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QuietTruth:
How the fuck do you improve that?

When I ask, I don't mean just goin' up and talkin' to people but I say it in a way like, how? How to talk to a person the right way.

Does it gotta do with intelligence?

Ya know, it's like to some people it comes natural as hell, but like when somebody asks ya something and its like you don't know what to say, or you do, but have no fuckin' clue how to word something right.......

...Is that ignorance or intelligence?

I don't know, maybe this will grow out of you??

Samoan Enforcer:
damn dude good thread, the past five years have been a big fuckin exercise in this for me. ive found whats worked for me is just talkin to everybody. strangers (be careful) , make existing friendships tighter, people at places you shop at, just trying to build little connections. go to parties/clubs/bars whatever. nothing really comes quick and for people like me you gotta piss off some people and learn the hard way, but it will come with age no doubt

Teddy Roosevelt:

--- Quote from: J Bananas on December 07, 2006, 01:08:09 PM ---damn dude good thread, the past five years have been a big fuckin exercise in this for me. ive found whats worked for me is just talkin to everybody. strangers (be careful) , make existing friendships tighter, people at places you shop at, just trying to build little connections. go to parties/clubs/bars whatever. nothing really comes quick and for people like me you gotta piss off some people and learn the hard way, but it will come with age no doubt

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I try talking with strangers sometimes, but I really don't have anything interesting to say. :P I'm not much of a talker I guess.

QuietTruth:

--- Quote from: J Bananas on December 07, 2006, 01:08:09 PM ---damn dude good thread, the past five years have been a big fuckin exercise in this for me. ive found whats worked for me is just talkin to everybody. strangers (be careful) , make existing friendships tighter, people at places you shop at, just trying to build little connections. go to parties/clubs/bars whatever. nothing really comes quick and for people like me you gotta piss off some people and learn the hard way, but it will come with age no doubt

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That is what's up!

And its like when I'm out, at stores and shit, its always the other nigga who gets the conversation and I'm just the nigga smiling.

But when people approach you, and you don't got nothing to say, I look real disrespectful. Not cool.

Like Ted, I ain't much of a good talker.

Good looks on the advice though. ;)

King Tech Quadafi:
ayo I consider my self to be very interactive socially and I got charisma drippin out my pockets, ya smell me.

first of all, youre upbringin plays a big part. it doesnt mean u cant make changes, but there maybe a limit to how much u can do.

now, first things first. read, read alot. u become more informative, u have great conversation topics, u diversify ur knowledge, so u can spit different game to different cats, u improve your vocabulary etc etc.

u have to be confident, thats a very key thing right there.

honestly i would say, try to be as active in many diverse circles.

like me, i was born in the middle east, grew up hardcore afghan muslim. so i can communicate with my people, fellow immigrants etc. I also grew up in the PJs, so I got some ghetto ness in me, some street smarts if u will, I can fuck wit ma niggaz. growing up, I kicked it with a wide range of people, white boys, rich kids, 4-5 different ethnic groups etc. I go to university, so now Im interacting with the professional crowd.

Kick it with bitches mayne, u learn alot about yourself ur speech etc by kickin it with them.

other than that, its all on your own drive and self confidence

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