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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Now_Im_Not_Banned on February 05, 2003, 04:55:33 PM
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Anyone know how to get over a girl? Especially a girl you really liked or maybe even really loved...It's kinda depressing to be thinking about some one you lost 24/7...Holla back with some advice...PeAcE
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i dont know man, i used to punch holes in my wall, when shit like that happened, i wanted to punch things, alot of that time it was people. but man you just gotta let it go, just forget about it, try n get a new girl, a bomber one, show your ex up.
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i dont think there is an easy way...the best way is to probablly get another girl...peace
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I dont want another girl...plus i'm not good at getting with girls...
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yeah unfortunatley i know how you feel
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actually i JUST went threw this i started talkin 2 another girl and i got over my X that i was n love with and now im with this other girl so it wasnt that hard and when i had her i thought i dont think i could get over her EVEr and well just keep ur mind off her and go out and find another girl 4 real
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actually i JUST went threw this i started talkin 2 another girl and i got over my X that i was n love with and now im with this other girl so it wasnt that hard and when i had her i thought i dont think i could get over her EVEr and well just keep ur mind off her and go out and find another girl 4 real
If u got over her that quik, there is no way you were in love...I can't even picture myself with another girl right now...that's how bad it is...PeACe
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Find a hobby that u real interested in, sumthing that when u do it...it takes up all yur concentration, and jus focus on that. Youll git over the girl eventually anywayz, but thiz will jus make the time go faster...and at least youll get better at somethin u already did anyways. I had tha same shit wit a girl a long time ago, and i jus played ball like every chance i got.
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Only time can help you with getting over a girl if you really loved her. I was with this girl for three years. She was a lying bitch so I dumped her ass but I still loved her like crazy and I tried messing with other chicks and going out 24/7 but I still missed her cause we practically lived together and it was hard for me to get adjusted to being by myself. After a month or two I got her out of my system. I know how you feel but you'll get over her in time.
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Jerk It...
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Time heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now.
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Time heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now.
Thanks a lot man...I appreciate those words...Especially the part about God not intending me to be with her, because she was black, and I knew that sooner or later I would have to get rid of her...I definently can't marry a black girl, unless I wanted to be looked down upon greatly by my family...Plus my parents wouldnt let me go places with her, and really begged me every day to stop talking to her...I dunno man...This shit is too much on me...To tell ya'll the truth, this is the first girl i really got sexual with...we were going to have sex twice (on her request), but the first time her parents came home when we were about to do it, and the second time I only had one condom, and it was expired...I dunno man...shit is just tough as fuck...Today at school she was just back hugging on her ex like she used to hug me, but even more...It's just real painfull...We don't even talk anymore...Whatever though...I wont be seeing her for like a week, cuz shes visiting Ohio today...Maybe that will help...Hopefully...PeACe
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Time heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now.
Thanks a lot man...I appreciate those words...Especially the part about God not intending me to be with her, because she was black, and I knew that sooner or later I would have to get rid of her...I definently can't marry a black girl, unless I wanted to be looked down upon greatly by my family...Plus my parents wouldnt let me go places with her, and really begged me every day to stop talking to her...I dunno man...This shit is too much on me...To tell ya'll the truth, this is the first girl i really got sexual with...we were going to have sex twice (on her request), but the first time her parents came home when we were about to do it, and the second time I only had one condom, and it was expired...I dunno man...shit is just tough as fuck...Today at school she was just back hugging on her ex like she used to hug me, but even more...It's just real painfull...We don't even talk anymore...Whatever though...I wont be seeing her for like a week, cuz shes visiting Ohio today...Maybe that will help...Hopefully...PeACe
ay u shouldnt let yur parents decide who u date. they should accept her, if she makez u happy. Jus my opinion...
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Time heals all wounds. If you are a religious man, then just take the knowledge that God didn't intend for you to be with this one. And if you stay open to his plan, you'll find the one he's set aside for you, and that love will be 100 times better than the one you just lost. Trust me, I'm speaking from experince. You just gotta be open to his plan... you'll find better, AND it'll help you to cope with your loss right now.
Thanks a lot man...I appreciate those words...Especially the part about God not intending me to be with her, because she was black, and I knew that sooner or later I would have to get rid of her...I definently can't marry a black girl, unless I wanted to be looked down upon greatly by my family...Plus my parents wouldnt let me go places with her, and really begged me every day to stop talking to her...I dunno man...This shit is too much on me...To tell ya'll the truth, this is the first girl i really got sexual with...we were going to have sex twice (on her request), but the first time her parents came home when we were about to do it, and the second time I only had one condom, and it was expired...I dunno man...shit is just tough as fuck...Today at school she was just back hugging on her ex like she used to hug me, but even more...It's just real painfull...We don't even talk anymore...Whatever though...I wont be seeing her for like a week, cuz shes visiting Ohio today...Maybe that will help...Hopefully...PeACe
ay u shouldnt let yur parents decide who u date. they should accept her, if she makez u happy. Jus my opinion...
Well, that's not the reason we ended what we had between us, it was something totally different...As a matter of fact, I don't even know what happened...One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped...Shit's weird...
Anyways, I guess my parents are afraid for me, because they want me to marry a Jewish girl...My uncle fell in love with a Mexican girl, and now is married to her with children...He greatly regrets it...My parents are just afraid for me...But that has nothing to do with why we "broke up"...PeACe
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I misread the topic-title..
I read "How to bend over a girl?" instead..
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Well, that's not the reason we ended what we had between us, it was something totally different...As a matter of fact, I don't even know what happened...One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped...Shit's weird...
if she knew yur parents views...she mighta been turned away by it
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I say you smoke some spliffs and parle' with your homies. just keep doing the things you enjoy to take your mind off her.
