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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: morbidenigma on December 13, 2007, 08:56:34 AM
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I have no game wat so ever !! I base this current statement on the fact that the minute i am around a female that is attractive
all my wit all my charm goes flying out the window and the words desert me and i am left mumbling like a fucking idiot !!
Its actually funny when u think about it but i dont know how it happend maybe i never had game to begin with..
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You have no friends that happen to be girls ?
Watch 40 Year Old Virgin, that ought to give you some motivation.
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
Quoting Nas, I bet you you're not getting any. And if you are, she's a whore :)
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
Quoting Nas, I bet you you're not getting any. And if you are, she's a whore :)
I'm basically out the game bruh. Same broad (for the most part) the last couple years - and I'll put her up against any broad out there, no lie.
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
Quoting Nas, I bet you you're not getting any. And if you are, she's a whore :)
I'm basically out the game bruh. Same broad (for the most part) the last couple years - and I'll put her up against any broad out there, no lie.
so she's a good fighter?
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Unless your drunk, I don't think anyone actually enjoys those first moments, when you approach the girl. Usually they ramble on and on and you have to pretend to care. That's why I just wanna meet one fine girl, I'm not into the whole " I'm a date 40 girls before I settle down".
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
Quoting Nas, I bet you you're not getting any. And if you are, she's a whore :)
I'm basically out the game bruh. Same broad (for the most part) the last couple years - and I'll put her up against any broad out there, no lie.
real talk i've been wit my girl for like 5 years and i feel the same way
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Why do you get nervous around girls, i feel like girls should be nervous around guys. I usually just play it cool, if she's cool she's cool. If not, fuck her. If you can't spend a comfortable 5 silent minutes with a girl then there's a problem also, at least i think so,
chill
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Man it nothing real, I never been the type to walk up to a girl in the mall and just start kicking it. Its usually some chick who I met from a friend. People always over exaggerating like you got to be like this and that etc. Just be yourself.
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Why do you get nervous around girls, i feel like girls should be nervous around guys. I usually just play it cool, if she's cool she's cool. If not, fuck her. If you can't spend a comfortable 5 silent minutes with a girl then there's a problem also, at least i think so,
chill
yeah
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You need to stop putting the pussy on a pedastal...
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You need to stop putting the pussy on a pedastal...
lmao first thing that came to mind when I read the title.
Subject title of this thread should have been: I have no Swag.
Find your swag.
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I think any girl will tell you: Have confidence.
A girl can sense when a guy lacks confidence. I'm a bigger dude. No doubt about it. So, naturally, most big dudes feel inferior or what have you when it comes to hitting up girls that are pretty. I never really felt that way. I approached my girl correctly and now we've been together for almost 2 years. Had I not had confidence in myself, I'd still probably be single. But since I felt like I had nothing to lose by having a woman tell me "no," I just went for it. Fuck it.
Think of it this way, if you approach 100 girls, at least one of those girls is bound to be receptive. So, it might take time, but it'll be worth it in the end. Just keep confident in yourself, especially if you're around females. Make eye contact and don't be shy. Try not to think about it too much. The main problem people have is over analyzing a situation. They start playing these wacky scenarios out in their head and shit then they get psyched out. Get out of your head.
Talking to a broad is a no brainer. Just approach them and let it happen.
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Think of it this way, if you approach 100 girls, at least one of those girls is bound to be receptive. So, it might take time, but it'll be worth it in the end.
This is called "playing the odds", and is very true. A better plan would be to try and calm down and be confident and it will be way easier. Also, don't treat them like it's going to be a big deal, or try too hard. It will come naturally, some people discover their swag at a different time.
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i've always been shy around girls, but the thing you have to remember is that you have to be interesting. you can have all the confidence in the world.....and you'll just be considered an ass hole. so just remember be interesting have many hobbies and be PASSIONATE about them. whatever you do approach it with passion, always have a strong stand on something. that's what women are attracted to
women are always looking for the alpha male....but that doesn't always mean the strongest best looking guy all the time. just be good at what you do/like or have fun doing it and you'll dip into the pussy
if ^^^^^that doesn't help you then i guess read this :
(http://www.seductiondigital.com/files/images/mysterymethodbook.jpg)
it helped niel strauss land a playboy wifey,lol.
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Here's a good quote from Bad Azz "The ladies love me cause I love myself."
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I got two Game albums, pretty decent.
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I have no game wat so ever !! I base this current statement on the fact that the minute i am around a female that is attractive
all my wit all my charm goes flying out the window and the words desert me and i am left mumbling like a fucking idiot !!
Its actually funny when u think about it but i dont know how it happend maybe i never had game to begin with..
Are you like this around all people? If the idea of "The perfect woman" is on your mind then get it out of your head. You'll have to spend large amounts of time with different types of women to even come close to that ideal. Likewise, that mindset is just as faulty as the "Pussy Pedestal" thing (Even if that line was in a movie, it's about the only truth in complete opposition to all the Walt Disney "Fairy Tales" that have been shoved down ever woman's throat from an early age)
Still, even the most experienced dudes will have approach anxiety, so you're not alone. Rgardless of your endeavour, you have to let yourself be uncomfortable otherwise you won't advance at all. Get out of your comfort zone and run your game on some of the more average type of broads if you think it will help you as you move on up to the higher quality ones.
As you begin to approach more women you'll find some of the underlying traits that will attract their attention (in the right way). The confidence thing has been mentioned, even more important is that you don't undermine YOUR status for HER admiration. Men in general are completely blind to this. This mistake includes showering them with gifts, compliments, kissing up to them, letting them decide where the dates take place, buying them drinks, etc. Point is, women don't like "nice guys" and you can't force them to feel attraction for you with this passive aggressive behaviour. A few of my female friends are fucking other dudes that aren't even half as nice to them, while exploiting all the nice guys they're involved with without returning any favours.
