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QuietTruth:
^ I appreciate that homie. Thanks for your knowledge.

Very appreciative of that.

REGIME MOB 510:
to be honest, im not a very social person, i gotta lot of friends, but im not the person that goes up to random people to spark up conversation.  but at the same time, when i have to, for example, presentations at school, conveying an idea to someone or things of that nature, i've been able to do it with ease and finesse.  i think what you need to do is just relax and take a deep breath, then get started.  if your hella anxious, its gonna fuck up your train of thought, so just kick back, and let the words flow out.

QuietTruth:
^ Yeah, that's a problem.

Presentations ain't me. I take the zeros everytime. I ain't doin' none of that shit. I just sit back and chill.

And let the conversations come to me.

Otherwise, I can chill back all day and not a word to nobody all day.

IRAN iz Gangsta!:
I know what you mean and really it comes with practice and aging BUT in reallity it might not be you, its the general public.  People are raised ignorant and have nothing to say sometimes or they're not sharp enough to catch what you're saying.  Also, energy is a very important factor; some crowds have an inviting energy and some have that negative energy which makes you uncomfortable and you gotta get passed that.  Remember energy is neither created nor destroyed, therefore you can always reverse it.  ;D
The best is to stay open minded and educate yourself on different subjects.  Try changing the crowd you're with, alot of times your low self esteem friends are the ones who affect your behavior.

MontrealCity's Most:
I find myself to have very good charisma and confidence. My confidence can be lower some days and i wont talk to strangers but i always do usualy. My gf says im a flirt lol. You cant realy force it , it just has to come out. KNowledge is good too. When im at a paty with freinds ill wild out but if theres friends of mine i havent seen in a while or i dont kick it with as much anymore im more serious i dont know its like sometimes i dont wana make a fool out of myself.

All i can say is be yourself u know...when youre at the counter of a store if sometihng pops up just say it . The person will either laugh or not get it or wtv its ok tho not everyone shares the same snese of humour or people just come from different places with different values and different thoughts.

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