What advice would you give me ...

[Tanjential]

It might not even be that you're in love or anything like that.  Maybe it's just that you guys broke up before you got a chance to smash.  That's called "the road not taken" and that shit haunts you for awhile...so u have to try and capitalize when u can.  Be persistent.   

+1

QFT

-T

[Don Jacob]

Jake, it comforts me to no end that you're still around these boards.

-T

u too man.

[Don Jacob]

what u do if u like a girl, but she has a boyfriend that shes been dating for a while but she likes you as well. She just doesnt want to "cheat" cuz shes confrotable with her boyfriend....thats my current problem. Keep trying or just forget about the bitch?

dude, straight up stay away from girls like that.

1. it shows that she has a selfish side that will be unleashed if the situation was right
2. she doesn't respect her man.

so what makes you think that she'll respect you. stay away from hoes like that, they have no class, you can't have a significant other but like someone else if you think that relationship is worth holding on to. straight up man. i've been down that road before too many times when i was younger, and it always lead to the same place eventually. the fact that she has a man AND she's letting you know she likes you is fuckin' bitch made. even if she never does anything with while she's with this dude, she has no class.

get yourself  a STRONG girl with class. they're not hard to find if you're strong and classy your self.


to all the BOYS on this board....get your Grown Man on...quit messin with lil' girls and find your self a woman.

[Don Jacob]

Yeah we didnt do a thing. Basically we was dating for a few months then with each other for a month and it that month I saw her like twice because she had uni work and dancing to finish before Christmas. I pretty much left her to it, not bugging aboit seeing her or nothing. Then the week she finished all her shit she came around on the Monday and said you're too clingy blah blah blah.

Anyway guys I got in touch with her and told her everything but no we have ended up arguing so at least Ive got some closeure. I dont want to even be friends with her now so Im jsut guna delete her out of my life and shit. I dont need people like her in my life, they just make it difficult. Ive tried being a mad but my feelings always seem to get ahold of me. I need to actually try moving on now, people break up, shit happens, it not always what you want but I suppose thats life hey.

Im jsut guna get rid of her totally cos after all this shit we have said to each other in the last day its obvious that maybe I was a bit clingy but its obvious to me that she thinks she was perfect in the relationship. Shes a bit of a dickhead to be honest.

Thanks for the advice guys. You each get a prop.

yo man, in a way that was bad how you ended it with her but GOOD that you're trying to let go. trust me.
i'm not going to diss her at all because it's unfair to comment with only one perspective. but let this be a learning experience for you in the future, correct the mistakes you made with her and you'll nab someone who will love YOU so much that you'll catch yourself probably doing what this chick did to you,lol. be nice and be easy man. your day will come. just build build build.

[Nigga_With_An_Additude]

gentlemen,

women are crazy............we don't even know what we want so be like us don't give it up on the first date and neither of you will have this problem

thats why God says to not sleep around unless your married...........

sorry the chaplin inside me came out11523

[Nigga_With_An_Additude]

the whoorider came out to play..........

http://youtube.com/watch?v=fv9Q5ZieF5A

thats the best comment U can do man...............

[bez]

Well ive dleted everythin guys. I gave it one last shot but it wasnt guna work so I have deleted everything. If I see her when Im out Im literally guna ave to decide there adn then whether to say hello or not, Ill just do what I feel. I really cant be bothered with her now. I think the way she treated me was bullshit really. But thats girls hey.

[LyRiCaL_G]

yo jake props on that shit you said, on point, if you lookin for a relationship, be a man and look for a woman, not a girl....and that is not age verified, thats personality...and looks obviously but its gotta be some sort of balance....

yo i got so much shit i could type out to help muthafuckers with gettin ladies and whats to do and also what you gotta do yourself but dang, who would wanna read shit like that on a hiphop forum...still, i may make a post and all the ballers, and shit can post up advice for the cats in here on how to get a woman and how to keep one...dang, we all might learn something new aswell...haha.....

infact i think i will start a topic on this....yo jake and sikotic and whoever else knows how to get ladies, come holla in that

pz
 

[Now_Im_Not_Banned]

Seems to me like you get a bit too emotional. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being emotional if that's you, but I just don't think flaunting your emotions to a girl is gunna get you much (in most cases). Also, it seems like you should be a little more assertive. You said you were seeing her for 4 months and didn't do anything with her? I mean, shit, that's probably a good part of the reason she wasn't feeling you... You can't expect shit to happen, you gotta make it happen. That's a mans job...PeACe

[WestCoasta]

Seems to me like you get a bit too emotional. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being emotional if that's you, but I just don't think flaunting your emotions to a girl is gunna get you much (in most cases). Also, it seems like you should be a little more assertive. You said you were seeing her for 4 months and didn't do anything with her? I mean, shit, that's probably a good part of the reason she wasn't feeling you... You can't expect shit to happen, you gotta make it happen. That's a mans job...PeACe

I agree...

plus the fact she said he was too clingy, that's not a good thing to her obviously and must have been a turnoff