West Coast Connection Forum
Lifestyle => Train of Thought => Topic started by: Naughty_GURL17 on June 25, 2004, 06:33:28 PM
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so before i started dating my boyfriend i belived in the whole not have sex until u r married thing but now i dunno. i love my bf soooo much that that thought has left my mind. i dunno if it's bad or not but i dunno i mean i am gonna eventually but i just want to know if its bad to change my mind.?
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its not sex until you finger his asshole.
JP
I think the best thing for you to do is ask your boyfriend how he feels, tell him you have held the saving yourself thing for so long that you feel uncomfortable changing your mind if he breaks up with you because of that or doesnt have the patience to wait then he is obviously not the one
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thank you for that message. i talked to him about it and he said its my decision so i want to but i am also scary that he might act weird after it happens.
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I never looked at my ex-girlfriend the same after we had sex...felt wierd...and after my first blow job...i left her...because she sucked my dick, I would'nt kiss her anymore lol.
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All I can say is, once I lost my virginity, well, nothing really. We talked about it, it was great, we grew closer, but in the long run our relationship lasted too long because we didn't want to break up. Both of us were wait until marriage people, but here we were, our relationship was not going to last, but we didn't want to break up because of this. So when you make that discussion, be very careful, because if it doesn't work, it's hard as hell. Though later on in life, sex in relationships is easier, but if you truly believe in no sex until marriage, I say hold off. If the relationship is not meant to last, then it's very hard.
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I lost my virginity at 13, I kinda regret doing it that young. I used to chill with alot of older people when I was young and I was just as mature as them. I looked like i was in high school so I ended up losing my virginity to a 18 year old senior. She was real good lookin too. It was just a spur of the moment thing. I fucked her with no condom too. I mean I'm not the tyoe to go out and just bang any girl. I like to be involved with a girl before I have sex with her. Going around banging any chick is nothing but drama.
Anyway, I don't know it can get weird. Once your in a relationship they seem to become nymphos after you do it for the first time
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I think people with an alias need to be banned.
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I think people with an alias need to be banned.
i'll second that
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I think people with an alias need to be banned.
i'll second that
unless its a funny alias
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Blah, youre a hoe. Get ya hoe on and break ya man off something. Any girl who wants to keep it for their marriage will do it. If chillin with the first guy u meet is givin you doubts, believe me lil girl, u gonna get fucked, at least give it to the first man that holla'd at you.
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I think people with an alias need to be banned.
i'll second that
unless its a funny alias
uve had many lol
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Blah, youre a hoe. Get ya hoe on and break ya man off something. Any girl who wants to keep it for their marriage will do it. If chillin with the first guy u meet is givin you doubts, believe me lil girl, u gonna get fucked, at least give it to the first man that holla'd at you.
real talk from a virgin himself ;D
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if you do it a few things could happen afterwards:
1. you may feel awkward and uncomfortable around each other, in which case the guy is not the right one...
2. you will talk about how good it was, compliment each other, make (improvement) suggestions, bang like bunnies, and live happily ever after...
if you feel you want to do it, and value this relationship so highly that you would disregard your earlier thoughts on sex before marriage, then go for it!!! if you dont you'll be laughed at from afar until you do!! ;D j/k
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Everyboday should be a virgin till they are married.
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^That's just an opinion,everyone should decide for himself.
I don't believe in virginity till marriage as I think you should know more about each other in a sexual way before you marry because you could be heavily dissappointed wich would put pressure on your marriage.And we all want to have a happy marriage,don't we?
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i have givin this alot of though and i think that i made out my mind and i am gonna go through it. i mean i love him sooo much and i want to prove it to him and if by my giving my virginity to him means he will act weird and might not make our relationshios weird then at leats we had sex.is that wrong? :-\
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Blah, youre a hoe. Get ya hoe on and break ya man off something. Any girl who wants to keep it for their marriage will do it. If chillin with the first guy u meet is givin you doubts, believe me lil girl, u gonna get fucked, at least give it to the first man that holla'd at you.
real talk from a virgin himself ;D
Nice one, I like that. Caught me slippin on the rebound/
*gives Smerlus props*
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i have givin this alot of though and i think that i made out my mind and i am gonna go through it. i mean i love him sooo much and i want to prove it to him and if by my giving my virginity to him means he will act weird and might not make our relationshios weird then at leats we had sex.is that wrong? :-\
make sure you wear a condom
i'd hate to see a moron like you reproduce
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^^LMAO. I'll second that
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i have givin this alot of though and i think that i made out my mind and i am gonna go through it. i mean i love him sooo much and i want to prove it to him and if by my giving my virginity to him means he will act weird and might not make our relationshios weird then at leats we had sex.is that wrong? :-\
make sure you wear a condom
i'd hate to see a moron like you reproduce
LMFAO!!! OH SHIT that was cold.
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i have givin this alot of though and i think that i made out my mind and i am gonna go through it. i mean i love him sooo much and i want to prove it to him and if by my giving my virginity to him means he will act weird and might not make our relationshios weird then at leats we had sex.is that wrong? :-\
Man, this guy's got her trained good. "If you love me, you'll do it"... "oooh, I love you SO much, I'm gonna do it!" "You have to prove you love me" LOL I'm rollin here.
LOL Unbelievable that still works.
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ohh man.. ya'll are harsh.. haha..
trauma's right tho... dont let a guy guilt trip you into it, coz you could end up regretting it.
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Nobody can help you with this descision. It's something you will have to figure out on your on.