It's May 14, 2024, 08:28:01 PM
yeah the pain and struggle all of these kids have gone through has definetly taken a huge toll on them but i dont think anyone would have regrets bout adopting a child and the child would be very grateful for the opportunity at a new life that you have given them. most of the children that get adopted r really young the majority of them being babies. kinda sad cuz once a child reaches the age of 8 i think his/ her chances of being adopted r really slim and this is because the parents dont want a child that has already been traumitized and want one that is still growing up so they can be their during the childs imprinting period and other critical points during their childhood much like my pranets did with my sister.
Quote from: africas seed on April 15, 2006, 04:44:34 PMyeah the pain and struggle all of these kids have gone through has definetly taken a huge toll on them but i dont think anyone would have regrets bout adopting a child and the child would be very grateful for the opportunity at a new life that you have given them. most of the children that get adopted r really young the majority of them being babies. kinda sad cuz once a child reaches the age of 8 i think his/ her chances of being adopted r really slim and this is because the parents dont want a child that has already been traumitized and want one that is still growing up so they can be their during the childs imprinting period and other critical points during their childhood much like my pranets did with my sister.Yeah, I'm convinced that by the time you're about 6 or 7, you're already basically 'who you're going to be', any damage done before that is nearly impossible to overcome. Think how the kids that grow out of the orphanage must feel. They've been in an orphanage or whatever for fuckin' 8 or 9 years and never got adopted, nobody wanted them, now they're out on their own and supposed to bring themselves up alone in the world with nobody. It's fucking horrible.
There are pictures and descriptions on the website of kids living in orphanages or foster homes here in the U.s., fuckin' 500 THOUSAND kids, just in the U.S.
Yeah, Wars a bitch, ain't it?