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Title: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 07, 2012, 02:31:09 PM
I saw somebody upped my 2002 thread titled "Revenge Letter To My Employer" a couple weeks ago, and ironically I started a new job in the lab at a hospital recently and similar shit went down where I had to write a letter to the Human Resource department.  So maybe there's some deeper synchronicity going on in my life that it's now happened again ten years later and here I am posting a new letter at the forum.  So check it out....


Hi Tory how are you,

I just wanted to touch base with you since you were the one who hired me and since I enjoyed working with you during the hiring and orientation process.  I may not be going through the proper channels of communication by coming to you with this.  So you are welcome to just keep this message as an FYI to yourself for future hires, or you are also welcome to share it.  I wrote a similar e-mail to Megan, so she's been made aware of it, and since she's my immediate supervisor it can be left there if I am overstepping my boundaries by informing you.

My experience once I started in the lab was not good.  I quickly found out that the other new hires at my position had been fired.  Then soon after I ran into Stacey (who I went to class with) telling me it was hell down in the lab.  That there is an very high margin for error down there, that she felt like an idiot everyday, and that one of  the girls that worked down there (don't remember her name) had been making her life miserable.  This was my first introduction at the beginning of my first day.  Right away I was thinking to myself, "if the last few people she hired to do my job were fired, and Stacey says it's hell already, that doesn't bode well for me".

The environment up in the draw station was very unpleasant.  I was working with Jessica all day there.  And for much of the day her best friend Susan would come hang out in the draw station.  I really have no idea what Susan's job is at the hospital because all I ever saw her doing was lounging around and gossiping all day, and make trips with Jessica to go get coffee or snacks.

After hearing how bad Jessica and Susan would gossip about others, and the bad things they would say I didn't want to share any of my life with them.  But Jessica kept asking me a lot of questions about my life, so I felt that since I was spending all day with her I had to tell her stuff just to be sociable.   She kept asking about my son and my son's mom.  She asked me more and more about my son's mom and wanted to see pictures of my son's mom.  I told her up front that the divorce and relationship with her was a bad experience I was trying to move past.  But one time when Susan came into the lab, right away, with no introductions, no niceties, no "hi, how are you", she just blurted out to Susan, "Hey, Brian's baby mama is black, can you believe that, I never would of guessed from him, and they are divorced."  They weren't saying it as if it was something bad or anything like that, but regardless, it's just bad manners.  For me, when you walk into a room, you greet the people in that room, and slowly conversation may develop.

But Susan or even Jason would just come rushing through the draw station many times, without acknowledging me or just jumping into something with Jessica right away.  For Jason, I will say it was always work related, and that maybe he had so many things going on he wouldn't notice me.  But for Susan it was just bad manners and she'd just go right into gossiping with Jessica, and then stop briefly to tell me my technique was bad in my draws and so on.  She made me feel horrible.  Just by the way she would talk about others like Stacey it made me feel like I was walking on egg shells around her.  I felt like anytime my back was turned and I was drawing someone, that her and Jessica were behind me making eye contact and snickering.  Just being a new employee at that job, you have a high margin for error with all the paperwork and things you must learn, so already my confidence was going to be tested.  And it felt like Susan didn't like me and was trying to run me off or something, after dealing with her my confidence yesterday was ZERO, I was nervous, and my mind was going totally blank.

Megan came by the office at the beginning of the day yesterday to check on me, it was all in Jessica's presence.  She mentioned to me that Jessica and Susan were a very good teaching team and that she was friends with them.  It seemed everyone liked Jessica and Susan had been there for many many years.  Megan then told me to swing by her office later in the day and let her know how things were going.  I spent the first half of the day debating in my head whether or not I should tell Megan what I was really feeling.  I was feeling like I was the only one struggling there and that everyone else was experienced and confident in their work.

