West Coast Connection Forum
Elements => Tha Studio => Topic started by: Juda on June 04, 2003, 03:19:10 PM
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i've been going out with a girl named nikki for about 3 months, and she's been talking that some guy is hitting on her constantly, and i cant even kick this guy in, because we dont go to the same school. so during math class i needed to express my thoughts. btw, i meet her threw my friend kyle.
This is my call for help....
my need is dire/
theres something missing in my life/
i feel like a pyro without fire/
im so in love with nikki/
but im suspicious of another kid, worried some day i'll find a hikki/
before this i felt giddy/
but now i feel gritty, and real shitty/
this kid named brain is moving on my territory
im not sure what to do, is this the last chapter to our story/
should i see this kid and talk/
or pop the glock/
too many questions and too few answers/
i can't think right now my pains running like cancer/
once i was happy as prancer, now im uptight/
start a fight and loose some aggression/
i cant follow the devils temptation/
there will be no resurrection/
Im sick of talking on the phone/
just hearing her talk about this guy makes my anger full-blown/
I thought I was grown and mature/
but my jelousy has taken over/
it's become torture/
they could be talking right now?/
i dont know im in the dark/
if this does end it/
no measuring tape will reach the hole in my heart/
No one will make me happy again/
never crack a smile/
never go lookin for love, not even search a 1/4 mile/
never agaun will i hook up with friends of kyle/
Never would have thought it would go this far/
but now my minds hardening up like tar/
I must retain my trust/
But my world i slowing down, all i want to do it cuss/
my physical state is turing to rust/
i cant move right now im paralyzed/
**i would appreaciate any feedback or advice**
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nice shit bro, that goes straight to heart.
i can't actually say i've been cheated upon but i have had some harsh relationships an know what your talking about, advice what i'd say because i'm usually good with this kinda shizz is ask her straight up, u gotta be honest, u want answer's this is the way to get them, if she can honestly say this other guy ain't shit then no worries. no need for jealousy bro, u own her right thats why she is with u and not him, think bout that there. worst comes to worse it just shows yall wasn't meant to be and u gotta move on do yo thang, i know personally i was depressed for months and still get that feeling everyone once in awhile due to memories an shit, so just to let ya know whats normal. all i can say is try to move on if worst comes to worst, u find another gurl cuz they come and go like the wind blows.. so without the negativity man just straight up let her know whats on ur mind and get your answers, stay positive or else ur going to take everything the wrong way
peaze
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thanks alot guy, i think ur right. im gonna be honest, ask her and see what goes from there. thanks alot man..means alot to me
Concrete
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well..... this wasn't a bad post at all. and as far as ur girlfriend goes.... lemme give u alil bit of advice. i'm sure all the women in the world will h8 me 4 disclosin this info, but here goes.
when girl cheat they do it 4 a reason, a very specific reason. could it b that:
a) u haven't been payin enough attention 2 her :-X
b) she's insecure and thinks ur doin the same thing ???
c) u've cheated on her in the past and she knows about it >:(
d) she's a slut :-*
e) the other guy has more 2 offer her than u do (in which case she was never really down wit u n the 1st place) ::)
f) she doesn't realize what she has :-\
the bottom line is this... love doesn't hurt people, people hurt people. and u gotta take care of urself 1st so if she ain't treatin u like a king kick her ass 2 the curb cuz none of the reasons i listed r good excuses 2 hurt some1.
i know that was very rikki lake of me, but its tru. ;)
good luck and keep postin that heat!!!
8) ;D :)
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nice man, keep droppin
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gyrl1da, straight up, u got that shit on lock-down. i think that is good advice for anyone with a situation like this, fo'real
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thanks white choc, i try... hey r u the same 1 from WMO??? cuz i'm gyrl1da on there 2.
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Girlryda thats some good advice there.. lol i'll remember that in the future! :D
Anwyays good key man, i know how you feell exactly. need to talk..
Ind3cisiv3@hotmail.com --- MSN MESSENGER ADDY!
Peace ~1~
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"hey r u the same 1 from WMO??? cuz i'm gyrl1da on there 2 "
not too sure, whats WMO stand for? i'm signed up on alot of boards haha
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its not a hip hop site its a dating site... guess it aint u... all gravy. 8)
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I just wanna tell ya, thanks big time for the support, ill keep ya posted with what happens
1
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sorry gyrl1da that ain't me, but yo they got a White-Chocolate on that place, damn.. hehe hate havin' the same name as other peeps
but yo anyone that needs advice on this kinda shit i'm pretty good wit it all, i guess u can say i ball outta control with my thoughts an a lot goes through this brain of mine
souljah_187@hotmail.com - hit me up on the messenger if u need, indeed i'll be there when u call, my thoughts always on tha ball
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hey everyone, thanks for the support, i talked to nikki last night and we got into this real emotional conversation. were still together and she promised she never cheated on me. :D .... i think she just wanted me to pay more attention to her.
Ez
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Yo man, don't know if you still need it, but I thought I'd drop my 2 cents...I noticed you're 16, which probably means that your girl is around that age too. I got a couple years on ya, and I've had a couple a girlfriends, so I think you're right about the attention thing. At that age, girls don't know how to completely shut a guy down that's hittin' on em, and if you guys been together for a while she's probably just tryin' to tell you "hey, look at me, I'm cute cause other guys want me.." Just reassure her that she's the bomb everyday (girls need that) and if she still exhibits that kind of behavior you don't need her b/c she craves constant attention from others and she'll never be satisfied with just that reinforcement from you. Peace.
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vitodeluca, yo bro ur exactly right, thanks for your consideration man :D
Ez
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yo man...i went thru the same shit but i ended that shit cuz really no one should make theyre bf/gf wonder if they cheating...but women test us and fuck with out minds....we just gotta learn how they do it...no offense ladies but u know...anyways man it fuckin hurts and i understand that shit...so im glad u resolved shit and things are good...mad props.
yo nice rap tho mang...i liked it its got meaning and shit...nicely done dogg
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yo gurlz and guyz mess wit each otherz mindz.
itz not just chickz, itz guyz 2. it goez both wayz. in a relationship there should be communication. most of tha time one thinks tha other is telepathic when they're not.thought i'd just drop mah say on this.newayz good luck with nikki concrete.
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i reckon they should make a bond board or somethin, were niggas post shit like this and people can reply with good advice and back them up and shit. i hardly see this shit happening.
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i got a rap bout somethin like dis cept bout a friend whos also a girl i liked should i drop it sometime?
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fo'sho playa, that's what this place is all bout
peace
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heh