Now with that in mind you have to go about attracting women in the right way, and what works for one doesn't necessarily work for all. The results you intend for will only amount from your individual experience in this, but nonetheless there are a few general things to keep in mind. Your posture, eye contact and tone of voice speak for you before you even do anything else. As for looks, just keep your Hygiene is a check and don't look like a fucking slob. Be presentable in the very least.
Bottom line, if you're not trying to get her approval then there's no reason to choke up in the company of an attractive woman. Don't be the same asshole trying to do what several other guys have already failed at with her. She might give you more attention for that alone, allowing you to experiment with the situation to find what works for you and what doesn't.
Have fun!
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im good wit small talk and i kind of have the same problem except i let my actions speak louder than my words, and females love that, plus it wouldnt hurt to get a myspace and work on your skills buddy, ;)
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Hmm.. i lost my game...lol.
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Just get your drink on and let it loosin you up. Say some funny shit and the girl is yours. 8)
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I got two Game albums, pretty decent.
:sign_werd:
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probably been said a million times but just be yourself. i always tried to act all cool and got nowhere because i seemed like a twat. i then decided to just be my humorous self and now "job is a good 'un"
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I have no game wat so ever !! I base this current statement on the fact that the minute i am around a female that is attractive
all my wit all my charm goes flying out the window and the words desert me and i am left mumbling like a fucking idiot !!
Its actually funny when u think about it but i dont know how it happend maybe i never had game to begin with..
Are you like this around all people? If the idea of "The perfect woman" is on your mind then get it out of your head. You'll have to spend large amounts of time with different types of women to even come close to that ideal. Likewise, that mindset is just as faulty as the "Pussy Pedestal" thing (Even if that line was in a movie, it's about the only truth in complete opposition to all the Walt Disney "Fairy Tales" that have been shoved down ever woman's throat from an early age)
Still, even the most experienced dudes will have approach anxiety, so you're not alone. Rgardless of your endeavour, you have to let yourself be uncomfortable otherwise you won't advance at all. Get out of your comfort zone and run your game on some of the more average type of broads if you think it will help you as you move on up to the higher quality ones.
As you begin to approach more women you'll find some of the underlying traits that will attract their attention (in the right way). The confidence thing has been mentioned, even more important is that you don't undermine YOUR status for HER admiration. Men in general are completely blind to this. This mistake includes showering them with gifts, compliments, kissing up to them, letting them decide where the dates take place, buying them drinks, etc. Point is, women don't like "nice guys" and you can't force them to feel attraction for you with this passive aggressive behaviour. A few of my female friends are fucking other dudes that aren't even half as nice to them, while exploiting all the nice guys they're involved with without returning any favours.
Now with that in mind you have to go about attracting women in the right way, and what works for one doesn't necessarily work for all. The results you intend for will only amount from your individual experience in this, but nonetheless there are a few general things to keep in mind. Your posture, eye contact and tone of voice speak for you before you even do anything else. As for looks, just keep your Hygiene is a check and don't look like a fucking slob. Be presentable in the very least.
Bottom line, if you're not trying to get her approval then there's no reason to choke up in the company of an attractive woman. Don't be the same asshole trying to do what several other guys have already failed at with her. She might give you more attention for that alone, allowing you to experiment with the situation to find what works for you and what doesn't.
Have fun!
well said.
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Just get your drink on and let it loosin you up. Say some funny shit and the girl is yours. 8)
yep yep
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run up and grab her ass and then say can we make a movie together
or go up to a girl and ask her,, " hey what's your ASL? "
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i roll up in the benz and slap emm in the face with a turkey club
that usually does the trick
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Sip on some booze and relax. It doesn't really matter what you say, you just gotta be yourself. If a broad sees you stuttering, scared to look her in the eye she isn't gonna give you a chance.
Nas has a good quote about this - "I got no game, it's just some bitches understand my story". Real shit.
Quoting Nas, I bet you you're not getting any. And if you are, she's a whore :)
I'm basically out the game bruh. Same broad (for the most part) the last couple years - and I'll put her up against any broad out there, no lie.
Mike Vick said the same thing about his bitches.
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i feel so bad for your sorry ass
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Another thing that some people touched on, but I wanna reiterate is don't try so hard. You shouldn't even be thinking "Damn, I don't have any game". You shouldn't be looking for a broad or an opportunity to spit game. Just let it comes naturally, dont force it.
I don't have game for shit either, but I still get a bitches attention. It can be something as simple as striking a conversation with a girl in line somewhere, and if it feels right, you get her number and tell her we should hang out.
And like Kain said: find your swag.
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my girl just left me fine looking mixedrace girl nice body but i fucked up bad and now she gone so im here with you guys and a gang of hip hop cds
fuck females they can fuck you up and without even knowing it ya hooked on emm
but as the homie said earlier im lookin for that one and just takin it eazy...dennis gettin old homies and the benz needs a service
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Another thing that some people touched on, but I wanna reiterate is don't try so hard. You shouldn't even be thinking "Damn, I don't have any game". You shouldn't be looking for a broad or an opportunity to spit game. Just let it comes naturally, dont force it.
I don't have game for shit either, but I still get a bitches attention. It can be something as simple as striking a conversation with a girl in line somewhere, and if it feels right, you get her number and tell her we should hang out.
And like Kain said: find your swag.
wow very well said, -reiterate- i never seen anyone type that word before on here, i think that deserves a prop.
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Gotta step my vocab game up, homie.
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Holla at pussaliah :D
chill