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Lifestyle => Tha G-Spot => Topic started by: Lincoln on August 23, 2004, 10:36:49 AM
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Alright, this isn't usually my style, asking advice on women since I'm pretty secular.
I fell for this girl at work, we flirt, get along well, etc.. But there's a big problem. I'm 18, she's 23. The other night she told me that it's too bad I'm so young because she'd date me if I were older. I'm moving in a couple weeks and it's to the same city she lives in, so I could see it working out well. But I need some way to get over this age hurdle.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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get a real good paying job than she wont give a shit how old you are lol. Really tho, there is nothing to say. It's all on her. Maybe try an show your mature enough n whatnot.
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get a real good paying job than she wont give a shit how old you are lol. Really tho, there is nothing to say. It's all on her. Maybe try an show your mature enough n whatnot.
I tried the maturity thing, turns out we're at about the same level so that didn't work. It's just this damn age, which is just a fucking number. It really makes me mad.
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i'd say give up and move on dude.. dont torture yourself.
she's already said no, and that your a nice guy.. ya should be flattered :)
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i'd say give up and move on dude.. dont torture yourself.
she's already said no, and that your a nice guy.. ya should be flattered :)
Give up? I'm not like that.
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she's told you NO.
so no.
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she's told you NO.
so no.
Well she's just not seeing the light yet.
I'm heading out to work now, I'll let you all know how it goes in 9 hours or so.
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Well... I've got (too) much experience with the age-hurdle... Girls from 17, 18 start flirting wit me in clubs and so on, they think I'm their age. But. Hell. I am 16. And I don't give a fuck, if she's nice and luvable I just go with it.
[EXAMPLE]
But then... We're having a chat, and then she asks how old I am, most of the time I just say: "I'm 16"
"Ow. You're 16."
"Ehm yeah, but so what, you know.."
"Well.... [starts thinking of a reason to dump me nice and not too hard]"
[/EXAMPLE]
So, anyway. My new strategic plan: just make sure she doesn't feel you like an age-problem. Be cool, and adjust yourself to her age. Just talk with her smooth when she starts about age and shit, you can then always say: "Well okay, the fact is I am bit older/younger. But everything goes fine, I love you. And I don't feel the age as a problem at all, I can't imagine you really have problems with it...Do you?"
Aight. See if it could help :)
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she's told you NO.
so no.
Well she's just not seeing the light yet.
I'm heading out to work now, I'll let you all know how it goes in 9 hours or so.
tell yourself that dude...
you could end up not being able to talk to her at all..
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btw Overseer, I know a lot of girls that say "no", but when you look in their eyes and see how they actin' it could become a "yes" 8)
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show her your dick, and say does he look 18...
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take it as a lesson and learn for next time. just lie!
actually best thing to do, which is what i do, is when she asks u ur age, tell them to guess it. i got this 1 girl on the side she thinks im 22. been thinkin for a while. other one thinks im 20.. it doesnt matter.
just learn how to be a good lier and fuck wit the girls brains they never gone find out.
but for this one.. uhm i guess really if shes a nice girl, keep seeing her. she said she'd go out with u if u were older so that means she likes u. so just stay in touch and don't try too hard but be nice to her and shit and don't pressure her too much. eventually her feelings gone overcome her.
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that looks like an exact replica of what happened to me when i was 19-20 and a chic was 23-24....we flirted hung out a couple times...but i never pursued it hard enough because at the time i though the age difference would be an issue...well looking back on it im kicking myself in the ass for not at least trying..
here what i live by when dealing with women...its better to strike out swinging than to strike out looking...in other words...at least give it a shot 8)
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i'd say give up and move on dude.. dont torture yourself.
she's already said no, and that your a nice guy.. ya should be flattered :)
i'll agree with seer lol
in grade 10 i was like 15 i think, and i went out with an 18 year old...i didn't tell her my age till about a month into the relationship...but it wasn't my fault, SHE NEVER ASKED!
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show her your dick, and say does he look 18...
LOL man, come on now.
Anyways, Lincoln I'd like to give you advice but the truth of it is it's all a bunch of bullshit. It's like a big game or something, these women are fucked up in the head, and every single fucking one of them has no clue what or who they want. She's telling herself she's too old to date you, but that's no fucking rule. If she wanted to date you, she would date you. Now, one way to see that is like Overseer did, and just move on, but I'm a fool for women when I fall for them, so I know you're not going to do that by what you said about it. So the only advice I can give you is to just ignore it, or maybe even act like it's a positive, or just straight out lie, even when she knows you are, for funnies.
Stuff like "Oh, I was just kidding. I'm really 47. Now can we go out?"
She'll eventually realize how rediculous it is to give a shit how old you are. Good luck man!
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here what i live by when dealing with women...its better to strike out swinging than to strike out looking...in other words...at least give it a shot 8)
Hell yeah! It's better to go out CRAWLING then to go out looking, lol.
I normally wouldn't think that, but recent events have opened my eyes to it. I don't even give a fuck anymore, I have no pride, pride is useless and a false attribute.
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here what i live by when dealing with women...its better to strike out swinging than to strike out looking...in other words...at least give it a shot 8)
thats some smart shit. I'm going to adapt that into my life lol
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I lost my virginity to a 18 year old when I was 13.
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on a serious note, tell her "age aint nothing but a number", and thats the truth, cause if the only reason she dont wana be with u is age, thats rediculous, and u should tell her that.
