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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Suffice on April 16, 2004, 02:58:12 AM
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Have any of y'all ever been in love? If yes, describe what love felt like and some symptoms
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I still am in Love
With Manchester City Football Club
www.mcfc.co.uk ;D
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still am, got a GF, bitch is in my head al the time, and she's gettin my phone bill way to high
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been there, done that........love hurts mate !!
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so true.. :'(
but its worth it
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Love hurts, but at the time, it's the greatest feeling in the world. I rememer when I went out with this one girl, she was my world. I would do anything to make her happy. If she even mentioned she wanted to go to like Knotts, I would find a way for my broke ass to get two tickets to Knotts. It was crazy. I remember the day I feel in love with her too. We were chillin, and now homegirl is pretty, everyone I know always tells me how lucky I am because she is pretty, but to me, she was just ok, ya' know, she's a dark skin black girl, and in high school I was used to mixed black girls, so it was a different look for me. But one day, I was chillin with her, and we were goofying around like we always do, but I had to stop her, I was like, just stand there. And it hit me, I was going out with the most beautiful girl in the world. In my eyes, she was it, and no one could tell me different. Our relationship lasted over a year, and after our break up, there was still little times we would relive our old life until this past October. As for love hurting, yeah it hurts in the end, but honestly, the greatest joys bring you the greatest pain. In order to live life, we all must put in some work. Feel me.
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I still am in Love
With Manchester City Football Club
www.mcfc.co.uk ;D
Man your team is shit. :P Newcastle United all the way.
I thought i was in love once, but i dont think it was. But that girls still in love with me 5 months after we broke up. So i must do something right 8)
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I still am in Love
With Manchester City Football Club
www.mcfc.co.uk ;D
Man your team is shit. :P Newcastle United all the way.
I thought i was in love once, but i dont think it was. But that girls still in love with me 5 months after we broke up. So i must do something right 8)
Man Your A Prick
Where were U when U were shit ?
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same thing that make you laugh make you cry
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Love hurts, but at the time, it's the greatest feeling in the world
so true...
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lol @ love hurts & dark skin black girl.
Yeah I have been in love before but I don't get emotional and shit. Probably miss her but wouldn't say love hurts.
;D
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That fucking Jennifer Hewitt.
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Probably miss her but wouldn't say love hurts.
;D
when your properly in love it DUZ hurt......a fuckin lot!!
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I still am in Love
With Manchester City Football Club
www.mcfc.co.uk ;D
Man your team is shit. :P Newcastle United all the way.
I thought i was in love once, but i dont think it was. But that girls still in love with me 5 months after we broke up. So i must do something right 8)
Man Your A Prick
Where were U when U were shit ?
Man ive supported them ten years so i know all about us being shit, you think i come out of the woodwork cause we in the semi finals Nar.
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Being in love makes me:
poetic
hopeful
happy
jealous
wonder if I should leave my life as a player for a relationship ;)
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Yeah, love hurts fa sho... I dunno if I was actually in love but there have been two ladies that when we broke up, it hurt like a muthafucka... for a few weeks afterwards I was just like kinda depressed or some shit... and im not a guy that's even tryin to get emotional... the shit just happened...
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i've been in love 3 times actually...and its not really something you can describe...its just something you know...its a totally different feeling than anything else and when you break up it hurts like a mf.
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Yeah once. It never got anywhere, and I simply don't talk to her nor attempt to acknowledge her anymore.
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Yeah once. It never got anywhere, and I simply don't talk to her nor attempt to acknowledge her anymore.
I'm feelin ya...right now :'(
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i fall in love with every girlfriend i have.
when you're in love and the girl isn't there:
you can't sleep cuz all you can think about is that chick
you can't eat cuz all you can think about is that chick
you can't even work cuz all you can think about is that chick
when you're in love and the girl is there:
you can't sleep cuz you're too busy thinking about how you can make love to her
you can't eat cuz you're too busy worrying about the bill and all the expensive shit she's ordering and wondering if this is enough to get her to make love with you
you can't do homework cuz you're too busy doing "other stuff" and making good on the previous two ;)
that's love
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you can't eat cuz all you can think about is that chick
I can eat, got my girl making my lunch every day, she brings it to school for me:D (last week they were out of cheese can you believe that.) don't have breakfast cuz.. yea i just dont. and i got to have dinner im hungry as hell
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hmm i got a question...i need help in this area....
