and she asked me if I had smashed another broad since I had last seen her (which had been about a week's time) and I admitted that I had, keepin it 100 the whole way.
Then she starts telling me that it bothers her that I do that, she wonders if I'm the same in bed with them as I am with her, blah blah blah. This chick has a lot going for her, but bottom line she isn't wifey material, and I wasn't going to stop what I was doing for her. So we pretty much just stopped kickin it.
Obviously I could have lied to her and said I wasn't smashin other broads, and I'd still be bangin her today. But I don't want to propagate lies and shit anymore, so I didn't want to go that route. Negativity breeds negativity.
But word, you're right it's a learning experience.
Peace
Real talk there, if you keep on coming up with lies, it seems to catch up with everybody. The thing I realized is what is the point of going through so much work to get people not to tell, to try and juggle time between different girls, when they don't matter that much to your life anyways. That one monkey bar analogy was spot-on, people don't want to let go even if they don't see it going anywhere.
As for the original story, the trust and the lies she caught you in probably got her on edge, but you also spiked her interest by showing her that you have options. When a woman sees that she is all you have, she is in total control. If she sees other girls that you could get with, it makes it that more challenging for her to work through problems and stay with you. Sometimes you get caught up man, charge it to the game and sharpen up.
And props for that Devin the Dude line Bundy, perfect situation to bring that line up.
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we spending the day together im not trippin
you buy her some flowers and shit, its easiest way to get out of the earn back my trust part