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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: hope glimmers on June 09, 2005, 04:34:04 PM
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quesion (only to be answered seriously): if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you? he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?
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sounds like hes fruitloops, people like that always end up having issues, turn into murderers, psychos etc.. get out while you're still breathing
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I'm no Dr. Phil but sounds like you are dealing with somebody with a serious chemical imbalance in the brain.Get out,get on, and live your life. (applause button)By the way, What "potential" do you speak of?
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i dont want to get out, thats why i dont know what to do or say. and id be careful what you say, he does go to this site. ::) and by potential i mean college and all that follows it, he thinks he'll hold me back from accomplishing all my goals
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quesion (only to be answered seriously): if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you? he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?
Tell him you like girls :)
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Drop that Zero and get with a Hero!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
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boys i need advice on how to get himto stop playing games and come back to me like we both want, any ideas?
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boys i need advice on how to get himto stop playing games and come back to me like we both want, any ideas?
(http://i.a.cnn.net/cnn/2005/LAW/06/07/border.crossing.ap/vert.despres.pool.jpg)
Just walk away...
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what is that? it scares me.
(http://i.a.cnn.net/cnn/2005/LAW/06/07/border.crossing.ap/vert.despres.pool.jpg)
Just walk away...
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^^^^lmao at that dude
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i dont want to get out, thats why i dont know what to do or say. and id be careful what you say, he does go to this site. ::) and by potential i mean college and all that follows it, he thinks he'll hold me back from accomplishing all my goals
The balance of having a BF, school and other things in life should rely on you. If you can live life balancing all these things which many poeple are able to do then that shouldnt be an excuse. Is that also the reason you guys dont go out and sometimes talk on the phone? That it might hold you back
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i honestly dont know why we dont go out, its all on him, ive been ready for along time,and i am able to balance everything.
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and id be careful what you say, he does go to this site.
lol...wow...he'll punch the keys till theyre unconscious....
how old r u and your BF? Cus that can play into why he's actin the way he is. Sometimes when people make up excuses for something (like he is with you), its because those are actually the excuses that apply to him. Like, if someone said "i dont want to hold you back"....that might actually translate into...."youre holding me back".
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i honestly dont know why we dont go out, its all on him, ive been ready for along time,and i am able to balance everything.
maybe he's gay ?
you didnt give enough info for anyone to give reliable advice...
are you slapping skins ? just not officially an item ? or you've been friends for a while and want to take it further ?
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wcc is definately the best place to get relationship advice.
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wcc is definately the best place to get relationship advice.
lol!!! the same place where 90% of the males on the board nut as soon as a female poster pops up...
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lol..
well at least people are honest to the point of being brutal...
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lol..
well at least people are honest to the point of being brutal...
yes, that is one of my fav things about this place. you will get honesty. of course you got your haters, that always gonna hate everything, but you gonna get a lot of honesty. that is the cool thing about discussing things with people over the net who you are never going to meet face to face. a lot of times its hard to get a real opinion from people in your everyday life, such as if they may be worried about hurting your feelings. Luckily wcc has plenty of people who have no regard for hurting other people's opionions.
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alright, you guys were no help... you were all right though, dubcc isnt a good place for relationship advice
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its difficult to give advice that is rational when one of the people involved isnt
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i think thats the most useful post u ever made..
if someone is being irrational its difficult.. some people are cold enough to cut it loose, which is using your head.. but all too often the heart leads..
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its too hard to forget him... ive tried, many many times. but the heart wants what the heart wants.
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only know too well...
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wcc is definately the best place to get relationship advice.
lol!!! the same place where 90% of the males on the board nut as soon as a female poster pops up...
:tosser:
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wcc is definately the best place to get relationship advice.
lol!!! the same place where 90% of the males on the board nut as soon as a female poster pops up...
:tosser:
lol....youre new here huh?
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im not new, ive been here since like dec. i think... but i prefer to hang out with guys, girls are stupid and dramatic, well most of them are
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have you talked to the guys on here? ::)
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some of them , i know two personally, and ive chatted with a few people, why do you ask? the only person i cant stand is westcoasta.... everyone else is alrighti n my book, not that i have a book ::)
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girls are stupid and dramatic
most guys here are like that
peace
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yeah i noticed a lot of drama here, but i think its funny
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girls are stupid and dramatic
most guys here are like that
peace
that was kinda the point of my comment.