Susan came into the lab draw station to gossip with Jessica just after lunch; so I felt like that was a good time for me to go to see Megan so that I could get away from Susan.   I asked Jessica if it was okay for me to go attempt to see Megan, and she excused me. On my way to see Megan I found out that she was in an interview.  I was relieved when I ran into Stacey, and Stacey told me she had just had her own meeting with Megan, and that she'd been going through similar struggles.  I felt I wasn't alone and that my mind wasn't playing tricks on me.  I also found out that Susan had in fact been talking bad about me behind my back, making fun of me with that exact quote being that I was a "monkey fucking a football" in the lab.

But still I wasn't sure if talking to Megan about it would do much good.  Because if Megan acted on the problem correctly, it might have the unintended consequences of just making matters worse...

Case in point, Stacey already started recieving backlash from her meeting with Megan right away yesterday afternoon.  Jessica called  on the lab phone and called her a "rat" and that "I can't believe you would be the one to snitch".  So the rest of the day they were even worse to Jena at the work-site.   I felt going to Mary about anything would only get me labeled a "rat" and make things even worse for me.

To conclude, it's sad that it could of been just two people that caused me to loathe my experience there at the hospital.  Maybe even one, because I think I could of survived Jessica if Susan wasn't always around.   Maybe the other workers were okay, but from what Stacey had told me it's been a very toxic environment down in the lab for a long time.  And even the more supportive people down in the lab had warned her to "Trust No-one".

Thank you for reading- Brian
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Al Bundy on March 07, 2012, 03:01:18 PM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 07, 2012, 03:05:04 PM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy

Actually, the higher ups are really scrambling to try to get me back, and apologizing for everything.   I'm not the type of nicca that ever counts on just one thing, one person, one job, or one anything.... So I got other shit going on besides just this job.  So maybe I will go back on a limited basis or maybe not.   But I have myself covered for shit like this.  

And when I saw it was mostly all white people I'd be working with on a daily basis, I knew something like this might go down.  So I'm not caught off-guard by it.  Black people know how to have a good time at work, and allow you more freedom at work.  While white people are more fake and there's hidden wars and battles always building beneath the surface.   Still sucks to go through this, but it's just temporary.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: The Troll on March 07, 2012, 03:49:52 PM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy

Actually, the higher ups are really scrambling to try to get me back, and apologizing for everything.   I'm not the type of nicca that ever counts on just one thing, one person, one job, or one anything.... So I got other shit going on besides just this job.  So maybe I will go back on a limited basis or maybe not.   But I have myself covered for shit like this.  

And when I saw it was mostly all white people I'd be working with on a daily basis, I knew something like this might go down.  So I'm not caught off-guard by it.  Black people know how to have a good time at work, and allow you more freedom at work.  While white people are more fake and there's hidden wars and battles always building beneath the surface.   Still sucks to go through this, but it's just temporary.

Hold on a second. Putting my trolling and this letter aside for a quick moment. Did I actually just see you say "nicca"?
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 07, 2012, 04:52:14 PM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy

Actually, the higher ups are really scrambling to try to get me back, and apologizing for everything.   I'm not the type of nicca that ever counts on just one thing, one person, one job, or one anything.... So I got other shit going on besides just this job.  So maybe I will go back on a limited basis or maybe not.   But I have myself covered for shit like this.  

And when I saw it was mostly all white people I'd be working with on a daily basis, I knew something like this might go down.  So I'm not caught off-guard by it.  Black people know how to have a good time at work, and allow you more freedom at work.  While white people are more fake and there's hidden wars and battles always building beneath the surface.   Still sucks to go through this, but it's just temporary.

Hold on a second. Putting my trolling and this letter aside for a quick moment. Did I actually just see you say "nicca"?

Yep.  Sure did.  KRS-1 said it's okay for whites in hip-hop to say it.  And KRS is the Teacher.  Nough said.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: The Troll on March 07, 2012, 08:28:06 PM
I'm at a complete loss for words. Carry on.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: jeromechickenbone on March 07, 2012, 08:41:30 PM
You sound really high maintenance as an employee Brian.  You're a grown man, grow some balls and put these ladies in their place instead of snitching on people.