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if she's a chick that just cares about age, she probably isn't worth your time anyway.
i've found that chicks that think like that are too stupid to be taken seriously. chicks that are obsessed with the outside aren't worth the time, even if they are hot.
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if she's a chick that just cares about age, she probably isn't worth your time anyway.
i've found that chicks that think like that are too stupid to be taken seriously. chicks that are obsessed with the outside aren't worth the time, even if they are hot.
no doubt
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fisrt off u shoulda lied if u wanted to date her but if ud idnt know its cool
2nd off she prolly just saying the age cuzz ur on a wheelchair and she dont wanna say its cuzz ur crippled ;D
3rd off, if she keeps saying no it wasent meant to happen there is this girl and we have been flirting and shit and she likes another dude and told my friend me and her are better off friends so i gave up i mean if u cant get her it wasent meant to be...
4th off, im talking to a junior and im sophmore... so mack them hoes fuck the age...
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Take off your New Kids On The Block muscle shirt and stuff a sock down your pants....she'll be eating out of the palm of your hands before you know it.
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Take off your New Kids On The Block muscle shirt and stuff a sock down your pants....she'll be eating out of the palm of your hands before you know it.
just becuase it works for u at the whore house doenst mean it works for everyone ;D
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Take off your New Kids On The Block muscle shirt and stuff a sock down your pants....she'll be eating out of the palm of your hands before you know it.
just becuase it works for u at the whore house doenst mean it works for everyone ;D
True dat
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i guess the only thing you can do is just keep spending time with her and doing what your doing already. Maybe she'll change her mind after she gets to know you more. Not much more you could do.
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I was watching the Andy Griffith show tonight, that show is so classic. Anyways, Opie was like 8 and he had a crush on this little 8 year old girl from school, and she wouldn't give him the time of day. So, anyways, Andy told him to just be nice to her, and if she didn't like him, eventually he'd get over it. So, Andy was giving you Overseer's advice, basically.
Well, Barney was more like me. LOL. Barney lives life with Passion, so anyways... Barney told Opie to start macking her and stuff, it was so hilarious. It made me think of this thread, lol.
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btw Overseer, I know a lot of girls that say "no", but when you look in their eyes and see how they actin' it could become a "yes" 8)
*BUMPS R. KELLY*
HER MINDS TELLIN YOU NO BUT HER BODY, HER BOOOOODY IS TELLING HER YES!
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Well tonight went pretty good. I picked her a flower from the garden because she wasn't feeling 100%. Then she started talking about how she's going to miss me (I quit my job because I'm moving but I'm coming back to work the occasional weekend when I come home to visit my fam) and she was damn near crying. She was talking about she needed to do some thinking and whatnot, so could be a good sign.
Thanks for the advice all.
Oh yeah, and to Nima you're 100% right man, I shoulda lied about my age. Stupidest thing is that when she first started she thought I was her age, but I hadn't yet developed feelings for her. *Smacks head*.
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where do you work that lets u come back occasionally? sounds cool
keep in touch with her when you move if its not too late ask for her E-mail or somethign and keep you on her mind....that last part sounds weird :D
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Hmmm... Well I don't like lying, especially in this situation, I mean this sounds like a "long-time-relation". In long-time-relations you don't want any shit, and you're giving eachother as much as confidence as you have (so if she would look in your wallet and sees on a card that you're now 18 instead of 21......).
In short-time-relations, well, who does give a fuck, just have fun, right?
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Post a pictures of her let's see if she worths your while
oh just hook me up were guys from Anyways
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There are literally BILLIONS of them out there. Don't sweat just one. I know it's easier said then done.
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where do you work that lets u come back occasionally? sounds cool
keep in touch with her when you move if its not too late ask for her E-mail or somethign and keep you on her mind....that last part sounds weird :D
This hotel I work at, my boss wants to take a couple weekends off a month so I'll come in and cover him.
And yeah, I'm gonna ask her for her e-mail address on Thursday when I see her.
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a hotel, what do u do??? tell me u werent alone in a room with her??
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a hotel, what do u do??? tell me u werent alone in a room with her??
No she's the front desk attendant, I have 2 jobs, kitchen and maintenance. I only ever see her at the front desk or if she comes to the kitchen to get a coffee. Not too private.
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darn.. so u gonna post pics or wat
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darn.. so u gonna post pics or wat
I don't have any pictures of her and if I did I don't think I'd have the right to put them up on a message board.
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Your David Bowie picture is scaring me, too, since we're talking about pictures. If I was drunk or high or something, I'd probably think he's trying to kill me, lol.
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Lincoln...don't turn into a STALKER lol
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Your David Bowie picture is scaring me, too, since we're talking about pictures. If I was drunk or high or something, I'd probably think he's trying to kill me, lol.
LOL yeah he can be a scary looking guy. If you think that picture of Bowie is scary check out these ones:
(http://www.123musicstars.com/music-stars/david-bowie.jpg)
(http://www.icemagazine.com/stories/184/images/bowie.jpg)
(http://www.reed.edu/~jenkinsv/mavieenreed/bowie.jpg)
(http://music.sympatico.ca/features/bowie/wallpapers/01_800.jpg)
I think it's because he's got a strange eye condition, gives him an always intensified look. Plus when he dressed like a woman that was scary, he looks like a different person nowadays.
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Lincoln...don't turn into a STALKER lol
lol :D
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Your David Bowie picture is scaring me, too, since we're talking about pictures. If I was drunk or high or something, I'd probably think he's trying to kill me, lol.
he seems like he wants to rape me...