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Okay, so I am well aware that I am not a guy, but I am going to give my advice anyway. Why you may ask. Well, because my dear Hammy, that is what friends are for. Okay, so I know that it's hard to forget about boys. Lord knows how we ladies love them. But in all seriousness, I really think that you need to lose this one. He may say that he loves you, that he needs you, that he couldn't possibly continue living without you. But actions speak louder then words. How mant times has he called you? How many times has he made plans and then cancelled? How many times has he ignored you, or forgotten about you? How many times has he broken your heart? I know that he tells you he wants to be with you, but that's now. Why doesn't he want to be with you when you're able to be in a relationship? It seems like all of this starts up just as you begin to forget about him. Think about it. When did he start telling you that he loved you agian? When you were happy with Eric. I really don't know what he wants, I don't even think he knows what he wants. That's not someone who's ready to be in a realtionship. Especially a relationship with some like you. You're much better then this. You're a great person who deserves someone beyond great. You deserve the best. Don't settle for something less. He seems to have way too much personal baggage, what with the indesiveness and the attemped suicides. I don't want to see you get hurt Hammy. I know that this may not be what you want to hear, but I really think that you should just forget about him. I think that he's right in not being with you because truthfully, he would hold you back.
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aw steppy you actually brought a tear to my eye.... thank you so much i love you steppy. im trying to forget... im def. moving on, i dont desreve to be treated like crap anymore. im fucking sick of it.
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:banana_rock: :banana: :cow: :banana: :banana: :cow: :banana: :banana_rock: :banana: :cow: :banana: :banana_rock: :banana:
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i think chicks are cool...
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i had someone love me fo like 3 years..thnk god it was a girl lol
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walk up to him and tell him how u feel
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walk up to him and tell him how u feel
good post
LOL
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this guy is -----> :loco: :loser:
dude is about to toss bullets :scarface: I'd imagine, amscray if you know what's good for ya
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quesion (only to be answered seriously): if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you? he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?
I'll be straight with you: The guy is a headcase, leave him alone and stay as far away from him as possible, he's nothing worth talking to, and until he can get his shit straight, I'd ignore him. "Things to end his life" let him do it. If anybody wants to end their life, they're an idiot and need to be stayed away from. You don't want to get yourself into a situation where you're some kind of mother figure to this guy.
Now, if he can come to you in 6 months or a year and approach you like a man is supposed to approach a woman, then everything's cool, do what you want. If a guy is telling you he doesn't want to hold you back from your potential or whatever, he has serious self esteem problems that will become YOUR problems if you associate with him at all.
Now I wouldn't just drop him, though, tell him what his problem is, and that you don't need someone with problems in your life right now. That way maybe he can do something about it.
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nah cant b tellin her to stay well away from him, cos if it has been seriously 3 years then you just gota have an open talk wit him and see why he actin like it and all.. He's a guy so probably guna b worried bout comminement and that why he talkin bout bullshit like you got potential and that trying to cool things off between ya a bit... anyway just ask him... upto u if ya listen but this is waht happened with me and some hoe before lol...
goodluck wit it all, peace out....... 8)
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LOL... fuckin dumb bitch... you just said he posts here and ppl should watch what they say... don't you think you pretty much got the point across to him since he can read your post... LMAO stupid ass bitches
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the only person i cant stand is westcoasta.... everyone else is alrighti n my book, not that i have a book ::)
hell ya, it's cuz you know about how I fuck girls and get 'em pregnant than bounce out like it ain't no thang, right? ;)
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Oh I just nutted.
Yeah but for real he's fuckin someone else, to put it bluntly.
Not everyone here at dubcc is pathetic c'mon people, someone wants advice give em a realistic answer. Saying I love you is just a way to have control over someone and put in less work. you should know that.
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^lol
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quesion (only to be answered seriously): if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you? he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?