well the thing is there is this girl im completely in love with...but sad to say i dunno if she feels the same way but she hasnt said nething but i still think we might have something but i think so negative i doubt nething will happen...well like i said she is in love with this other guy and im happy for her i wish her the best i wish only for her to be happy thats i all i care about i dont care if she is with anyone else other then me i dun care i just feel glad when she is happy....well my problem is i dont know if i should let something she did let it slide or let it go and stop trying to make something of us...well here goes the story..it was around begging of the month she was with someone else...but for some odd reason she was having dreams about me...so i was like YAY! but i felt bad too cuz she is with someone else and so she likes me instead of who she is with...(i care about everyone ok i dun care if ya'll think im a pussy)but like i said she was having dreams of me then as soon as i know it she asks me a favor..it was to kiss her....i said NO cuz i knew the guy she was going out with and i didnt want to mess up nething soo...it took like the whole day until i got tired and said finally ok so she would stop buggin me i kissed her (just a peck) she wanted more but it was too late she had to go...the next day we had a lot more stuff to do with each other....(nothing sexual) just kissing stuff..well i said it was wrong in my mind but she also kept coming after me so i decided whatever so it kept going for a while...then she broke up with who she was going out with...then she came up with an excuse she didnt want to be with no one cuz she didnt know who to be with....so i was like ok?.....well whatever thats her deal.....neways time passed on as it did somehow we had a week together that we acted like a couple but neithr one of us called it anything...but like i said it only lasted one week....so since i didnt call it anything and she didnt call it anything i didnt feel that much but i was madly in love with her and kinda still am but as a friend only much now....neways so another amount of time passed so now we are here in present time....but as it came to be so shocking to me....that guy she was dating before..the one she broke up with told me the whole thing he knew what was going on....he even agreed for this girl to kiss me....so im like wondering to my self ....GOD DAMMIT I WAS ONLY AN EXPERIMENT!!!!!!!!!!just to see if something would happen??? DAMN HER FOR PLAYING WITH ME!!!!not only that she lost my trust that is what hurt the most....not only that i she like i guess strung me along....but oh well it just hurts that she now cannot be trusted but ohh well what also im pissed at is that she told the guy she was going out with the whole story of her and her dreams so i felt bad for that guy he had to hear all that...like imagine ur gf telling you she is dreaming of another guy instead of you.....well anyways.....im mad about she didnt tell me the turth i dont care if she told me i was an experiment just as long as she told me the truth ya know but oh well it passed....well now she is in love with another guy its her ex she is in love again with but what im i going to do? should i forget nething of my past..should i stop going after this girl which for the first time in my life i actually loved...or should i forgive and or not tell her anything of what i know? or should i and forgive her?...or what? of course i need an explaination to her actions its just i dont know how i will jump on her to tell her this of what i know... well i leave it to you guys try and be reasonable please i just need some guidence...
end gigaganon
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^ That's too long to read but I suggest watching your Dragonball collection together, whatever the problem is. ;D
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^ That's too long to read but I suggest watching your Dragonball collection together, whatever the problem is. ;D
shit! i wish i could
but im trying to get away from everyone...for now...i just need some guidence i dont know what to do soo far all im doing is training...
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gigaganon, I like you, you seem like a nice guy. I can't tell you what to do, I can only relate my experiences going through similar situations, and what I've learned as I've gotten a little age on me. I think you're about 16, but I can't remember for sure. When I was 16, I was in a deeply disturbing state of mind. I think everybody goes through it. I had a girl, too, that I fell for, and we played mind games and did all kinds of wonderful and horrible things for years. At the time, it felt like it was the end of the world. As a matter of fact, the person in the world I'm the closest to is my father, and when my father died, it didn't hurt as much as when I lost this particular girl. THAT's some powerful stuff. Nothing in life is more powerful than death, except the loss of love.
My point is, though, that when you get a little older, the roller coaster ride gets a little tamer. When you're 16 and in love with somebody, everyday is a tornado. She looks at you, and you feel a rush, she laughs and you have a great day, it's almost inexplicable, but I'm not naieve enough to think i'm the only one who's experienced that, i'm sure all of us have in some form or fashion. When she rolls her eyes, your heart breaks, and when she talks to another guy, you're so jealous you want to kill both of them.
That's 16. I don't know if there's any way around it. At 16, I thought I was the most important person in the world, and that I had lucked out and found the most perfect girl in the world, and we were going to grow up and live happily ever after in a mansion on a beach. Anything else was unimagineable, and when it didn't work out quite that way, I was depressed, fully, for an entire year. She had to move, we both cried, I kept crying, lol... honestly, it took me a year to get over it. Even THEN, I wasn't happy.
