DUBCC Problem Pages

[NADYA_IS_BACK]

Post your problem!
I'll start.
I'm having some guy problems.
There are 2 guys in my life, one is an ex and we just started talking again.One is a guy ive been talkin to for about a year and we just started dating a year ago. One is really under my skin and i guess i love him and one is great and perfect but im just not as into him (yet hopefully). Well anyway, I was just happily dating guy .2 , and then me and guy no .1 made up, which kinda fucked my head up abit, now guy no.1 was gonna come over yesterday to chill but I was clubbing so missed his messages and calls, so anyway, this leaves me with my previous plans to see guy no.2 tommorow, but I know I would rather see guy no1, but he has plans for today, and is going home tommorow. So I dont know if i should still go see guy no.2 tommorow, cos first I need to know if i have any real future with guy no.1, but I cant find that out until he gets home so we can talk properly about it, so I mean, I already promised to see guy no 2. but I just dont wanna do anything with him if something could happen with guy .1.
Please can i have serious responces cos this is kinda urgent! Nadya
xxx

[Elevz]

I have a problem...

You're back!

Just kidding here's a prop. Now be nice 

[Elevz]

OK, my serious answer... Forget about guy #2, cancel the date, focus on guy #1. If you're gonna try and date/see both, you're gonna end up all alone. Not the way to go.

[Elevz]

Oh my... Did I really just make a serious post?

[SCRIP1ONER]

why do you keep telling us your problems??

[white Boy]

problems, im lazy, unmotivated, selfish, take everything im given for granted, i wana die, i wana move, i need to get better grades or im out of college, i hate the way i look, i want a gf, i want all my friends to stop fighting, etc.

[NADYA_IS_BACK]

No elvs i think u need some background info.!
Guy 1 has messed me around for about 3 years!  Guy 2 is really nice. Guy 1 has been ignoring my calls all day today even though he is here. So I dont know what to do. I wouldnt see guy 2 if guy 1 didnt ignore my calls today.Its such a mess!
Nadya x

[white Boy]

just invite them all to your house simotanoelsy and let them all fuck u and video tape it and send it to your mother, then wen she finds out, commit suicide.

[Javier]

just invite them all to your house simotanoelsy and let them all fuck u and video tape it and send it to your mother, then wen she finds out, commit suicide.

lmao

[Lincoln]

My problem is with women. I used to think it was the confidence thing and that I was afraid of a no answer, but assessing myself it's a fear of the answer yes which is strange. I always find something wrong about a woman that makes me afraid to get involved and develop feelings. Thankfully, I've been talking to this girl who I seem to have lots in common with, she's in my program and all that, and I can't find anything that I would have a problem with.

[white Boy]

My problem is with women. I used to think it was the confidence thing and that I was afraid of a no answer, but assessing myself it's a fear of the answer yes which is strange. I always find something wrong about a woman that makes me afraid to get involved and develop feelings. Thankfully, I've been talking to this girl who I seem to have lots in common with, she's in my program and all that, and I can't find anything that I would have a problem with.

kinda same for me, like, i cant have the average girl, im lookin for my dream girl, and i kinda wont settle for anything less, unless, its just a 1 night stand type of think, and im really picky, so ye, im single.

[Lincoln]

My problem is with women. I used to think it was the confidence thing and that I was afraid of a no answer, but assessing myself it's a fear of the answer yes which is strange. I always find something wrong about a woman that makes me afraid to get involved and develop feelings. Thankfully, I've been talking to this girl who I seem to have lots in common with, she's in my program and all that, and I can't find anything that I would have a problem with.

kinda same for me, like, i cant have the average girl, im lookin for my dream girl, and i kinda wont settle for anything less, unless, its just a 1 night stand type of think, and im really picky, so ye, im single.

Yeah same here. It's not like I have "high" standards, it just needs to be the right girl for me.

[eS El Duque]

*waiting for Sikotic to grace this thread so El Duque doesn't have to make the rude comment*

[herpes]

my problems, for whatever reason i cant get myself to make a resume to get myself out there and in hopes i get a real job.

This broad at work.  Ight i was feeling her,we talked a lot, so i ask her out.  Then some people at work tell me dont fuck this up cuz she likes an was going ask you to hang out.  So I take her to brooklyn cuz shes a long island girl i gotta take her to the real world.  So we play pool an shes getting close to me.  We get a bite to eat.  so its still early so we smoke a blunt, an where just sitting there.  So i try to make a move an shes like i dont know how i feel about seeing someone i work with.  so thats that.  So im thinkin i fucked cuz i came off like a pussy when i tried to make a move so im thinking i blew my own spot up lol. So a few days later some people i work with are like you wanna go to a haunted house, so i didnt want to go but the girl was going too so im like sure why not cuz they asked you mind if sam comes.  So we go but they cant get in touch with the girl.  Ight so where driving home an i ask, do i got a shot with same an there like you do but your coming on too strong she wants to get to know you better.  Then they tell me it was her idea to ask me to go the haunted house but yet she dont show up, go figure.  So i dunno, she wants to get to know me better but she dont say a work 2 me anymore, go figure.  I could careless shes likes me or not now, but what ever the case may be i would like to know lol.
 

[Sikotic™]

*waiting for Sikotic to grace this thread so El Duque doesn't have to make the rude comment*

LMAO. I'm just gonna tell her the honest truth. I'll try not to be mean:

Post your problem!
I'll start.
I'm having some guy problems.
There are 2 guys in my life, one is an ex and we just started talking again.One is a guy ive been talkin to for about a year and we just started dating a year ago. One is really under my skin and i guess i love him and one is great and perfect but im just not as into him (yet hopefully). Well anyway, I was just happily dating guy .2 , and then me and guy no .1 made up, which kinda fucked my head up abit, now guy no.1 was gonna come over yesterday to chill but I was clubbing so missed his messages and calls, so anyway, this leaves me with my previous plans to see guy no.2 tommorow, but I know I would rather see guy no1, but he has plans for today, and is going home tommorow. So I dont know if i should still go see guy no.2 tommorow, cos first I need to know if i have any real future with guy no.1, but I cant find that out until he gets home so we can talk properly about it, so I mean, I already promised to see guy no 2. but I just dont wanna do anything with him if something could happen with guy .1.
Please can i have serious responces cos this is kinda urgent! Nadya
xxx

Look Nadya, as cruel as this may sound, I'm just gonna tell you the truth: you're being a selfish, heartless bitch that is craving attention. You're not alone though. Every woman that is at least kinda good looking is a selfish, heartless bitch at least once in her life. You are fucking with these two guy's heads. I know you're sending them both vibes that you like them and that they are your "soul mate". Fact of the matter is you're tricking them in order to boost your self-esteem, which is obviously low because you post up your pictures to get approval from guys on dubcc AND you gave some guys your nude pictures in the past. Anyways, You really wanna keep this going as long as you can because it makes you feel good, so cut the bullshit. You're objectifying these guys, stripping them of their human identity. No matter what choice you make, one of the guys are gonna get fucked in the end. You know it, but you just don't care.

Stop ruining people's lives and tell them both the truth. You don't have a problem, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. You don't deserve either guys at this point.

You don't deserve either one of them.