I'll be straight with you: The guy is a headcase, leave him alone and stay as far away from him as possible, he's nothing worth talking to, and until he can get his shit straight, I'd ignore him. "Things to end his life" let him do it. If anybody wants to end their life, they're an idiot and need to be stayed away from. You don't want to get yourself into a situation where you're some kind of mother figure to this guy.
Now, if he can come to you in 6 months or a year and approach you like a man is supposed to approach a woman, then everything's cool, do what you want. If a guy is telling you he doesn't want to hold you back from your potential or whatever, he has serious self esteem problems that will become YOUR problems if you associate with him at all.
Now I wouldn't just drop him, though, tell him what his problem is, and that you don't need someone with problems in your life right now. That way maybe he can do something about it.
nah cant b tellin her to stay well away from him, cos if it has been seriously 3 years then you just gota have an open talk wit him and see why he actin like it and all.. He's a guy so probably guna b worried bout comminement and that why he talkin bout bullshit like you got potential and that trying to cool things off between ya a bit... anyway just ask him... upto u if ya listen but this is waht happened with me and some hoe before lol...
goodluck wit it all, peace out....... 8)
thanks guys you two helped in a way. its hard to stay away from something thats been a part of your life for so long. and a long serious talk is def. needed.
LOL... fuckin dumb bitch... you just said he posts here and ppl should watch what they say... don't you think you pretty much got the point across to him since he can read your post... LMAO stupid ass bitches
as for you, i did this so maybe hed get the point, you actualy got one thing right. i did it because i didnt think i was being heard, my way, so this was a way to tell him, without him having to actually respond with bs answers. seeing as you already have your mindset on that foul language, i really could care less what you think.
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hope, u started this thread years ago, still havent talked to him or done anything with the situation?
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ive tried... hes asked to hang out so many times, and then blows me off come the allotted day, so idk. im begining to give up. hope is losing its glimmer. lol. idk boys. i guess im going to be on the market for a while
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^^give overseer a call. and by overseer, i mean me :D
picture 1st plz
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haha when my comp get fixed, maybe... if youre lucky
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LOL are u pink?
shes the only girl i know that hooked up with guys over the internet
but to help u out...
" if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you?"
-he prolly is just playing games with you or he prolly did like u but ur breathe stank or sumthing so he just wants to stay away from you...
"he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?"
- hes prolly lieng to u again and just playing games... think about it would he really kill himself over a girl? if he would then drop the dude he aint worth a shit
but shit i tell hoes i love them all the time but i dont lol
you cant let them get to you cus once a guy has u then he will use u and then when hes done he wont want u anymore i mean i like girls that i really gotta try to get with n shit if they just come to me i just use them and play with there emotions and fuck em and leave em
but anyways im in highschool so girls come and go idk what ur situation is
but thats the truth but i aint no love doctor so u dont gotta take it from me
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LOL are u pink?
shes the only girl i know that hooked up with guys over the internet
but to help u out...
" if a guy has claimed to love you for over three years, but always avoids going out,or even calling does he just not like you?"
-he prolly is just playing games with you or he prolly did like u but ur breathe stank or sumthing so he just wants to stay away from you...
"he is laways sayign he doesnt want to prevent me from my potential, and so on and so forth, yet he does things to end hislife bc he cant be with me.... what should i do, what is he thinking?"
- hes prolly lieng to u again and just playing games... think about it would he really kill himself over a girl? if he would then drop the dude he aint worth a shit
but shit i tell hoes i love them all the time but i dont lol
you cant let them get to you cus once a guy has u then he will use u and then when hes done he wont want u anymore i mean i like girls that i really gotta try to get with n shit if they just come to me i just use them and play with there emotions and fuck em and leave em
but anyways im in highschool so girls come and go idk what ur situation is
but thats the truth but i aint no love doctor so u dont gotta take it from me
nah its not on the internet... lol i know him personally.. at least i used to... hes given up on life, i know how much heartbreak hes had with everything, and i think he reached his breaking point and gave up. but when youp ush people away, its usually when you need them the most. but idk im not going to talk anymore about this subject, bc its gotten bad, and i just need to get him to sit down and talk to me, if he will... so will you?
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dude then hes prolly gay
fuck that guy go find someone else