You admit you thought there was going to be problems before you even started the job, maybe you should take a step back and see that maybe you are the problem. 

Also, you come across extremely racist ironically enough.  "I knew working with white people, blah blah blah".  Do you forget that you're white?  Do you see that by saying that about white people you're saying that about yourself?  Or do you not consider yourself white?

You're letting some petty ass shit like a girl saying she's surprised that you have a black baby mom make you quit a job and shit?  Why do you let people control you like that? 

Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Your favorite posters favorite poster on March 07, 2012, 09:09:47 PM
God damn son, yousa bitch.  God damn son I'm at a loss of words, yousa bitch.  No wonder your ex doesn't let you see your son, she doesn't want him raised by two women.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 07, 2012, 09:27:26 PM
You sound really high maintenance as an employee Brian.  You're a grown man, grow some balls and put these ladies in their place instead of snitching on people.

You admit you thought there was going to be problems before you even started the job, maybe you should take a step back and see that maybe you are the problem. 

Also, you come across extremely racist ironically enough.  "I knew working with white people, blah blah blah".  Do you forget that you're white?  Do you see that by saying that about white people you're saying that about yourself?  Or do you not consider yourself white?

You're letting some petty ass shit like a girl saying she's surprised that you have a black baby mom make you quit a job and shit?  Why do you let people control you like that? 



I never subscribed to the "grow some balls" theory.  That doesn't account for shit in a situation like this.  I am working in a health care, mostly around women.  It's not like I'm a professional boxer.  I am 100% non-confrontational at work.  Call me a pussy for that if you want, but I know from experience what works and what doesn't.  In my younger days I did try to take the tough guy approach and it always made things worse.  If I have to fight and argue and play hardball with people all day then that's nothing but stress.  I'd rather just find another gig.

Now, I have a few different jobs, none of which is full-time.  In health-care I work for an agency and also as a fill-in guy when they don't have enough staff, which happens all the time in health-care.  So with that set-up, it's like everything is in my favor.  If I don't like things where I'm at then I just turn to one of my other gigs, or cut back days.   But I don't believe life should be an everyday battle to put my foot down and demand respect.  I try to engage in mutually beneficial relationships.   
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 07, 2012, 09:34:07 PM
God damn son, yousa bitch.  God damn son I'm at a loss of words, yousa bitch.  No wonder your ex doesn't let you see your son, she doesn't want him raised by two women.

First off, the whole dead beat father thing is a lie.  

Second of all, writing is how I express myself best.  When I'm at work it's too much stress for me to be trying to perform my job and fight battles with staff at the same time.  Because when it comes down to it, I'm not that great at my job to begin with and I don't love my job.  I'm just there to make money, and there are some other intangibles like it helps build character taking care of people, but for the most part I am there for the money.  And I am there because it's a job I don't have to act like a tough guy all day and can just go to work.  

So if I was really great at my job and passionate about it and confident and so on, then yeah, I would throw my wieght around at work a lot more.  But I got to play the card I am dealt.  And for my situation that shit won't get me very far.  The best thing for me to do is just come and do my work, get paid, and then leave.  Make things as simple as possible, because my mind and life is focused on much bigger things going on outside of work.

I had basically already decided to quit the job.  So at that point I at least wanted to explain myself to the people that hired me, so that they could know why I quit.  But it turned out now they are apologizing and begging me to come back.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Smokin Briccz on March 07, 2012, 10:32:41 PM
ROFL this guy can't be serious.

Cool snitching bro.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: blcxm on March 08, 2012, 02:32:23 AM
your work is like a monkey fucking a football.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Tutlock on March 08, 2012, 03:14:04 AM
   But I don't believe life should be an everyday battle to put my foot down and demand respect. 


but it is . when you´re working, when you go to a club, a meeting , whatever , people are always measuring you to see how they can have things their way  . standing straight demanding respect is the thing you have to do always or people try to take advantage of you .
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: jeromechickenbone on March 08, 2012, 06:06:15 AM
You sound really high maintenance as an employee Brian.  You're a grown man, grow some balls and put these ladies in their place instead of snitching on people.