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LOL yeah that wierd shit happened to me earlier this quarter man...LOL I hate it when a chicks all into U and all of a sudden goes the opposite way...haha next time fuck a girl as soon as U can so she gets attached to u...lol ;D
But next time if U wanna keep a girl be a man, and not a chicks "bitch" like I repeatedly told U... and like U told me she liked ur ass cuz U were playin hard to get...well U shuda kept doin that until yall fucked and beyond that too...personally I think she got to U after a while and U werent the same as the guy she was attracted to first. Jus my 2 bux. peace.
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This shit happenin to me right now. Funny thing is that she's the one that asked me out and we fucked right off the bat. Must not have been good enough for her though. I guess at leats I got some before she broke it off. You can't dwell on it though. There are so many girls out there that one has got to be better. I feel you though. I've been thinkin about this shit constantly. Makes you think though. I did the same thing to this one chick awhile ago. Got tired of her after I hooked up with her a few times. Had to get rid of her and she wasn't to happy. Guess what goes around comes around.
DreDay
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If u got over her that quik, there is no way you were in love...I can't even picture myself with another girl right now...that's how bad it is...PeACe
naw i was 4 real but not talkin 2 her 4 a week and 2 days and then talkin 2 another girl none stop durin that time gets u over it lol
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I went throught this back around Halloween. For me, the best thing was just totally forgetting about her. Go out with your friends. The best thing is to get another girl. That was the best way to get my mind off of her. But now I'm friends with her again. It's On baby.....
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uh. shoot her. yeah, that's a good way. or shoot yo self. shit, do both.....even better :P
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Well, that's not the reason we ended what we had between us, it was something totally different...As a matter of fact, I don't even know what happened...One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped...Shit's weird...
if she knew yur parents views...she mighta been turned away by it
Not true...Her ex boyfriends parents had the same views as mine and he even told her (coincidently, he's Jewish as well)...Now she's all up on him again...
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personally I think she got to U after a while and U werent the same as the guy she was attracted to first. Jus my 2 bux. peace.
Word...That's definently a possibility homie...PeACe
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Best method that works for me: Put on a good song, close your eyes and focus on the rest of your life and how good you can make it if u try. A good track at a time like this is Loosin' Control - Snoop.
Goodluck brother
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dam NIK, I was guna make a sarcastic comment and shit but you really sound like ya upset about this girl. Look lad I know it might sound dumb coming from me and shit but lifes an experience, girls will come girls will go, the worlds a big place and there plenty more fish in the sea. Time will heal your pain and that and it really sucks that your relationship lasted such a short time but man you seem a cool kid, just play it cool till the next girl comes along. Try to not worry about it too much like and try tom stay good friends with the girl cos if shits meant to be then you might end up getting back with her. Hope I helped bud.
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Well, that's not the reason we ended what we had between us, it was something totally different...As a matter of fact, I don't even know what happened...One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped...Shit's weird...
if she knew yur parents views...she mighta been turned away by it
Not true...Her ex boyfriends parents had the same views as mine and he even told her (coincidently, he's Jewish as well)...Now she's all up on him again...
damn... she must like them guys with the mutilated nutz... j/p :)
seriously tho... take ya mind off things get out and do stuff (its not a magic cure but it helps). whatever u do dont just mope around over it. finding another girl is another way, but not always the right one.
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Now i know
I split up with the girl i love about 3 months ago, we had been going out for nearly 2 years.It really hurts and i think about her loads especially when im on my own. My advice is to keep busy, hang out with ure mates. try not to spend 2 much time on your own thats when i really get down. I could write 4 ages on this topic but there is no real way to get over someone u love it just happens. I will know i have done it once every little thing stops reminding me of her.
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yeah thats what i was tryin to say.. good to hear the voice of experience talkin... "don't stop.. keep goin" is the advice
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and heres me thinkin guys didn't give a shit bout that kinda shit.................
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One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped
maybe she realised that she was drunk and u are actually ugly & have stinky breath? ;Dbeen there b4!
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and heres me thinkin guys didn't give a shit bout that kinda shit.................
its all a facade ;) u dont know coz men suck at expressin their feelins, or dont wanna seem weak
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ive been through this....I used to go out with homies and chill with other girls and stuff to try to get over it..Keepin ya self occupied works a lot..I spent a lot of time at the gym gettin my mind off it.Keep ya self occupied and meetin new girls. LOng as u aint gay or retarded u can get a girl good for you...I've seen some ugly mofos get good girls...Girls are retarded. U probably loved this girl and she didnt love you back. Thats why its good to see where they stand..If they aint feelin the same as u get rid of them.It will be nothing but pain if u dont
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One day she liked me sooooo much, and than the next day it just all of a sudden stopped
maybe she realised that she was drunk and u are actually ugly & have stinky breath? ;Dbeen there b4!
Why do lads do that to you all the time do they?
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nope i can swear on my life and say its always been the other way round :) ask anyone i spill my problems too :)
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nope i can swear on my life and say its always been the other way round :) ask anyone i spill my problems too :)
You look like Lurch with that big ass chin...Go somewhere else you damn pale ass zombie lookin hoe...
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Too short and Suga free....
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ask anyone i spill my problems too :)
*Dialing Nadya'z plastic surgeon* ;D
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hey the kids used to call me names coz i was darker than them....Lmao, u ppls are WEIRD 1 sec u call me skinny then im fat ass, u really should make up ur mind b4 u TRY to insult sum1!!
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ahh cmon leave her alone... they're always like this with women nadya juss ignore em
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ask anyone i spill my problems too :)
*Dialing Nadya'z plastic surgeon* ;D
LOL U mean her to-be-plastic surgeon? lol ;D