It doesn't work like that homie. You are putting the cart before the horse (one of my favorite proverbs).
The reason I've been looking back on past missed opportunities is not because I want to or because I think it's better. Life forces you to do that when things aren't going well.
Let me use a sports analogy. Look at the Chiefs right now. They've consistently been relying on the same staff and personnel and playbook for many years now successfully. But now that they are not facing success it's forced everyone to question everything. From what the Owner Clark Hunt is doing, to questioning draft picks, GM moves, money spent, plays being called, etc.
When things are going well and you feel confident about the future then life doesn't force you to look back. But these are INVOLUNTARY THOUGHTS that come to your mind when you can't sleep at night cause you are suffering with regret and anguish and your mind starts replaying every decision you ever made that brought you to such a dark point in your life.
either you can control your mind or your mind can control you
not saying it's easy .... but those are the 2 options. the former takes more work and discipline, for sure.

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