You admit you thought there was going to be problems before you even started the job, maybe you should take a step back and see that maybe you are the problem. 

Also, you come across extremely racist ironically enough.  "I knew working with white people, blah blah blah".  Do you forget that you're white?  Do you see that by saying that about white people you're saying that about yourself?  Or do you not consider yourself white?

You're letting some petty ass shit like a girl saying she's surprised that you have a black baby mom make you quit a job and shit?  Why do you let people control you like that? 



I never subscribed to the "grow some balls" theory.  That doesn't account for shit in a situation like this.  I am working in a health care, mostly around women.  It's not like I'm a professional boxer.  I am 100% non-confrontational at work.  Call me a pussy for that if you want, but I know from experience what works and what doesn't.  In my younger days I did try to take the tough guy approach and it always made things worse.  If I have to fight and argue and play hardball with people all day then that's nothing but stress.  I'd rather just find another gig.

Now, I have a few different jobs, none of which is full-time.  In health-care I work for an agency and also as a fill-in guy when they don't have enough staff, which happens all the time in health-care.  So with that set-up, it's like everything is in my favor.  If I don't like things where I'm at then I just turn to one of my other gigs, or cut back days.   But I don't believe life should be an everyday battle to put my foot down and demand respect.  I try to engage in mutually beneficial relationships.   

I don't mean you have to flex on them Brian, but you're obviously carrying yourself in a way that makes you susceptible to getting this type of treatment.

If people think they can get away with punking you because you're a pushover they are going to do that.

But even past that, why do you let some little hoes bullshit comments dictate what you do? You're giving them more power than they're worth.

It's good to try and be peaceful an all that, everybody should, but it's a fine line between being peaceful and being a pushover who no one respects. You're gonna deal with adenoids for the rest of your life, accept it.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 09:05:49 AM
  But I don't believe life should be an everyday battle to put my foot down and demand respect.  


but it is . when you´re working, when you go to a club, a meeting , whatever , people are always measuring you to see how they can have things their way  . standing straight demanding respect is the thing you have to do always or people try to take advantage of you .

That's a very grim world-view.  That's a view that depicts social life as a zero-sum game.  That in every interaction for someone to win someone else has to lose.  That you either take advantage of someone else or they take advantage of you.  Like Wesley Snipes says in White Men Can't Jump - "You either smoke, or you get smoked!"  I don't believe in that.  I believe in mutually beneficial relationships.   They get something out of you and you get something out of them, likewise.  

Like in the workplace.  They will respect me because I'm providing a service for them, and in return I will respect them because they are providing me with money.

Or an even simpler analogy.  You have a watch you don't care for much anymore because your wife bought you a better watch.  I don't have any watch at all, but I have $20 dollars to spare.  I would rather have the watch than the $20 and you would rather have the $20 dollars than the watch.  So we interact and do business with each other, and each side benefits from the exchange.  
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 09:11:59 AM

I don't mean you have to flex on them Brian, but you're obviously carrying yourself in a way that makes you susceptible to getting this type of treatment.

If people think they can get away with punking you because you're a pushover they are going to do that.

But even past that, why do you let some little hoes bullshit comments dictate what you do? You're giving them more power than they're worth.

It's good to try and be peaceful an all that, everybody should, but it's a fine line between being peaceful and being a pushover who no one respects. You're gonna deal with adenoids for the rest of your life, accept it.

Because.. I'm in a very weak position to begin with.  It's hard to throw your weight around when you are starting a new job, with high margin for error and people's health and safety is on the line.  Being a new employee in what I'm doing, the margin for error is extremely high, and I also have to do loads of paper work and run tests and stick people with needles and if any one small step in the process has the slightest error then it can cost the hospital a lot of money and undue troubles on the patient.