The good news is, though, that time goes on. After a while, my eyes really opened and I understood things in a different way, I believe I see the big picture in most instances very clearly as a result of things that happened to me when I was younger, I just grew up, like we all do.
Some things to keep in mind:
1. She's exactly like you. She's confused, she's just a person, she's not evil, she doesn't want to hurt you or him or whoever. She just doesn't know what to do, she makes mistakes, etc. She isn't the villian here. If you really do love her, eventually, you'll grow to understand that she really hasn't done anything to you that you didn't let her do to you... for instance, maybe she played you, but it was such a simple job it's nobody's fault but your own. You shouldn't have fell for it, if it's that big of a deal. I think eventually you'll discover it ISN'T that big of a deal, and she really didn't do anything wrong in the first place.
Also, like I said, the rollercoaster slows down when you get older. NOTHING puts me in a bad mood anymore. Sometimes I'll get pissed or mad or sad, the emotions are still there, but they don't last. Generally, I'm in a fucking great mood. At the same time, I dont know if i'll ever feel the feelings of elation I felt when things were 'right' when I was 16 or 17... you just get a little worn as you get older, and things don't excite you as much.... which isn't terribly bad, because generally the things I was excited about when I was younger weren't important... I.E. she'd smile, that's nothing to do cartwheels over, but there I was on the trampoline.
I think you'll be alright, just remember to always try to grow and be intelligent about everything, and most of all, fair. Don't hate her and other girls you meet for doing things you would likely do in their position.
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hmm i got a question...i need help in this area....
well the thing is there is this girl im completely in love with...but sad to say i dunno if she feels the same way but she hasnt said nething but i still think we might have something but i think so negative i doubt nething will happen...well like i said she is in love with this other guy and im happy for her i wish her the best i wish only for her to be happy thats i all i care about i dont care if she is with anyone else other then me i dun care i just feel glad when she is happy....well my problem is i dont know if i should let something she did let it slide or let it go and stop trying to make something of us...well here goes the story..it was around begging of the month she was with someone else...but for some odd reason she was having dreams about me...so i was like YAY! but i felt bad too cuz she is with someone else and so she likes me instead of who she is with...(i care about everyone ok i dun care if ya'll think im a pussy)but like i said she was having dreams of me then as soon as i know it she asks me a favor..it was to kiss her....i said NO cuz i knew the guy she was going out with and i didnt want to mess up nething soo...it took like the whole day until i got tired and said finally ok so she would stop buggin me i kissed her (just a peck) she wanted more but it was too late she had to go...the next day we had a lot more stuff to do with each other....(nothing sexual) just kissing stuff..well i said it was wrong in my mind but she also kept coming after me so i decided whatever so it kept going for a while...then she broke up with who she was going out with...then she came up with an excuse she didnt want to be with no one cuz she didnt know who to be with....so i was like ok?.....well whatever thats her deal.....neways time passed on as it did somehow we had a week together that we acted like a couple but neithr one of us called it anything...but like i said it only lasted one week....so since i didnt call it anything and she didnt call it anything i didnt feel that much but i was madly in love with her and kinda still am but as a friend only much now....neways so another amount of time passed so now we are here in present time....but as it came to be so shocking to me....that guy she was dating before..the one she broke up with told me the whole thing he knew what was going on....he even agreed for this girl to kiss me....so im like wondering to my self ....GOD DAMMIT I WAS ONLY AN EXPERIMENT!!!!!!!!!!just to see if something would happen??? DAMN HER FOR PLAYING WITH ME!!!!not only that she lost my trust that is what hurt the most....not only that i she like i guess strung me along....but oh well it just hurts that she now cannot be trusted but ohh well what also im pissed at is that she told the guy she was going out with the whole story of her and her dreams so i felt bad for that guy he had to hear all that...like imagine ur gf telling you she is dreaming of another guy instead of you.....well anyways.....im mad about she didnt tell me the turth i dont care if she told me i was an experiment just as long as she told me the truth ya know but oh well it passed....well now she is in love with another guy its her ex she is in love again with but what im i going to do? should i forget nething of my past..should i stop going after this girl which for the first time in my life i actually loved...or should i forgive and or not tell her anything of what i know? or should i and forgive her?...or what? of course i need an explaination to her actions its just i dont know how i will jump on her to tell her this of what i know... well i leave it to you guys try and be reasonable please i just need some guidence...
end gigaganon
Ask your mom
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^^^ ohh hell no buddy...u got to be thinking of ur point of view and how u deal with things in ur life lol jk..not me i deal with things on my own or just when i really need it i talk to people i dont know so they dont know me much and i dont know them and sometimes i get the answers better said then the people i actually know... as for that one guy that has the micheal jackson dancer thing a-ma-jig yeah thanks for those cool words of wisdom.. as for you krimson hmm good times buddy...good times.