So everyone else I was working with has been there for years and years, so they know what they are doing inside and out.  So I am dependent upon them because they are teaching me.  So I'm in a weak position to begin with.  See what I'm saying?  It's not an equal playing field, like two people walking in a club and they are staring me down and trying to diss me or something like that. 
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Greenbrigade on March 08, 2012, 09:58:12 AM
Your a bitch infinite. You need to man up and attach a set
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: MistaNova on March 08, 2012, 10:18:13 AM
That's a very grim world-view.  That's a view that depicts social life as a zero-sum game.  That in every interaction for someone to win someone else has to lose.  That you either take advantage of someone else or they take advantage of you.  Like Wesley Snipes says in White Men Can't Jump - "You either smoke, or you get smoked!"  I don't believe in that.  I believe in mutually beneficial relationships.   They get something out of you and you get something out of them, likewise.

Well in order for someone to win there has to be someone that lost, otherwise there wouldn't be a winner in the first place no?
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Hack Wilson - real on March 08, 2012, 10:25:55 AM
I'm at a complete loss for words. Carry on.

LOL
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 10:41:00 AM

Well in order for someone to win there has to be someone that lost, otherwise there wouldn't be a winner in the first place no?


No, it's a win-win situation, because no two people are equal.   So if I value your watch more than my $20 dollars and you value my $20 dollars more than your watch, and we trade.. then we both win.   
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: MistaNova on March 08, 2012, 11:14:17 AM
No, it's a win-win situation, because no two people are equal.   So if I value your watch more than my $20 dollars and you value my $20 dollars more than your watch, and we trade.. then we both win.   

The ol' "You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" eh, okay I get you.
Although I myself only believe that if I'm trading with a family member or a very close friend.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: rayallen0 on March 08, 2012, 04:42:21 PM
when you are in your late 20's/early 30's and still trying to live your life based on what KRS-One said you have some issues.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: rayallen0 on March 08, 2012, 04:50:04 PM
http://www.youtube.com/v/lPZhDOX-zfc

Based God swag. swag. swag.

You really need to lay back once in awhile you seem sensitive as fuck.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: The Troll on March 08, 2012, 04:53:09 PM
when you are in your late 20's/early 30's and still trying to live your life based on what KRS-One said you have some issues.

KRS One is the teacher, only true hip hop fans understand that, nicca.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: O.G A.Geesta'z on March 08, 2012, 07:16:37 PM
straight bitch shit brian you should of been able to put those hoes in check
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 07:33:19 PM

The ol' "You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" eh, okay I get you.
Although I myself only believe that if I'm trading with a family member or a very close friend.


Nope.  That's not it.  

You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours is an equal exchange.  And that's not what I'm talking about.

What I'm saying is that fact that people are not equal and will never be equal that exchange is possible.

It's like Nation A has a lot of oil.  Nation B doesn't have oil, but they have a lot of gold.   So Nation A trades away their excess oil for Nation B's excess gold.  The result = both sides win.

...On a personal level (non-economical level) it can work like this.   I love Africa, but I'm not African and live far away from Africa.   So for me, I place a high value on being in Africa and chilling with Africans.   For an African in Africa who's grown up around African's all their life, it may be no big deal to chill with African's; yet having an American friend come visit them from America could be a rare occasion and memorable experience for them that they gain from.  Therefore, the differences and inequalities and individual values make positive win-win exchanges possible.

...Now, to put it in hip-hop terms.  Eminem has the talent, but has no respect.   Dr. Dre has all the respect in the industry, but has no fresh talent for his new Aftermath label.  So Eminem shows up in 1998 and provides Dre with raw, fresh talent as a rapper; and Dre in return provides Eminem with beats and exposure to the mainstream.  Win-Win situation.  

...Now let's make an extreme case.   Person A is starving in Thialand and doesn't even have money to feed themselves.  Person B is a wealthy American businessman.   The wealthy American businessman wants to sidestep the US bearacracy, minimum wage laws and legal red tape and do business oversea's.   Person A is starving in Thialand and is willing to work for even a $1 a day just to feed himself.   So a factory is built in Thailand, and both sides win.  Win-Win situation.      
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 07:35:31 PM
when you are in your late 20's/early 30's and still trying to live your life based on what KRS-One said you have some issues.

That's your racist white mind talking.  Should I be listening to Dr. Phil instead?

I don't base my life off of KRS, obviously.  But anyone who is a true hip-hop head knows that KRS is a legend and pioneer in hip-hop.  He is the teacher and scholar and ambassador of hip-hop.  So when he says that it's okay for whites to say nicca in hip-hop, I respect that.   If that doesn't make sense to you, then you are either a racist or you don't understand hip-hop.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 07:37:01 PM
straight bitch shit brian you should of been able to put those hoes in check

I always run my own shit when it comes to women.  But that's in my social life.  In the workplace different rules apply; especially when your new to a place and still don't know what the fuck your doing.  Your going to have to rely on other people.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 08, 2012, 07:38:16 PM
http://www.youtube.com/v/lPZhDOX-zfc

Based God swag. swag. swag.

You really need to lay back once in awhile you seem sensitive as fuck.

I am a sensitive person.  And I don't consider that a liability, I take it as an asset.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: rayallen0 on March 08, 2012, 08:40:13 PM
when you are in your late 20's/early 30's and still trying to live your life based on what KRS-One said you have some issues.

That's your racist white mind talking.  Should I be listening to Dr. Phil instead?

I don't base my life off of KRS, obviously.  But anyone who is a true hip-hop head knows that KRS is a legend and pioneer in hip-hop.  He is the teacher and scholar and ambassador of hip-hop.  So when he says that it's okay for whites to say nicca in hip-hop, I respect that.   If that doesn't make sense to you, then you are either a racist or you don't understand hip-hop.

...no i let the people around me & my family lol. Dr. Phil??? really??!?! i guess that is a good equivalent to having KRS-one as your role model though. LMFAO look at this self hating white man. You don't know shit about hip hop you like maybe 6 artists stop fronting.

true hip hop head lmao. anybody who has listened to hip hop for more than 6 months knows KRS-one is a legend. unfortunately you never evolved past that stage. Stay in your little comfort zone of 1996 because your life has gotten progressively worse since then.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: rayallen0 on March 08, 2012, 08:46:35 PM
how about some Public Enemy, Beastie Boys, De La Soul, Rakim, Ultramagnetic MC's, EPMD, BDK, Slick Rick, Kool G Rap, The D.O.C., Run DMC, Jungle Brothers, Ice-T, Afrika Bambaataa, Marley Marl, Biz Markie, LL Cool J, 3rd Bass, Mantronix, Grandmaster Flash & the Furious Five, Stetsasonic, Whodini, DJ Jazzy Jeff & the Fresh Prince, Gang Starr, MC Lyte, Newcleus, and a shit load of other pioneers. why aren't you using them as you're model for what you can and can't say? oh because you found one 80's rapper and decided that was the only one you needed.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: The Troll on March 08, 2012, 09:32:34 PM
how about some Public Enemy, Beastie Boys, De La Soul, Rakim, Ultramagnetic MC's, EPMD, BDK, Slick Rick, Kool G Rap, The D.O.C., Run DMC, Jungle Brothers, Ice-T, Afrika Bambaataa, Marley Marl, Biz Markie, LL Cool J, 3rd Bass, Mantronix, Grandmaster Flash & the Furious Five, Stetsasonic, Whodini, DJ Jazzy Jeff & the Fresh Prince, Gang Starr, MC Lyte, Newcleus, and a shit load of other pioneers. why aren't you using them as you're model for what you can and can't say? oh because you found one 80's rapper and decided that was the only one you needed.