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^^^ ohh hell no buddy...u got to be thinking of ur point of view and how u deal with things in ur life lol jk..not me i deal with things on my own or just when i really need it i talk to people i dont know so they dont know me much and i dont know them and sometimes i get the answers better said then the people i actually know... as for that one guy that has the micheal jackson dancer thing a-ma-jig yeah thanks for those cool words of wisdom.. as for you krimson hmm good times buddy...good times.
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LOL....you're too funny....You're still stuck on this same chick and don't know what the fuck to do....and no I'm not thinking of how I would deal with a situation like this, I'm just thinking of something that may not be too hard for you to do....lol...jk....God Damn, the only way to find out if she feels the same way about you is to tell her your feelings for her....that shouldnt be too hard....even you can do it! :o
Jus' Playin'....
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
The Key to a young girls heart is confidence :D
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from what i read all i can say is stop bein a lil bitch. whats up wit all these fruitcakes on the board not being able to keep a girl?
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
The Key to a young girls heart is confidence :D
growing up, not watching japanese cartoons and erasing all the hentai porn might also help...
end smerlus
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
The Key to a young girls heart is confidence :D
growing up, not watching japanese cartoons and erasing all the hentai porn might also help...
end smerlus
LOL
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
The Key to a young girls heart is confidence :D
growing up, not watching japanese cartoons and erasing all the hentai porn might also help...
end smerlus
HA HA HA my friend the jokes on you cuz she is interested those things just like me, she loves anime,games,ddr,hentai, etc....mostly everything we have in common now now dont now dont get the wrong idea about her she is a very attractive woman she is fucking hot and spectacular and she dances like no one i have ever seen she is so cute..anyways whatever just needed to clear this up to you smellus
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all 10 year olds love cartoons.
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^^^ well the thing i did......for like the first time in life i actually opened up to a girl.....but then it kinda shattered cuz when i told her what she thought of it..she said"I Dont Know" so i basically died inside without showing it and just laughed it off but god damn those words hurt ohh well i cuz im not invincible..like i thought i was...but meh...well the thing is im trying to think if she really didnt know what to think of it or if she actually meant "no" or "not good" which most of the time is true when a girl says i dont know lol neways yeah there is ur answer.ohh and about me and girls DUDE u dont understand im so freakin shy ok...
end gigaganon
The Key to a young girls heart is confidence :D
growing up, not watching japanese cartoons and erasing all the hentai porn might also help...
end smerlus
LMAO
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if you're nervous or shy dude just have one of your homies see what's up . that's how i use to do it back in the day. also like trauma said, the older you get the less you get scared. Sinbad, that one comedian said something similar. when i was 12 i was straight SCAAAAAAARED to talk to girls or even admit i had a crush on a girl. i'm 19 now and have no problem going up to girls. on the real the worst a girl could do is say no
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i gotta give props to smerlus...i was laughing when i read the thing about anime and hentai...but when i scrolled just a little farther and read "End Smerlus"....i damn near pissed myself.
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i think i was in love once before, but after a long time of fluctuating this girl basically said no, and i felt kinda bad for a month or so, but then i started to realize all the bad things about her, and my love sorta died. That was about a year ago, but taht was the only time i think i was in love. Now i don't love anyone except my friends and family. But there's this one i wanna fuck.. damn she got the best body in all of my classes... out of like..100 people. Cute face too
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lust and love are very different.. till you had both its hard to tell.. :)
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i dunno.. i think i've felt both. The first girl i just wanted to make her happy and be good to her. Even when she fucked me over, i still was nice to her and shit. This new girl, i just really wanna make out with, and eventually Fuck. or not eventually, i woulnt mind fucking her now. Anyway, she's really not my type and all. She's really materialistic, extremely "i don't give a fuck" attitude, talks about guys all day, etc.. U get the point. Bud damn! she's fine!
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sounds like lust. lol
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lmao, nah its gotta be love :P
I'm in love, been with my girlfriend since I was 16, 20 now, she has helped me keep life on track, and is their for support no matter what. And from her now I have a great second family, and am really good friends with her brothers n sister. Cant argue with that.
I see how some people find the single life attractive, but its hit n miss. If ur not getting lucky, ur lonely for a long time. I'd much rather sharing my time and life with the one person, who appreciates me for me, not just how many drinks I buy her at the club ;)
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sounds like lust. lol
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all 10 year olds love cartoons.
lol thanks for the backup, i forgot about this thread