LOL
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Sccit on March 08, 2012, 11:47:21 PM
infinite, u my boy, but ima be honest with ya, i think u were a little oversensitive on this one, brodie.. thing is, ur letting these dumbass bitches get in ur way and giving them the power to fuck with ur mind a little too much. i say don't ever let a stupid hoe bother u in the slightest. let them be stupid and rise above..u gotta approach these situations with a "fuck a bitch" mentality and just do you. don't worry about what others are doin/sayin, let the bitches be bitches, and handle ur own shit....meaning, act as if they don't even exist and carry on with what u gotta do without payin them no mind. if they come at u wrong and say some dumbass shit, just laugh it off and be like "damn, ur even dumber than i thought" or something (in a jokingly/sarcastic way, of course)....imo, ur just overanalyzing shit. i aint like these nerds tryna talk shit for cheap laughs, i know u aint a bitch, and i know u like to get deep...but in certain situations, it's best to not give a fuck and do your own thing without letting others get in the way.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Tutlock on March 09, 2012, 01:58:50 AM
  But I don't believe life should be an everyday battle to put my foot down and demand respect.  


but it is . when you´re working, when you go to a club, a meeting , whatever , people are always measuring you to see how they can have things their way  . standing straight demanding respect is the thing you have to do always or people try to take advantage of you .

That's a very grim world-view.  That's a view that depicts social life as a zero-sum game.  That in every interaction for someone to win someone else has to lose.  That you either take advantage of someone else or they take advantage of you.  Like Wesley Snipes says in White Men Can't Jump - "You either smoke, or you get smoked!"  I don't believe in that.  I believe in mutually beneficial relationships.   They get something out of you and you get something out of them, likewise.  

Like in the workplace.  They will respect me because I'm providing a service for them, and in return I will respect them because they are providing me with money.

Or an even simpler analogy.  You have a watch you don't care for much anymore because your wife bought you a better watch.  I don't have any watch at all, but I have $20 dollars to spare.  I would rather have the watch than the $20 and you would rather have the $20 dollars than the watch.  So we interact and do business with each other, and each side benefits from the exchange.  

that´s how it should go, in a perfect world. and that´s how it goes with good friends and close relatives etc.  but work ? nah . call it grim, i´m just being realistic .  employers rarely care about their employees these days , they can get new ones if they act up . in the old days when people knew each other outside of work, knew their neighbors and such , being nice was easier.  not anymore.

the world is cold like that . not always of course but people you don´t know tend to try to take advantage of you, that´s just how it goes .
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Sikotic™ on March 09, 2012, 01:03:20 PM
This is embarrassing.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: MistaNova on March 10, 2012, 11:23:52 PM
You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours is an equal exchange.  And that's not what I'm talking about.

What I'm saying is that fact that people are not equal and will never be equal that exchange is possible.

So win-win situations can happen if the parties involved aren't equal?
Not sure if that's true since I can see the guy with the upper hand screwing the deal to make sure he and only he wins even if the other guy is Charlie Sheen.
Like in your Nation A & B situation. I can see Nation A only offering Nation B a really crappy deal while knowing they'll turn it down. But they also know that the time will eventually come when B becomes desparate for oil and has to take whatever A's proposal is no matter how much they don't want to.
Your extreme situation can turn out grim as well. Like Person B can have his laborers work for less than they need, and if they ask for more B can just fire them. And since B knows that the country he built his factory in is full of people like Person A he can have the position filled again in no time with someone else.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: TraceOneInfinite Flat Earther 96' on March 12, 2012, 10:36:43 AM
infinite, u my boy, but ima be honest with ya, i think u were a little oversensitive on this one, brodie.. thing is, ur letting these dumbass bitches get in ur way and giving them the power to fuck with ur mind a little too much. i say don't ever let a stupid hoe bother u in the slightest. let them be stupid and rise above..u gotta approach these situations with a "fuck a bitch" mentality and just do you. don't worry about what others are doin/sayin, let the bitches be bitches, and handle ur own shit....meaning, act as if they don't even exist and carry on with what u gotta do without payin them no mind. if they come at u wrong and say some dumbass shit, just laugh it off and be like "damn, ur even dumber than i thought" or something (in a jokingly/sarcastic way, of course)....imo, ur just overanalyzing shit. i aint like these nerds tryna talk shit for cheap laughs, i know u aint a bitch, and i know u like to get deep...but in certain situations, it's best to not give a fuck and do your own thing without letting others get in the way.

Word homie.. I feel ya... and takin it into consideration.   But one thing to remember is that it was a new gig and I didn't know shit so I was dependent on these dumb bitches, so it wasn't easy to disregard them and just say "fuck a bitch".  Obviously in my personal life I never let bitches run my shit. 
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Blasphemy (A) on March 12, 2012, 11:45:40 AM
Your letter should just be honest and read


"Dear Boss, My job has alerted the proper channels and thus child-support will be taken outta my check, as such I've decided to leave and restart the process over again, because I couldn't give a shit about my kid" - signed Hoverhands in tha motherland.  8)
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Nate Dogg's Rotting Corpse. on March 13, 2012, 03:55:28 PM
Your letter should just be honest and read


"Dear Boss, My job has alerted the proper channels and thus child-support will be taken outta my check, as such I've decided to leave and restart the process over again, because I couldn't give a shit about my kid" - signed Hoverhands in tha motherland.  8)


LOLOLOL

Brian, you are a fucking herb ass loser bro.

Your entire life is like a monkey fucking a football.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: MUHFUKKA on March 13, 2012, 03:59:18 PM
infidel is whats known as an underage sex tourist. he just happens to like africans but the hiv was an accident, i swear
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: Sir Petey on December 05, 2013, 08:39:13 PM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy

Actually, the higher ups are really scrambling to try to get me back, and apologizing for everything.   I'm not the type of nicca that ever counts on just one thing, one person, one job, or one anything.... So I got other shit going on besides just this job.  So maybe I will go back on a limited basis or maybe not.   But I have myself covered for shit like this.  

And when I saw it was mostly all white people I'd be working with on a daily basis, I knew something like this might go down.  So I'm not caught off-guard by it.  Black people know how to have a good time at work, and allow you more freedom at work.  While white people are more fake and there's hidden wars and battles always building beneath the surface.   Still sucks to go through this, but it's just temporary.

Hold on a second. Putting my trolling and this letter aside for a quick moment. Did I actually just see you say "nicca"?

Yep.  Sure did.  KRS-1 said it's okay for whites in hip-hop to say it.  And KRS is the Teacher.  Nough said.



smfh
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: blcxm on December 13, 2013, 05:17:44 AM
niqab.
Title: Re: 2012 Version of "Revenge Letter To My Employer"
Post by: LooN3y on December 14, 2013, 11:14:22 AM
i hope you get fired for being a pussy

Actually, the higher ups are really scrambling to try to get me back, and apologizing for everything.   I'm not the type of nicca that ever counts on just one thing, one person, one job, or one anything.... So I got other shit going on besides just this job.  So maybe I will go back on a limited basis or maybe not.   But I have myself covered for shit like this.  

And when I saw it was mostly all white people I'd be working with on a daily basis, I knew something like this might go down.  So I'm not caught off-guard by it.  Black people know how to have a good time at work, and allow you more freedom at work.  While white people are more fake and there's hidden wars and battles always building beneath the surface.   Still sucks to go through this, but it's just temporary.

Hold on a second. Putting my trolling and this letter aside for a quick moment. Did I actually just see you say "nicca"?

Yep.  Sure did.  KRS-1 said it's okay for whites in hip-hop to say it.  And KRS is the Teacher.  Nough said.


god... you are such a tool... then again, alias?


i dont know whos real anymore, losing my dubcc mind.